 You know, the first reaction we have when we come across a narcissist or a psychopath is unease discomfort Something wrong Something's wrong alarm bells are ringing Yet we tend to deny and suppress this gut feeling and go on with the interaction and then at a little a little later We become infuriated and aggressive Narcissists and psychopaths are infuriating and They bring the worst in us They render people Absolutely aggressive even violent Why is that? I'm gonna analyze this phenomenon today using a few concepts Life promiscuity, which is a new concept that I'm proposing sexual promiscuity Compulsive sexting and the role of cheating in the cerebral schizoid narcissist life. I'm gonna wrap it up and Interconnect the whole thing So there's rhyme and reason to what I'm about to say But I'm gonna try to give you insight to your own reactions to narcissists and psychopaths because very often having Having exited a relationship with a psychopath or a narcissist You don't recognize yourselves anymore You say It wasn't like me to do this. It wasn't me. I Felt a strange and alienated. I felt I felt that it's something possessed me something took over and This is what narcissists and psychopaths do to you and I will try to give you the reasons. My name is Sam Vaknim I'm the author of Malignance of love Narcissism revisited and I'm a professor of psychology What else? Okay sexual promiscuity is Often coupled with what I call Life promiscuity life promiscuity is a new term a new phrase that I've just coined So don't go looking for it on Google or YouTube Life promiscuity is like sexual promiscuity in sexual promiscuity The promiscuous person gives his body away He treats his body like a disposable throwaway product in life promiscuity The promiscuous person throws his own life away not only his body, but his life He treats his life as if his life were meaningless worthless and disposable Harvey Clackley Called it a rejection of life And the psychoanalyst Jeffrey Seinfeld called it a life unlived It's common to psychopaths narcissists schizoids They are promiscuous with their lives They throw them away They dispense with them they dispose of them as though it were so much garbage The same way that a promiscuous person Treats his own body as a commodity as Totally alien and meaningless artifact an object that he can share with others or give away to others even if these others are Total strangers and mean nothing to him And this dual promiscuity sexual promiscuity coupled with life promiscuity is a common feature of psychopathy the psychopath casts away himself his prospects his accomplishments his future And of course his nearest and dearest quote-unquote He casts away all these things which we hold dear These things which we all aspire to family happiness love emotions academic degrees accomplishments status in society prospects friendships networks jobs careers Everything we work so hard for The psychopath casts away dispenses with like so much trash he treats all of it as meaningless worthless disposable the hallmarks of life promiscuity are dumbness The psychopath may be educated many psychopaths have academic degrees even advanced academic degrees graduate and postgraduate Many psychopaths are have PhDs in very very complex subjects, but they're dumb. There is dumb as a donor They're not intelligent. There's not operating intelligence or sentience there they are more like a scanning machine and Automaton a robot They're more like a computer than a human being and consequently They are programmed well to Recycle and rehash material even sometimes to come up with some new ideas It's rare by the way among psychopaths But at any rate, they're not intelligent They're seriously stupid The decisions of the psychopath are not merely Extremely self-defeating and self-destructive, but they're inane They're there. There's no rhyme and reason They're utterly random His decisions lack any organizing or explanatory principle When you watch when you observe the psychopath for an extended period of time, you cannot connect any point in his life to any other point Nothing is the cause of nothing and nothing is the effect of nothing There's no chain of being There's no chain reaction. There's no chain at all. There are no links. He's all over the place He's all over the place. He's like a cloud rather than a tangible thing He's like a dissipating cloud the psychopath The psychopath has no insight of any kind into his own motivations And because he lacks this insight, he appears to be very stupid Some of it is pseudo-stupidity when the psychopath actually pretends to be stupid Sometimes passive-aggressively But a lot of it is real stupidity Because the psychopath has no insight Into anything that's happening to him He's divorced completely from his self From his core, from his identity, from his memory There's a dumb founding Mind-boggling Lack of self-awareness Coupled with counter-factual reframing and outright self-deception and self-denial The psychopath is evasive It's like trying to hold on to a slimy goldfish Kips, you know, popping away from your hand This evasiveness is infuriating Because it closely mimics passive-aggressive gaslighting So you can never pinpoint the psychopath It's like jelly or jello, you know You cannot nail the psychopath You cannot make the psychopath commit to anything An opinion, a value, a decision, a choice, a preference Selection criteria, nothing Again, like a