 And we are live. What's going on guys? Anthony dream Johnson here today founder. I'm sorry about that Founder of 21 studios co-founder of red men group and founder of the 21 convention today I'm broadcasting live out of Sioux Falls, South Dakota. So remote broadcast today and today's guests will be special guests to the show first Time on it and that's Paul Elam founder of a voice for men and an ear for men two different entities actually operates He has been a men's rights leader and men's rights activists for several decades. I believe a very long time You've probably seen him in the red pill documentary that came out. I think in 2016 That's pretty famous around the world. I was getting banned from movie theaters things like that. He was featured in that pretty prominently Before we get into today's episode our sponsors today Are the 21 convention as always Upcoming soon in Orlando, Florida October 1st of 4th They'll be a lot of great speakers there for men and fathers at the main event Including myself elliot hulls jessie peterson richard granon co-trick greg adams alfamol strategies and steve rillet and terence pop You guys might know him especially steve who does a lot of shows with paul elam himself We also have been a vent for fathers where we are rebuilding the patriarchy because the feminists smashed the old one So we got to build a new one And of course we're going to make women great again at the same time So it'll be a very fun time. You can get tickets at the 21 convention dot org. That's dot org dot com Without further ado and enough with the ads Please let me welcome to the show for the first time. Mr. Paul elam. How you doing paul? I'm doing great. How are you? doing pretty good, man I'm a little a little mini trip here to south dakota really enjoying the freedom and the sunshine and the outdoors and the Compared to florida. It's very cool up here. It's like a summer or a florida winter right now Uh, absolutely. I love it up in that area Yeah, it's my first time in the midwest. I never actually been up here before And I've been able to open carry a firearm for the first time and all kinds of fun shit So i'm really really enjoying the outdoors being up here. Absolutely Yep, so how you doing man? How's your year been? It's been a hell of a year for everybody before we get into the questions I have Absolutely crazy Just not seen so much insanity I don't think in any other time in my life is what's going on now around a flu virus and politics Obviously just in chaos. So it makes for interesting times. We ought to have plenty to talk about Yeah, and you're in your uh mid-late fifties now. Uh, what? Okay, wow. Yeah, well Yeah, I'm almost 32 now. I'm feeling it. I'm feeling it slightly But you see you've seen you've seen a lot of america that I haven't I'm as born in late 80s So for you to say that I've heard other men your age say that too and I believe it And that's alarming to say the least but uh, you know mind you I watched you know on watched Watts burn in detroit burn on tv in the late 60s I was alive when that was happening and it still wasn't as crazy As it is right now. Wow Yeah, that has to be very reminiscent to what you're seeing But yeah, the the insanity of it has been nuts I don't even I barely remember the rodney king riots Even that is not even in my memory and that was I think a lot smaller than two and obviously what we're seeing Right. Yeah, super wild man So Yeah, yep, so some of the first questions I wanted to get into let me pull up my uh Website here So the first one was actually a personal one because years ago I was watching your youtube channel and I was uh, you know as a fan of yours and what you were doing to a big degree Um, I was actually I remember first seeing you I think on the spearhead a long time ago The website website. Oh, you're going way back now. Oh, yeah I knew the founder a little bit. Uh, I think bill price he interviewed me one time Yep, and I was much more pickup artist focused at that point. So I got a lot of heat from the mentors guys, but uh, yeah But actually a few of them came out to our convention. They really liked it and they were very skeptical They were like, you know, we'll check it out so But I saw you do a video, uh, and it was you so used to work with christina hoff summers And he did a youtube video uh criticizing or is very surprising to me and at first I didn't know what to make of it Because obviously you both are very critical of feminism, which I liked a lot But I didn't understand it and I found an article here. It was uh from way back in 2016 Paulie Lema attacks christina hoff summers as crypto ms. Andrick pulverage seeking privilege seeking gender parasite Well, I was being diplomatic Yeah, he talked to me a little bit about what happened here and why she's uh, like I think she still has some great criticisms of feminism But I eventually came around I think to your opinion that there's something kind of off here Is sick you talked to me a little bit about that Well, sure. Yeah, I mean and mind you I've never changed my opinion. I think christina hoff summers Is a great voice Challenging the feminist narrative. I think she does a lot of good work. And you know, we're behind her We published her work on a voice for men um, but she also identifies as a second wave feminist and that is a pretty accurate description of her she views Things in very distorted terms. There is a lot of female privilege That that comes through and in what she has to say And she pushes for men to be of service to her in ways that I don't think are fitting with uh What an informed man would want these days Yeah, and uh, she's very quick to challenge and shame. She never tried to engage Me about my differences of opinion with her. She simply came out in a couple of different places and mischaracterized What I had to say about her Um, and did not address any of the concerns I had for instance One of the things that I picked apart in one of her talks was that she Said she was still a feminist because poverty affects women more than men And that's a lie Yeah, homelessness is huge for men and small for women, right? Absolutely um And there's all sorts of nuances in that too when you look at how they calculate the poverty line for men and women Women who receive spousal support and child support that income is not counted Toward whether or not they're qualified for benefits for people who are below the poverty line So it just doesn't count it But on the other hand for men who are paying that child support and paying the spousal support That income doesn't count toward helping them get benefits either So, you know the the men's expenses is ignored the women's income is ignored They get the benefits meanwhile 75 of all homeless people that are sleeping on the street are men so She totally sold a bill of goods there and didn't want to address it and that was just the beginning Yeah, it sounds like typical orwellian kind of double think with a lot of that Yeah, it is I wanted to bring this up too that I saw a nice tweet from janice And I wanted to actually let's talk about this for a second, but she was this is a march 31st I think earlier this year and janice tweeted janice humango. You do some shows with her on studio brulee I've always had a great respect for christina hoffs summer's research into the lies of feminism and the disadvantages created by feminists for boys in school But in this video, she laughs over her own willed ignorance about men's issues sad to see And looks like christina was laughing about migtau and men going their own way and stuff like that And she was I believe that that's the video. I think that she uh tweeted. She was also going after me personally Uh in that for having criticized her Yeah, yeah janice is like the uh So talk to me about your experience with janice professor janice humango Versus christina hoffs summers because I think a lot of people see similarities between them But at the end of the day, I think janice is far more intellectually honest and focused Sincerely on men's issues and men's rights. He talked to me about your opinion of that and your experience with her Well, yeah, that was to say that janice is intellectually honest And I have found many times when christina hoffs hoffs summers is not intellectually honest She's quite intellectually dishonest Another difference between the two. I think the similarities stop where you have both of them are anti-feminist and they both happen to be female Well, and christina hoffs summers is a feminist anti-feminist. So, you know people can intellectually play with that all they want to She speaks out against feminism and so does janice On the other hand janice understands concepts like gynocentrism janice understands that that's a very real thing that men contend with in their daily lives and That gynocentrism also pushes its way into our governance into legislation to all manner of of life for for men and women Christina hoffs summers doesn't know that exist that gynocentrism exists, but she seems to thrive off of it By placing herself on a pedestal as a woman Yeah All right. Well, we'll put we'll put I wanted to switch now shift gears a little bit to some uh almost forgot before we get further into the show Some positives from men's rights. I think that we've seen in recent years And I wanted to get you take on those So one of them