 Hi, I'm Matt. Ask a man what he wants in a woman, and you'll probably get a blank stare. That or he'll ramble off a bunch of things that he thinks that he wants in a woman, but you'll probably see him dating or even marrying someone who's completely different. Why? Because most men don't have any idea what their hearts truly desire, but they'll know it when they see it. If you want to get into a committed, lasting relationship, you need to understand what men really want in their hearts. And after working with thousands of both men and women, I've discovered what works with men when it comes to why they get into committed relationships with women. Here are five of those things. First, he wants a woman who can fit into his life. If you want a man to see you as someone who he can be with forever, you need to fit into his life somehow. You don't have to share a bunch of commonalities with him, and you don't have to give up your life for his. He just needs to see that the two of you could be together in the far-distant future. He needs to see that you're someone that he could be with on his journey towards whatever it is that he's moving towards in his life. If he doesn't see himself being with you in the far-distant future, he'll probably only see you as something short-term. Second, he wants a woman who he can feel good around. According to the Relationship Research Institute, your relationship has an extremely high chance of falling apart if your partner experiences too many negative emotions when he's around you. Arguing, fighting all the time, or smothering him can destroy your relationship in a very short period of time. On the other hand, if he experiences lots of positive emotions around you, he'll eventually begin to feel like you're the perfect woman for him. Third, he wants a woman who loves him and accepts him for who he is. We all want to be loved and accepted for who we are. Yet, I receive emails from women all the time in our community who say that they're with a man who'd be perfect if he just changed a few things about himself. Men don't want you to fall in love with their potential. They want you to fall in love with who they are. And if you can't love and accept a man for who he is right now, you're better off going out and finding a new man who you can love and accept for who he is. Fourth, he wants a woman who has her own life. I've probably talked to hundreds of men by now about what they're looking for in a woman. Out of all the men I've talked to, I've never talked to a guy who said that he wants a woman who's obsessively thinking about him all the time because she has nothing else going on in her life. Pursue your own passions, create your own life, and make sure that you keep this life once you get into a relationship. You'll be happier, he'll be happier, and you're much more likely to create something that'll last. Fifth, he wants a woman who connects with his heart. If you're struggling with getting a man to see you as something more than just a short-term casual fling, then you need to learn how to connect with his heart. This is what will make him see you as being different than all the other women that he meets out there. There are plenty of attractive women, but very few women know how to connect with a man on a deep emotional level. If you can be the woman who connects with them in this way, he'll immediately see you as someone who he could potentially be with forever. But even if he feels this deeply about you, you could still mess things up with him. Here's something that you need to know. You may be pushing him away, and you don't even know you're doing it. If you're struggling to keep a man in a committed, lasting relationship, you need to do more of the things that make him want to stay with you and less of the things that push him away and show him that you're just not the right one for him. After working with thousands of women and helping them get into committed relationships that lead to marriage, I found that there are really only five distinct blocks that stop a woman from attracting the man and the relationship that they want. If you want to find out what's stopping you from having the man and the relationship that you want, I suggest you take my quiz. It's free, and you'll learn what your biggest block is to having the relationship that you've always wanted. I'll also reveal to you exactly what you need to do in order to get over that block. It doesn't matter how awesome you are. If you don't connect with a man in the right way, he won't see you as that awesome and amazing woman that he could be with forever. If you're ready for the right man to see you as the one, go to my website and take the quiz. Stop giving everything to a man, only to have him take you for granted. Don't you think it's about time that you had a man who gives you the love, attention, and respect that you deserve? Go take my quiz now, and I'll speak with you again soon.