 Am I looking for a savior or a spouse? You know, am I looking for a companion or am I looking for like a Christ figure that's going to fill every vacancy, heal every wound, fix every problem? You know, if you're looking for someone to fix what's wrong inside of you, no human being can handle the freight of that. No relationship can handle that. This is great advice from Ben Stewart. We shouldn't look for a spouse to save us, but rather find someone that can help us pursue Jesus more closely, the ultimate and only savior. If I enter a relationship with expectations that the other person is going to fulfill those needs that only Jesus can fulfill, I'm going to create a toxic relationship. Your spouse will not be your savior. So start paying attention to the one who actually is your savior.