 Hi, I'm Helena Hart, and today I'm going to be sharing three steps to raising your value in a man's eyes so that he wants to be with you forever. The truth is that you can have all the tactics and techniques in the world about how to make a man chase you, get him to fall in love, and convince him to commit to you. But if you don't implement what I'm going to be sharing in this presentation, there's a good chance that he'll end up taking you for granted, having confused feelings for you, or possibly even pulling away from you completely. Why? Because the only way that you can make a man see you as that one woman he wants in his life forever, the woman he wants to love, cherish, and adore, the woman he wants to give his everything to, is for him to feel like you're so valuable that he never wants to let you go. You may have seen some of my videos sent to you before this webinar, and if you're not familiar with me, I'm known as the go-to feminine energy expert who helps women attract men into long-term, loving, committed relationships that last. I'm the creator of the soulmate attraction system, and my programs, videos, and advice has reached millions of women all around the world. I've helped single women attract the love of their lives. I've helped women who have had men pulling away from them, reignite the spark they once had in their relationship, and I've helped women who have had men who were dragging their feet, get those men to step up and move their relationships forward. Many of these women have gone on to get married and have amazing relationships with the men that they love. And in today's presentation, you're going to discover how to change your situation so that men no longer take you for granted, and instead love and cherish you like the amazing, beautiful woman you are. You'll learn how to get a man to feel like you're the one and only special woman in his life without playing games, using mind tricks, or pretending like you're someone you're not. You're going to discover a new way to attract and keep a man that leads to a happier, more fulfilling relationship filled with love, excitement, and you being pursued by him. Most of what we've been taught about dating and being in relationships with men is dead wrong. If you're anything like I was, you've read all the books, gone through all the programs, and you've been given well-meaning advice from friends and family members. But you've tried all of these things and it seems to only push men further away, or at best, it works for a little while until they either catch on to what you're doing, or you get tired of playing games with men. Right now we live in the age of the hookup culture, where it's easier than ever for guys to just swipe right, find someone new, and leave you wondering what happened to the special connection you thought you had together. Relationships have become so shallow and superficial that many men and women get freaked out when it comes to feeling anything real with another person or committing themselves to a real relationship. Everything that's been going on with dating in our culture is causing less people to get into committed relationships, more people to just seek out things like sex and superficial connections, and it's making it harder than ever before for people who want something real to find it. If these are some of the things that are concerning you, I can help. This is for you if you're a woman and you're looking to attract or re-attract a man to you. If you feel like you're doing everything right, yet it still isn't working. If you're tired of struggling to bring a man closer and want real advice that will make him feel like you're that one woman he's always been looking for. If you want to experience more love, companionship, and a heartfelt connection with a man than ever before, this is for you if you want to be the woman your man sees a future with. The woman he wants to give his everything to. If you feel like your man is slipping away from you and you don't know what to do about it, or if you feel like you've tried everything, you're about ready to give up but you don't want to. First off, I want to go over some house rules. I don't work with people who are trying to get an ex back who has made it clear that they don't want you back. That's a no-win situation for anyone and what I'm going to share with you today doesn't work in those kinds of situations. I'm also not going to give you any mind tricks or manipulation tactics. If you're looking for something where you can turn a man into someone who obsessively stalks you, this is not the place for that. This is real information that really works long term to attract men into committed lasting relationships. This isn't for women who are looking to hurt or get revenge on a man. As you may know by now, many of my clients have attracted the love of their lives, gotten married, and lived happily ever after. I think it should be fairly obvious but I'll say it anyway. My results aren't even remotely typical. I would certainly hope that you'd use what's in this webinar and end up attracting a great man and end up getting married and finding the love of your life. I found that the overwhelming majority of women who buy any sort of program on how to improve their relationships don't actually use the information in it and therefore don't get the results they want. It's similar to those people who buy gym memberships but never even set foot in a gym. So this is for women who are ready to take action to have what they really want. If you want to attract a high quality man into a lasting relationship, you have to be willing to implement these tools in order for that to happen. Many women don't and therefore don't get the results they were hoping for. So if you're still with me after that, which I hope you are, then let's get started. If you've ever felt like you had a really close loving connection with a man that makes you want to be committed to just him but then you find out that he doesn't think of you in the same way, you're really going to be able to relate to this. There was a point in my life where I felt hopeless and confused and doubted that I would ever attract a great guy who would want to love me. Back in 2009, I met a guy and things started out really great. He seemed like he was really into me and the chemistry was amazing between us and I was just so crazy about him. Then I got some advice from some very well-meaning co-workers of mine who told me to let him know that I wasn't seeing anyone else and to ask him