that just popped it up on screen a second ago an accident There have been some changes through the department of education and the trump administration for title nine Basically kind of minimizing the kangaroo courts a roll in the back that the obama administration got started years ago for Especially for college age men and things like that So I want to know your thoughts on this and any other changes you've seen positive from the trump administration Or any kind of positive commentary you haven't what you've seen his administration do Well, I think there's quite a bit the the big one is the one you've got up on the screen there The uh, the challenging of the kangaroo courts the star chambers that have been formed on college campuses across the nation for the past 20 years Um This is something that was a product out of the obama biden administration With uh, joe biden pulling the strings on a lot of that To get these star chambers in place and to remove rights of young men Who have been accused of sexual assault and as you may know, I mean we've seen some cases so extreme That arrest warrants have been issued for women Who were making false allegations because they filed false police reports Um, and the police sought them to arrest them and yet the school said no, we're not dismissing the complaint um That happened in the in the case of kaleb warner and a couple of other cases where young men were just Willy nearly accused of sexual assault after obviously consensual sex Um, the women were proved to be liars and the school said no, we're still expelling the men Uh, that's how rigged the system is and so the trump administration. I think rightly Took a very cold calculated factual look at what was going on And they've responded with the headline that you're reading there on the screen Uh, I I think it's fantastic and I think a lot of that is because Men's rights activists have been hammering on this subject for 10 years now Yeah, um, and I think we're finally seeing the results of this for so for the uh, all the crowd that says MRAs never get anything done. Just take a look at the script Yeah Yeah, another one I wanted to ask you about I'm not uh, too familiar with a bit I was talking with dr. Warren ferrell about it about a month or two ago And that was the I think it was 2018 or 2019 in kentucky. I think they got uh equal shared parenting as a default And it's not perfect, but it's pretty close. So I wanted to ask you about that one for men's rights, too Because that's pretty big. Yeah, it's huge and it's happening in more places than kentucky There is finally incrementally being some Advances made toward shared custody and Kentucky is one of the uh, the prime places where it's actually already happened But these efforts are happening in other states, too Much to the chagrin of feminist activists who come out at every turn to try to stop shared parenting Even though, you know, the official position of the national organization for women Is that the only reason women get custody in so many cases is because they are unfairly and misogynistically perceived to be Better child caregivers than men. Wow And but when it comes to all right fine, let's just split the duties between the men and the women Oh, they don't want anything with that because that robs women of the ability to extract child support and other funds Out of the men. They're divorcing So it's all a big hypocritical mess, but that's another area where men's advocates are actually making a headway legally In into these areas and it's finally starting to happen across the board So I give another score for our team on that Yeah, yeah, I'd say so I know it almost got passed in florida not too long ago It's making progress It got killed at the last minute But I think some of the guys I know working on it They're very passionate about it because like you say it's a big win for men and fathers And it's real and it's actionable and that affects families and and men and children You know another thing that happened in florida. Unfortunately, uh, was rick scott when he was governor of florida They passed legislation ending lifetime alimony And scott vetoed it Wow, our great conservative friend rick scott vetoed that Candering to the women's boat Yeah, he's kind of a scumbag. I'm much more of a desantis fan myself. Yeah, me too. Believe me Not not a bad scott at all Yeah Regarding the the trump administration. I mean, obviously this is massive for the country in a million ways to 2016 when he won Um, are there any other ways that he has helped men that I haven't brought attention to? And are there any things that you wish he had done during his first term? Foreman that he hasn't done Well, there's things he's done. I wish he hadn't done There's also Things that he've done that have been unprecedented but are sort of hard to put your finger on He was the first sitting president Who openly acknowledged that it was open season on young men in college campuses He actually said that but that it was a dangerous time to be a young man Uh, of course, you would have never heard that from bath house barry Or or his buddy Or any other sitting president That was a great one of the mistakes he made in the tax cuts though Is that he ended the the income tax exemption or at least the write-off for alimony and child support that men hand bid gain it and That was I think a A definite move in the wrong direction Okay. Yeah, that was the 2018 tax cuts. Yeah. Yeah But I mean the man's record is not perfect But when I see what we have to compare him to when it comes to the lives of men I'm going with trump all the way Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm pretty sure hillary would have castrated all this given the opportunity. So Well, guys like you are pretty happy with how it's going man Yeah, if hillary was president guys like you and I might be in jail by now. Uh, yeah Yeah Yep So speaking of politics as it relates to men. So we've recently seen of course, uh, here we go You know kamala heels heels up harris was picked as uh, joe biden's vp Uh, but the more important thing I think with this, I mean, she's her own clusterfuck of problems and shenanigans but, uh, Basically, he had to pick a female vp A man was basically any man even in the democrat, uh, the looney tunes and stuff He was excluded from even the potential of being considered based on the way he was born Uh, we're garela. So what his race was and what how he how he performed in the primaries At what he pulled all that crap was out the window because he had a penis and balls and a y chromosome So talk to me about this and how the country has arrived at a point where an a major political party excluded And the supposed, you know gender equal utopia we're trying to live in It was excluded specifically and explicitly from even getting the position And then it was given to heels up harris, uh, you know kamala kamala below or whatever they call her Well, first of all though, I have to chastise you. It's kamala. You know, you're racist if you say kamala I I found that out, uh That you could you could never say kamala. It's kamala And you're culturally insensitive if you mispronounce that Yeah, it's I think it's part and parcel to the times here, anthony If they would have had their way, I think it would have been a female nominee for president And look at what this tells you the pickings among women were so bad So awful That even this, you know newly woke enlightened democrat party that was going to put women in positions of leadership Couldn't find a single one to break the three percent support In the polls their awful candidates all of them Kamala harris is hated across the board. She dropped out of the race even before California numbers came in because I don't think she wanted the humiliation of losing her ass in california and So now she is the presumptive or nominee for vice president and She actually is a heart beat away from a presidency That may not last four years if the guy gets elected Nevermind Joe is not doing well Apparently he looks sort of physically okay, but he's obviously entering the early stages of senility Uh, that's happening. And so they in effect have put their presidential nominee up there in kamala harris who couldn't again Couldn't break three percent in popularity Um, I hope that has the expected impact on the election, but I don't know if it will Yeah, there's so much going on with it right now with the potential voter fraud election fraud mail the mail-in ballots all garbage Uh question. Do you think if a female uh, there was plenty that were running, right? There's kamala There's pocahontas all these chicks are running You think if a female had won the democratic nomination over biden over all the others Do you think they would have also picked a vp? Female as well just to double up the female primacy of it probably I that would be my guess. Um, I could see a scenario certainly where they would have chosen a man um Trying to make some sort of appeal for the votes of male democrats Uh, but I think it would have gone To be a woman only ticket Yeah, to contrast it looks like it would be good against the evil white man of the pennson trump Absolutely, and of course, you know, uh Women nowadays the the culture of women that we've raised Halfway, maybe they don't even accomplish something They aspire to accomplish something and they