 Can everybody hear me see the picture? It's a heart. It's a bunch of hearts I thought of this and this is gonna help some you just a quick little lecture here Maybe I'll do a long one later, but it's it's kind of late and I do have to pay attention this thing This is gonna help some of you and I know some people are here on the on the trial But for just regular people it's gonna help something. You know when you're going through in life I'm sure everyone stated okay, whether you're married now or you were you know You weren't married in all your whole life So think back when you were dating, okay? I'm sure everyone has dated somebody Okay, whether you're a heterosexual homosexual. I'm sure everyone's dated somebody that you Were in love with the person and then then then then for some reason something happens They break up with you or they hurt you and you're devastated and it's you feel like it's the end of the world and you're never gonna fall in love again and You hate your life and you hate everything and everyone and you're never gonna be able to live because that person broke up with you And you weren't totally in love with them and you thought they were gonna marry them and spend the rest of your life with them Your heart was broken. Okay, so at that moment Okay, at that moment in time when your heart was broken. It felt like the end of the world Steven said not really No one is ever broken up with you Steven. Wow, you must be a stud No one's ever broken up with Steven Well, most people have had somebody break out with them or they were in a relationship where it ended for whatever reason Maybe it was a mutual break up, but you realize the person maybe you loved him But you realize the person wasn't the right life partner for you Whatever whatever the reason is but really talking about feeling like the heartache The heartbreak the heartache when something doesn't work out that you wanted to when you thought wouldn't you were certain that it would okay? In that moment it felt like you never fall in love again. You would never mean anyone again. Okay, and Then guess what you you did you did you met someone else? after that heartache and you fell in love again and Maybe you even married Okay, maybe you're still single. Maybe you did not marry yet But you fell in love with someone again after that cruel harsh break up the hard break up Okay, and you never thought you would and yet somehow you fell in love again And maybe you are even married like I said to that person right now still today for 20 30 years Whatever living with them having a happy life and when you think back about the relationship where you were heartbroken that it was all Over for you. You would not you'll be alone for the rest of your life. Okay? But but but you weren't you weren't and things were not the way that you thought they were at that time Now the reason I'm giving this story is because it directly relates to trading In the moment that you think you can't even conceive that you could be successful trading the market or Or just just that you can't even conceive that you could be rich doing this that like you Can't even conceive and by rich. I just mean Make enough money that you're happy and you could do this You don't have to do anything else because I rich is such a You know, I don't want to say rich because what was rich to me is different to you and things like that But wealthy meaning you have quality time You've got enough money to pay all your bills go on a vacation have a nice life And you don't have to work that hard doing this so in the moment that you are in this heartache You know, you can't conceive of being in love again, and you think it's the end of the world It's the same way with trading. You may be in a point right now with your trading Where you can't even it seems impossible It's like impossible that you would ever make 200 grand a year trading or 100 grand a year trading or 400 grand a year trading or ever do this for a job and half And be able to quit your other one. Whatever it is. Okay, it might seem impossible to you that you can't even conceive it It's like it's like conceiving a falling in love with someone else after you just had a huge terrible terrible breakup. Okay, and yet Yet What I just told you about the original breakup and the fine love again is true about trading because you you will But you want to say well when when will I meet the love of my life? When will I make the money that I want doing this when when when when when I don't know I don't know but I know that it is exactly like that because when it happens You never know when it's going to and it could happen in an instant And it only really truly has to do with believing that it can Because if you're not open to the possibilities it absolutely will not and it's the same way with romance. Okay, so if you are not Taking active steps to become successful as a trader or taking active steps to get out in the world and date and meet other people You're never gonna get over the heartache or meet somebody new and you're never gonna be successful as a trader If you're not taking active steps to create what you want You will continue to have that native belief system that thinking that you will never ever get there will never ever happen It's absolutely impossible. You'll never fall in love again. You'll never do this as your career You'll never make a lot of money doing it. You failed forever. You do whatever. Okay? Because listen, you know heartache can go on for years, too You know, it's not necessarily you could break up with somebody and be in love with them for years later And never really give anybody a chance thinking that your life's over. You shouldn't marry that person never giving up But it's it's it's not the right person. Okay Anyways, the point is though that it's very similar It's just so similar because you don't because because there is it's love and success in trading or I mean I could say success in anything but I'm talking about trading right now because everybody Here's a trader, but it's so similar because everybody wants to know exactly I Don't you know, you nobody does that's it's it's it's called magic That's the magic of the universe and you truly have to look at it like that Because if you knew exactly every single thing that would happen to you from now until the rest of your life How boring would your life be? It wouldn't be exciting at all So I'm saying this to help some of you new people old people trials so that you know that You you may feel like and a hundred percent feel like you will never make it as a trader But it can turn around in an instant Just like love because if you were ever in that moment So think back when you were heartbroken about our relationship and think back and remember you thought oh my god I'm gonna be alone for the rest of my life, and I'm never gonna meet anybody blah blah blah But then you did then you did you got married you had two kids and a dog and You forget that but relate that to your mind and your emotions right now If you're in the space with trading because it will help you it will help you realize and connect the dots and say wait a minute I thought everything was impossible then, but it wasn't I thought I think everything's impossible now, but guess what it's not And and connect the dots Well trend trader was trying to find hold on trend