where he saw this relationship going. So I did what they told me. I spent the night with him and the next morning I brought it up. I told him, hey, just to let you know I'm not seeing anyone else or trying to meet anyone else. In my mind, it's just the two of us. I thought he would be thrilled that I wanted to be exclusive with him, yet what he said was something I wasn't really prepared for. He told me, oh, this isn't a relationship. We just have chemistry. We're just having a good time together. I remember feeling my heart sink and I could just feel this knot well up in my throat. This was before I knew about any of the work I do now. From the insecure place that I was in, I remember shoving my feelings, needs, and what I wanted down and telling him that if that's what he wanted that it was completely fine with me too. And I think he could sense that I was willing to be with him and he could basically do whatever he wanted, even if it meant ignoring what I really wanted for myself. Afterwards, I went to this event with my family and relatives. I showed up by myself just completely devastated by what had just happened. I held it together for a couple hours until I drove home and just totally fell apart. I basically ended up just crying in bed for days because of how devastated I was over what had just happened. I thought that things were going so well and that we were moving towards a real committed relationship together. I just had it all backwards. I had all these dreams of how we would be together and how in love we were and how everything was going to fall into place. And then my dreams got shattered by the reality of how he actually felt for me. So I had two options of what I could do. The first option was just to give up on trying to get into a real relationship and accept that I wasn't that valuable to him or to men in general. I could always accept this friends with benefits type of situation or maybe I could swear off men all together. Or option number two was to figure this stuff out and make a decision that I deserve nothing less than the relationship I really wanted. Obviously I decided to figure it out or I wouldn't be here talking to you about it right now. And there were really three things that helped me figure out how to attract and keep a guy. First I decided I wasn't going to take well-meaning advice from my friends or family members anymore because even though they really cared about me most of them didn't really know what they were talking about. I was only going to get advice from experts who had a proven track record of helping other women. Experts who know what they're doing and who have helped other women like me get what I wanted. Second I decided that I didn't want to learn any tricks or mind games or pretend like I was someone I wasn't. That stuff just feels inauthentic to me and I wanted a man to love me for me not for some kind of mind game that I was using on him. I didn't want to pretend like I was someone else for the rest of my life that would just feel like I was living a lie. And third I decided that I wanted a man to really treat me as a woman that he values, a woman that he wants to pursue and fight for, a woman that he'd move mountains for. So I began studying everything I could get my hands on in order to figure this stuff out so that I didn't have to feel so helpless anymore. I turned things around about the way I felt about myself on the inside and started piecing together what I was doing wrong on the outside and what I should be doing instead. I ended up hearing from that guy again a few months later and I met up with him and things were totally different this time. I wouldn't say that I did everything perfectly but I made this one major shift in myself and things ended up being totally different between the two of us. I could really feel it when we first met back up. He started shifting the way he interacted and responded to me. It's almost like he became a different person where before I was the one putting in all the effort and chasing and investing in him, it's like it totally flipped and he started chasing and investing in me. Instead of me being the one who would make all the effort of planning things and going to see him, he was the one putting in all the effort and switching around his schedule and driving sometimes for hours just to come and see me. So everything shifted. Now eventually I decided that he was a nice guy but he was really still the same unavailable man that he was this entire time. Except this time I could really see it and I had enough self-respect to move on and attract the kind of man who was 100% available and ready for the kind of relationship I wanted. But I'm really grateful for that experience because it led me to learning about and discovering this new way of being with yourself and attracting men that leads to a committed long-lasting relationship. And eventually I decided I wanted to help other women who were frustrated, many of them going through something very similar, turn their relationships around, turn their luck around with men and attract a soulmate relationship with the man they want in their lives. I believe there's a better way for men and women to come together and stay together in relationships than what most people are doing out there. There's a lot of bad and inaccurate information that so-called experts are teaching out there that will actually end up pushing a man away from you when what you really want is to draw him in closer. There are more single women now percentage-wise than ever before in our history. And it's my mission to help women like you get the best, most effective information that will not only help you attract the man and the relationship you want, but actually empower you as a woman to help you experience a more vibrant life filled with love, happiness, and light. So let's get to it. Here are the three steps to raising your value in a man's eyes so that he wants to be with you forever. First, I'm going to list each step so that you can see them, and then I'm going to go through each one individually. Step one is that you need to start seeing yourself as a high-value woman. Once you truly start seeing yourself that way, a man will pick up on it and start to see you that way as well. Step two is shifting your mindset to look at yourself as the prize, the type of woman a man pursues, fights for, and wants to win over. That's going to be you. And step three is acting according to this new mindset and responding to a man as a high-value woman will respond. These