 Don't ignore the warning signs. Your secret sin is harming you in more ways than you realize. Even if you hide your sin really well, and you're confident that nobody knows what you're doing, that secret is still destroying your life. Your loved ones may never see the root, which is the sin itself, but they will experience the fruit, which is the person your secret turns you into. Sin destroys your character, especially when you're hiding it. Sin produces anger, paranoia, impatience, selfishness, and dishonesty. It negatively affects who you are as a spouse, as a parent, as a friend. Conquer your sin, or it will conquer you.