 Hey y'all, I'm back. Okay. I know I was trying to test out that Google Hangout thing and as y'all can see This is why I use my phone because it's way better Quality than my computer Google Hangouts and That live stuff online. There's always a gurgling sound no matter what I try to do is always a gurgling sound so I Can never do it through there even with different laptops different computers desktop where I can never do it through there But you know, I have some issues and like me electronics, you know, we've got some issues Sometimes it just won't happen for me So I'm back see y'all can ask me a few questions before I retire for the evening Okay, so can y'all here? Okay? I'm back the old fashioned way Yes, this is the new Fenty y'all. This is the new Fenty Galaxy collection I was reviewing this on my makeup channel and I was trying to use Google Hangouts live to review it It probably was it probably sucks. I'll probably redo it with my other camera But this is the holiday collection the galaxy holiday collection by Fenty and And you look gloss and It's super glittery So I was just playing with some makeup That's why you see all this. Okay. When do you think it's safe to be vulnerable with a man? Never Does um, haven't you been watching this channel? How was your day my day is great Let's see How do you feel about asking a man out depends on how much money he has and if I have anything to lose You know, um, I Don't know because like for me It just depends. It's just not my style it works, but it's just not my style I Never I don't know. I never really had to ask anybody out. I Just usually give them a look and they come over and ask me out. So I don't know It just it just all depends it all depends but If the guy is not rich, I don't even think about it, you know If he's if he's not worth millions, I wouldn't ask him out I wouldn't risk that if he's worth millions and I see him looking at me. I know he wants to come over But for some reason he doesn't I'll walk by him and bump into him or something and give him the opportunity to ask me out I might flirt with him, but I'm not asking him out. He's gonna have to ask me out But I know a lot of the books That are out there says to ask them out And you know, that's fine, but that's just not my style. You know what I'm saying? I don't feel like I do I it will work for me. It might work for other women I don't feel like it would work for me in particular because The way that I carry myself and present myself is very different than a lot of the other women and well when I'm When I was there, but you know, I would make them think it was their idea to ask me I would put myself in their path directly and if they liked what they see Then I'm gonna want to let it go past them without asking them something, you know And so I'm not gonna be like, oh, do you want to go out sometimes? I'm just gonna give them the opportunity to ask me and if they don't well, I just smile and walk away But I would never I just can't do it. You know, that's just not me Um, but I know so many girls that do and they have really good luck with it. It's just not my style You know what I'm saying? Should I be angry that the guy I'm interested in won't plan my dates? Um, I don't think so because men aren't into that kind of stuff unless they're older like much older And experience and then probably have dated a lot and had a lot of and had a wife or something But you probably need to tell him what he need what you want to do You know what I'm saying you need to tell him what you want to do And if you agree great if he doesn't if you leave it up to him to plan he doesn't know what to do Either a he's too busy working. Uh, if he you know has some type of money or he doesn't care what y'all do And so he's not gonna put much effort and thought into it. Uh, so If he's willing to date you and he's got some money you go ahead and tell him what you want to do And he's just gonna go say, okay, let's do it. Yeah If you want him to make all the decisions and die, I'm gonna die and whatever whatever he suggests You don't like and you shoot him down Then you're probably gonna get like Okay, well you asked me so so just I always say what I want to do Because I don't want to sit there being bored With something he was wanting to do Okay What if they were want to be in a relationship and like less than a week make sure you get some relationship money with it too You know what I'm saying? Okay. Well if we're in a relationship You have to pay all my bills, you know, I don't date men who can't pay on my bill You know, then he might rethink that one Mm-hmm. Yeah Okay Yeah, guys don't like to plan make plans. That's one of the stuff that's like saying, okay, uh, go plan my wedding You make the plans Okay, that way, you know, you're gonna be happy You can plan out where you want to go eat is the next to a mall is the next to a luxury store Remember strategy ladies He might take you to mcdonald's Okay Um, how do I become strong man minded and less emotional and sensitive in every direction? Um decide to that's very easy. It's called a choice Decide to be more strong Decide not to take everything personally decide to make logical decisions decide to make decisions that's best for your future Uh in the long run, okay stop getting caught up because that is a choice You let yourself get caught up. Yeah um So it's a choice You choose it, you know, some people someone just oh, I just want to fall in love and I'm really when you invest too much at someone and you give them too much You can't help but to become um Emotional, you know what I'm saying, but if it's all up if you set it up with a goal like instead of Making him fall in love and the goal if the goal is to not have to work anymore It's not going to be like that. You're going to be like, okay My goal is accomplished. I don't have to work anymore. He's paying all my bills It's not like my goal is to get married and fall in love. No, you don't set it to goals like that Therefore you won't become emotional. Okay, you're more strategic and more logical like, um And so you're not attached emotional you're attached to the goal Then you make another goal once that goal has been reached. Okay Now i'm gonna see if he can get me uh this or a car or something like that. I explain this on another video You choose How you feel everything is free will Okay um How do you leave your broke boyfriend? For your man on the side that has money just break up. He's like bye. I gotta go. All right You're not doing enough for me or you know, just say, you know what? I think we've outgrown each other and you know There's things that I want to do that I want me to do if I'm with you And you know, I don't want to you know, resent you later on for not being able to have the life that I Think I should have so I think we need to just be friends, you know break up Tell the truth but do it in a nice way Um If a guy you are dating does something you don't like what's the best way to put him On time out if he's wealthy Just punish him by making you might making him buy more stuff You know just like okay. Well, I don't I don't want to see you um, but you know You can buy me this and send me that You know for the next time we go out. I really want this dress when I see you know Punish them by making them spend money It's like I'm not going out with you this week, but you know, I need a dress for next time I see you and this is how much it costs. This is where it is You can either order it for me and send it to me or put the money in my PayPal so I can order it Okay, because I really want to wear this dress the next time we go out So promise him a next time but make him pay for it extra with extra expensive Okay, um Let's see how are you Yes, we're going How long I don't do I don't like long distance relationships unless they're sugar daddy relationships And they're just giving you money and you see them every weekend. They fly you out every other weekend Okay, otherwise, I don't believe in real long distance relationships. I think they're silly And for commitment phobia people Sorry if you're in one, but it's they never work out unless someone moves Um, is it right to date a friend's ex if you don't if you want to keep the friend. No, it's not right Um, what if you find him in but you feel your friends are going to judge you If the man has money, I don't care. They're not going to be able to judge your bank account. It'll be like, oh, you know I don't care about people's Thoughts if you're happy then go with it. Who cares about what they think are they paying your rent? Are they going to put a ring on your finger? Are they going to, you know, make sure you have everything you need? Probably not. So who cares? You know, it don't matter to me who cares like that's why I'll hang around a lot of people and a lot of bunch of You know a bunch of girls because they're always going to have an opinion, you know Oh, and they probably gonna try to steal him if he has money So keep him away from him. Anyway, you know, don't ever bring your girls around Uh, you know a new guy or whatever Keep all that separate. Okay, but all that you'll learn the hard way. Um, but the whole thing is Their opinions should never even matter when it's business. Okay, if you're if you're trying to get this money, it doesn't matter, you know During a date how to get him to talk more if he keeps asking you about yourself We'll just tell him what you like about him Oh Well, you know, um, I really love, um, you know spending time with people. I was a good conversation like you Um, you know, I really like name some general stuff. You know, I really love music And going on vacation just name the general boring stuff and then throw one crazy thing in there. Okay Um like oh and I really love, you know Uh skinny dipping Have you ever skinny dipped and go into story time? Okay. Have you ever skinny dipped and you're like, whoa Well, I've always wanted to what's it like. Oh, it's so fun. It feels so free I did it when I was a teenager, you know wild and free and now he's picturing you naked swimming, you know, so The conversation is not going to get any deeper And he's not going to ask you any more crazy questions because now It's going to turn into more of a seduction talk, you know what I'm saying? So then you can start seducing him at that point So get it get get it off the blog conversation and get into seduction mode So he doesn't ask dumb questions that don't fit like where do you work or you know, where'd you go to school? Well, he's gonna be like, oh my gosh, you know, so Get it in like that Um She with my boyfriend's dad. It's rich, but he himself is an ambitious. What should I do go for the dad? If he's single or go get someone who is ambition, like I don't know how y'all get stuck with these guys with no ambition and call them your boyfriends I will be calling in my ex-boyfriend Like why are you still there? I don't understand. What are you loyal to? I don't understand how ladies can ask. How do I get out of this relationship? I'm with this broke guy. I just leave like most people do. You know, I'm like, you know what? I gotta go I'm too good for this You know, uh I can do I can do the same stuff by myself. I don't need you so You know, if you can't afford to live alone and you need his broke self Then don't leave but you know start saving your little money and then Replace them and then leave, you know what I'm saying? Because a lot of women will Start off as picnic chicks get their broke boyfriends Think that they have the best thing in the world and then they then they find my channel and now they want to change everything If you're doing that you must understand that To have this type of mentality you got to be able to cut stuff off quick and move on, you know Because if it's not benefiting you then It's a waste of time Okay How to ask him to buy you a phone If you only been talking you get to know each other for about two weeks, but I don't like him But I won't let money how long do I count it? Um Well, you promise him something that you'll never give him If he gets this phone for you That's what you gotta do just like they do, you know, just do what they do promise them something That they're never planning on doing to get what you want That's about it. You know very simple Okay What