 I thought you had what maybe you wanted to have what a black Santa now they were out of the black Oh, they were out of the black. I always want the black Santa. Yeah, unfortunately got the white one. It's racist unfortunate Hey, welcome back to our stupid direction. It's up Corbin. I'm Rick Instagram Twitter juice content juice flows over there all the time all over my butt. Yep Gotta have that juice. You ever juiced on somebody's Wow He was just gonna ask if I've ever juiced on anybody's butt Anyways today, we got a little you really want to know no, I don't What's happening today besides you being gross? This is a little interview by two of our faves cajole and twinkle Oh cool. So there it's called the icons. So they're actually just in conversation together with each other like the way We saw Kalki and on your arm, right? It's not that one, but yeah, it's similar to that They're just gonna be talking which I'm very excited about because these two personalities I think would go very well really well, and I don't know. I'm assuming they probably have been friends for years probably I would imagine they were really popular around the same time. Yep, and so I'm sure they I don't eat Maybe they you guys can I don't know if they've done a film together. Maybe. Yeah, I don't know. I'm sure Do you know twinkle and twinkle and juggle have they done they don't film together? Okay, okay. Anyways, well you guys can let us know She's the only twinkle. She's the twinkle of his eye. That's true. Here we go. I'm a beautiful Maratha Mandir may have movies been playing for 25 years. Oh, that's the theater Can you imagine? I don't think that I have been in this theater I think I came last when Charu came for a function but actually to sit and get the feel of this theater I haven't been here for like how many years of the film and running 24 years in Merrill Street Can't say that about her movies. No, nobody can. That's true. I think it's uh, it's not You can't I don't believe that I don't do it. I was just gonna say Tim Curry Yeah, but it's not a regularly showing thing every reason on midnight Who are part of history and the part of everybody's lives all these fans have made Raj and Simran a part of their lives Characters in their lives who they've handed down like you know generations I mean my son was born and I met him with my brother-in-law, Simran I think it's great to be eternally young So, yeah, why not? Why not? How old is he? This is like within the past week. I think it was quite a I'm guessing there was a forest. I don't think that lots of people managed to it was really one of those, you know It's a sink or swim and you know this I mean even now you see they have these fancy entourage race and the men Yeah, she's a very manly thing. I was working with her husband once and we were shooting There were these little hills in the middle of you know some river Oh, I remember that one. You remember that one. And so all the men would just turn their backs and you know pee Whenever they wanted and I was just holding on so it was like breakfast, lunch, three o'clock I said my bladder is going to burst. I can't I can't do this anymore And I got into a boat and I went rowing myself when another hill did my business and came back and of course Everybody's looking at me. Just let her go to a tree and squat. Don't look at her. That's why you need sag I mean, yeah, yeah, yeah, it would be bathrooms. They'd be bathrooms. Yeah, yes And you know they have a jacket. It'd be that simple. And you know you're there Call sag if there's no bathroom. One thing I wanted to ask you. I mean at least for me even when I come in front of the Camera sporadically, I do worry about aging and that's why I like writing because it kicked the midlife crisis out of the orbit I mean instead of worrying about the lines of my face I have to worry about what lines to come up with next. Yeah But that doesn't really happen to an actor. Do you worry about it? I do. I do worry about it. Aging has to do with energy. It has to do with energy. More than the lines on your face I feel people look at what look at how you're saying what you're saying and I feel more than more than the lines on your face I feel that somewhere down the line age shows in people's eyes when they get tired when they get bored of what they're in the way They think that's when your age actually that's when people start noticing the lines in the wrinkles So no, I worry about it. Yes, I am concerned about it. Who isn't and I do my daily routine Religiously, which is what? What is your daily routine? You know, I am extremely Extremely careful about drinking my eight classes of water I have to have my eight to ten hours of sleep at least. I go to sleep early I want to say weird people who does not have a nightlife She drinks at least eight to ten hours of water in it. One of the healthiest things you can do at least if she sleeps eight to ten hours But yeah, so I mean I'm I'm I do I don't remember last time I slept with her right. Every night like religiously I you know put my cream on and I'm like yeah, okay now I'm ready to go to bed So it's it's all of that and I take very very good care of myself. I work out I do work it looks like a lot of things in common She doesn't look that different from when she was in your 20s, they've both aged really well St. Joseph's and I was in U. Era. We had a we were at a co-ed school and you and all girls So we used to always say that all the St. Joseph girls and the Kim and girls would come During all the inter school competitions and I all our boys. Is that true? I Think they are all the boys. It had nothing to do with your school in particular We are the same Peter's boys as well. Would you send