cloud I'll give you two examples from my own practice I had someone come to me and An extreme alcoholic Or an alcoholic Not extreme actually, but alcoholic Which An excellent way of ruining your own body An alcoholic and Extremely sexually promiscuous And when I asked this person When I suggested to this person That she actually Disrespects her body Because she told me about an incident where someone stole something from her And she was really riled up and emotionally All over the place Because this object had been stolen from her While She was having Illicit Underage sex And I suggested to her that she She respects the object more than she respects her body She misses the object She grieves and mourns the object She is emotionally invested in the missing Lost and stolen object Much more than in anything that had been done to her body While she was drowned and so And she denied it She said she respects her body And that's from a woman who is alcoholic Similarly It was a case of a Psychopath At age 15 he went to a gay club He was picked up by four Men, twice his age They took him to an apartment They drugged him And they had their way with him They took turns And when I suggested to him that it was rape He protested vehemently So it wasn't rape, I wanted it I said ok You may have wanted it But what they had done Was wrong And he couldn't see this Nevermind which angle they tried to tackle For example I suggested to him that If someone 15 years old Wants to have herring Wants it very much Wants very much to do herring Or crack It's wrong to give it to him Similarly, if a 15 year old wants to have Sex Very very much It's wrong For four men to take advantage Of this immature wish Four men twice his age And he couldn't see this That's someone Who has an advanced degree A PhD In one of the most complex Disciplines known to humanity And yet He couldn't wrap his head Around this extremely simple premise Nevermind what I did Which logical tools of reasoning I deployed Which angles of attack He couldn't see it The lack of self awareness The reframing The self deception and the denial Were so massive That at some point He appeared and sounded stupid Simply stupid This lack of insight Coupled with the lack of self awareness Renders the psychopath Opaque It's like A monolithic facade It's as boring as watching paint dry Additionally, the psychopath has flat effect Even when he rages It is the rage is instrumental It's goal oriented And frankly, the only emotion The psychopath shows consistently Demonstrates consistently his rage Anger But even that Is not really emanating From the inside It's very very goal oriented It's a tool It's intended to intimidate To manipulate To coerce Otherwise The psychopath does not experience emotions And does not express of course Any emotions whatsoever He sounds totally flat He could talk about The most horrible experiences He had gone through And it's as though he were talking about Yesterday's weather Or he could contemplate Doing something really really Really egregiously immoral And even Violent or And he would discuss this As though he were discussing stock prices That is flat effect The psychopath has no boundaries whatsoever And he has no respect and no recognition Of other people's boundaries So when his boundaries are breached He doesn't experience it as Anything egodistonic He is so focused on himself That if he is for example raped And he wanted sex He would say well, but I wanted sex He wouldn't come trap his head around the fact That whether he wanted sex or not is irrelevant The act was rape And that's because he has no boundaries He doesn't regard being molested And raped by four men An act of breach of boundaries Because he has none Similarly of course He would not have hesitated To breach the sexual or other boundaries Of someone else Like that The flip of a coin Of course when you don't have boundaries When you don't have insight When you don't know yourself When you lack self-awareness You have no self-respect because you have no self Technically you have no self You have no self-respect The psychopath is incapable of shame Of guilt Of remorse He has this diffuse and fuzzy Binary states of I'm feeling good I'm not feeling good So he can tell you I'm not feeling good today I'm sad today or I'm tired today But these are like It's like a two phase A two state machine I'm good, I'm not good Well-being, not well-being Nothing more complex And definitely nothing that Is untangled with self-respect The psychopath May be defined He may be consummations He may be aggressive And he may pretend to have boundaries But these are not real boundaries These so-called boundaries Are adopted From his society So if the psychopath is a criminal He would have like honour He would insist on being honoured But that's not his boundary That's a boundary he had borrowed From the criminal Subculture From criminal society The psychopath has no self-respect He would do anything to himself Unhesitatingly He would give his body away Like As though it was so much So much nothing, so much trash He would give his mind away He would give his ideas away He would give his job away He would give his wife away He is absolutely There's no To how dissipated and dissolute And chaotic The psychopath is And none of it Is connected to self-respect Or even when the psychopath becomes Vengeful Vindictive and violent When you Disrespect him When you delve deeper Into this situation