are some ways to make breakups? Okay, uh, how to get the guy to chase you It depends. Are you worth chasing? Okay, because a lot of women think that they're worth chasing and then they try to let the men chase them and they don't chase them because In their mind, you're not Chasable or you're not something that they want. So if you're something that they want are they and they're not chasing you, you know Men chase what they like So if the man's not chasing you, he's not that interesting. Okay, just letting you know If a man doesn't naturally chase you, he's not interested in you So move it along get another one Or become more seductive and sexy or something because men don't chase boring women Okay Okay I hate bars and clubs. I don't do online dating. How do I find someone? I'm attracted to but have a date in here um Well, you can go to like a nice restaurant. Like I always say and sit at the bar Like a nice steakhouse restaurant with valley parking upscale place Go sit at the bar or an appetizer and a drink or whatever Most guys who are single and wealthy will probably eat there You know or go there after work at happy hour or something So go try those places. You don't have to go to the club. You don't have to go. It's not really a bar if it's a restaurant You know and it's classy. It's valet. You're not going to have both men walking in because they can't even afford to park So make sure that you just put yourself in a higher Scale environment And you won't mind it so much, you know How can we be permanent be at highest self accepting vibration? Love yourself as you are and know who you are and know that you deserve the world, you know You have to believe it before anybody else will It's just a choice. That's all it is a choice. Everything is a choice And people don't realize it and it's so simple Okay How do you reinvent yourself to keep it interesting with makeup? fantasies roleplay whatever, you know Be creative, you know Um Do go to different places to try new foods just do everything different The same old thing is boring all the time, you know And the last video you were like there are certain cases where you'd be a picnic Well, I was saying if the man is widowed if he just lost his wife and he's missing the companionship of a wife There's a void that you can feel to remind him of what It's like to be with someone what he's missing So for example bring him a cup of coffee if y'all work together Or call him and ask him, you know, if he's doing okay. Does he you know, is he feeling okay today? You know, it's stuff that wise would do so that he could see you in that light But don't go the extra mile. You know what I'm saying? Don't pay no bills Don't try to cook for him or something like that Just do the nice things that wives do to check up on their husband during the day if they're a widow, okay That's the only that that's the exception Okay, because you're trying to feel a void and trying to put you into a spot that no one else could feel Okay Yeah, I know when I touch my phone screen it's loud if I touch if I don't touch it I can't read the comments and it's even worse if I go google hang out, so Couple you Let's see Okay Not sure if that was a comment or statement. Okay a question or what? Okay, well Let's see I'm trying to read a question Someone says read the obituaries in the newspapers to know which funerals to go to of widowers That's true. I said Go to funerals of old Widowers Uh, you know go to look you can see their house sometimes they give like the little thing at the house or like The funeral home or the church you can go an evil get some networking done I was a friend of the family You know Read the obituaries so you can know some detail So Can you still date him but don't get your emotions involved date him but remember Oh, someone else talking to someone else. Okay How not to act unclassy but get a lot of attention Look good If you're an attention getter Naturally People are going to be drawn to you, but if you have to act unclassy and ratchet Then it's not real attention. You know what I mean? It's not authentic attention It is attention that you've got being ratchet so You have it has to be it has to come through confident looks and Maybe your voice and you can have a distinct voice that sounds different than everybody else But still attractive You can be seductive in nature Um, but not Unclassy or slutty. You know what I mean? So it just depends on how You want it to come off and you can't be ratchet and get attention. And why would you want that type of attention? Men see those type of women as They will do anything to get attention So what what is she doing when she's not with me? Does she do like this everywhere? You know, we gotta kind of keep that in mind Okay so Oh, the who cares about the trolls y'all they they're always in full force. You know, they don't have nothing else to do You know what? So of course they're in full force. What if your man doesn't want? Want you then get another one Don't ask me silly questions like y'all don't know the answer if your man don't want you go get another man that wants you like It's that easy Y'all know the answer to that. I'm not gonna go say make a man want you if you don't want you You don't want you and go get another one Okay, would you ever text the guy first after a while? If you know, he got money and he used to text and stop because I was playing hard to get Um, I would do the accidental text like I was texting someone else and see if he texted that Then I would start a conversation like If I ever do anything first, it's gonna seem like an accident or like I didn't mean to or You know something like that. I'm never gonna deliberately text first. I'm gonna be like, oh, thanks for lunch yesterday I had a great time And send it to him by accident And then when they text back. Oh, what? Huh? I didn't we didn't have lunch. What are you talking about? Oh, I'm sorry. I sent this to the wrong person. Oh, you know, who is this like you deleted his number He's like, who is this? I'm like, I don't know. I asked you first Well, obviously I'm in your contacts. I don't know. I just have the number, you know, it's a similar number Oh, this is such and such. Oh, okay. Well I'm sorry. He's like, oh, so what have you been doing? You know started up like that do the accidental text. That's what I do I would never just say hi How to know if a guy wants to be with you when he asks you to be with you See women aren't women keep looking for signs and clues instead of listening to what he says In actions, but if he says I don't want to be in a relationship with you If he asked if he has not asked you to be in a relationship with you if he has not made Actions to be in a relationship with you then he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you There are no signs and clues and hints if he didn't say it and he didn't ask you then don't assume it Okay Until you hear it until he says it until he makes action towards Stop looking for stuff and clues and hints and birds and trees and leaves and stuff in the sky Trying to make sense of this. He really want me if when he asks you and tells you that you're the one he wants That's how you know, okay? Okay, stop trying to figure it out with astrology and stuff like that because When I when I when I say that it means men are very simple creatures They're not going to beat around the bush. They're going to tell you they want you or they're not You know, they'll leave that door open so they can slide in whenever they feel like it and slide back out when they're done Okay, so if they don't come to you directly and tell you look I like you you're the one for me I want to be with you. Let's get this thing going. I'm not afraid to commit your mind I'm yours. That's how you know In the beginning of a relationship They will respect you. They're not going to rush into anything with you If they're serious about you if they're trying to rush, they're not serious Okay, so if you have someone rushing, they're not serious. They want you for one reason and once they get it They're gone. That's why I always say make them invest in you first before you give anything away anything So if they're not trying to rush you into something real quick tell you a bunch of crap to fill your head up So you can give it up quick. They're probably serious about you if they're taking their time with you. You know what I'm saying? Um, so that's how you know So When I get a number should I call who? Who should call who first the man or the woman? We do know the answer to this. Okay Exchange numbers make sure he has your number. Okay, and If he calls you first, that's how it's supposed to be. You don't call him He's the man You know what I'm saying? Unless he says call me if you need something Then you call him and say hey Remember when we met you said call you if you need something while you need something Okay Don't call him to ask him. I don't call him to be all googly good I call him if he says call me if you need something that means I need something when I'm calling And I'm going to get something but always let them call or text first So What if a guy keeps holding back to come see you or meet up and he trope and he tells you to blow his snapchat And you do but he never does to blow It probably means he's cat fishing you or Has a girlfriend or something, you know, if somebody keeps blowing you off and blowing you off They don't really want to meet you because there's something that they're hiding. Okay, so move on quick Because I'm reading comments and agreeing for some of the stuff and who And it's just one of my signatures Someone asked me am I single now I'm married been married since 2006 I've been with the same person since 2001 so I'm not single at all Okay, how can people contact you about personal issues? um Well, if you want to schedule a consultation I do consultations and you have to purchase a consultation um so Usually it's through my etsy store or facebook or something like that or you can write my email if you go to my channel page There should be a link Where either there's a facebook or something that you can click on and message me Don't try to frame me out too many friend requests and they won't let me go through So just message me directly through facebook on my channel page. You'll see the facebook That's how Okay What are my thoughts on Harvey Weinstein? That's been going on forever. It looks like that's not really news women who work Already knows that they're going to be sexually harassed wherever they go That's just how it is. That's why I don't work if I'm going to be sexually harassed. I'm going to be paid You know, I'll be be sexually harassed by my husband Be married to him and not have to work if I'm going to be sexually sexually harassed I'm not going to go work for some men that's going to sexually harass me And I give me no extra bonuses and stuff So, yeah, ever since I was 15 I've been sexually harassed at every job that I've been to so, you know, I don't really care about working That's why I work for myself and then I don't work for other people and I work from home And stuff like that. I do this. This is what I do. I do consultations online. I help women I have an online store and I do youtube So that's my job now and I get paid way more doing this than I ever worked had got paid to work for anybody so I could sexually harass myself But yeah, I don't think it's right but that's the world we're living where women are sexually harassed and That's just the world we live in so might as well get paid Okay By suing by doing whatever you need to do get the money Okay, let's see Boyfriend wants to start a family but wants me to chip in for down payment on home. Okay Boyfriend is the wrong word. You need to change the word boyfriend. It's a husband So you're good enough to have a family but not good enough to have a marriage Make him marry you first Then make him work and save If you want to help him chip in on the house fine But he needs to put most of it down. Okay so You need to get married first before you commit that much to anybody. Okay If you if he's not talking about marriage then it's a no-go All right That's all I say, you know Don't boyfriend start no family with no boyfriend. Okay start a family with a husband If he won't marry you then don't