How To Make A Guy Fall In Love With You - What Guys Really Want





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Published on Jan 19, 2014

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Hey, this is Leo for Actualized.org. In this quick self-help segment of about 10 minutes, I'm going to tell you how to make a guy fall in love with you.

This is an interesting topic for me because I've been involved in the pick-up community and have been doing a lot of advanced, deep-level personal development work on dating and social interaction with the opposite sex.

I've been learning about flirting and all of this amazing stuff. This is a fascinating topic to me.

From a girl's perspective, if you want to keep a guy on the hook and keep him steady with you and become your boyfriend and fall in love with you, what you have to understand is male psychology and what guys like in girls.

You'll find that this is invariable across most of the human male population. There are a couple of points.

First, if you want a guy to like you, you have to realize that guys are visual. Women are more emotional, more about comfort, and more about personality. Guys are visual.

I'm sorry to say -- you have to take care of your looks. It doesn't mean that you have to wear a ton of makeup or be fake, but you have to take care of your health. You have to take care of your weight. You have to take care of your hygiene.

Make sure that you're nicely dressed and you have a sense of style. You have to have your weight handled. You have to be going to the gym and eating clean.

These are important things and they're also beneficial to you because you should be doing these things anyway because you care about your health and hygiene.

Many girls don't have this issue. Some girls do have this issue. It depends where you're at.

I think that almost all guys are sensitive to weight. You have to take care of your weight and manage it because guys like healthy, fit girls. That's just a fact. That's our biology. That's something that we're drawn to. We can't do anything about it.

Keep your weight in line. That's very important.

You might be asking, "Well, what does that have to do with love? Love has nothing to do with physical appearance." The problem is that, to a guy who has options, it's important just like to you, for example, the personality of the guy is important.

You like a guy who's humorous, adventurous, outgoing, and strong and who has a sense of command over life. The same argument can be made -- "What does that have to do with love? What does personality have to do with love?"

The fact is that it's just something you're drawn to. Women are drawn to personality. Guys are drawn to physical appearance.

Try to make your physical appearance as decent as you can make it without bending over backwards. That's important.

The next point is that you have to be sweet. I think most guys like a sweet girl who is caring and loyal to the guy. It's hard to reject a girl like that. Be sweet and be outgoing like that.

Be kind to your guy. Don't be a bitch. Don't be too naggy. Guys hate it when you are nagging them all the time.

For guys, we want the connection and the intimacy, but a lot of guys don't want too much of it. We also are independent-minded and we want to be out there and doing whatever it is that we're doing. We don't want to feel like we're attached at the hip. We want our sense of independence.


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