 open topic, talk Sunday show. I'm James P. Madonna, your host and I'm gonna bring you my illustrious co-host here, the one and only, the Commodore Jeff Zanbello. Let me pipe on the board, the board, the pirate ship. The good ship, Lollipop. The good ship, Lollipop. Yeah, right. You know, life throws many knuckleballs. Let's put it that way. And you never know what the knuckleball is gonna do when it reaches the plate. If it's thrown by somebody that knows how to throw it, unfortunately. Oh, shit, the Guardians are five to four now, fuck. Who's pitching for some, Ammonager? Who's pitching for the anchor? It's all, I just, because I'm on the computer, but. Yeah, I know you're working and, fuck. But anyway, I just wanna remind everyone, well, it is the middle already. It is two weeks, the second, the end of the second week of April, 2024. And yes, it is spring and it's becoming more springy. You know, the weather is getting milder and I'm waiting, the daffodils are out already, but I'm waiting for the tulips and the. Tip-toe, to the tulips. Hold on. Did you do that on the zoo? Toot-toot-toot. Yeah, yeah. Toot-toot. The late, tiny Tim. Yeah. Who slept in separate beds with his wife, Miss Vicky, I remember. Miss Vicky, oh, maybe you're Miss Vicky, we slept in separate beds. But let me have a sip of my organic Peruvian dark roast, Chacha Mayo coffee. Would you get that, Trader Joe's? No, this supermarket chain called Acme. Oh. Yeah, they have a lot of organic foods now and it just so happens that the best teas I've ever seen, organic teas are from Canada. The ones in the United States have cheap filler in it, which doesn't surprise me. But what I do, I make my elixir earlier with the organic coffee, with a teaspoon of Trader Joe's organic cocoa powder and a tablespoon of organic dried sugarcane crystals and a scoop of organic Moringa powder, which is probably the most densely nutritious food on the planet. It even surpasses spirulina. And that is my elixir. That's how I usually start the day. You know, I flood my bloodstream with nutrients. Let me lower, let me remove the sound from my tone. And then I also take optimal antioxidants. The strongest antioxidant known to man is Astaxanthin, which is found in the cold water, the cold far north Atlantic and north near Antarctica also is found in the cold marine environment. And is it a plant cell? Well, what happened is it first occurs in algae, which is the way they're harvesting it now, a marine algae. What before the more expensive. Astaxanthin. There we go. Astaxanthin, right. So before they were harvesting it from krill, which are tiny cold water shrimp, but it was more expensive to harvest the krill. But now they discovered that the krill are probably eating the marine algae. And that's how they get it. That's the pigmentation. It makes them bright orange. Now this is from marine algae and it comes in a soft gel and I take the highest amount, 24 milligrams per day. And it even blows away clove oil. Clove was on top for a long time, but not anymore. Nothing comes close to Astaxanthin. So I make sure I don't ingest any toxic lectins. Usually the nightshade family has them, potato skins, tomato skins, egg plant skin, so on and so forth. And the skin of nuts, like the skin of almonds, they always recommend to soak your, if you have whole almonds, and that's the most reasonable way you can buy raw almonds. You soak them in water and the skin will loosen up and remove the skin and just let them dry out without any skin and they're fine. They're fine. Peanuts, same deal. Peanuts are high in lectins, most likely in the skin, but peanuts are not nuts. They're legumes. Yeah, they're in the bean family and all beans can, under no circumstances, should you eat any beans raw. They're highly toxic. Oh, I didn't know that. That's why the old timers would soak the beans overnight or longer, rinse them really good before they cook them. And of course, they cook them. Yeah, no, beans, beans, what a lectin is is Mother Nature's defense of the plant kingdom. Like the plant is saying, gee, I don't want any, but I don't want any animal to eat me. I don't want any animal to eat my seeds, so I have to prevent my species from reproducing. And that's Mother Nature's defense. And unfortunately, oats are high in lectin. That's why I rinse the oats in a colander by the kitchen sink. I rinse it until the water runs clear. And then I use the oatmeal, it should be fine after that. I'm not blaming the plants or Mother Nature. That's, you know, every creature, every living thing has their line of defense. And that's just a way that our human body has an immune system. Now, people that have certain afflictions, like let's say cancer, certain people that have that, they, what they should really do is focus on detoxification and keep their fiber high, keep the vegetables that are colorful, eat more of that, don't eat so much red meat, really cut down on the red meat. And most of all, no sugar and no refined carbohydrates, no white flour, no white rice, even milk has lactose in it. Carrots and tomatoes are to be used in moderation because they have sugar. Fruit, try your best