have his babies and don't chip in to nothing Okay, thank you I have tried telling me that I expect money before meeting and they think I'm a prostitute What I've learned is to be nice at like I care about them And not the money and then I get the money. Yeah, I told you you got to promise them something Hmm Promise to never deliver. That's what you do Okay How do I get rid of bad energy placed on you? Surround yourself with positive people and positive environment and don't deal with negative people or negative environments Okay, I'm going back down the screen so I could see more okay thoughts on you know thoughts on you know thoughts on you know You might as well, okay for me if that's what you want you can go get someone that you know is into that another man you know a transsexual somebody who likes it and has you know very a lot of experience in it if you're gonna do it you might as well get the best I'll get you somebody that's really into it you know it's what they're doing you know it's your man okay so there's a guy that likes me he's young but he has coins he wants to have snacks with me and I want to also but he has to pay me first how do I ask tell him you need something like new tires or something down your car tell him it's like this much money and if he gives it to you then you sleep with them you know keep the money in your bank if not if he says well sorry about that hope you saw your problem then don't do it cuz young guys you really not gonna give you money but if you say you need something and they feel like they're helping you or saving the day or being a hero maybe they will so you don't straight up ask for money you always come up with an excuse of something that cost a lot of money and they just give you the money to go and handle it mm-hmm how long should you make it that way I always say based on how much money they spent on you if they haven't spent over a couple thousand on you make them keep weight because the more they invest the longer they'll stay around afterwards so tally it up they spent a couple thousand and you feel comfortable and they still invested in you they spent you know depends on how much money they have to because a couple thousand it's nothing to some people some people it's a lot so it just depends on how much they make okay make sure you don't give it up until a couple thousand spent how can I have the house husband by under my name what even though I didn't pay for well if your name is on the D your part you're the owner you know if the lease I mean if the the loan isn't your name you're the owner that's quite a lot of money just saying um well I don't know if that's if that's the same person that asked me about how long you should wait to give it up if you want to give it up for cheaper than that and for it go ahead but you ain't gonna be out it's not gonna be good and you know in the long run for you do you buy your husband things on his birthday and Christmas and sometimes if I see something that he likes maybe some cologne or something but not on a regular basis no he already has everything he doesn't he didn't be how do you get a guy from work to ask you out on a date for it with him until he asks you out if you don't ask you out he's not into you or you don't want to mix business pleasure and you should respect that because it'll be awkward if you know if it didn't work out what do you find where do you find Richmond in college and the teacher's lounge and the professor's lounge the professors the dean okay how do you get a girlfriend and give her money bingo get one how you deal with jealousy over men and be detached get a life get a hobby get some friends get another man that way all your attention and worry and energy is not a one person how do you dress on a date when you're asked out by a celebrity and I would say go you know black you can't go wrong with black maybe throw in some nice heels some designer heels and a designer purse in a black dress you know don't go too wild on the makeup just you know make sure you look good though like natural more natural makeup don't overdo the makeup then they'll be like who is you know oh it's this person with this person look at her makeup you know so you want like if the paparazzi takes pictures of you you're gonna be in magazine so you need to look good so they can say who is this girl you know instead of who it's why I see with her you know so make sure you're looking like a model try modelist not ratchet you know think of like Chris Brown's ex and like all the like the guys that Drake use I mean the women that Drake used to talk to you they're like all really sleep pretty you know not extra and ratchet you know do modelist model okay I can't do the old man cuz I'm hella active and I still and I still goes hiking and community okay well there's all man that do that too you know well you know perhaps maybe you should wait until you're old and then go get a man your own age that way y'all you have to pack you know canoe anymore but see this is the problem with a lot of women they can't separate their dating life from their real life you don't have to go hiking and kayaking with old people all you've got to do is date them and get the money you know if if you're if you're in it for a real relationship then yeah then you have to worry about it but if you're trying to just get some money and date older guys and then they don't have to go hack hiking canoeing with you that's just like saying oh well I can't date a guy cuz they're not into what I'm into that's exactly how you want it so you don't get attached and then I always with you and they just see you when you want to see them you know how to make them mean crazy about you make sure they want you more than you want them and keep it that way forever and lots of seductive talk dress nice look nice all the time how to get someone attention over the internet we live in the same state well everyone's trying to get their attention so you have to come a different route okay you have to approach it from a different angle you can't approach them online okay you're gonna have to approach them a different way you know I'm gonna have to gonna have to do some research so you know or you're going to have to well you know youtubers this is what they do if you become an extreme hater they'll probably see you first if they're a huge youtuber they don't even check their comments most of the time except for the first 15 minutes so I wouldn't even worry about trying to comment maybe you should try to write their business manager and set up some type of business meeting or conversation or something like that like I have a product or something I want something such and such to promote and you know I'm willing to pay this much amount of money but I need to talk to them to you know go over what I need them to say blah blah blah blah blah you know so you don't have to come from a business angle because they're not gonna pay attention to you if they're not a major youtuber you know what I'm saying if they're not a major youtuber then you can probably just you know try to write them an email and hopefully one day they'll check it okay is there a limit on being flirtatious at first I met a doctor and we were texting and he just stopped answering I think I was too obvious with my flirting yeah you gotta let them do the work you know if you flirt too much it don't let them fart back then they're gonna think oh she does this with everybody I'm sure a man for it with a woman like me with the money drop about a thousand in my paypal and say just for being you and leave your number that's how you go over it like me how to get a man to give you an allowance I'm telling you can't work and see him at the same time or you have to get a double shift or you know work at the strip club or as a waitress in a nice part of town because you you have new bills coming up and you can't you know keep up so you don't have to get a job unless he wants to help you you know so well how much do you need telling you I'm gonna need this much every month if I'm you know if we're gonna start seriously seeing each other I won't have time unless I can you know secure this amount of money per month because my time is very valuable I could be working and doing this and that or we could you know be hanging out and having a good time you know so that's how I would do it you know always make up the fake job where you're gonna be around other wealthy men kind of play on that ego a little bit and they can feel like he's a hero if he tries to help you and be extra thankful but don't just demand it like you know unless he asks you what you want some will just ask you well what kind of arrangement do you want and you will tell them if they don't ask them you they're not trying to give it to you so you have to find a way to make them give it to you if they still want to see you how do we make our men feel masculine um by letting them pay for everything and making sure you think them and like tell them oh you're so strong you're so smart you're the best I don't know what I would do without you you know thank you so much for you know for this gift I love it I'm gonna wear it every day and whenever I see it I'm gonna think of you you know you treat me so well I love it you know and just so you turn me on so much you know blah blah blah just a bunch of crap that's all you gotta do and they feel good about themselves um what if you stop giving you money then you stop giving him anything else you block him until he starts depositing and every time he tries to text you send him a PayPal link or however he pays you you know that's how you have to do it sometimes because they think they're slick and he stops trying to give you money then cut off communication slowly but surely every time he texts and you're asking him for something he's not giving to you text less until you're not texting him at all and then the next time he texts you send him a PayPal link and say I need this much money if he stops texting you he doesn't want to give you money so that's why I always say have a plan B and a backup okay if you don't have to back up and plan B that's your fault okay um Shira I'm so glad I found and binge watched your channel yes everything you say works yes um what are your okay I let my man cheat what about husbands what are your thoughts on husband cheating um if you if you're married to someone that's very rich and taking a lot of care of you like very well care of you and you don't want to sleep with him anyway you don't care because he's not originally your type then it doesn't matter you know what I'm saying because you didn't marry him for that you made him for the lifestyle so if he's cheating and you're married and you don't have a prenup he's not gonna try to divorce you because he would lose money but if he's broke and he's cheating then you should be concerned you know I'm saying then you need to check him and you say look do you want to have an open marriage you know don't get mad just like you want to have an open marriage and he's like huh why because you are already you know sleeping around we might as well just say hey let's have an open marriage so I can get my groove on to you know come with it come with him like that it's like I there's guys that want to take me out take me on vacation sleep with me treat me better than you do and I've been passing it up but you know if you're accepting offers I should too you know get that open marriage thing out there and they'll be left upset don't either a stop seeing the person or to try to figure out what you're doing or they'll agree to it or they'll say hey let's break up but either way you're gonna get something out of it that you want you know the answer an invitation to an open marriage where you can start seeing guys with more money or or making your plan B that's what I would do my boyfriend doesn't want to be intimate as much as I think he's always been like this he's like to cuddle a lot do you think he loves me I think you get that and or you know some guys are just not very attracted to you and they're not gonna lie to you they're not gonna tell you the truth they're gonna just like yeah because most guys they like and if they don't want it with you either a they're doing it with someone else be their gay or see they're