 Again, real is a relative term, but I'm talking a real day in, day out relationship. Are you a woman who wants a day in, day out relationship? If you truly want a day in, what is day in, day out? It's seeing each other a cup, two, three, or four times a week. It's shared activities, it's hobbies, it's mutual interest, it's spending time with family and friends. It's traveling together, it's teamwork building schools both in your personal and your professional life. It's intimacy, both physical and emotional intimacy, and leading to either moving in together or getting married. Folks, is this what you really want?