to give fruit the boot, because fruit in, in, in the wild, when, before fruits were cultivated, fruits were consumed by animals that needed to fatten up for the winter season. And the sole purpose of fruit was to fatten up the animals for energy to have them survive winter when, you know, when food was scarce, when, when their regular food was scarce, you know, but fruit will really raise your blood sugar. Now, if you have to have it, you can have fruit high in nutrition, like electrolyte, like figs and dates, you know, and Turkish apricots, you know, very high in bananas, but not bananas, but get brown. Bananas that are yellow or yellow with green, you know, because once bananas start to get speckled, you know, the sugar content in the skyrockets, you know, so, yeah, so fruit and moderation. Actually, remember when we used to talk about Nova Scotia and the sea weed, that, that blows away, that blows away most foods in electrolytes. So for an athlete that needs- I just want some Ask the Xanthin. Ask the Xanthin, it comes in 12 milligrams. I'm getting it by Tuesday, April 16th on amazon.ca. I take two, I take two a day, I take two, I take two 12 milligrams a day and it comes, it comes 120 soft gels, 120 soft gels. This, you know, I did some research, I found the best bang for the buck and this is 120 soft gel, 12 milligrams each. So, you know, it comes 12 milligrams and 24. And they both say take one, but if they're selling 24 milligrams, I said, I want 24 milligrams. So I take two 12 milligram soft gels and you have to take it with fat because it's fat soluble. Vitamin E is fat soluble, vitamin A, coenzyme Q10, vitamin D is fat soluble, you know. And Ask the Xanthin is fat soluble. So, if you have, you know, if you haven't eaten whole milk in a house or 2% milk or if you're having a meal that has fat in it, like if you eat the pork chop or something, you know, that's a good time to take the Ask the Xanthin because if a vitamin is fat soluble, it works much better in the environment of fat. And the body can utilize it, it can absorb it much better. Who's Sid? Sid, Viagra works, I use him this morning. Awesome. Yeah, he came on last night. He comes on every now and then. Now, how long do you have to take Viagra before the blessed event, does it require 30 minutes, 15 minutes, I've never partook, so I don't know. Then I kicked the bitch out since she talks too much. Well, don't they all? They, you know, when they talk, it'd be nice. Look, even if they're chatterboxes with nonsense and positive, it could be any nonsense, you get nervous, right? You want to relax. You don't want to get... But if she's talking a lot, complaining, and pointing the finger at you, like everything is your fault in her life, that's bad. You know, because it's a psychological proven fact that happiness has to come from within you, not from an external source. Nobody can make another person that. That's right. You gotta find your own self-esteem and your own happiness. And don't give validation to them. Once you start, you know, giving them compliments and getting all lovey-dovey and romantic, what happens, their ego swells up and then you're not a challenge anymore. Then they treat you like a simp, like a whimper. And they start taking advantage of you and they lose respect. That's why they like the bad boys, because the bad boys are a challenge to the woman. Okay, I take the blue pill an hour before the bitch gets what she needs. Well, you get what you need too. That's funny. Shake, remember the disco song? Shake it up, shake it down, move it in, move it around, disco lady, move it in, move it out, shove it in, round about, disco lady. Yeah, that was an old song. And it was Push, Push in the Bush by these three tall black girls, New Zeke. Yeah, Push, Push in the Bush. I wish I could play these songs, but I can't because you too will take my show right off the air. You know, yeah, it's copyright. So it takes an hour for it to kick in now. Now, do you have any experience sit with Cialis? Or do you have a preference? Yeah, because what they do, you know, what Cialis and Viad would do is it increases your nitric oxide and it's the nitric oxide that creates the blood flow into the chambers of the penis and causes it the erection to take place. It's nitric oxide and that's what Viad would does. It's, and my urologist told me everybody thinks it's testosterone. No, no, no, testosterone helps with your sex drive but it's the nitric oxide production that creates the erection and that's what the drug does. So if you had any experience with Cialis, please share it with everyone on the show. That would be appreciated. Mo, mo, mo, how do you like it? How do you like it? Mo, mo, mo, how do you like it, Mo, mo, mo? How do you like it, Mo, mo, mo, how do you like it? Mo, mo, mo, mo, how do you like it, Mo, mo, mo, how do you like it, Mo, mo, how do you like it? Another club 54 classic. Oh, yes, studio 54, sorry. And back then there was a swingers club in New York called Play-Doh Street. I heard about that for a while about that one. Now on Monday, I was there once, on Monday you don't have to bring a girl. You know, guys could go