not as attractive as attracted to you as you think they are okay or they just have low stamina low libido and they don't care about that but a lot of most men that don't care about sex are really into other things like fetishes you know if they they can have a weird fetish that you don't know about that turns them on if you just figure out what it would what it is they'll be very active you know what I'm saying so you need to figure out if he's gay cheating has a low libido or has a weird fetish that he's afraid to ask you about you know or ask you to be involved in how to get a man to be more into you be less into him sorry y'all be less into him act like you don't care about him no more don't ask him where he's been don't call him don't text him you know be just like a guy who doesn't care that's how you get him to be more into you because they're gonna feel like you're pulling back so they're gonna be like well why is she pulling back what is she doing you know I like I like her but you know I don't want to be all over her but I'm concerned so I'm gonna text her and call her you know and if they're not that into you naturally you can't make them become into you unless you leave them for someone better okay they want you when you stopped wanting them that's the only time they want you and if you can replace them with someone better otherwise they don't they're not paying attention yep whenever you break up with one of your exes and you have moved on and they're begging you back and you don't even want them no more that's when they want you the most okay so and if they don't really want you at all and you try to break up with them or check them or whatever that means they never want you so make sure you look in the mirror okay because a lot of and they won't realize you know what's going on so like I would say before you start doing any type of checking of people and arguing of whatever trying to break up make sure you look good because then they'll see you how you're getting ready to go out and be to the world you know and you're gonna go out and you're single and stuff like that they're gonna see what they're getting ready to lose mm-hmm okay how I get into his friends without losing him and his paycheck how I get into his friend that's a little too close to home I would let go find someone else that doesn't know him perhaps um when man go out with you and they like if you're going out with sugar daddy he don't call you for two weeks and then he takes you later that means either he's probably married he's been on vacation he's working it's not about you it's about what he can do for you and what you can do for him it's not a real relationship a lot of you girls keep getting it twisted this is not a real relationship okay if someone doesn't text you for two weeks they're not taking you seriously they just want to see you and they want to see you and that's good enough if that's the type of relationship you want to continue great you both getting something out of it if not stop getting emotionally involved you know who cares get another one that's why I would say why y'all only have one get to get three right Sasha she's back there putting on my makeup she's just like I don't know Sasha when you're at recess and your friends aren't playing with you you got another friend to go to right or play alone go to the next friend go to the next friend right you have because you have hobbies right you know just treat them like friends one friend busy call the other one now you don't have to be exclusive until you're married darling okay and sometimes I'm not even in right how much money I can make it three days a lot you know what to do you know what time it is it's time for lunch it's time to be no someone asked me how do I have a dark skin child well if you know anything about DNA and genetics if your skin comes out dark it's because your partner is dark most likely okay someone says I had a cute with a black man duh that's so true my husband is black what's the best way to break down my emotions so I'm so conditioned to broke dating and love then stop being I told y'all that's a choice you want to be broken in love or you want to have some money and you know do the things that you want to do in life and not have to struggle which one you want to be you know because women can fall in love with anyone you know what I'm saying you fall in love with someone broke you can fall in love with someone rich are you falling in love with looks because ugly man can be nice too so what you're falling for is still superficial it's just for looks versus money I'd rather have the money than than the looks you know what I mean so no matter what you're falling for you know are you falling for looks and you know how much you have in common with someone or are you falling for the lifestyle that you really want and someone that can give it to you so it's still a choice you're gonna be happy either way believe me you know you're gonna be over here broke and in love or you can be over here paid and shopping and doing what you want to do going on vacation so either way you can be happy I don't know how you can be happy struggling but if you're in love maybe struggling isn't so bad I don't know because I never did it I never will but you can figure that what you want to report it to you know I'm saying hi guys oh Sasha's taking the mic so nice what do you learn today you just want to take the mic did you tell her did you go do what I asked you yes okay where's your pajama go get go get in the bed give me a kiss well I can't kiss you she just want to be on the camera I am not silly precious baby okay bye go tell a little okay okay how do I get my crush and the only the only one at work who can make him smile and all he really he's really shy and has a girlfriend she does him wrong how can I don't be a picnic chick let him come on to you okay if you got a crush at work and he got a girlfriend it does him wrong don't be the other girl look because he's not gonna respect you anyway you know if first of all you said he's a crush which means he's not trying to come on to you means you like him more than he likes you okay so don't even bother with that I like always try to tell you guys find someone that likes you more than you like them this is the formula if y'all keep asking me questions that are not going to help you be successful in getting what you want then you know it's a waste of time don't bother with somebody that's not bothered with you that's all I'm gonna keep telling y'all stop trying to get the attention of men who will not give it to you on their own it's not gonna work find someone who drooling over you and then I'll teach you how to exploit them and get the most you know what I'm saying you can't get someone that don't even see you you can't get them to give you what you want that does who doesn't even see who doesn't even you know chase you who doesn't want you more than you want that that's not gonna help you you're put you're going in reverse you're going backwards you're giving yourself a challenge you know so I don't recommend dating crushes or men who don't see you or men you have to make excuses for I recommend dating men who will give you the world okay and you know if you're stuck and you want certain things then when you figure out that those things don't want you back you're gonna be even more bad that you waste it all this time and effort and energy when you could have been having a good life with someone who actually wanted to do nice things for you you know so stop going backwards stop asking about me stop asking about love stop asking about crushes stop asking about people that aren't looking for you you know find the men who will gravitate towards you that's who you go with okay stop trying to get these men who don't want us okay I'm not trying to go out and get you know this isn't that because I'm walking backwards if I do that okay so we're in a direction that's beneficial that's not beneficial okay what if you find someone on Facebook who's really rich but you never have met them in real life would you add them or is it weird and creepy I'd add them to this just Facebook you know I don't like this you know something more than Facebook it's just Facebook I love ugly men they'll give you the world that's true they will a guy's chasing me better don't like him and he was one of the bullies in school will make him pay that's like the best revenge if he's chasing you and he was a bully and he has some money make him buy you something and then dump on okay y'all y'all women are like y'all aren't thinking y'all aren't thinking like yeah he's gonna chase you let him chase you let him pretend to let him catch you pretend and then let him spend a bunch of money on you and then be gone I mean that that's how you can get rid of him mm-hmm ask keep asking him for more and he'll disappear if you don't really like him okay a rich man who I'm disgusted by wants to marry me ASAP ASAP because I said I wouldn't sleep with him until he married me how do I get money and not married this fool he wants me to visit him next he's bluffing okay so say yes okay let's get married okay and don't get no bring up okay then you can divorce him and get paid go through with it he's bluffing he's not trying to marry you and tell him what you require for marriage and tell him oh well we got the plan the wedding and I want the wedding in June next year I gotta invite all these people blah blah blah blah so start playing the wedding and watch him freak out and he has to pay for everything so say well I'm gonna need five thousand dollars deposit for this place the wedding and I need you to put in my account so I can put it towards the wedding and be putting it somewhere else and then like you know I just can't marry you I'm gonna go by so if he's trying to scam you scam him because you know that's what it is don't sign a prenup tell him you need all this money for the wedding start stashing it and then ghost him what is he gonna do say you changed your mind you don't want to get married you spent the money on the wedding stuff and you can't get it back non-refundable make some fake receipts online so it says you're using me oh no I'm not they are I'm just telling them how to do it I'm not doing this oh no I'm just telling her how to get out of the situation and still be happy okay if I were moral this is what I would tell you ladies don't do something you're not comfortable with just go and maybe you'll find you know you're a soul mate or Prince charming somewhere else where you least expect it just keep your eyes open and smile wherever you go okay there's your good advice your moral advice but in the real world that's not how it works I'll save you wasted time and just tell you how to get what you need the reason that I think it's okay to do that is because so many men use women daily and I feel like if they do it we should do it too you know I don't feel like we are supposed to have the higher moral standards anymore because it doesn't pay off and if they do it we can do it all day long and it's not something like you know being mean but when an opportunity presents itself you should take it if it's beneficial that's logic okay I'm not gonna sit here and think about morals and oh this is right it's wrong because a lot of times men don't do that and they end up hurting women and women are more emotional men aren't so men will get over it faster anyway they'll just be like oh I was so stupid oh well you know I'm over it they're not gonna sit there and cry and you know for years and tell everybody and their mama about the relationship and how they were done dirty and wrong and how they can't move on and they can't get over their past and you just feel so bad about yourself and your self-esteem is they're not gonna do all of that they're just gonna be on to the next one so that's why I say it's okay for women to do the exact same thing because the men aren't gonna be emotionally distraught over it they're gonna move on quick they're like okay whatever by whatever you know I got scammed oh well they're not gonna be crying and wondering what what you know why and they know why okay they're not gonna sit there and become emotional about it they're just gonna move on so it's not that bad how to avoid