are the communication secrets that high-value women use, and we'll talk more about that and what that means and how to do it. In my opinion, the fastest pathway to attracting a guy and keeping him in your life forever is to raise your value in his eyes. So let's go through these and let me explain how each step works. Step one, you need to see yourself as a high-value woman. How you feel and see yourself from the inside dramatically impacts the way that people see you on the outside. Most of the women I meet who are having problems in their love lives don't see themselves as a high-value woman. That's why so many women use games to try to attract a man. Deep down, they don't feel like they're really worthy of having a good man in their life. So they search for manipulation techniques that will trick a guy into thinking that she's a different kind of woman than she truly feels that she is deep down. This usually only lasts for a little while because playing games and using these kinds of techniques becomes exhausting over time. Instead, you want to do something that feels easy, effortless, and allows a man to fall in love with you for who you are, not for some game that you played on him. Remember this next phrase, because it's really important. Whoever is the most certain always wins. If you meet a man and even if he isn't sure about you, if you're certain about your value, he'll start believing that you're valuable as well. And this works both ways. If he initially thinks you're valuable, but you don't, he'll eventually start believing you. So it's very important that you do this the right way. Once he starts seeing you as the valuable woman that you are, you'll stand out from all the other women he meets. He'll begin to feel like you're special, someone he needs to pay attention to and get to know better. And if he already knows you, he'll start to see you in a different light. He'll feel like there's something different about you. He won't be able to put his finger on what it is exactly, but he'll feel a powerful pull towards you like he wants to spend more time with you and be around you more and more. He'll feel like it's easier to be with you and that just being around you makes him feel happy and lucky to have you in his life. Your presence will enchant him and make him feel like being with you is exactly what he needs in his life. In order to see yourself as a high value woman, you need to raise your self-esteem and start loving and accepting all the different parts of yourself, even the parts that you don't like very much that you may want to hide from others. A man can't love you any more than you love yourself and he can't respect you any more than you respect yourself. Step two is begin seeing yourself as the prize. Most of the women I meet who have problems attracting and keeping a man, look at him as being the prize or the goal that they're trying to win. This never works long term and usually it doesn't work short term either. One of the ways you might try to do this is by attempting to logically convince a man that you're right for each other or meant to be together. When you do this, it forces a man into a resistor role or a distance or role and he immediately starts feeling like he wants to pull away and comes up with reasons why things wouldn't work between the two of you. Another way women do this is by trying to do things in order to win a man's love. Things like pursuing him, acting like she's into things she's really not into or allowing a man to walk all over her because she thinks that's what he really wants. If you've ever done any of these things before, you know that it doesn't work and it only lowers your value in a man's eyes. Instead, you need to stop looking at the man as the prize and start seeing yourself as the prize. But you can't do it in an entitled way. Look at it as primal nature. It's biology. If a man wants you, his biology will tell him to pursue you, fight for you and win your heart. If he's not doing that, there's something wrong. It's either that he's not really available or you haven't triggered him to see you as a valuable woman yet. So what's the fastest way to trigger this feeling in a man and raise your value in his eyes? It's step three. You need to begin behaving like a high value woman. Most of the women I need who have problems attracting and keeping a man behave like women who don't know their own value. We've already talked about some of these behaviors. They do things like try to convince a man that they're perfect for each other. They play games or use manipulation tactics. They chase men. They buy men gifts. They smother them. They act entitled. They seek a man's approval and they try to show a man that they're high value. It may initially seem like a bit of a contradiction to say that you shouldn't try to show a man that you're a high value woman if you're trying to raise your value in his eyes. But high value women don't need to do anything to show men their value. Only women who are deeply insecure feel the need to do this. Instead what you need to do here is respond in a way that shows that you know your value. A woman who knows her value expresses her truth without expectations tied to it. She communicates authentically from her heart because she knows that what's going on in her heart is important to her and will be important to the right man for her. She has boundaries because she knows what she wants and she sticks to those boundaries so she makes sure she only gets herself into good situations and she only allows men into her life who treat her with the love, respect and kindness that she really wants in a relationship. When a woman communicates in these ways it raises her value in a man's eyes. Makes him see her as a unique special woman and it makes him feel like he wants to take her off the market and keep her all to himself. And if you continue to communicate this to him he'll begin to experience a primal biological urge to pursue you and want to be with you forever. He'll want to get closer to you, do whatever he can to keep you and feel like you're the only woman he wants in his life. So now you've listened to me, you've heard my story and you know that raising your value in a man's eyes is the key to attracting and keeping him in a long-term lasting relationship. That's why I've created the Soulmate Attraction System Coaching Program. This program is specifically designed to help you see yourself as the high value woman who deserves a great man and a fulfilling relationship. Communicate the