immediately begin celebrating as though it's already been accomplished And I think it would have been in that spirit. They would have picked a second woman for the ticket Just so they could dance around for the cameras and and say look at us Yeah, they make a big spectacle out of it. Yeah, I look at us over the first dual double female. Uh, you know ticket Oh, yes Women rule boys Yeah Yep Um, so I wanted to take this somewhere, but I'm having a brain fart with it right now. That's pretty important Uh, that's okay. I have them all the time Yeah, it's part of getting older my 30s here. Oh, yeah, you're really pushing it, dude Let's back up here for a second. So you've been a men's rights leader and Uh, activists and all these things a writer and you know, a podcast or many things What has your experience been with that? From start to start not to finish but from start to now It's been a long time. I mean that you've seen the culture change. You've seen politics change Uh, never mind 2016, but even before that like What has that experience been for you personally over all these years and how has it been great? It's been the greatest thing in the world. Honestly, uh, when I started this The narrative that we embrace About men in this culture was absolutely Almost not heard of anywhere. I mean, there was a few obscure forums In places across the internet where guys were talking about these issues some And every once in a while in the comment section of a mainstream Ms. Sandrick hit piece Bashing men you would see one or two items of dissent In the comments now That since after I got started after Karen strong came on board with this stuff And some others down the road. We've seen this narrative Reach the point that now they're challenging title nine. They're challenging presumed female custody The mainstream a lot of places have shut their comments off because when they Produced their Ms. Andrick garbage attacking men people flood the comments condemning them So they've they've had to turn their comments off I've seen in the past. I would say 12 years That much of a shift it's been huge And it's been a pleasure to watch And it's been a pleasure to see feminists have to go on the defensive so much get back on the heels Because they were at the time that I started feminists were used to nothing. They said was challenged If they said it it was true and everybody bowed and everybody kissed the ring And complied with them and now that's not happening and it's not happening that women are finally starting to speak up against this bullshit And so it's been an absolute pleasure. It's been hard sometimes. I've been It's not fun seeing your name in print so many times When people are attacking you But that's part of the that's part of the price Yeah, I was going to actually pull the splc which I consider a hate group themselves They call you a male supremacist and some other guys we know And uh, what are your thoughts on the splc labeling you this to me is slander and information. I mean, it's fucking stupid It's my badge of honor Matter of fact, a couple of my buddies tom golden and another guy got together and got me a t-shirt and It says I got named a one-man hate group by the splc and all I got was this lousy t-shirt I revel in this this is the splc is a hate group They're a fraud group the all they do is con Old people from you know, who were coming of age and starting their careers in the late 60s And who are now a senior population? They're that's still their source of money. They're still Drumming up scare tactics to tell the people and now one of the scare tactics is the misogynists are coming for your children That sort of thing. So they're raising money on it. And I'm I mean, I'm fine with that It didn't bother me in the leads that they did it and I would have expected it because they are Liars and fraudsters. There's no doubt about it Yeah, yeah, you know, you mentioned a minute ago to um You know women speaking up against feminism and this feminist bullshit One of the things I wanted to mention, of course, is make woman great again, which we talked about earlier this year I love that that is just that is a stroke of genius Yeah, I fell in love with it as soon as I saw it the the slogan a long time ago Although I did find later that's to find malony who had done a video of the same title But it was more it's pretty strictly political. It wasn't designed to be kind of a cultural social shift But this reminds me too like, you know, you guys are seeing feminists or not not feminists But women speak up against feminism. I think in a more political realm So especially it relates to family law and things like that But this is a whole like cultural thing even uh, that's not too like I am, you know Much in favor of what you're talking about politically and legally, but it's also uh cultural and social It's anti thought culture. It's anti, you know hook up culture for women I think promiscuity is very bad for women It can be bad for men maybe too, but for women. I think it's pretty pretty horrible very fast And this is pushing against all that I think it's the first time ever and this is why the feminists are freaking out all year the beginning of the year Like we reached like 100 millions because it's the first time I think that women now Have something to grab on to and it's it's pretty positive It's like yeah, women were better before and now they kind of suck and we need to change that You know, we were talking earlier about the differences between christina hoff summers and janis fiamingo I could put that in a nutshell with this I know janis fiamingo reacted to that hat in a very positive way He thought it was great because she recognizes by the way that women do suck Uh in modern times for the most part they're defective And and they've outlived their usefulness in many ways and it's a very sad thing That's very sad for women and very sad for men. Um christina hoff summers, of course would hate that hat Well, you're right. I think you're right Oh, absolutely because her model of the world is still Men sacrificing for women and never questioning their authority in life and and never Challenging them to be better than than what they've become Um, I think it's a great hat. It's a great slogan and it's a great fight because this is understand Women are fucking miserable If when you look at all the research that's done on levels of happiness men are much happier than women Uh across the board even though men are objectively in worship I mean they die more frequently of suicide. They suffer depression alcoholism drug addiction All these social maladies impact men Much more than they do women yet. Men are happier than women Go figure Women are suffering and miserable Because they've been infantilized for the past 50 years and when you infantilize somebody they're never going to be happy And feminism is the primary driver of that in your opinion, yeah I think feminism is the primary driver of that But I also think that we have a big strong streak in the conservative community that still deifies women and And is quick to kiss, but Let's talk about that because the next one I wanted to pull up article It's from actually a marriage and family therapist. I believe susanne venker And it's a pretty great article and she was criticizing tommy loren who is a conservative. I think a fake conservative kind of fake maga thought Uh, I think she's 28 years old now. So she's pushing 30 and as you probably know She went on a 30 minute rant the other day on instagram or something And actually the title of it is tommy loren's anti men's screed demonstrates why dating is dead This is written by a woman. Yes. Yeah, i like her. She's another one of the Precious few that are are very very worthy of attention Yeah, but talk to me about what your thoughts on uh, tommy loren and the state Like she's saying or the state of modern dating and why it's why it's dying I mean tommy loren is uh, I think she's fairly attractive. She's not ugly obviously I think I think people saying she's gorgeous. It's pretty over. It's just makeup She is fairly attractive in a sort of uh, fox news rubber stamp News at female news anchor kind of way They they all look kind of alike to me Use a term. Uh, she's perfect for the fox news cameras and what have you On the other hand, she is 28 and by god in the entertainment industry where tommy loren is 28 is the wall 28 is when you're you're used by date is starting to collect some dust And I don't think it's any coincidence that she's hit that age in life And that what she came out with in this ridiculous screed against men Seemed more like a petulant 14 year old who was angry because a boyfriend didn't act the way she wanted him to And that seemed to just ooze out of her commentary for the whole time. It was a 14 minute and 58 second taylor swift song And that's it I think she shot herself in the foot with this and I think That the fact that she shot herself in the foot with this is definitely a sign of the changing times Of what you're talking about this pushing this cultural narrative in a different direction Five years ago Everybody would have been bowing at her feet Yep for doing this and and saying you go girl You really tell those men they need to man up and grow up And be more like what you want because that is the world that tommy loren grew up in that was the narrative