your daughter to an all-girls school? Do you think that it's beneficial? I don't know whether I Honestly, I have sent my daughter to school currently, but I think that right now the way the world is I don't know whether it would be an advantage or not. I don't think it would be an advantage at all It's such a thing. It's not a thing here. Yeah, it's not all girls all boys It's not really a thing not anymore. Yeah, you know the other gender as an alien I'm sure there are some they're not prominent, but I think that they have it figured out much better than me Definitely definitely and I think and I think the fact is that till we were I was in a school. I don't know if it's healthy. I don't know that it is either We all studied together. They were not you know different from us and we fought with everybody Yeah, so I mean it was not like one having a fight with him because he's a boy or anything like that I mean, I didn't I didn't have a tendency to beat the boys more than ever beat the girls because I Good for you Going up the other thing I feel that we have in common as if we grew up in this all So, you know, you have a single mom was raising you and then your grandmothers and your aunts and that's your world and Though we never even spoke about feminism in our house, I think it became an inherent part of my being How did that shape you growing up in the same way? Like you said, I mean there was nothing that nothing Spoken about feminism, but at the same time if we have to change the light bulb, it was done by us You know somebody got the ladder somebody went and changed the light bulb if something had to be fixed in the house It was us if My dad who cut Kavali did not come home. It was us. Yeah, actually clean bathrooms at home as well Yeah, so my mother I was very categorical about this So that was our upbringing that we were supposed to do everything by ourselves that we should not need anybody else to To live to live happily and successfully and that yes, that was the whole point That was exactly the way that I was brought up. It was never there was never that there's a provider It was like you provide. Yeah, and if you don't provide then Our kids unfortunately are fortunate shows you need to work for I hope that by the fact that I'm working today We'll teach my daughter something. Yeah, that I am that I go for work today We'll teach my son something it's about whoever he is, you know going to marry or you know have be with the rest of His life So I think I think it's very important and I think that I'm very clear about with my daughter and my son that you know You guys have to start working soon and you have to start, you know You have to start living your life rather than learning how to live your life. Yeah, so I think So I hope that we're continuing that with that I had my first job It the only disadvantage of official job real not like How to be about something you married in law and you're like, how does this woman from Auntie the next day go to be I can hypocrite and so I did you know, I didn't and fortunately for me my mother-in-law Has given me that time and space and I know for a fact that she needs to sit and her friends would come over home And her friends would be like they would be my mini mother My mother would turn around very proudly and say that you know, what's a mom over here? That's amazing. And I was just like I was so I was so She's giving me that time to grow into whoever I'm supposed to be that she's giving me that space You know, so I think I really really respect her for that my respect for her deepened after that What would you know or think that this is a man you want to spend 21 years with if at the very least I think I was the kind of person before I got married that I would never have gotten married I always felt that I would be one of those people who you know Somebody would have to hold a shotgun to my head to take me and make me you know get married Get married otherwise, you know I know your hair off that kind of thing. I was one of those people so But eventually when I met Ajay, I think that he just gave me such a sense of stability and Of just like he's such a grounded grounded person and he's so so very much She's like a he's like a wall. He's like a rock So I think that that's something that I really believe I knew for a fact that you know He would not leave me and I would not want to leave him either So I think I found the right person And now to make things even more complicated. You have that hum though our ego, you know Kids in this whole canal. Yeah, it's so wacky You have a fridge it comes with a manual a child Very true See you later. It's a weird feeling. It's awful. It's all very very scary like this is mine now I'm supposed what do I do with it? Everybody all my friends For the next six months do not come and visit me. Do not come and say hello to me I don't want to see you. Why because I was so I was like, listen, I have to concentrate. I have to get this This up this is just too bloody important in my life And I don't have the time and the patience to cater to you know, oh friends I They were very very sweet and they still came but at least they took me, you know with a pinch of salt and they said Okay, we'll come back in six months. Don't worry. You don't have to see us again So yeah, I was lucky. What are your parenting tips and tricks? I think with teenagers I think the most important thing is to listen. I We spent so much time Absolutely agree from people Listen to hear not to correct and they want to be treated correct like adults Yes, you have their own way of thinking correct. It may not be your way of thinking But I think they just want to be heard and most of the times that's exactly what