 How does a man really kind of connect to what's needed in the moment? Well, first of all, I want to say that being in touch with your emotions is not feminine, right? That's one of the big, big dogmatic misunderstandings, right? In every human being, there is both masculine and feminine, and both masculine and feminine have to be present to be with each other, right? It's just that feminine presence still requires that she's able to keep eye contact and be with you and feel you. I would say presence both on the masculine and the feminine would be considered what you do so that you can feel somebody fully, right? It looks certain ways in a man's body or in a masculine being, both is true, and it looks certain ways in a feminine being or in a woman's body. You could be a masculine essence in a woman's body and the other way around, but there are certain qualities that come with having a woman's body and there are certain qualities that come with a man's body, and then there's masculine and feminine within that. Keeping eye contact, being able to feel another human, that's true for both masculine and feminine, and for both men and women, but for instance, having emotions or feeling emotions is also not masculine and feminine, that's just human. How it expresses has different ways, so the masculine in a human is capable of bracketing the emotions appropriate to the course of action and proceed with a certain clarity, while that same human's feminine, when it's allowed to play full out, will take these emotions and let them swirl however they need to be swirled and will allow for these emotions to guide the action. So we can do both, both. I can right now sit with you regardless of what the hell's going on out there and in me because in this particular moment I am choosing to stay focused on our interview, so that would be my masculine and my very very strong emotions are being bracketed for the sake of getting things done. If you were my man, and we are not in an interview, or if my husband comes in here after we're done with this interview, I might let my emotions flow however they want to, because that's what's called for. But getting in touch with emotions is not masculine or feminine, it's just what human beings have to do to become full human beings.