signing a prenup don't sign it sign it drunk and make sure you like always say that there I have a whole video on this and how to get out of it make sure you on prescription medication have your receipt from the doctor's office have your prescription with the date on it have your doctor right saying that you need to take this medicine it won't make you this this is that you know pain medication or whatever so when you sign it you're not in your right mind and whatever you sign is null and void okay that's how you get out of it there you go and then don't sign your name like you usually sign it sign it like you're drunk and they probably never seen your signature before so they don't know then you can compare your signature to other signatures on other documents that you sign and it's not gonna look the same you know what I'm saying so make sure you're using all those techniques when you're signing any type of legal documents like pre-numps or whatever whatever make sure you you're on prescription medication maybe some alcohol and sign your name weird-looking and like when you walk in there to sign you wear some high high heels and pretend like you're almost gonna trip and fall so people can say oh I witnessed her she was a little shaky and you know she almost fell and you know and you can blame it on the heels and you know something like that and like when you're signing like making sure your hand is shaking so people can witness it because there's witnesses and there's what you call it notary and stuff like that there that are going to be able to be called up and say did you witness this signing of the prenup and da da da was this person to coherent oh well she fell oh well her hand was shaky oh well this is her signature and then they're gonna compare it to a signature on another document like maybe your driver's license or something that you signed previously and it's not gonna match up because you're gonna be drunk on prescription medication and you can say well my doctor prescribed me this medication and I was on it when I was asked to sign the prenup and I was not in my right mind I didn't know what I was signing I thought this was just some something and I signed it under the influence so it's another boy there you go mm-hmm people do that all the time they get up that's not say prenups aren't worth anything because you can get at them so easily you just have to be strategic about it okay like it's if you know you're getting ready to sign a prenup go to the doctor complain about some pain get on some pain peels have the right to a prescription to save the date save the receipt save the bottle save the pharmacy receipt but that's stuff in a box okay and when it's time to bust it out that's when you bust it out and the divorce time some dude says you can't use someone for sex women don't lose anything from sex well we lose time energy and sex is worth a lot okay asking any man who has to pay for it okay asking any old dude who would give a woman $2,000 just to go eat dinner with him ask him about that okay so just because we don't lose anything doesn't mean we shouldn't gain anything you know what I mean you don't lose anything by going to work or volunteering but you sure do want to get paid for your time and energy right so you know that's the same thing I'm not gonna go work for somebody for free even though I'm not losing anything but I do want to get paid because I know there's somebody else that will pay me for something you know what I'm saying I'm married I'm just talking about like if I was a single woman I'm not giving it away free why would I do that that's dumb it's a dumb business plan you gonna you have something that's worth a lot and you're gonna give it free when you could be making money off of it when you don't have to go work for anyone you don't have to do anything but sit there and look pretty you know no women are dumb who give it up for free okay because there are some women who don't even go to work you know they don't go to work because their rents paid their car notes are paid their mortgages are paid they don't go to work because they don't have sex for free okay you're gonna sleep with somebody you're in a relationship with somebody they better be paying everything in your house they better be paying for it otherwise why are you sleeping with them you know so yes it's you know it's funny that guys want it free and they're upset that it's not free and when it is free they don't want that one they want the one that's not free there's plenty of free stuff out there y'all go get it but certain women they don't give it up free and that's why they don't work that's why they're happier that's why they can go on vacation that's why they can do what they need to do whenever they want to do it because they don't give it up free okay there's a difference and to me treat it like business you know would you go to work for free would you put in overtime for free is it because you like your job you're gonna do it for free no I don't think so it's not free I don't care if you call it prostitution or whatever you call it you know they just made prostitution legal in a other state you know I'm not saying to go be a prostitute but I'm not saying to give it up for free you know get something out of it get your rent paid you don't get an allowance get some jewelry out of it get something out of it because it's not free and whoever told you it was free lied to you because it's not free whoever is giving it away free maybe you need to go talk to them you know and get what you need out of them but a lot of women are no longer giving it up for you mm-hmm I would rather be called broke I mean I would rather be called a prostitute than be called broke over because you know it's just a word and it's not gonna stop me from teaching and telling women not to give themselves away for free if you want to go have sex for free great go do it but why when you get paid thousands of dollars just to sit and have dinner with some old dude you know what I'm saying you don't even have to do it most of the time just promise them that you will and you know that's enough for them okay so if you don't like it then go over there where it's free because everybody can get that it's called community pee okay everybody been in it and had it and it's free the one that cost most may can't afford it so it doesn't see too many different people okay I bet you the free one sees more people than the expensive one so y'all think y'all y'all think it's better but it's not if it takes somebody five thousand dollars to get in your pants versus free who do you think has more sexual encounters the one woman who says I can't sleep with you unless you spent five thousand dollars on me or the woman who gives it up for you who do you think has had more sexual encounters probably the one that gives it up for free but I'm over here being called whole and prostitute with my five thousand dollars before I even touch someone while she's over here giving it to free giving it away free getting ghosted giving away free to the next act guy getting ghosted giving it away free to the next guy and then getting ghosted okay but she's good because she gives it free and she she falls in love with every dude me I'm fall I didn't fall over nobody and it and it costs to get over here but I'm the whole okay whatever you need to call me to feel good about your decision I'm living good I'm married you know so I'm sure she got about ten kids by ten different people and she's still probably doing the same thing giving it up free and I don't so that's the difference you can call it what you want it but look look at this this this the difference the statistics mm-hmm right this is how do you fuck for cash and you're you're not a hope no that's called business woman you know if you have a commodity that's high in demand no matter what it is you know because you can call it whatever you want if I'm given away free I'm a slut so what's the difference I rather be a hole than a slip because let's give it up for free holes make money okay there's a difference so call me a hole if you want to holes are paid and I would rather be a hole any day than a slut let's give it away free and don't have nothing to show for it hold they they sell it or they make sure that there's a high price before they can get it and they enjoy their lifestyle okay mm-hmm so whatever you want to call it whatever makes you feel good it's not free whatever you want to call it is not free and it never will be most women are learning this now don't don't give it up for free because you don't have to it's too many people out there that will give you money just to sit to eat with them okay to be seen in public with them there's too many men that will just hand you $2,000 for no reason there's too many people out there doing that for you to be having sex and somebody's back seat for free okay don't do it if you do don't come crying on the channel oh I did this I did that well I told you not to charge get something out of it make sure they're spending at least $2,000 $3,000 on you before you even let them touch you okay mm-hmm if men are mad about it then go get the free chicks there's plenty of them okay they're called pick me they're on the pick me channels and you know they're the kind of women you don't look twice that but they're free go get it hi y'all I've done the review and well I need to redo the review because it was a bad quality because I try to do stupid Google hangouts and didn't work out but I'm wearing some of it right now I was playing in it and a bunch of the galaxy products it's very glittery it's more for like holiday or like night mm-hmm y'all y'all shouldn't be mad at people who say I'm not free you should go and find the ones who are free why are you over here when you know it's not free over here you can go over there to the free the freebies you know the buy one get one free special the bogos you know what I'm saying we'll get you a bogo chick you know they like Applebee's they like two for one they like walking in a park holding hands getting to know each other they like all the stuff y'all like y'all have a lot in common they don't have high standards either so y'all will get along great and you might even get sex the same night okay you don't even have to have a job to get sex with them okay they don't care they just want a good man okay someone says I hear snoring yeah my husband snoring over there he's asleep he fell asleep watching football why don't I tell that well someone says why don't I tell these holes to get a job most of them have jobs the men that they deal with probably don't or you know don't have a jobs enough to take care of them you know most of the women on my channel have jobs they just don't want to broke men you know and they're not going to date a broke man a woman doesn't need a man to pay their bills they want a man to pay their bills there is a difference okay because a woman can't get turned on or respect a broke man so she needs him to prove that he can provide for her so she might have a six-figure job but still want that man to pay for everything okay so make sure you understand that it's not that the woman is broke is that she just doesn't want a broke man understand okay because I'm you know a lot of people have money but that doesn't mean their man does who wants a broke man you know if you're sitting here making six figures and you're sleeping with some guy for free and he's not doing anything for you benefiting you contributing to you taking to nice places then why are you sleeping with him you're too good for that so you need to find a man who can impress you this dude cannot impress you therefore he's not gonna turn you on and you're not gonna respect him so you need someone who can drop a thousand on you Sasha you're so good I'm almost done you look so cute I look this out about this is Alfred's Pajamas I don't know but it's a match I love it all right where's your eye go get in a bit you can go get in mine okay this over here is fake it's fake okay well sorry don't order online sorry she ordered a toy online and she said it's fake women can provide for themselves we just want a man who can do better you understand how we're gonna respect you if you're the same exact as us you know I you know