in there without a girl and you know, you never knew or know it's there. They look like an abandoned, huge warehouse and you hear the music coming through the brick wall. And they had like a little awning, no sign. Just the address number. Sort of like a stick easy. Like a ride and you know, and you press the buzzer. You know the buzzer. One, two, three, boom, boom. Knock three times on the ceiling if you want to watch me twice on the pipe. If the answer is no. Oh, my sweetness. Be in the hallway. Oh, five, five. It's a bomb of the night, five, five. Oh, it's five, five now? What was I saying? What was I saying? I digressed. I got sidetracked. Like Frank Estanza used to say, I got sidetracked. What was I talking about? I talked above, I asked you about. And not your oxide? The oxide. And then something led me to talk about knock three times on the ceiling. Oh, God, six. This is what happens when I digress. Hey, Tommy Carroll, greetings, JPM and the Commodore. Hope you guys are having a wonderful Sunday. Yeah, it's okay. What's been happening here is when I got up this morning, the sky was clear as can be blue and clear. Then it got cloudy. Now the sun is out again. It just goes back and forth, you know, but it's nice. I mean, spring is definitely here. And I hope you're having a good weekend also, Tommy Carroll. You know, it's good to see you and Sid earlier in the day. So it's five, five now. The, We're two outs. You know, there's a man on second base. The Guardian, the Cleveland Indians were a 75 year old team and everybody was fine calling them the Cleveland Indians. And then with the political correctness and the bullshit, they changed the name to the Guardians, which is stupid. You know, they took that smiling Indian face. Yeah, Tomahawk Joe or Tomahawk Pat? No, Chief Wahoo, I think. I think his name was Chief Wahoo, something like that. They took him off. He had a big, big smiling grin on his face. It was cute. You know, I was when they did that. And you know what Guardians means? Yeah, you're a Chief Wahoo. Chief Wahoo, the Guardian means there's a very old bridge in Cleveland with two statues on it. And they called them the Guardians. That's what they named it after a couple of statues on a bridge. Okay. You know, I mean, I can understand the Washington Redskins, which is another old team, because Redskins is really not nice. It's not nice to call indigenous people Redskins. You know, but Indians somewhat, nobody had any bigoted thoughts about Native Americans in Cleveland. The fans of the Cleveland Indians had no negative racist thoughts in their mind. So, you know, they just, they overdo stuff. Like if they see it down south, if there's a statue of Stonewall Jackson, they have to tear it down. I mean, or Robert E. Lee, you know, to me, it's history. To me, history is education for children. You know, it's a historic landmark and it should be preserved and protected. And it should be, like I said, part of history and the education of history. So anyway, cutting to the chase to physical fitness. How was this past week? I got my work out again, but it was stressful. I lost an employee. We had to dismiss somebody. So I had to work extra to make up for it and I had to write a job description so I could put an ad out to get a new employee. So this employee who wasn't a great helper in the company, right, from what you. They were, they just couldn't get along with the other people. The person was loyal to me. Just, they couldn't get along with the other people. Did you guys analyze to see where the point was? Oh yeah, for months and months. There was a lot of warnings, written warnings and everything else. It just. Were the other people being petty and unfair to this one individual or was the one individual? Conflict. Anyway, I don't wanna talk about business on the thing here, but anyway, that being set up on my workouts, I got the workouts in. And yeah, so I'm better now. It was just, it was stressful, put it that way. And do you find the alternative exercises at the new gym to be getting easier for you? Yeah. Yeah, I always have a good workout. But I'm not doing extremely heavy stuff anymore because I could feel it in my older age now. And so I do moderate weight with excellent technique Yeah. You mean the joints? You feel pain in your joints? Yeah. And then my lower back and stuff, I didn't wanna do that. It's just age, a lot of miles on that back. Well yeah, you know, you just got to, it's like in Cuba, I guess because of the embargo, they don't have any new cars going into Cuba. So they have to, they take the late model cars and they just keep them going. Keep maintaining them and they're in immaculate condition. I mean, they have cars from the 1950s, 1960s, 70s, and they're in great condition, but they have no choice. So an older human, an older humanoid is like perpetuating like a late model car. Yep. Yeah, they have cars from the 50s that are excellent shape. Like I said, James, it's beautiful when they watch some documentaries and stuff. Even the guy that committed suicide, the Anthony, whatever his name was. Yup. Yeah. Anthony Fordain. And he showed like all the old cars