I do with this So I mean you should come in my mind. I think I want this So I'm like, okay, baby. Tell me and then she'll sit and she'll sit by the end of half an hour She's talked herself out of it. Also. She's talked herself into it also and then by the end of it She's like, okay, now we'll wait and see and then you know if it happens It'll happen in the most organic way or it won't because she will have understood the practicality of it not happening Yeah, and I will not have to take the owners of being the overbearing parent and you know putting my foot down Yes, of course you have to at times. There are things that are completely impractical. That's proud out of their mouths But I think that's just it I think the most important thing is just to sit and listen to them listen to them Yeah, I mean understand what they're saying They're using Slaps Most of your life so you have also You know a master's small fortune of your own your divider business will pay us for everything you've like Life all the kids school education I pay for okay, because then I can tell them Just flip things or it's it all him is it? No, it's I think See, I'm very clear about I'm very clear about this I'm a very clear Joe Tera. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. Yeah, I mean that they're But I think I think it's more about convenience honestly What works online is more me Offline is more him. So I think we do that. We separated that way I have to say that for a jet that he is very very very much Like if I have to get up at 7 o'clock with you for school half the times He will get up at 7 o'clock anyways sit with him have breakfast with him send him to school, etc so it's not I don't have to get up every day and You know even as much should be that way they're both Working Like that So he does spend a lot of time with the kids and he is very very much Good last week. I've just been sleeping in and he's awake and If she goes out at night, he's the one who's waiting up for her to wait for her to come back I think all that you're gonna do that So tell me now what are you looking forward to you've been here for like 30 years almost 30 years has been 30 years I don't eat What next Don't know I don't know and I like it like that. I don't know what it is I don't know where I'm aiming for I never had an aim Ever and I've reached where I am today without Actually, you know heading in any particular direction I think life just happens to you in places. Yes, there are times when you have to lead it and when you have a thought I do have a thought obviously But mine is more involved with You know, I really want I want to spend time with my kids. I believe they're my kids for a reason Yes, they are going to be growing up too soon and I love them and I like them as well I have to be honest that I have some super great kids. I like them. So next for you is an unknown path and you like it I like like that. I like it like that not to have it scripted and so that I can do anything that I want Yeah, but you are following a script I think you're following kuch kuch hota hai because suddenly I'm seeing you in the second half The person who didn't care is now all dressed up I mean are you Anjali from the second half kuch kuch hota hai? I would never go towards Indian so hard I wouldn't But still, now I have hair, makeup, I've seen your Instagram I have hair and also Nobody would have been like really into your looks like now I honestly It was very weird, but I started working when I was about 16 years old and Before that I was in boarding school So I never really had the opportunity to go out and like you know pick up clothes for myself My mom did my most of my shopping for me. So I was you know kind of given aye yeh kapde hain for boarding school and then I got to the movies and then it was bought about again People are handing me clothes and somebody was giving me something or the other So I kind of reached the tender age of 27 and realized that I have no opinion on clothes And I was like why is that? I mean like why is it that I have no opinion if somebody asks me do you like prefer black to white I am like I don't know. I mean how can me and I'm opinionated person How can me as an opinionated person not have an opinion on what I like or what I don't like So I sat down and I was like it's not rocket science I mean random much less intelligent people than me are doing this at a much better at a much You know greater levels. So I mean what's the big deal about it? It cannot be so difficult You can put together an airport look No I think it had more to do with you know learning to put together what I liked and what I didn't And learning that even clothes have a way of saying what you are So I think I had an opinion about it But I'm classy, I'm beautiful, I'm hot Did you listen to your mom ever? I listened to my mom a lot I listened to my mom a lot and now as I'm older I realize that the kind of things that she taught me When I was a kid and that I used to rebel against Like if I got angry with somebody and she would be like you know anger is not the way You can't get angry you can't let the other person win And I would get so I wouldn't get more angry when she told me that I would really get more angry when she told me to get angry So I don't know what basis she was giving the mom but advice like this But my mom and honestly I realized that when I got older it just kind of seeped in somewhere And I was like no I'm not going to you know let the other person win and I it worked for me It worked for me as an adult more than it worked for me as a child But it only came to me as an adult because it was given to me as a child So I have to say that I thank my mom for these small this is just