if you're making what I'm making I still can't respect you I need you to go higher I need you to pay for this I need you to volunteer to pay for that you know what I'm saying it's not about being broke it's about can you impress me you know it's not about being broke it's can you impress me can you do something that I can't do for myself if you can't do that move it along you know what I'm saying so a lot of men think that because we want you to pay for everything that we're broke we're far from broke far far far from broke you know when you meet most women they have nice persons nice cars nice houses the nice apartments nice whatever what can you add to them if you can't add nothing if you can't impress them move on okay they're not for you that's how you do it like most women can pay for everything but they shouldn't have to if they're dating someone and sleeping with someone get serious mm-hmm what are you a single parent looking for a rich man it's too late you're right it's too late oh well um I've already I'm already married with two kids darling and I'm teaching other women how to get in this place where they don't have to work and make it be married and have two kids and raise their kids and do whatever they need to do without having to drag themselves out of bed and go to work every day for some other man okay you know this is I'm like I've already made a video talking about I'm not talking about guys who are 25 and under because y'all still are trying to make it in the world if you're if you're old and you're still on this you know still mad because women want you to pay for something then that's the disgrace you know what I'm saying if you're if you're out of college and you've been working for over five to ten years you should have something saved you know you should be planning your future you should be doing this and that you shouldn't be trolling and you know still making minimum wage okay so I'm not talking about guys who are in college or just got out of college and are in entry level positions I'm talking about grown men who have been around long enough to figure it out and who's still complaining and being broke so I said no we don't want love we can get love we can men are gonna men don't want love so how can we care about love when men don't want love so I said we don't want love we want we want to get paid that's true we don't care about love because y'all don't care about love if y'all cared about love the world will be a lot different you know what I'm saying y'all don't care about love so we stopped caring about love because love it's not even a part of dating anymore it's about what you can you do for me can you benefit me and what's it gonna look like in five years from now you know it's not about the love because anybody can fall in love but not many people can fall in financial freedom okay so first and foremost self-preservation does have anything to do with love it's called self-love so it is about love but it's just more about self-love you know if you love yourself other people will love you as well they can't help it okay but you don't have to love them in order to be with them and benefit from them because they're gonna love you that's that's how you got to get it okay and then when you have children that's where your true love comes okay that's the only unconditional love that you have between parents and children okay and family other love is conditional you know if you cheat on me if you do this I'm leaving you and I don't love you know what that's conditional love you know unconditional love exists only between families and children and parents so if you're looking for this unbreakable bond and love when you have children that's when you'll find it if you're married to someone and they can afford to provide for you and the children even better now you can be in love and love your kids and love your family and still live good or you can struggle and be broke and try to find child support on your baby daddy that's ran off with someone else it's up to you okay me I didn't choose that route because I knew exactly what I wanted and didn't care about all the other stuff that people try to throw in there to trip you up okay I knew what I wanted and that's how focused and sure you have to be in order to get it you know what I'm saying if you're always listening to trolls and men trying to tell you what they like they're lying to you okay oh I don't like a girl who wears all that oh I don't like a girl who can't do that and they'll cheat on you with the same girl that they said that they didn't like the type of girl that they didn't like so don't listen to them listen to your mind what can you benefit from them if anything if nothing bypass them quick because they can't do anything for you but bring you down love yourself get what you need out of them if they're willing to give you the world take it okay don't listen to these broke man off on here because they have nothing to offer no intelligence no morals because they will use you up in two seconds and they're sitting up here talking about love but calling people holes at the same time okay if men loved women would not have to ask them for anything because it would be offered so whenever they start talking about love it's because you're not talking about it and that's the angle that they try to come at you with because nothing else is working okay don't ever listen to a van when they say oh I love you but they haven't proved it financially if you haven't proved love to me financially you don't love me and that's just it okay I want to see some love in my bank account okay so that's love to me you love me set me up you love me give me some money you love me don't send me to work it's that simple so I love myself more than I'm gonna ever love whoever you know the thing so my standards will stay the same always they don't bend so sorry can't pull the love card over here anymore it doesn't work this is 2017 it might have worked 10 years ago but it don't work today and not on this channel those days have been over for most women over the age of 25 but a prostitute in the hole what about love right talking about love and prostitution hoes oh no see you're you're too transparent now you can't get away with it and you're exposed so ladies it's not ever gonna be about love with me it's only gonna be about one thing if you give in the way free because that's the one thing that they're always pissed out pissed off about read the comments the the one word they use the most is the one that makes them the most angry they have to pay for it now so they're upset they use whole and prostitute so many times because it makes them furious that it's not free okay they never they mean they don't use love maybe a couple times when the hole in the prostitute thing backfires and doesn't work on them and then that's it you know they have nothing else to go for because none of those words are offensive to us anymore you know I would rather be that than someone sitting over here looking stupid gave it a way free and being ghosted yeah I'd rather be all of those names that you pull out and call women but I know I will never be called broke okay I would rather be called all those names have every bill paid don't have to drive and don't rush our traffic sit up here looking good getting all the new fenty and not everything whatever I'm good call me what you want but you ain't gonna call me broke right never and you know those words are no longer offensive to me or most women by the way because you know it's what would they call it the oldest profession someone I think I've read I don't know if it's true someone says it's legal in Washington now prostitution is legal in Washington because all the politics want it all the politicians want it right and they're the ones who make the loss so let me research this let me say is home and legal in Washington is prostitution I know it's legal in Brazil and Vegas came up the District of Columbia prostitution law considered one of the oldest professions in the world the history of prostitution in United States stems back to the days of the original colonies so it's part of American history we don't hold and put these glasses back on keep reading um is it still illegal let me see where it's where it's illegal okay so it is legal in brothels in Nevada it is legal in rural counties in Nevada 28 brothels in Nevada okay um I don't know if it's legal in Washington it should be because they use a lot of them they just call it something else but y'all know they're paying for it serious okay how you gonna get rid of the oldest profession that's right that's just like trying to get rid of her roaches off the earth it's not gonna ever go away because it cost because men are thirsty and they will pay for it okay every time like every time like women you know women are never broke because they don't they know even just the promise of it can get you paid the promise that's how good it is you know the promise of it can get you thousands of dollars not the actual act but the promise of the act the lie of the promise of the act can get you paid okay um that's how you do it and if you you know smart women do this and they get paid you know some women think it's immoral and they'll give it up for free and when they ask the guy for a hundred dollars they like I don't have it and then they're stuck and evicted out their house or if they lose their job and the guy that they've been sleeping with for three years can't pay their rent for them one time they're out the house meanwhile holes over here getting paid left and right just to go sit with somebody and promise them some sick and never fulfill that promise so you know live how you want to live it's your life and nobody's taking care of you but you you know what I'm saying if you go by man's opinion you're going to suffer you go by what you know and what works and what you know works you're gonna keep winning okay numbers don't lie okay numbers don't lie men lie women lie but numbers don't lie okay so when I say numbers don't lie I mean the amount of women who don't give it up for free live much better than the ones who do give it up for free okay just so you know he says only suckers pay for it no only man who can afford it pay for it okay because to you a thousand dollars is a lot but to somebody it's just like ten dollars someone who has money that's like ten bucks okay that's like oh okay you only want oh that's good you know so that's why I say you're probably not even a target so I wouldn't even worry I don't even know why you on this channel like you're not a target if rich men aren't offended then why are you that's what I'm asking like it's not even about you if you're on this channel and you think it's ridiculous to pay for the company of a woman that you're on the wrong channel because obviously you can't afford it and it's a lot of money to you so the men who can't afford it it's like chump change you know it's like what they spend you know on what socks socks and underwear you know it's nothing it's a couple thousand dollars people spend that you know like this especially when you make a lot of money it's nothing so it's not even like paying for it's the same amount it will be like to a millionaire that's like buying someone a McDonald's happy meal it's nothing okay so stop getting mad about it just cuz you can't afford it go figure out how you can do it you know and maybe you won't have to pay for it maybe it'll be handed to you even free free her because you have money you know I'm sure rich guys get it free all the time especially young good looking ones but the old ones gotta pay okay when you when you get like in your 50s and 60s you know you're gonna have to pay somebody cuz ain't nobody gonna mess with you for free okay and you gonna still be trying to get some you gonna be trying to pop some bag and call up some old woman who came hardly see and get you some free stuff but then when she getting there and drop her clothes you ain't gonna want to see what she got and then you gonna try to go get somebody young and they gonna say you need to pay you gonna reach for your social security stack your chick and you gonna give her break off some change and you gonna remember me and I'm gonna be laughing because that's what men