and everything. Well, you know what they reminded me of? In this area, I don't know if they still do it, but they had classic car shows where they would all meet at like a barbecue establishment or a famous hot dog landmark. And they would all, the parking lot will be loaded with everyone's classic car. And I swear, you can eat off the engines. That's how immaculate these cars were. And they told me they have very low, low insurance policy on them because the only time they take them out for a ride is when they go to the classic car show. Otherwise it stays in like a garage. It stays covered up in the garage because they're investments, right? So they're there and they're playing all these music, maybe do-op and they're playing a lot of all these music and it brings a lot of people there. And of course, the establishment makes good money, selling food and beverage. And I see how incredible these old classic cars are being maintained. And that is an example of what they do in Cuba. And to the reason why I mentioned it, of course, that's how an older person can take care of their health and their body when it comes to physical fitness. And it will heal. And there's certain things I'm doing to actually rehabilitate and strengthen my back, like the glued hand raised machine and like doing long holds on, I can't forget the name of it. We'll lean over and you keep your back straight. Anyways, it's like a hamstring machine, I forget. But anyways, so doing all kinds of stuff for time under tension, then Jefferson lifts. Oh, you don't like those? Cause they jam through the wall. No, no, no, something called, I know what you're talking about. It's not that. The Jefferson lift is a very, it's a lighter delt but you only use your back and you actually go up on some blocks. So you get to reach way down. So it's strengthening your back. You're not doing 400 pounds. You're doing, you might start with 25 pounds on each side and strengthen all the vertebrae. And then when you go down, go down nice and slow. And the whole thing is to strengthen the muscles and the tissues around the vertebrae. Oh, the spinal erectors, that flank, they flank the spine. That's what the dips, I mean not dips, what am I saying? That's what swings, swinging between your legs with a kettlebell or that, that hits the spinal erectors. And they say the best way to protect your lower back is to strengthen your abs. It's the very best way. And I've been doing, I've been doing planks with the wheel. Oh yeah. Which they don't, they don't do when you, when you go to any videos demonstrating planks, you never see people doing it with the wheel. But this one article recommended it if you wanted to increase the challenge, the resistance of the plank. And, you know, because you have to balance yourself on your wheel, therefore the plank is more effective. But in my opinion, I think the plank is doing much more for me than any crunches, leg raises or sit ups or, you know, anything I've ever done for the abs. I mean, the plank is awesome, you know. And then a person, if they want, they can throw a lighter weight sandbag or Bulgarian bag over their upper back, you know, throw it up there and do planks, do resistance planks. But now sandbag is very versatile because they sell, they sell the empty bag, people can buy the empty bag itself. And they can fill it, they can go to Home Depot or whatever loaves and get some play sand or usually construction sand or play sand is, yeah, cheap, very expensive. You know, and it comes in like 40 pounds sacks or so and they can make it as heavy as they want. Unless somebody lives near a beach, which is very sandy, of course, you know. I'll tell you what that is. Which is of course very sandy. Yeah, and they also have empty Bulgarian bags now too, which are very similar to the sandbag. You know, me, I just use a fucking duffel bag that I had, I got duffel bags in storage. Yeah, I just took this black duffel bag and I just put the play sand in there. You know, I use that, but you know, you would have to use lighter weight if you're doing a plank. You couldn't, I mean, that's super duper advanced. If you're gonna throw a freaking 40-pack, you can get hurt. You throw 40 pounds on your back and do a plank. Why? I wouldn't chance that unless you're exceptionally advanced with your abdominal muscles. But that's what, now they call it the core. You know, the whole, I guess the whole midsection. It's free to cool off. Transfer, transverse abdominis, rectus abdominis, obliques, obliques that, well, that's the muscles of the midsection. Yeah, obliques being the side and, but, you know, what people are not aware of is that, you know, when you tell people about abdominal exercises, they always think of very high volume for the abs. Now, you treat the abs like any other muscle. You apply progressive resistance to abdominals. That's what makes the six-pack deeper, makes the ab muscle stick out more. It's when you strengthen the abs, okay, through progressive resistance. You know, if you keep on doing abdominal exercises with super high volume, okay, then it becomes an aerobic exercise, you know, and you're not getting the