It's not about respect at all It's a power play He challenged his power He has no concept of self-respect And that's why the psychopath For example the psychopathic woman Would have no difficulty whatsoever Going with a total stranger Whose name she doesn't know To her room For five minutes to her sex And then go back Like nothing happened to the bar She doesn't feel that she had bridged any boundary She doesn't feel that she had disrespected herself When you ask her why did you do that I wanted to That's all I wanted to The psychopath resembles an animal And this is not a pejorative I'm not cursing the psychopath I'm just comparing him Psychopath is like an animal He's possessed Of only the most basic reflexes Most basic drives Sex Food Drink Again food Again drink Sleep, sex, food, drink, sleep It's like a strobe It's Discontinuous existence It's fragmented And it's point-like It's pointillistic And so He has these These reactions To life, to circumstances To environments To other people and to challenges Reactions that are Totally non-cognitive They are automated They are rigid He resembles very much a machine And they are reflexive They are driven in the sense that They reflect urges and Uncontrollable drives So when he wants to have sex He will just go and have sex And he wants to eat, he will eat And there will be no limit to the sex And no consideration for the environment For other people He wants to have sex, he will have sex Regardless of the fact, for example That he's engaged to be married Or that he has children They wouldn't bother him Because he wanted to have sex His needs are so Primordial So overpowering and overwhelming Whereas the borderline is Overwhelmed by emotions And by fear of rejection And abandonment The psychopath is overwhelmed By basic needs Very primitive needs What Freud used to call the id Freud called it the id These are very basic Animalistic essentially Because chimpanzees have this And gorillas and dolphins These are very Animalistic needs And they overpower him Because essentially the psychopath Doesn't have a well functioning ego He doesn't have This firewall That prevents him from acting out He doesn't have control mechanisms He's utterly, totally out of control And there is nothing sublime Nothing transcendental Nothing spiritual Nothing intellectual In the psychopath's life He's constantly bored He's constantly in search of stimulation And excitement Thrill seeking Novelty seeking Risk taking, adrenaline junky Because he has no depth And no background, no hinterland He has no support From layers and layers And layers of complexity Like healthy people do He's two dimensional He's flat He's a denizen of flat land He has no point And so Every wind, internal wind I want sex, that's an internal internal breeze Moves him miles and kilometers He's like a feather He acts out And he decompensates At the drop of a hat And so when you try to get close To the psychopath You encounter this Essential void and emptiness It's not the same void like the narcissist And the borderline And the schizoid It's another type of void It's a void that is the outcome Of insisting to remain shallow Insisting to remain superficial Artificial And on the surface Refusing to go deep So you can touch just the surface It's a glimmering, shimmering surface Touch it, and that's it Okay, so you touch it once At the end of the story At some point Psychopaths are by far The most boring people on earth Narcissists Can be interesting And sometimes are very interesting Just look at me Psychopaths are never interesting Never Never mind which doctorate They have in which field Never mind if they had Just received a Nobel Prize Never mind if they had just become president of a country Never mind They're boring Simply boring Adolf Hitler Was a rank psychopath of course Adolf Hitler was known For boring people That's Adolf Hitler The ruler of the world For several years A man who had the most amazing experiences And he had these table talks And people were nodding off They were falling asleep It's simply very boring Psychopaths are like Repetition machines They're repetitive When they speak, they keep repeating the same point They keep rehashing the same formulations The same speech acts The same phrases Because they're incapable Of ingenuity and innovation And invention They heard something somewhere They adopted it and they repeated Psychopaths And they're very boring To alleviate their own boredom And intolerance of frustration Most psychopaths Are prone to substance abuse They are typically Both junkies and alcoholics This combination is very common Now Most Psychopaths know That They have Very little to offer So that's why Psychopaths Head straight to sex The easiest sex in the world Is with a psychopath And more so with a psychopathic borderline That's the easiest way You don't even need to court You don't even need to do anything Just exchange a glance Buy a glass of wine, she's yours He's yours Psychopaths and more so Borderline Psychopathic borderlines They know That they're shallow They know they have nothing to offer They regard themselves actually as stupid And they're not wrong It's one of a few insights they have They know that At some point You know The conversation is going to end because They're evasive They are trite They spew cliches They don't remember much So they don't have a found Of life experiences They reframe In a way that's very infuriating And sounds very