of her life And I think she just got a very rude awakening That That isn't the world anymore and and baby you ain't all of that I'm gonna offer a ticket a press ticket press pass to the make woman great again convention She needs it and she probably will hate it and reject it. We have other major news coming out. Washington examiner Vice news wants to come up and I'm kind of telling them to fuck off Buzzfeed, you know, she'd like that But I would let tommy come because she needs it. I mean she needs to be in the audience It's never mind covering it but she won't come it's why I hate it and gets her screaming about it on facebook or something Well, I'd like to add something to sweeten the pot with that anthony I I happen to be very willing to counsel errant women Back into their appropriate role and I'll offer her three free sessions If she'd like to talk with me About how to shape up and and make herself a little more attractive On every level to men in this world. So that's three, uh, free sessions and mansplaining essentially Yes, absolutely, which is exactly what tommy laren needs. I agree completely Yeah, women women love mansplaining and they need it, you know, absolutely Um, it's a big joke that we've been doing with the 22 convention to make women great again event But that's why I made the first event all male speakers because I knew Uh, a would trigger the feminists, you know, royally, but also that's deeply what women need in america And canada on the west they haven't had that all the men and the fathers and the uncles and the grandfathers They've been shouted down and shut out and screamed at and told that they're toxic and evil So that they don't have those conversations anymore tommy never got, you know A very positive masculine influence in her life And now she's just screaming about bullshit against men on the internet like she's hot shit and she's perfect and Quite the opposite. It's true internally. She's very, uh She's decent looking on the outside and inside just pretty ugly And you know with a a change in personality, she would be a lot more attractive than she is I think that's one of the things that a lot of people don't recognize about men Is it okay? Yeah, we are geared for physical attraction That's what our you know, our first instinct is to go toward what is physically attractive to us But if a woman is a bitch if she's just, you know Absolutely unusable as a human being and not worth much She loses her attractiveness Uh, she will actually when I watched Tommy laren do that rant against men She was less attractive at the end of it than she was at the beginning And you want to run away. He's one guy The wayfarers on the head didn't help her In the end. She still looked like a conceded Entitled princess that is basically having a temper tantrum because she didn't get her way Yeah, she's a brat and so you would say that we need to make Tommy laren great again. Basically. Yes, absolutely And she could be a great asset. I mean she's not You know ready for prime time in many ways politically as much as some of her peers I've I've saw her when she was doing purely political commentary. She's a little rough. She could use some polish Be a little bit smoother, but she had potential And she still could do a good job But she's going to have to get knock the chip off of her shoulder And the halo off of her head that she imagines is there. That's not Yeah Let's shift gears a little bit Our good friend Steve berlet at studio berlet He did some videos recently on getting to know blm black lives matter specifically the organization The formal one that think has the website versus the larger kind of Disorganized movement around it which are interrelated obviously He did some great videos on that everyone watching should go check those out on his channel asap There's some of the best I've seen by far But I would do want to get your opinion paul your personal opinion What do men and fathers need to know regardless of their ethnicity or race about blm? What have they not maybe seen the mainstream news even in fox news for example and bright part and stuff like that What do they need to know? Well, I think as far as black men and fathers are concerned, especially black fathers What you need to know about blm is that you don't exist It's written right into their charter that you do not exist They mention mothers. They mention parents. They mention children And they mention families not a mention anywhere of fathers. They have been intentionally omitted from the conversation in view of the marxist model of families which is to strip masculine leadership out of the home Give women the illusion of power in the home and some real power And basically tear down the family unit With that as a vehicle that's been the marxist approach since the 1930s When they were calling soviet women to come out of the oppression of the kitchen and enter the factories Alongside the working class Um And it it didn't work out Yeah We said the old soviet union for a reason Because it didn't work out Um, and and this won't work out what we see happening in Almost all the maladies affecting black families and the black culture in america Almost all of it is rooted back to stripping men out of the home Yeah Every last bit of it and and removing their authority From the home and we've gotten to the point now where even the idea of two men sitting here talking about the importance of male authority in a home is Tremendously taboo and to be avoided at all costs. It is exactly the antidote to what's happening What we're seeing with black lives matter what we see with with antifa and all these other radical fringe groups This is all a fatherless generation. This is what fatherlessness breeds and We should be paying attention to this and doing something about it Yeah, I agree 100% You know as soon as the as soon as the uh, the riots popped off in Minneapolis I immediately kind of called it the fatherless rebellion We even did an episode of the show called the father's rebellion with a larger panel and yeah, I agree whether it's in teeth or bile Um, uh, it's all just these fatherless emasculated boys Regardless of how they're acting out and how they look and where they're from It's all the same crap and none of them have strong present fathers or any fathers at all And whether that's because the the guy left or because the mother chased him away or the courts chased him away Or you know, whatever happened with with all that stuff Yeah, it's a huge I don't I don't think you could find a single antifa member A male member who had a or a female member for that matter who had a strong relationship with their father I don't think those are if they do exist. They're anomalies Uh, they're they're just the exception to the rule what we see Is a bunch of fatherless kids acting out They're angry They don't know why and of course when you take fathers away from children you get angry adults out of that They grow up bitter they grow up disappointed because this huge hole that's been left in their life that nobody even acknowledged was there And was telling them. Oh, this is good You didn't need him anyway And so they grow up into angry adults and you give them a chance to express that anger even though they're not aware consciously of what It's all about Then you see when you see these rocks being thrown Fire bombs cities burning in flames What i'm looking at is a bunch of kids acting out the anger from the absent fathers in their lives Yeah, yeah, it's this madness, man Uh, I did want to mention so I did want to bring up you mentioned, uh, the BLM being anti father and omitting fathers from the conversation explicitly in writing In a very Orwellian kind of way because like you said they mentioned mothers and parents And then basically the male version of a parent is just conveniently omitted We couldn't do that. Um, you couldn't do that on accident. I mean it's on purpose Oh, absolutely. Well the the women these are lesbian feminists that founded BLM I mean make no mistake about it and their marxists They have told the world that they are proud acclaimed marxists and that that's their You know, they've examined all different political philosophies and that's the one they settled on And then you get them out on the streets. I think it was just yesterday telling Anybody who cared to listen that the looting and the destruction was reparations Wow Yeah, and this was a BLM leader on television saying I don't care if they loot I don't care if they destroy property if they're taking something It's going to help them eat and they're owed it anyway Uh, you see children raised with fathers One of the things fathers do is they instill discipline in children and a sense of empathy Without the father You have unempathetic children and we have a crisis In lacking empathy. You have to totally lack empathy to be able to rationalize that hey If I break your storefront window and steal your life's work In the form of all the merchandise in your store and I wreck your business I don't have to feel anything for you. I can just say this is Reparations. Well, it's because burning and looting is mostly peaceful. Didn't you hear Paul? Oh, yes. Yes, of course It's very peaceful looting and burning They certainly didn't mean any harm by that But yes, and now their leadership is out there saying this is morally just To pave in