do see you're young now when you get old you're gonna have to pay that's it you're young now when you get old you have to pay because women aren't lined up for you okay and you don't want the women your age so you want to pay eventually maybe not today maybe not tomorrow but years down the line you gonna be paying so get used to it sorry but you won't have to pay eventually we all know this um that's just how it goes it's like you can't escape it okay anyway I'm gonna leave it at that y'all I'm gonna go and y'all try to have a good night and remember it's not free and it should never be free and it should never be given away for you and if you're giving it away for free you losing out big time okay don't ever give it up for you ever ever get something out of it I don't care if it's anything get something out of it I don't care if it's a pack of gum get something okay because you can and you should get a pack of gum get some ice cream get something you know what I'm saying don't just open it up and say here you go it's a buffet it's you know all you can eat free whatever no get something for you know if you're a pick me still get something from it get some dishes washed I don't care get something from it okay because if you're giving it away free that's how they're gonna treat you like it's free okay and you see how they treat the women who give it away for you they're not even on their channels they're not interested in them they over here so make sure you you see actually you're noticing the actions okay they're not over there praising the women who say oh I just want to cook it clean for my cane and give it and massage and make sure his bathwater they heat they're not over there on them channels they know where to be found on those channels why cuz they don't want that I don't know why they don't want it not from them but they're over here getting upset because we charge in and saying oh you know we need you to pay our rent and Carnot and this isn't that you this isn't that you know but they're over here the women are willing to pay their Carnot and rent but they're running over here there's something wrong with this picture there's so many women that will pay all your bills Solomon but why are you over here you know ain't gonna get paid up here we're gonna try to get your money adios you know all we gonna do over here is try to get you you at you gonna have to go accept your free offerings on the next channel because there's none over here we charge over here is Torx we got PayPal accounts all of us okay if you're a woman you should have a PayPal account that way there's no excuse are you talking to somebody online you need somebody send that bam how do you have more confidence here how do I have more confidence here just choose to have it I keep telling you everything is a choice you don't have to put up with anything you don't want to and well too many women are not understanding this if you don't want to put up with it don't if you want more confidence have it you know what are they gonna do to you shoot you don't make a choice feel it believe it act like it be it fake it till you make it I don't know eventually you'll start to really have it if you fake it until you make it and believe it love yourself first stop putting everybody else before your before yourself and it's gonna come naturally what do I find better friends there's a lot of sugar baby groups on Facebook you know mine it's a private group so like you have to contact me directly and there is an entry fee but there's a lot of other free ones and you know you can get started like that but I feel like you know there's a lot of like minded women but they're afraid to voice this because of like all the negativity that comes with it but you know at the end of the day these are the type of women who are thriving and doing well and being taken care of and not being taken advantage of so you have to choose you know you got to drop some of your old friends because they're not gonna understand and you got to get some new ones or you got to be solo it's probably better to be solo for a while anyway until you meet them you know I'm saying and y'all find each other cuz y'all gonna be in the same same places you know dating the same type of men okay so someone says go on business meeting not hookery it is business because if you ask me for some and I ask you for some money then it becomes business you know what I'm saying you don't ask me for you know men will come straight up and say are we gonna sleep together we're gonna have sex and the woman's response is either offend offended like I'm not that kind of girl or sure maybe in a couple of weeks or you know unless you want to take me on this nice vacation take me shopping and stuff like that we can see what happens you know he's bold enough to ask her to sleep with him but she can't ask him for some money that's silly you know if you can ask me for sex I can ask you for money straight up you don't ask me for sex I don't need to ask you for money okay so let's keep it like that don't ask me like for women who are out there and you're dating and men are asking you straight up ask them straight up if they call your prostitute well well you know you're the one that's mentioned sex I never brought up sex you did I was sitting here having a nice dinner having a nice conversation and you just brought it up I didn't say anything to allude to it you know what I'm saying so if they have the balls to bring it up then you can have the ovaries to bring up money and maybe they'll stop bringing it up and you know maybe it's teaching them you know if you bring up sex women are going to bring up money so don't even mention it wait you know because that's the main reason men date you know that right they don't meant the main reason men date is not to marry you it's to have sex with you okay so remember that if they can't get it they lose interest that's why you got a promise that to them fake it make them spend money make them invest in it make them work for it because that's all they're in it for okay that's all they're in it for they're in it to get it and once they get it if they've invested enough they will stick around to fall in love okay if they haven't invested enough they will hit it and quit it and be gone okay but that's why it's not free because it's waste of time and energy and it's free because the women will give it away free but then some women don't and these are the women that understand how it works so everything is choice I was doing a review and no I didn't use any primer that's why it's fading I was doing it without primer and this is the new Fenty eyeshadow galaxy collection but this eyeliner is cool because it like it turns into glitter the more you touch it it's like the glitter transforming eyeshadow you see that look check this out that cool this is that new Fenty holiday collection the galaxy collection so I'm just testing it and see how war someone says how to focus in on how to focus on college and dating I would focus like just depends are you going to college for something in particular are you going for a certain profession or you you know if you are yeah concentrate on school the guys in college are broke so if you're dating college guys it's not even worth it anyway so keep keep your mind on your education and then when you get out of school you have plenty of time to go get some guys to take you out the dirt you know have your fun or whatever but don't get serious when dating in college because none of those guys have money you know all they're gonna have a student loans so don't wouldn't even like get serious with them just have fun and focus on the future so basically if I give you a little money no not a little you got him like most women you got to invest over months and months and months you know go shopping big you know take them out to nice five-star restaurants the works you know pay their bills stuff like that if you're young you know maybe get an 18 year old and she'll appreciate the little money that you got but with a grown woman you got to come correct you know we deal with men with careers things like that okay if you're up here like young and 25 we're not talking about you you know y'all still getting yourself together we're talking about men who are over a certain age you know what I'm saying if they don't have anything to offer you then they don't need to be with you point blank mm-hmm you're not gonna be able to find my group online it's private and invite only so okay okay okay how do you roll alone and be comfortable there's less competition any man that walks in it's gonna you know not see your friend or there are your other friend and you're gonna be the center of his attention therefore you get further faster and you meet more people because men approach women who are not in groups you understand so it's best to go out alone you don't want to be in a group of girls and then don't approach groups of girls you know so go out alone because this is a strategy it's not about being comfortable it's about what is your goal okay is your goal being comfortable or is your goal getting someone who is going to provide you with a good lifestyle or you know you know what you need or you pay for something you know so you could save your own money what is your goal so that's what I say you know stop worrying about everything this is a lot of women's problems they think too much about what if this and what if I don't feel comfortable doing this and what are the why you're sitting there thinking about all that these other women are out here getting this money getting guys getting on vacation getting married getting this and getting that while you over here still scared to do anything you know if you want something this war you gotta go take it you know it's not about what you grew up with or if you're comfortable what do you want that's it go get it all right y'all I need to go wait wait wait my question is why they be hating on you on lips because they still paying all they bills and they still pick me that's why they hate on me on lipstick alley I don't know I would hit on me too if I wasn't me okay I'm just gonna be real if I wasn't me I'd hate on me too okay honestly because they can't pull off what most people in my group and what I can pull off and they may I don't know but it is a bother me because a lot of women can't pull it off because they've been too conditioned you got her uncle first of all you got to have an open mind and you got to understand a lot of stuff you know more morals are pushed onto women so that they can be taken advantage of so that they can be sexually harassed so that they can be used what I did is I removed those morals and have accepted the same exact morals as men have so that I can accomplish and do all the things that I need to do without someone pointing the finger and saying you're supposed to be this way you're supposed to be that way I'm supposed to be how I choose to be and how I choose to be is strategic okay so they're hating on me because they can't be strategic they can't set down the morals they can't do it and it is making their lives hard okay I can do it I have no problem doing it because I don't struggle within like they do okay I don't struggle with it they struggle with it I know who I am I know what I want I know how to get it I go and get it that's just basically it they don't know who they are they don't know what they want they don't know how to get what they need to get because too many things are in their way and they've been programmed to think a certain way and they can't move past it mentally it is a mental block with them and that's why a lot of them don't like me because I don't have that mental block that keeps me from attaining that from which I watch okay and if they could get past it they could do it too you know that's what that's what it is um so you know a lot of people won't teach you this okay a lot of people won't teach you this they'll just tell you you're supposed to be a certain way but you don't ever ask why am I supposed to be this way why am I supposed to have the higher morals you know why am I supposed to accept this why I don't know why do you want to accept it no then don't there you go you're free you know that's how I live for example like if you