one of the small things that You know she taught me about she taught me about compassion she taught me about Charity she taught me about you know relationships and how to work through them That you have to work at them for it to make a difference and for it to last So yeah there's so many things that she taught me I think what keeps me grounded is It's the fact that I don't honestly take everything very seriously I don't believe that it's as big a deal as it's made out to be I don't believe that yes I am of course successful I believe in I believe in myself I like who I am today But I think it's also got a lot to do with who I am rather than what I did And what accomplishments supposedly I have made along the way So what is that one trait within you that you're very proud of? The one trait that I'm very proud of I'm proud of a lot of things that I do myself Okay so you're just kidding One trait that I'm very I like the fact that I can laugh I like the fact that I have a sense of humour and that I'm able to Have a perspective of things that seem very big at that moment But aren't really when you get it in the long run So yeah I like that about myself Having said that was lovely lovely lovely to have you here And what should we do now should we just get a drink unwind Watch a movie Yes drink coffee I wanted gin but yeah okay And a movie yes which one should we see DDLJ Okay name some other things something really classic and iconic And now this you've seen how many times This I've not seen that many times How did I agree I've seen it I think twice that's it I've seen it once on TV and once in the theatre with everybody else at the premiere So that was it So let's see a classic that neither of us have seen Like name one Mela And this looks like it's actually twinkles It's her show I guess it's called a tweak India I thought it was Yeah no the icons because there was another one right there at the end Maybe she hosts like a show called this show She hosts icons Yeah I thought it But yeah they're both wonderful they both have great personalities The control has a great head on her shoulder which is admirable Because you know India is one of the biggest stars that you can get Married to one of the biggest stars as well Yeah I mean two superstars raising a family That's to be congratulated in a big big way Because that's statistically that is a rough road to go down I mean it's hard enough to raise a family Let alone to be two full time working people That add to it the entertainment industry Yeah Yeah I'm really that says a lot about both Hollywood A lot of drugs Not here in Hollywood though None here No drugs There's never been drug use It's one of the things we're most proud of about Hollywood Is there's never been an incident of drug use Ever in the history of cinema in America That's true Johnny Depp never done drugs Never I know it's shocking to a lot of people It really is Never had a drop of alcohol Jack Nicholson Never had a joint Not once Chris Farle Oh that's just Wow Wow Let's talk about John Belushi then too While you're at it Do you ever see the off topic for a second The SNL just a few years ago Adam Sandler He did this song about Chris Farle Oh yes And then he was like you're gonna end up like Belushi and Candy And he's like those are guys in my heroes I hope so Which is so sad So sad So sad They're all gone So sad Yeah But anyway Yeah that was fantastic I would love to talk to both of them I think they'd be a lot of fun Because A lot of fun and insightful They don't take them so seriously I feel like they're both pretty down to earth people Yep Which As long as you're doing this kind of conversation Where you're talking about stuff that really matters And the stuff that really matters is The art form that you love And then the life that you live That is down to the values of Being a parent, raising you kids, being a spouse What's your outlook on life That's the stuff that All the other stuff that so many Places do Around the world Where what they're looking for is that Sound bite of gossip Just makes me want to vomit Yeah Like When people ask Like do you ever get starstruck in the interviews I'm like no not usually I mean Nawaz maybe I think I was more nervous Just because it was one of our first interviews Yeah In person And it was in India With one of my favorite actors Yeah But it wasn't really because I appreciate like artists as people But also I could easily be in their shoes Right And I know that they want to They're just a person Right And that's the thing is like When I watch With extreme talent When I watch shows Like we were watching Handmaid's Tale And like I want to work with Ann Dowd Like I see those actors And I'm like I would be starstruck at the level of How much I love their work Yeah And it depends on the circumstance Like for example We know these interviews are coming up If I walked into a room And unexpectedly Someone was in there that I really admire I would take me a moment To get past the starstruck You know Like if you walked into a room For an audition And Tom Hardy's behind the desk You'd need a moment to adjust As much as you want to work with them Walk in Well perhaps I remember Or even bigger Even bigger Johnny Depp Right It would take a minute to adjust to that Even though you're ready And like I want to work with you Okay I'm ready Oh my god you're so hot Like my friend who did The Daniel Day Lewis thing And she walked in and saw him And went holy shit Can I walk back out? Yeah That would take a second to To get into it But yeah They're both wonderful I would love to talk to both of them Yeah So both of you please Come on the channel Be our dose Let us know what other videos We should react to down the bottom