this way You don't get people who had intact families with fathers in the home That grow up to become adults that say burning down your business and stealing all your property is morally just That doesn't happen Molotov's for peace, man. Yeah, that's absolutely right. Um, and I'm Fear more of this is coming Yeah, yeah, I think uh, I think trump's gonna gonna win even in For a number of reasons even considering all the fraud and the potential problems and the the democrat garbage That manipulations and shit And I think what's gonna happen then is november 4th or some day in november or december There's gonna be a huge wave a second wave of peaceful burning and looting Oh, yes, I think no matter who wins and I agree with you. I think trump will probably win I I I think that they're the democrats are killing themselves in swing states right now with the policies that are You know ending fracking and and supporting antifa and and BLM I don't think all this is going to play well with Uh, undecided voters in swing states, and I think that'll probably get trump the election But I think regardless of who's elected We're going to see an explosion of violence right after the election In the street I've been gearing up man Even Florida's been pretty good with a lot of this with the exception of like major cities like miami and tampa Orlando's had almost nothing and that's like one of the biggest cities in florida So I think I'll be fine But even so I'm not taking my chances and me and a lot of guys. I know have been really preparing for something like that Absolutely And you should be We moved I mean Nearly four years ago now We moved out of houston Uh to southwest virginia best best decision I could have ever made in my life when we came here To visit before we bought a home 2016 election Was uh, it was leading up to the 2016 election and it was wall to wall trump signs around here And we said here's the spot nice I did want to ask you before move off blm so they they specifically attack I think the western patriarchy they call it or western patriarchal institutions blah blah blah And even today I've even seen in florida. There's a state rep. She's like the florida miniature aoc we call her I forget her name. It's some some weird name And total total feminist loser Very aggressive feminist loser. She's about my age 29 and 30 a little bit younger but barely And she talks about smash and the patriarchy like a lot of feminists do she's a state rep. I mean, she's a elected official I mean on one hand that's just fucking delusional because it's like we don't have a patriarchy Odd to me that's obvious. We haven't had one in my lifetime And even several decades before that there has not been a patriarchy. If not 100 years now But what do you think and what should men when men hear of smash the patriarchy even today? What does that really mean? Is it it's there? I mean since especially since there is no Attack and disempower men. That's all it means. It's there is you're right. There is no Patriarchy, I mean there was a patriarchy at one time but just in the sense that You know property was handed down from fathers to sons and names were kept in in in men and to that extent Yeah, there was a a patriarchy, but it it didn't mean much more than that There there was if there was a real patriarchy But the feminist definition which is a system that oppresses and abuses women And for the betterment and for the benefit of men There would have never been feminine feminism It would have never been allowed to emerge if the if the society was structured the way feminists claimed it would These bitches would be in jail Or something like that. Of course, it's it's nonsense. It never existed It never has not in the way that they've defined it and all they have is this poor substitute, which means Find anywhere men have freedom or empowerment in their lives and seek to destroy it The the the family is just one area Look at the ways that women have encroached into to men's sphere with banning all male, you know country clubs Ending that ending any form of male space they can find while creating an expanding female space, which is exactly What has happened? That's what's going on and nothing else their idea of smashing the patriarchy is just a power grab That's all it's kind of a euphemism then you would say for smash men smash fathers smash family male power completely Absolutely. Good way to put it. That is exactly what it is euphemism for destroying men Yeah, yeah reminds me of the old, uh, I think george carlin comedians talk about euphemisms a lot and just It's a term I heard when I was very young and I was like this is like a huge euphemism for just smashing Very positive things like the nuclear family and fatherhood and all these things Yeah, that's what here's a little bit back to politics one more time. I did remember what I wanted to ask you So this you know, this is a some website of the conversation whatever there's talking about, you know, kamala and the vp pick and all that Um, but the image here is very striking that it has all these potential vp candidates It's all women all trying to vie and of course kamala ended up getting it for the vp position for the democratic party Would you say the democratic party a major political party in america is fundamentally anti man at this point? Absolutely. Are you kidding me? I mean and with their hypocritical about it, too I think it's it's it's just hugely ironic and in a very hysterical way That the anti man pro woman party Still had to get an old white guy to lead the ticket Uh, it's almost like their behavior is so ingrained They couldn't even come up with a female candidate They they did in 16 and of course that ended very badly for them because because their attitude was any moment Yeah, you know just one imaginable Absolutely picked the worst candidate you could possibly come up with uh, one of the uh, just Disgraceful dishonest horrible human being uh that hillary clinton is and of course she lost Yep Yeah Yes, it was I was the the the liberal tears after that election were very entertaining and i'm Hoping and anticipating that the 2020 election will come out the same way because I think they're going to be even more enraged Yeah but Yeah, it's uh It's crazy the they Are the female party So to speak led by an old white guy Yeah, yeah, it's like a female supremacist party really and that's what anti man comes down to it means elevating women above men at the expensive men And that's that's exactly what they did with the vp thing I mean they excluded a man any man whether he was white asian black whatever Based on the fact that he had a white chrome zone at dick and balls that excluded him from the potential that's like it's soup It's very bigoted like Yes, it is and I think what's really funny to me though Is that you know are I fully believe that if they had a decent female candidate This time around to put out there. I think they would have done it But what they've got is this large pool of women and all of them suck All of them They're no talent in there No capacity to run to to be the leader of the free world Are you kidding me val dem I think uh, the tulsi gabber chick was slightly less offensive than the other ones But they but she hated you know, they hated her and she hated them because she was not going with the narrative She was kind of you know being more combative And tulsi gabber was the only one in the field that really did exude some competence Some some good bearing about her Again, I don't agree with a lot of her politics But the way she's conducted herself the way she challenged Uncomfortable truths in the democratic party the way she just comported herself Did speak of leadership and she has military background and and and all this She could have done something the democrats didn't want a real female leader Yeah Yeah, I didn't get the feeling either that she hated america with the other ones I just feel like I was like yeah, this person just hates america male or female with her. I didn't get that vibe What the democrats want is a winer in chief And tulsi gabber wasn't going to fit that bill So they got rid of her and the women that could couldn't measure up the the population didn't want them And it's going to force the democrats to contend with one very basic fact that they may not like very much People men and women both want male leaders Yeah Yeah, I know that I've thought about a lot for the for any presidential candidate that the end of the day They're very different from any other elected official because they're an executive civilian command of an entire military The most powerful military in the world and men don't follow women not well and we don't we It's very unnatural like when in history have men done that There's no behavior pattern and 300 000 years of human history where men are really following women like that You have queens along the way and some things but it's it's unusual and the queens are violent. They go crazy and they Yes, they start wars and And do all kinds of crazy things and you say that men don't follow women And there's a reason for that because women don't know how to lead a lot of them I would say most of them. They really don't know how to lead. You hear this complaint from feminist all the time saying Well, when a man is strong And in charge he's considered a good leader when a woman