 Hello everyone, welcome to another Narc Survival Live video and in this video we're going to be talking about how they feel when you go no contact because many people think that narcissists have no feelings as though they don't feel anything but they can actually be far more sensitive than a normal person they are hyper sensitive hyper reactive so when you do something an action they are going to have a reaction whether you see it or not whether you know it or not they are they are not completely dead inside they do feel so yes when you go no contact they will feel something and in this video we're going to get into exactly what that something is when you go no contact it makes them wonder why but they are very arrogant and delusional they have magical thinking so sometimes they think that you're just playing a game because they're playing a game with you so they assume that you're just doing the same thing so initially they may not take it seriously they may think that it's just an act because they're putting on an act with you and they may think that you're not really about it as though you're not really meaning what you're saying and what you're doing but the longer that you stay no contact you go from seeing it as a game to then feeling that rejection to then feeling that sense of loss they feel like they have lost something and they become jealous they assume that someone must have taken you away from them because in their minds they've got you wrapped around their thumb they've got you under their spell they pulled the wool over your eyes so there's no way that you could have figured it out on your own someone must have come and taken you away is what they're thinking so they feel a sense of loss and they feel like they're missing out on something because as we know that is one of the main causes of their suffering is that they're missing out on something and that is especially what they feel when you go no contact because they sense your energy slipping away and the longer that you persist with the no contact they will begin to feel it even more in the beginning they may just see it as a game they may not take it seriously and they may just play that game back with you they will go no contact with you too they may even block you because in the beginning they're just seeing it as a game they don't think that you're really serious about it but if you persist with it they will begin to feel that sense of loss they will begin to feel like they're missing out on what they used to have with you but I don't mean they cherish the memories and the good times no of course not they never cared about that they never saw any sentimental value with you it was all about what they could get from you that was their only concern is what you were going to give to them how they were going to benefit from it how you were going to make their lives more convenient it was never really about you it was all about them and when you realise that the easier it will be for you to break away and for you to move on with what you're trying to accomplish what you're trying to build but yeah just know just know that when you go no contact they will feel it they will sense it and don't be surprised if they try to get you back they may try a few hoovers and if that doesn't work if they can't pull you back in if they can't get you under their spell again then it will make them very angry and yeah they may rage at you they may bring their flying monkeys and start a smear campaign they may stalk and harass you they'll do whatever it takes to get under your skin to get your attention to get you to notice them because now you've taken your attention away from them and put it back in yourself and now you're living your life again the way that you want to the way that you choose to instead of being under their control and that is what they don't like because they wanted to control and dominate you and tell you what to do and tell you what is right and your freedom is really the number one threat to them because all they really want is power and control and when you go no contact you take that power and control away from them because you stop giving your power to them the power for them to make the choices and decisions for you so again to advise it go no contact you don't have to block them but just don't look at the social media don't respond to the text messages don't ask the phone calls just leave it alone and just focus on you focus on doing what you want to do focus on yourself, care yourself, love working yourself do what you want to do now and just live your best life become the best version of yourself and don't let them hold you back don't let them distract you you just keep doing you as you can see I'm out here by the fountains and I'm living my best life as I do every day as I have been doing every day for the past four and a half years and I am loving every minute of it and I want you to do the same thing it all starts with the belief you have to have that belief in yourself and then you can do anything you can be anything you want to be you can do anything you want to do it all starts with that belief and that's why I'm out here putting these videos out every day because I want to instill that belief in you when you have that belief within yourself it compels you to take action and then you will find bigger and better things and you will wonder what you are doing with that and that's what I want for you to move on to something better and I don't mean another person I mean a better version of you and you can do it let me be your motivation let me give you the determination that you need that's why I'm putting these videos out every day alright so as always thank you all for joining me 72 live viewers please give this video a thumbs up down below and share your thoughts on the comment section I'd love to hear from you I read your comments every morning hit that subscribe button to receive notifications for my future videos and if you are interested in a one on one coaching session with me go to my website it's NARC Survival.co.uk and you can also follow me on Instagram I've got new pictures and videos every day it's NARC Survival YouTube and Instagram alright thank you all for joining me thank you for your support and I look forward to talking with you in another video very soon