 What's going on y'all? Welcome to my channel. So I have a question from a viewer and he writes, hey Lloyd, I've been dealing with a girl who responds sometimes to my messages. Sometimes she'll take a while or not at all. I try not to get angry or keep texting her, but what should I do when she ignores me? Okay, so this is probably one of the most common questions that I get. You know, what should you do when a girl ignores your text message? Okay, well you got the right idea so far is don't get mad, don't get angry, but I would say if you get a girl who's consistently ignoring your messages, you got to find somebody new. Like what you have to understand is that the attention somebody gives you is an important thing. Like that's something that I'm looking for when I'm looking for somebody that I'm interested in. You know, if you just want to hook up with her or you know you're sliding into those DMs or whatever it is, then sometimes you can make it work and we'll talk about those later on in this video. I kind of had a handle that situation. But you guys, if you're looking for something strong, if you're looking for something like meaningful and this person's not giving you that kind of energy back, dude, put yourself first. Your time is valuable. Like spend your time with other people that are going to be willing to give that energy back to you. And if they're not, like they shouldn't be a priority in your life. Sometimes when I give this answer to people, I'll tell them this, but then like if it's a client, I'll actually look at the messages they're sending. And I'm like, Oh God, no wonder they're ignoring your messages, dude. So like you have to ask yourself like what kinds of messages are you sending this person? All right, if you're sending her like a good morning message every single day and she starts ignoring them, like you should really not be surprised by that because you're not asking any questions. And honestly, I think a good morning text is not a good message to be sending. You can get away with it once in a while. Like if she really, really likes you, she'll probably like to hear that once in a while, but again and again is like, it's so boring. Like just don't do that. Okay. And the other thing too is like, how long are you waiting for these messages? Are you waiting 20 minutes since she doesn't get back to you? Because I don't know about you, but if I'm working during the day and somebody texts me like at around 11am, I might not get back to them until the evening, you know, or even till like 8 or 9pm. Like I got shit to do. And she probably does too. If she's a girl who is busy, has a job, school work, whatever it is, you know, like don't be surprised. If I was texting every girl that's interested in me during my work hours, I would have no time to do anything. So that's why I allocate like kind of a certain period of time during the day where I can text everybody. Women are kind of the same way too. And I'll also pay attention. How upset are you getting? If it's if she doesn't respond within two hours and you're getting super anxious and super upset, like there's something wrong going on there, bro. Like you are not like clearly your confidence or your insecurities are not where they need to be. And if this is a problem for you, that's something that you should really look at. Like that you should not be getting that upset if a girl ignores your messages. Either you don't have enough options in your life, you don't believe in yourself enough. There's something going on there. So I have tons of videos where I talk about how to help out with that problem. That's something that I coach my clients on all the time. So pay attention to those feelings. Now, if you've done all of this and you just want to hook up with the girl, there are women out there, especially if they work in the nightlife, like maybe they're a stripper bartender or you know, just a busy girl with like who's super hot that has a lot of dudes hitting them up. Yeah, there's going to be times where they ignore your message and you can still meet up with them. You can still do well. In fact, not too long ago, I had a girl with the same exact thing. So this happened a while ago where I was texting a girl who was really, really hot. Yes, she had tons of dudes hitting her up and yes, sometimes she would ignore my message. Now was I in love with this girl? Is that crazy about her? No, I liked her. She was hot like I wanted to see her. I wanted to hook up with her. So what did I do? When she ignored my message, I didn't get angry. I didn't pout. I think one of the messages I sent her was like, Hey, how was your day? You know, just ran. I'll say that once in a while. Doesn't respond. Shocker. Okay. So I don't get upset. I don't get angry. And then later that night I sent her a picture of what I was eating. I think I was out like out to dinner with some friends or something like that. So I sent her a picture of what I was eating. And then she's like, she texts me back. She's like almost immediately because usually around like the evening time that's when most people are free. She texts me like, Oh my God, what are you eating? That's delicious. And I'm like, Yeah, it's super awesome. Like, and then I, you know, we talked a little bit about that, found a time and place to meet up. We met up, I think a few days later, ended up hooking up and having a great time. And then I saw her a few times after that, you know, so like that can work. But if you're someone who's getting super upset and you really like this girl and consistently time and time again, she is ignoring your message, bro, you got to find somebody new, you know, attention is something that I really look for in value. And if somebody will never give me their attention and they've made it clear, like I've tried three times and they just ignore me. Well, not like I send three text messages back and forth, maybe we text and ignore and texting or something like that. Okay, there's no reason for me to send her another message. Even two times, I'd say, you know, I haven't had that happen for a while, but even two times, I'd probably say something like that. Okay, so put yourself first, you guys, like for this example that this guy was giving me, I really don't think she, he should be texting this girl again. Like it sounds like it's really bothering him. It sounds like this girl is not really valuing his time or attention. And as a result, he shouldn't value hers because she's not giving very much. So, dude, find someone who's going to give you the attention that you want and that you deserve because if you don't stand up for yourself, nobody will. Well, thanks for watching you guys. If you made it to the end, consider subscribing. I come out with videos like every single week. I think good luck out there.