is strong and in charge She's considered a bitch and they complain about this double standard and perception It's wrong The problem is is that so many women don't know the difference between being a leader and being a bitch They think it's the same thing It's not the same thing It's a when you're leading you take a very different posture than just Barking out orders and telling people what to do, you know people don't want somebody like martha stewart running the free world They just don't And until women if women want women leaders They better start waking up to this that they're not going to be leading anybody Women don't want to work for women And women don't want to follow women and there's reasons for that and it's uncomfortable to talk about those reasons But not talking about them doesn't mean they doesn't they don't exist Those reasons were there and if you if you don't like it ladies look I get it. You want your shot at running something. That's fine Prove you can run something prove you can be a leader. Don't just stand up and say because i'm a woman That's not going to cut it. Well paul. You got to believe all women. Obviously if they have a vagina, they tell the truth all the time Yes, I've noticed I notice that they're right all the time too Not not just truthful, but they're correct. It's right And we can only just recognize that and and bow in our admiration Yeah, I like the way you put that that they conflate essentially leader and bitch And really that that's just a polite way of saying that they're conflating leader and dictator They like a bitch is basically a little miniature dictator that nobody likes male or female It wants to be a hang out with a bitch all day or follow the leadership of a bitch nobody They're cairns What can I say they didn't make that word up out of the blue That this concept of the the officious capricious woman that barges in and demands to see the manager and get her way That's So often what women claim is female leadership And they don't understand all it does it's off-putting It makes people disgusted and it makes them not respect you and leaders Have to have respect I wanted to ask you let me pull this up real quick We'll pull this this would be fun. So what are your thoughts on I view as a I don't I don't think it's uh super important But I think it's interesting to look at and it could be important There seems to be kind of a little miniature civil war occurring in feminism And I think caren is kind of part of that they seem to be ostracizing the white Feminists out of the feminist movement and jk rallying speaking out against uh trans stuff And in defense of women and in her view Uh, I think is maybe a part of that So do you have any thoughts on any kind of feminist civil war? They have internally going on between the white feminists and the black feminists or all kinds stuff like that Oh, I think it's emerging. Um, certainly I don't know if the caren phenomena is a part of that it it may be but I do know that Feminist of color God, I hate that term, but I'm I'm gonna say it just for reference site. They're feminist of color Want white women to shut up and get out of the way? They're making that that very plain And they're basically cannibalizing each other in a sense, right? Sure And I again, I think it's eventually what it's what happens with all Marxism eventually you eat your own Uh, that's that's what's going to happen. And I'm fine with uh enjoying the show I mean, that's that's a reason to make popcorn You guys go after, uh, you know men love cat bites So, uh, I'm like, come on, let's bring it on Let's get a Texas death match going and put them in the ring Uh, I'm all for it. It's very entertaining to watch the feminists beat each other up and stuff. Yeah, it's good I mean, it's a very nasty movement. It's very disgusting And I think it's very evil and wrong and it needs to end And it's yeah, if it helps it along that's some for it, you know so Uh shifting gears a little bit. I had a more uh kind of practical question for you What would you say to and I'm sure you have some thoughts on this What would you say to young men today? Say millennials and even older, uh, you know, gen z men What would you say to the young men who want to build families today in america and in canda in the west? I would say first thing you need to do is get a mentor And and by that I I don't mean somebody to tell you how to live or to treat teach you a trade But to find somebody A man a few years older than you at least who has an investment in your life To have a connection with I mean, it's just that simple One of the Things that feminism has destroyed in this culture and that that men allowed to be destroyed Was the whole art of mentoring Of older men teaching younger men How to take care of themselves how to succeed in the world that sort of thing That's been a lost art And for any young man approaching all the decisions you're going to have to make about like marriage and dating and career And and everything else that goes into it You're when you're talking to millennials gen z gen y You're generally talking to young men who are part of a fatherless generation And this is why the the mentoring is is so important And it doesn't even matter if they actually were some of the few that had their fathers and families intact Their culture their peers all are part of a fatherless generation And they're disconnected and they're angry and I get it, you know It was on men of my generation and my father's generation to stop this bullshit from happening and we didn't Um And so I totally get it when a young man looks at a guy of my age and says I don't have a You know, he's like, okay bloomer. I don't have a a thing. I want to listen to from this guy Can't blame him. You know, they've been disappointed along every step of the way but If they can get past that they're going to get a lot of benefit out of some sort of connection with an older man Who's been through some of the ropes? um And also I mean one of the things I got to say don't get married Yeah, not until they fix, you know And this is where you know somebody and I guess we'll get into a few minutes of the migtail thing This is where some of the migtail really take exception to my work and to what mra's do They're saying we're just trying to get the plantation Tied it up so that men can walk back on it and if that is that of course is utter bullshit um What we're what we're trying to do And let me just say this from a personal perspective if you've got a problem with me trying to improve the lives of men a little bit I don't give a shit What we're trying to do is give men reasonable options And those reasonable options when it comes to marriage are not there yet. They need to fix the system first They need to make it so that you're not, you know, if I said anthony tell you what let's go in this casino bring all your money And you've got a 50 50 chance of walking out of here dead broke You wouldn't do it That's exactly what marriage is You know, I have a interesting so my next question was going to be on actually you've hit the nail in the head It was your general thoughts on migtail the movement in the community Which is in my opinion operating parallel Within the mannosphere as another kind of tribe two men's rights to the pickup artists and even to the right pill community It's the four tribes Yeah Well, and to me, I would also like to call it four reactions The men's movement if we want to talk about a movement happens in different ways Men are reacting To feminism the effects of feminism and the effects of gynocentrism on their lives and own this society some men react to it by Going the pua route and being a lot more calculated about their their interactions with women Some men Shwear off women some men try to work to make things better for men in the legal sense We're all In one way or another reacting to the reality on the ground between men and women And that's basically risk and threat assessment to feminism is what you're saying. Absolutely Absolutely, right and some guys choose different ways to express that now when it comes to migtail individually It's it's wisdom I I really do see it as wisdom. I mean, uh, of course it depends on the degree And I I've had a lot of disagreements with some guys in the migtown community One because if you're ideological Shit, I don't I don't even want to hear it Ideology is part of the problem. I don't go for Mininism or or anything like that If you're either they're kind of married to the ideas and they're not they're no longer active minded to talk and then debate Exactly when a guy says The only way to survive is to swear women off entirely That's where his mind is and he's full of shit In my book I'm in a relationship for 18 years and I'm sitting here happy and healthy I know many others that have done the same thing Your claim that there's no such thing as a successful relationship long term is wrong It's absolutely an error Yet there are guys out there who Swear adamantly that no man can ever survive the gauntlet Of relationships And that's that's actually it's factually incorrect. There's the minority of relationships that do work Absolutely, and there's but I think you have to be realistic enough To recognize that you are not in the majority if you have a long term Working relationship and that there are characteristics that men