idiotic They gaslight At some point they realize It's going to end if they don't move fast To sex They use sex as a bait They use sex as a lure This is their only alleged endowment This is their contribution To the exchange When borderlines Are present Together with psychopathy These people Psychopathic borderlines They confuse sex With relatedness When they have sex They feel interconnected They feel related The only way They can feel they have something With another person The only interaction They have The only interpersonal Fleeting fake intimacy and bond So they feel relatedness When they have sex They feel that they belong They feel that they're being loved and appreciated They trade sex For belonging Love and appreciation Because how much love And belonging and appreciation Can you have in a one night stand Or how much love, appreciation and belonging And can you have When you're gang raped by four men But even sex Requires imagination Empathy, maturity Reciprocity, creativity None of these qualities Characterize the psychopath He has none of these So sex with the psychopath Every sex with the psychopath Is like a one night stand And let me tell you Those of you who have not Experienced one night stands One night stands suck big time I have no idea Why people end up having One night stands It's by far the most horrible experience Studies show that The majority Of the partners in one night sex Don't even orgasm With the psychopath Even if you're with the psychopath 20 years Every sexual encounter is like a one night stand Mechanical Experimental Exploring, uninspired Pyrotechnic Etc No reciprocity, no maturity No emotions, no laugh Even on the technical level It's bad Collectly Describe psychopathy as The mask of sanity Psychopaths appear to be sane When you probe a bit Not a lot by the way When you probe a bit You're shocked Shocked by the way they see the world A psychopath told me That he sees nothing wrong In sleeping with A teenage girl who is unconscious Nevermind what I did And tried to, he couldn't For the life of him He was a professor by the way A professor For the life of him he couldn't understand What is wrong In sleeping with a 15 year old Who is out of her mind Psychologically And out of her consciousness Owing to huge consumption Of huge amounts of drink and drugs He couldn't see what's wrong with him I tried morality, I tried religion I tried Utilitarianism And philosophical existence Of ethics, I know Nothing Absolutely nothing So It's a mask of sanity These people are insane But collectively it was partly right Because it's not a mask of sanity It's even more profound Or if you wish more shallow Than this Only the mask exists The psychopath is a Simulation of a human being Gun or eye The psychopath is the Ultimate corrupted simulator Psychopath Tends to see life And interactions with people As a zero sum Winner takes all Conflict, series of conflicts For the psychopath Every day is a battle Every morning Is a new skirmish And life itself Is a never ending Total war And there's only one winner One will remain standing And the psychopath has every intention To ascertain that it will be him Or her Consequently the psychopath is of course hyper-vigilant If you believe That everyone is like you And your intentions are always To win, always to prevail Always to suppress and subdue Subjugate Then you would assume that others Have every intention to do this to you So you would be very, very Hyper-vigilant, not to say paranoid And this paranoia This hyper-vigilance rendered the psychopath Even more divorced from reality And make him appear Even more dumb than he is And he is, trust me The psychopath scores points He wins Even an expression of altruism Or empathy Would be interpreted as some hideous Dark manipulation Or some attempt to score points By pointing at weakness Or at the vulnerability The As far as the psychopath is concerned There are only two states as usual He's winning Or he's losing And he's constantly alert as to Who is having the upper hand I'm having the upper hand You're having the upper hand The psychopath never feels shame Or remorse when he misbehaves Never Only when he's caught Misbehaving, red-handed The psychopath Never feels Shame or remorse When his body is violated By multiple people When he is discarded after that Like a piece of, so much pieces of trash Pieces of trash He doesn't feel shame or remorse Or guilt or entity He may say, well, it's regrettable A kind of neutral Emotionally neutral word He doesn't feel bad When this happens But he feels horrible when he's caught Misbehaving or when he shows When he shows a weakness Or a vulnerability To the potential adversary So he's very ashamed Very He's self-castigating He's self-critical He wants to bury himself When by mistake He had exposed a soft side of him A weak point A vulnerability Because he immediately anticipates an attack The borderline, as I have repeatedly said In many videos And this is the current state Of knowledge, like it or not Because I've been attacked by borderlines And borderline advocates And borderline self-styled gurus Online, etc. I'm sorry, this is where the research is going Definitely where the research is going People with borderline personality disorder Are secondary psychopaths Especially women Women with borderline personality disorder Are secondary psychopaths Now secondary psychopath is a psychopath Who has empathy And a psychopath who has emotion