 The version of me or the version someone has of you in their minds is not your responsibility You are not obligated to play a part in their narrative that they have about you You're not responsible for it. You don't need to know what it is You don't need to pick up your script every day for the lines You're supposed to say in their version of you. You don't need to pick up the behavior. They have chosen for you The attitude they've chosen for you You're not part of it So the version of me or the version someone has of you in their minds or the version you have of someone in your mind is Not their responsibility Because many people's version of you they have in their mind is A parked up one of you on an old version of you often. These are people closest to us Who liked that version of you and who are threatened by this new version of you? So they want to keep you trapped in and stuck in their version of you because that version of you gave them a sense of control over you or More a sense of certainty about you now you are unpredictable and you are not safe anymore So they want to drag you back into that version they have of you, which is where they feel most comfortable about you But you have no obligation or duty or loyalty to that version of you whatsoever This is why as you keep growing and reinventing you have to keep changing your relationships in your world