must have or should have Going into it like boundaries And their own values that they're going to live by and they're not going to sacrifice for a piece of ass I think a lot of the guys that are what I call Ideological mig towel are guys that never found out How to keep themselves intact? They're powerless with women Which is to say they're very gynocentric And so for them the only way they can survive is to shut off women entirely Yeah, and I have a personal I have a personal anecdote Yeah, I think you'll find pretty interesting that you were partly influential to So there's a story on youtube a speech I gave called marrying medusa how to survive a female psychopath Is a speech I gave back in 2016 actually in uh, june At one of my conventions for young men actually we have a young men's version too We don't do it that often but sometimes And it was my two hour speech on my experience of accidentally or not accidentally but unknowingly marrying a bpd hooker Uh crazy chick super bpd come over to I think with other you could say other disorders probably That's us armchair psychoanalyzing of course. I'm not a professional But she was she was a hidden prostitute an escort for a long time All kinds of shenanigans people can look it up on youtube But even though we were In a sense married for two years and had dated for two and a half years prior to that I did not get legally married Specifically because of the horror stories I heard in the pickup artist community Which are very similar to men's rights guys would come into the pickup community Because they went through a nasty divorce. They lost their ass with child custody They lost their ass with a divorce rape And they would come in and tell these stories alongside. Hey, I want to get better with women I'm back on the dating market things like that I had that experience as a young pickup artist 17 18 19 20 years old I then was aware of the spearhead. I was interviewed by the founder I was reading some of your work and the men's rights, uh, you know websites and things And then on top of that I was a very big fan of ron paul congressman ron paul And his son ram paul who were the only senators and politicians I knew that were Philosophically opposed to the government getting involved in marriage. They were advocates of what they called private marriage And because of this combination of forces you the spearhead men's rights pickup artist You know horror stories, essentially the divorce rape And then even a political angle to it as well like government should just get out of marriage period He just fucks it all up. Amen Well, so I ended up marrying this chick sort of but I didn't get legally married and that was the plan going in And I refused to him that she was not happy about this initially of course But I was like I want to build a family, uh, you know, I love you all these things But I'm never going to get legally married not to you or any woman because the system is fucked up Four men specifically, but even more broadly. It's just fucking stupid that the government's involved. They don't do anything cause problems here Other than maybe contract enforcement if you had a contract to enforce and that's it that to me is the only role So at 24 years old I concocted this idea of a private marriage in my own style And I looked up the laws of common law marriage and things like that to avoid it So I wouldn't get roped into that either and we had a wedding families came out Uh, we had a honeymoon in hawaii. We traded rings She even legally took my last name went to the courthouse called the paperwork all that shit So and all and all social senses, uh, we were married minus the marriage The marriage certificate the marriage license And that of course ended up protecting me, you know massively especially in florida with lifetime alimony All these are the problems that could have occurred And it was very controversial even then a lot of uh, even in the man's sphere people were kind of curious about it But more supportive, you know, the more general uh, the general population My family was very, you know, very opposed to it. I had to tell them Basically, you know, be okay with it or piss off Like this is not this is not a debate because I knew from reading the spearhead and you know, the pickle part of stuff I was like, this is just fucked. It doesn't matter if she's the best woman in the world There's no purpose to her having this marriage license in me It doesn't do anything to bring the government into my life in my home Anything positive anyway, it's just stupid So I think that's a pretty good option for young men today in america if they Can do it in the state they live common law marriage is a big problem in some states, but not too many Yeah, I think a continuation of what I said would have said when with your question What would you tell young men after getting a mentor get a lawyer? Yeah Find out the laws in your state where you live or province where you live or whatever area you live in the world Find out exactly what it takes for you to end up being considered de facto marriage By the law because there's some places you live with somebody for a few months And then turn around and file for divorce other places you have to meet a bunch of other criteria That are very deliberate. And so it's much easier to stay unmarried. I've made it a point 18 years in the same relationship. I'm not getting married It's just not going to happen and I I totally agree with the the libertarian approach to that And it was really interesting because you know, I had a bunch of conservatives angry at me back in the day over My reaction to the idea of gay marriage Which was You know, I think it's stupid to allow the state to license a marriage to begin with I mean, I think that your problem starts before it comes to gay marriage The problem is legally sanctioned marriage. Yeah, why are you allowing the state to license your relationship? Yeah, the government is a giant bureaucratic machine. What benefit does it bring? The only thing I should do is enforce a contract if you have one written and that's it and signed Absolutely if you have a Considered a contract if you have one written the state does have a valid purpose in there To regulate contracts But the fact of the matter is you're crazy to want the state Involved in your life in that way. Anyway, because guess what guys The woman in most every case is temporary We don't have to we don't have to like it But you have to accept that the numbers say that there's no such thing or there's very rarely You grow old and you both die within a few days of each other at 95 That doesn't happen for the most part. The woman will go away But the state will be there forever Because you're not really marrying a woman. You're marrying the state You're inviting the state to go in and regulate that part of your life And just when you think about it, it makes no sense. I wasn't worried about gay marriage Destroying the sanctity of the man-woman relationship They started destroying the sanctity of the man and woman relationship the moment they allowed the government To intervene and regulate those relationships And then things like no fault divorce just just put salt on a wound. It's got worse and worse and worse Absolutely. Thank you ronald reagan for that actually Again, we get you know, I've definitely leaned conservative in many ways, but The conservatives are are not any Any more of a friend to men Than liberals are and it's important to know that We have the exception of donald Yeah, he's a fun one did we have a question here from super chat ray patson. Thank you for the looks like australian five dollars I appreciate that I like migtab but practically as i'm getting older i'm feeling more loneliness I want to ask paul about what having woman partner as for company tips Absolutely Don't ignore your feelings The fact of the matter is that human beings are not wired to fly solo And I know there's going to be a guy in the audience says I am okay. I'm not questioning you dude I'm sure that you're just fine living in a cave without another human being around you for the rest of your life I'm sure you're great that way But guess what? 99.9 of the human race is not wired that way. We are wired to uh co-habitate We are wired to pair bond as A species it's there's no getting away from that and for most men You will have something missing in your lives if you're single in perpetuity Again, there's going to be exceptions to that. I'm sure But the fact of the matter is You want that your that loneliness is telling you there's an incomplete part of your life The challenge is in who you connect to and how What boundaries you bring into that what values you bring into that because if your value is I'll just take any woman as long as she'll have me That's how guys end up under rocks and how they end up going migtail Because they go into the relationship with my standard is will she sleep with me and let's face it guys That's the standard for a lot of men Am I attracted to her and if I am if i'm attracted to her and she's attracted to me the screening ends right there I think you just subscribe tommy lauren's entire instagram following All these thirsty thirsty beta males. Yeah Yes, anything to for even for the illusion why you see so many white knights on the the internet They come in to rescue the maiden because it