right way to attract or re-attract an amazing man into your life and create the foundation for a relationship that lasts a lifetime. But it's not for everybody. In order for me to help you you must meet some requirements. You must only be interested in getting into a healthy, committed relationship with a healthy, good man. You must be willing to work to implement and try out the tools I give you during the duration of the course. Also I do not work with anyone trying to get revenge on someone who wants to hurt someone in some way or who's in a relationship where they're experiencing abuse. As long as you meet those requirements we might be a good match to work together. So here's what the system will do for you. If you want to attract a quality man into your life or re-attract a man who's been pulling away make him see you as the one he's been looking for his entire life. Get him to treat you with love, respect and affection. Make him feel like you're the only one he wants. Pursue you for the relationship you want to be in and feel a strong desire to commit to you. Then this program is specifically designed for you. If we decide this program is a good fit for you here's how we're going to work together. You'll get 12 weeks of hands-on training with me personally. 12 weeks of video instruction on how to attract the man and create and keep the relationship you want. Four one-on-one private coaching sessions over the phone with me personally. Group Q&A calls every week plus email support done personally with me in between these calls. And by the way we don't have that many slots available in this program because these are the people that I dedicate most of my time, energy and attention to each week. The soulmate attraction system is designed to help you discover what your biggest blocks are to attracting and keeping a man and then I walk you step by step through my system to get the man and the relationship you've always wanted. Really quickly month one is all about working from the inside out to help you get into alignment with attracting the kind of man and relationship you want. Month two is about actually attracting and building the foundation for a relationship with a man. And month three is about designing the relationship you want by creating a deep intimacy and heart-to-heart connection with a man. So let's go over each month a little more so you know what you're getting yourself into. In month one I'm going to show you how to tap into your feminine energy and shift your beliefs so that you can naturally and automatically attract the right guy into your life and keep him there forever. You'll do this by using my simple but powerful techniques that nobody else has so you can get into inner alignment with what you want and start attracting the man you desire immediately. In month two I'm going to show you communication patterns for creating the foundation for your ideal relationship. I'll teach you what to do what to say and how to handle situations like a man's process to getting into a committed relationship your own fears of intimacy and commitment and what to do when he pulls away and a whole lot more. Month two is designed around making sure that you're communicating the right things throughout your relationship so that the man is pursuing you and convincing you to commit to the kind of relationship you want. In month three you'll discover the communication and intimacy secrets for building a relationship that lasts. I'll teach you about how to get to deeper levels of intimacy how to navigate awkward conversations what to do during difficult times how to get your needs met and communicating those needs in a way that brings him closer to you. This month is when you'll learn everything you need to really thrive in a relationship throughout the course of your lifetime. This is the exact system dozens of my clients have used many of whom have found the man of their dreams and gotten married as a result. By now you're probably wondering about the price. Because of the amount of time energy and focus that I'll be committing to you throughout your coaching experience the price of this coaching program is $3,000 and if you live in the United States you can sign up with PayPal credit and have six months to pay it off interest free. So if you use the PayPal credit option and make one payment each day it would end up costing you around $16 per day. Most of my clients have told me that they'd happily have spent far more than this to get the man and the relationship they want and to help them break through the blocks that are stopping them from enjoying the type of relationship that comes with it. So here's what you need to do next. This program is by application only and as I've told you there are only 25 spaces available so here's what I want you to do. If you're really serious about working together I'm not going to try to sell you on how great it is and I don't want you to enroll today because the fact of the matter is I only want to work with you if I know for sure that I can definitely help you get the results you want. I'm going to ask you to leave a $47 refundable deposit with your application and that deposit is refundable under any and every circumstance you can think of. I don't want the deposit if I can't reach you to talk to you and I don't want it if for some reason we decide not to work together and if you decide to enroll in the program I will credit your deposit towards your tuition. So here's how it works. Click the button below make the $47 deposit fill out the application and once you've filled it out we'll schedule a call together. We'll talk for about 15 minutes and if we're a good fit you'll pay the balance and if not I'll give you your deposit back immediately. So you really have nothing to lose here. Remember if you want to make a man see you as the one special woman he's been looking for his entire life treat you with love respect and attention feel like you're the only one he wants pursue you for the relationship that you want to have and give you his everything then click the button below and fill out an application you watch this entire presentation you want to raise your value in a man's eyes and make him want to be with you forever and you're still here so you know that this is an excellent opportunity you have nothing to lose and everything to gain so if this feels like it's the right thing for you to do click the button below this video pay the refundable deposit and fill out the application and I look forward to speaking with you soon.