So the borderline The psychopathic borderline Is not intentionally evil She is not mal-intentioned She doesn't, she's not premeditated She is not sitting like Dr. Moriarty Sitting in the dark And plotting To trap people in her spider web No! She is not intentionally evil She is evil Evil She is evil, reified And personified She can't help it It's like a virus Or a tigress She kills Not because she's malicious But because she is Simply She can protest She can declare her kind intentions Solemn vows and promises Never mind this She can't help it It's not up to her The damage she inflicts on others The pain, the hurt The sleepless nights The traumas And if the partner is a narcissist The modifications She can't control this It's an integral part Of her essence It's her modus operandi It's the way her brain is wired It's who she is There are two paths to self-destruction Doing too much And not doing anything Extremes of behavior and addictions Are signs of underlying mental health issues Compulsive sex with strangers Is as pathological And as self-defeating As avoiding sex altogether, for example The same goes for any human activity Workaholism Or not working at all Slacking Alcoholism versus having a drink Itinerancy versus traveling Over-eating Versus savoring gourmet food And so let us talk a bit about Promiscuity and compulsive sexity First of all, is it true that Once promiscuous Always promiscuous I can tell you the latest Studies about cheating Once a cheater, yes, always a cheater People who had cheated once Have a much higher likelihood of cheating again And even more surprisingly People who had been cheated on Have a much higher likelihood To be cheated on again Okay, what about promiscuity? Is it the same? The short answer is yes But intermittently Once promiscuous, always promiscuous Promiscuity is having sex With multiple partners Mostly total strangers Indiscriminately And impulsively It is a compulsive reaction Intended to ameliorate Stress, anxiety And perceived rejection Promiscuity is a form of Reckless self-trashing That sometimes involves practices Such as group sex And adverse outcomes Such as rape and recurrent sexual assault Promiscuity, although it is taboo A taboo subject But promiscuity often starts At age 13 12 In early and to mid adolescence And then At this age it involves incest Molestation Gang rape Pitophiliac or Hebophiliac sex These young teenagers They gravitate To haunts and clubs And bars and so on Where older men If it's a woman Pick them up And have their way with them Often in gangs and groups With age, promiscuity is replaced With other addictions And with substance abuse Most often alcoholism So many promiscuous people become alcoholics And during the phase of alcoholism They are less promiscuous And they convince themselves That they had become more selective Or that their promiscuity is over Which is of course rank nonsense Moreover, usually the Actual promiscuity The physical contact, the sex Is replaced with other forms of sex For example, cyber sex Or sexting So when the promiscuous person Becomes an alcoholic Actual promiscuity declines If we measure promiscuity In terms of physical contact But other forms of sexuality Become promiscuous For example, that person is likely To become highly promiscuous In sexting Many promiscuous individuals Apparently settle into a more or less Sublimatory, socially acceptable Functional lifestyle Replete with jobs, families You name it Housing the suburbs For the garden For the trade Never goes away Promiscuity is there Lurking Given the right adverse circumstances Acting out Leads to flare ups And relapses Bouts of uncontrolled sex Flagrant infidelity And self-endagement Promiscuity The numerous studies that show that Promiscuity is highly correlated To mental health disorders Among them borderline personality disorder And psychopathy The promiscuous psychopath is an Especially menacing type As she tends to Either objectify her partners In one-night stands for example And then of course the whole experience Is highly unpleasant Or if she doesn't objectify them She tends to stalk And blackmail her partners It's a black widow The psychopathy The promiscuous psychopath Both types Use promiscuous sex To shore up their self-esteem And to regulate their moods For the psychopath Sex Is an aggressive Winner takes all zero sum power play Psychopath feels empowered When she is promiscuous Or is promiscuous There's a sense of validation A sense of affirmation A sense of omnipotence In other words Promiscuity in the psychopath Is a grandiose behavior It's behavior intended to buttress And feed into grandiosity Or a source of narcissistic supply That's where the somatic narcissist And the psychopath are Twins almost Not identical twins But twins definitely Short-term promiscuity though Is one behavior among mentally healthy people Who had undergone a traumatic Breakup or divorce But it's shorter And it vanishes completely What about Compulsive sexting Very common now In the pandemic In the time of pandemic Surveys conducted by Zoom, Webex And other popular video conferencing apps These surveys had discovered That users are very worried About sexually explicit material Exchange in sexting And making it Into the public domain Why? Why are they worried? In this day and age Of rampant digital Digital promiscuity and infidelity Attitudes about nudity And sexuality Are far more permissive and relaxed So why the