makes them feel this much closer to her That's what they want. Well, guess what you don't have to do it that way. You can have standards I told my partner at the very beginning of our relationship that if I had 10 million dollars in the bank I wouldn't finance a relationship That if she wanted to be with me she would have to bring her purse I went through about 20 women Before that and as soon as they heard that line, they were like, thank you. But no, thank you I'm sorry for a wallet to rape. Bye. Yes, and and I was like good. Bye. See you And then I I was persistent with my values and I finally said to one woman You have to show up with your purse and guess what she said. Of course I did I have a job. I don't want you to carry all the weight. We'll share this son bingo 18 years later I'm still with her because I wouldn't tolerate anything less than that Yeah Final kind of closing out here. Um, so you mentioned boundaries and things like that and I think you're kind of hinting at toxic relationships That men get into and I think you've done some videos on the subject that do you have any thoughts on? Uh specific let's say this. Do you have any thoughts on the relationship between bpd chicks cluster b women with personality disorders and feminism like as feminism as a cultural force enabled toxic behaviors and malicious behavior even in a sense so the relationship between cluster b disorders and women and feminism Well, yeah, and to really expand on that a little bit more there's a correlation between The indices of cluster b and personality disorders and just being female in in modern culture Borderline traits and women are commonplace you the entitlement the histrionics the willingness to engage in Exaggerated drama in order to get their way The use of false allegations in order to get their way or to punish or to Make excuses for their own behavior. This happens all the time, but to more directly answer your question. Yes You you can put the characteristics of feminist and their behavior on a page And set that next to the diagnostic and statistical manual of mental disorders Definition of borderline or or narcissistic personality or histrionic personality and you're going to see I'm lying up Right straight down the column Feminism is a mental disorder And it is in there with the personality disorders. There's no doubt in my mind That it is the codified Personality disorder. That's what feminism is Yeah, it's well put feminism is a mental disorder It's like it's like the it's like the personality disorder of an entire couple generations of women, though And it's unique. It's unique to the west, you know, it's most it's a lot less prevalent I think in eastern europe the parts of south america And I've been I spent a month in poland last year for our convention. We held there in warsaw And then I went to the other city there. They're uh, basically the cultural capital They call it krakow krakow in the south and feminism there is so much less prevalent. It's beautiful Uh, the women there make fun of feminism. They saw my hat and they would ask me like are you a feminist? You know, is it getting accusatory kind of stance? I was like, no, not not even a little bit and like, okay Yeah, feminism and we talk about how stupid it is. I mean, that's commonplace conversation you can have there You're talking about central europe there poland check republic Hungary all these areas that know marxism very well that know where marxism goes They tend to be non-feminist And it's because feminism is a is an offshoot of marxism There's not really any distinction between the two and they still have a cultural memory there in central europe For what happens, which is, you know dead people and things like that Ultimately, that's what happens with marxism Yeah gulags firing squads gas chambers famine starvation tyranny totalitarianism Just mass. Yeah misery. It sucks. It's amazing that communism is still as popular as it is. It's worse than nazism Yes, it is Here's a comment from a viewer. Paul should be in charge of the new feminist studies that they teach in every university I'm in favor of that Well, that wouldn't last very long because paul would dismantle all the feminist studies in every university Uh, we shouldn't be funding. I mean, we're in a crisis now 1.3 trillion dollars of student loan debt 70 of it is women With bullshit gender studies degrees who can't get jobs and pay back their student their student loans Yeah, thank you again for the super trade here from sydney mc sydney mctaugh paul's video daddy's little nightmare details a significant part of the problem we have now Is that on your channel? I haven't seen that. Uh, yes, that is on my channel and uh, also Um, it is on the regarding men website where i'm working now with uh janice friemmingo and tom golden But it is about the roles that fathers play in breeding entitlement Into their into daddy's little girl and this is it, you know feminism is a big problem It's huge and I don't want to distract from that for a minute But we also need to take a look at you take the average married man and I mean very average Who is pulling his own hair out? He's frustrated as hell with his wife because no matter what he does She can't be pleased. She's never happy with him. She always wants him to make more money She always wants him to do more for her It's never enough and he complains about it and says oh man. I'm married to this horrible woman But it's gonna cost me a fortune to divorce her. She never leaves me alone. She never Has no matter what I do. It's not enough and then he puts his four-year-old daughter on his on his lap And condols her and raises her to get a man just like daddy And it does all this with no cognitive dissonance whatsoever He instills in her the entitlement that he is suffering from in his wife He is the source of it Nothing is ever good enough for his little girl No matter what she wants all she has to do is climb up in his lap and wrap her little arms around his neck And she can have whatever she wants for her whole life And I don't even want to get into the Freudian implications of that kind of shit But all you got to do is think about it and you you end up in a dark alley Um And this is how men breed entitlement in women Is by treating their little girls like princesses every time I see a little girl with a princess Sparkly things and wearing the tiara and waving the the little staff I think oh man, eventually one day she will make some man so miserable. He may kill himself Yep, never mind and herself on top of that before that. Yeah And the end of the cycle of insanity, you know, it's interesting too the princess thing you're mentioning here I mean, I've seen that I know exactly you're referring to but now I'm not sure if you're aware of this probably But millennial women in particular I see an older gen z. They had this queen thing now Uh, they're queen hashtag queen this queen that on instagram They even even when the the pandemic the pandemic hit earlier this year They started saying uh, I'm a quarantine queen quarantine queen. Everything's queen queen queen queen And really that's it's a very to me. It's a very obvious, uh, just older version of a princess Sure. I mean the 80s they had had the for about 10 years there. They had the big goddess binge It was everything that was women who were goddesses and there were goddess groups and and and books written about your inner goddess Yeah You know that and other fairy tales Your inner demon Unicorn grows a second horn Absolutely Well paul, this has been a very pleasant conversation. I'm really happy you came on the show very much appreciate your time I've enjoyed it very much. I hope your audience enjoyed it. Uh, look forward to doing it again sometime Yeah, for sure And like I mentioned, we'd love to have you at the 21 convention in the future I know you can't make it this year, but we do it every year now 14 years in a row And that's always gonna be open for you. Let's try it next year. I'll see if I can make it I would love to do it. Yeah 21 convention in 2021 sounds good Everyone make sure you let me get just a one little pitch in here come visit us on regarding men.com We have set up now. We're doing Discussion groups seven days a week 90 minute groups For any man that wants to join us talking about the issues that anthony and I have just talked about other issues marriage divorce family parental alienation false accusations all those things And this is going on live right now seven days a week. So I want to invite everybody to join us if they want to Sounds good guys. Make sure you check it out regarding men.com. Sorry my hotel internet here is a little slow You can also Yeah, you can learn more from paul at paul elam.com He's also on youtube if you just type paul elam. I think you'll pull up his channel right away And the actual the title is an ear for men as the current title Last but not least make sure you check out the 21 convention.org get your tickets now Early bird sales still going on we are 47 days out from 21 summit super triple conference event We got one event for men one for fathers and one for women Whatever your whatever your demographic is we got you covered. We'll make you great again That's it paul. Thank you again for your time. I'm gonna end the broadcast And everyone else will see you next week on the show Thank you paul