make a bad grade in school and you see your test paper and you say I don't think I deserve this grade you know and you go back and double check it and you see that the teacher marks some stuff wrong by accident or she gave somebody else you know a different grade and they made the same mistake you're gonna be like hey you know this is not right and I'm not gonna I'm not gonna go for it so you will correct your own test fix the grade on it take it back to your teacher and say look you misgraded this it's not right fix it you know you're gonna call her out on it and if she doesn't fix it then you're then you can say well you know what fine don't fix it but I know your game now you know so you you you get to learn how people operate either you accept it or you don't or you go go above them go to the principal go to whoever and say look the teacher makes mistakes because she doesn't fix her mistakes and the students suffer you might need to check her credentials you know whatever whatever but you're not gonna stand for it you know a lot of women just take it and just show their shoulders and move it on I don't I'm like you know what I'm going above and beyond it and if you don't like it it's not for you you know so if men can get away with using women all the time and it's just how men are then it should also be how just women are you know I'm saying this is just how women are you know oh don't trust men you know they're all liars they're they're not good for you that they're gonna trick you they only want one thing when now they can say the same thing about women don't trust women they'll trick you they only want one thing except it's money and not okay so when we can sit when we can start you know saying that about ourselves then you know it's good now we're now we're equal now we're equal it's not about 50 50 and me paying half the bills it's about me being able to make the same decisions and choices that you do as a man you're you're able to sit there and morally disrespect lie and use a woman so can I because now I understand and I meant to be equal because that's what true equality is if you're able to use me I'm able to use you just the same with no guilt now that's equal you know women have to learn this no guilt when using a man because they have none when they use you just like if a man can go and pick up a strange hooker off the street we can go use some strange dude and take his money and lie to him you know we don't even have to give it give him that because they're stupid you know they're stupid enough to give it to you with just a promise so just like a woman is stupid enough to sign your sign her name on your to buy you a car because you promised to marry her the same game okay so if you can do that to a woman then we can do it and we have zero guilt about it at least not me at least the women that have been watching this channel for years a lot of them they don't care anymore either and it's just because we have learned to become more strategic and able to operate you know like a man with no caring you know someone says once you sleep with a woman they will be weak no once you sleep with a woman you will be broke because you will have to have to pay and then you will be broke and then they will be shopping and they want me thinking about you until they run out of money okay so I don't know where you got that from women are falling women are falling in love like that anymore unless they're young okay because after a certain you know age women don't care about that kind like unless that's their focus you know unless that's what they want but see men already know this and they use it against the woman to exploit her and use her that's why it doesn't matter and women are gonna continue to exploit and use men because they already know the game they know men think they get addicted to them after they sleep with them and that's just not true only some women do the needy women a lot of women they don't care they're like you know on to the next you have some money for me you know because it's not a big deal to them anymore because that's not their goal or their focus you see everything is mental if falling in love isn't your goal getting married it's not your focus only what you can do for this person and the money that they can give you they don't care about the sex okay it is all where your focus goes and that's what I teach these ladies to have a focus and a goal that way you don't fall in love you don't get attached it's just sex and it doesn't mean anything because most of the time if you're only using someone for money you don't want to really sleep with them anyway okay just like most of the time the guys that are sleeping with you to use your credit or money or for them to get a down payment to their car they don't really want you anyway so that's why they can hit it and quit it because they never wanted you and their goal was never marriage and their goal is never relationship so women are doing the same thing now so no women are getting attached to men unless they really want them but most of the time they don't really want you anymore they just want what you can do for them that's about it so if you still living on that it's probably because you date young women like 18 19 because yeah we will lie to you and say we're attached to keep that money coming in yeah I sure will oh yeah come back I can't live without you meanwhile somebody else is on the phone or I'm texting another person you know when when you're doing that you got to play the game you know just like they do so well it is what it is and you can call women all the names you want it's not gonna change anything and a lot of them don't even get offended anymore because what I call like holes are winning it's everywhere now and so it there's nothing to be ashamed of the only reason that people might feel bad about it is because they might have a stigma with that word but it's just a word you can take the power back from it if you if you educate people about it you know a hole makes money a slut doesn't you know a hole is paid a slut isn't so guess what you know either it's not bad to be either one but the smarter one is the hole because the whole gets paid and I'm not saying go be a prostitute I'm just saying don't give it up for you make them spend time energy money on you buy you gifts take you places nice restaurants and then maybe after they've invested in you then you become intimate if you choose to if not it's your choice you know it's cuz somebody buy you a dinner doesn't mean you have to sleep with them you know some women feel obligated to do that because that's what they've been talked oh I bought you an expensive dinner you gotta give it up oh I pay for drinks you gotta give it up that's cheap you know what I'm saying so if you if you value yourself you don't you're not giving up until they spent lots of money and lots of time and lots of energy and effort you know but if you're broke and you can only afford one dinner you're gonna date the women who you expect to give it up for you and usually they do because they have low standards if they have accepted dates with you they have low standards if they've accepted Applebee's and they have low standards if three drinks got them to drop their underwear drop the draw you know drop their panties three drinks and Applebee's dinner is all it takes for you guys so go and get those women who like that kind of stuff but don't get mad when someone you come across the one and they say oh no baby you got to spend to get up in here you know you got you got to come with it don't get mad at those women because there's plenty other women who will drop it for free and that's why you need to be over there right and if you're giving away freely all you got to do is fix yourself up come on over to this side and you can be making money okay and you can be getting paid you can be getting gifts you can be getting trips you could be getting rent mortgage car all that you over here struggling you can't borrow a hundred dollars from the man that just slept with you and then you know you're calling us holes okay whatever it's up to you like I said everything is a choice to me if holes value themselves more than regular women that should tell you something okay because that means regular women have been programmed to not value themselves okay if holes over here value themselves and have the nerve to expect special treatment gifts and stuff from men oh no that's just so wrong no if holes love themselves more than regular women love themselves who give it up for free then it then it's a problem okay it is a problem long time ago regular women didn't give it up for a man had to wait the man had to marry them okay now you're giving it up for you why because you've been programmed to okay you've been programmed to give something that's worth a lot for free okay some of us are not programmed like that some of us understand what we can get and some of us understand how good we can live and some of us understand that having high standards also gets you a better lifestyle okay so and some of us understand that a word is a word and it has no power unless you give it power you know what I mean so all I'm saying is who's smart okay and a rich man will tell you all day not to give it up to these broke men because if you get pregnant Bob they can't help you you know rich man will say no you need to know you know you need to do better rich men will tell you this why are you doing this why are why are your standards so low don't you know your value don't you know how much you're worth you know they will tell you this all day but a broke man will tell you you're nothing you should be grateful I'm in your presence because they don't value you for you they only want your sex for free that is why they will always be mad they will always throw insults and call your hose because they can't afford you okay so understand when they're calling you holes it is translation damn I will never get that because I'm broke that's it okay it's a compliment now it's like you're telling on yourself first of all you're saying that you're broke second of all you want me to lower my standards so that you can meet them which means you will never rise to my standards which means why do I need you okay so when a man calls your prostitute and broke that means they can't rise to your standards and that they know they can never get you so they're just gonna insult you and walk away like a baby because they don't got what it takes to get with you okay so keep that in mind as well okay well I gotta go is 10 30 I gotta do work and I will be back maybe later this week yeah I got some things I gotta wrap up before I go to sleep so I will see y'all on the next one someone says how do you deal with jealous friends you don't dump them get some friends get rid of that energy you don't need that around you you know what I'm saying or just stop hanging around them as much and don't tell them about what you're doing you know just keep it blah with them you know oh you know next time somebody calls you out of your name ladies just understand what it really means they're broke they can't afford you they don't want to reach your standards and you should not lower they want you to lower your standards for them when they call you that and it just it's not gonna work guys like well you know you can't afford it keep it moving okay like you know what Richmond don't call me a home they call me a woman with standards the only reason you're calling me a whole is because you can't afford it you know you can't afford to take me to where I want to eat you can't afford to take me to shop where I want to shop you can't even afford my perfume baby okay you can't even afford to have me smelling like I smell okay you can't even afford to valet where I like to eat okay so don't come over here calling me no prostitute and no home why don't you go call up the number on the unemployment line or why don't you go call up the the 1-800 jobs number to help you because you know what if you're out here chasing women and you can't even afford to take them out everyone's a hoe okay you got McDonald holes and you have five-star restaurant holes either way somebody gonna want something from you okay so focus on that alright I'll see y'all later