extreme What if someone sees me naked? What's the big deal? Because it says something About you Indiscriminate sexting Indiscriminate sexting With virtual strangers Is not the same like sexting With friends Is not the same like sexting With intimate partners Sexting with friends and intimate partners Is a healthy sex Substitute Activity Encourage iron Most experts Therapists and so on Encourage it absolutely So sexting is a beautiful thing And a fine thing And human nudity is very Arousing and great But sexting Indiscriminate sexting With virtual strangers Virtual strangers is someone you have Chatted with for an hour Even a month is virtual stranger But If you indiscriminately As a reflex on the first chat Sext With anyone who is online Happens to be online That's highly correlated With mental health issues Such as A dysregulated sense of self-worth Low self-esteem Alcoholism Moodlability Disregulation Erotomanic delusions Cluster B personality disorders Reactance Recklessness Issues with power and control Depression Decompensation Anxiety Object impermanence Lack of impulse control Eating disorders Sleep deprivation Body dysmorphia If you see someone Who Sex Who exchanges sexually explicit material On a first chat Stay away It's a very dangerous person It's someone with severe mental health issues Never mind how normal she appears to be Never mind how Academically accomplished she is Never mind how wonderful person he is Never mind if he is married with seven children Forget all this Never mind if he is the CEO Of some company Or a movie mogul Or producer Stay away That's a sick person Indiscriminate Promiscuous sexting with virtual strangers Is a wonderful marker Of insanity Of severe mental health issues Such behavior is indicative Of self-trashing Which is a self-defeating and even self-destructive behavior In other words Someone who constantly and compulsively Sex with multiple random acquaintances Is very likely to be bad news First and foremost to herself But also to you No one wants to be stigmatized With such disclosures Not even the mentally disordered Or the mentally ill Let alone healthy being So This is why compulsive sexting Can lead to extremely unpleasant Situations Porn revenge Porn blackmail I mean you know the stories One last note The intimate partners Cheating and promiscuity Legitimize The sexlessness Of the schizoid cerebral narcissism That's why schizoid Cerebral narcissists Go after promiscuous women Because they know That promiscuity never ends That it's always there That it will be triggered And the intimate partner will cheat They know it for sure And they seek This kind of intimate partners Because it legitimizes Their own Sexlessness Which they cannot help with They can't help it They are sexless They need to feel good about their sexlessness So if the partner is promiscuous If she is cheating Let alone if she is alcoholic as well The schizoid narcissists Can tell himself The cerebral narcissists Can tell himself That it is the partner who is the problem The partner is dirty Corrupted, decadent, sick, revolting And this is the reason Is not having sex with her It is her fault She is to blame That she had become sexually Undesirable to him The second reason is That A promiscuous Cheating Intimate partner Does not regard the narcissist As special to her Or as unique He becomes a statistic He is one of many And so it negates his grandiosity The minute his grandiosity is negated He becomes aggressive He becomes aggressive It legitimizes, provokes Legitimized aggression And he expresses this aggression Via sex withdrawal Via sex avoidance And sex aversion It is like he says I am not having sex with her Because she doesn't see me as special Because she treats me As one of the madding crowd As a statistic, as a number And I can't have sex with a woman like this But it's her fault Because she is promiscuous She is the cheater She made me feel unspecial She made me feel common And nobody She made me feel a statistic So she brought it on herself Such a partner challenges the narcissist's grandiosity Of course And And he tries to compensate For this by developing A shared fantasy And within the shared fantasy So a shared fantasy is a defense actually And within the shared fantasy He imagines Himself As a rescuer, a fixer A saviour He is the one Who will get this promiscuous woman Hopelessly addicted to him He is the one Who will get her to give up On her wayward Deviant sexuality She will sacrifice Her promiscuity Just so as not to lose him It is a perverted form Of the typical male Saviour, fixer, rescuer role Which I had Analyzed in my video On the Cartman drama triangle And this is The end of the survey Of The fringes of human sexuality As manifested In borderline Psychopathic And narcissistic people It's a sad terrain Disheartening Because each and every one of you Can come across one of these people And they are very good At dissembling And dissimulating They are very good at pretending They are very good at self deceiving sometimes And so You can easily fall in the trap If you don't pay attention to your gut instincts To the red alarms To the feeling of unease To the fury The aggression which You can't explain to yourself why Pay attention A walk away These people are seriously bad news And it's the kind of bad news That we got used to in the pandemic It's not ending It's mutating You can't fight it effectively Almost in any way Thank you for listening