grooves of the separation and definition of the abs will not be as deep. Oh, Ethan, hi, my friend. Oh, thank you, Ethan. Ethan, beer and vinyl reviews. He is a classic vinyl record collector also, aside from doing craft beer reviewing. And are you, do you frequent, Eric Frenfeld, there's a wildcard Wednesday sometimes, Ethan, or are you a follower of Ronald J. Tyrio? Honestly, I forgot. There's so many people involved in craft beer reviewing. I lose track. Let me just leave voice message too. Oh, I'm sorry, the audio didn't go through. Oh, I'm on my Sunday live stream show now. My dear, so good morning to you and happy Monday to you. Okay, okay, Ethan says, last night I did bench press and some curls. That's good. If you're doing bench press, are you doing bench press at home or in a gym? Because if you're doing it with a barbell, make sure don't leave the collars off. In case you get stuck and there's nobody to save you, you just tilt your torso from side to side and you just let the plates go flying right off and just slide them right off, you know? Or if you're doing a dumbbell bench press, just drop them straight down. You know, if you don't have a, you don't have a workout partner that you can trust, you know, a training partner. Oh, okay, that's good. Yeah, I've been doing, I've been getting the most results from the old Mike Menser heavy duty training system where you do a warm up if you need it, one warm up and then you do six to 10 repetitions to absolute failure, followed by a drop set or a rest pause. You rest for like 15 seconds and pick the weight up again or you can do a drop set, a weight that's like about a third lighter and you just continue working out home. Okay, yeah, yeah, that, leave the collars off. Sid says he does squats over the bitch's head. You mean so you could teabag her? Yeah, in other words, you're naked and you're doing squats. And- That's funny. And you're scrotum, they call that teabagging and your scrotum is dipping into her mouth. Tiptoe to the tulips. Now we gotta continue on music. Tiptoe, I don't have a ukulele. Tiptoe through the tulips. I don't know all the lyrics. Doo-doo-doo, doo-doo-doo, doo-doo-doo. Doo-doo-doo, doo-doo-doo. Rock, rock, rock, rock, rock, rock. Rock, rock, rock, rock, rock. Knock three times on the ceiling, if you want me, twice on the pipe, if you know. All my sweetness, you can make me in a hallway. Knock three times. Knock three times. Knock three times. We are streaming on YouTube and Twitter and we have a reasonable amount of viewers now. Let's see. Ethan says, if you drink lighter beer, can you still exercise and keep a good weight? Yeah, why not? Wow, hey, if you drink if you drink heavy-duty dark craft beer, you can still keep a good weight. Just don't drink a whole case of beer. Don't, you know, drink in moderation. You know, a lot of a lot of these Trebronis on these liquor shows, liquor review shows, they go on and they give a review and then they get completely drunk on the show. You know, you do, I was told, I had Eric Farnfelder on my Saturday night show last night. It was excellent, excellent show. So anyway, he told me, he says, I says, look, I says, you're an outstanding reviewer. I really enjoy your reviews. And I told the same thing to Michael Goldsmith Hilton, who was on my show. I says, but if you're gonna do a solo craft beer review video, you're gonna go live. And you're not expecting a panel to appear on your show and you're doing a solo. Do one review of one product and that's it. Don't get another one, a second one, a third one, end up drunk on the show. It's funny. Yeah. Yeah. Like if you got, let's say you got a New England IPA or a West Coast IPA, Sierra Nevada, whatever. And you got, or what do you call founders, which is a great company. You got a founders, Octoberfest, Mars, and whatever. Do that review for that one product and end it. And then, you know, you know, the next time, do another one, do another review. Just don't get drunk and you won't get a beer belly because you are, you know, even if you're eating a lot of good food, don't eat, don't eat empty calories, don't eat junk food, eat healthy food. So but you can eat a substantial amount of healthy food and protein because you got to get at least one half to one gram of protein for every pound of body weight. Okay. You know, you need the raw materials. Okay. And you'll be fine. I'm sorry I was long winded. Well, have an occasional stout or porter or heavy IPA. I'm not saying you can't have any, but have one, have one, one or two per week. You'll be fine if you're working out consistently. I'm not a fan of macro. I don't like any corporate chain, macro beers because they're loaded with preservatives and chemicals. And besides, they give me a heartburn. They give me heartburn. If I if I drink a quality of beer, crap, I don't get sick. The guy you had on last night was hammered. Oh, y'all, you're talking about Eric? He was, he thought he was hammered? Nah, he was tired. Unless he was hammered. Maybe he was hammered. I don't know. You know, I but he wasn't. I could tell what Eric had to drink. He slurs. He slurs his speech. Okay. I want to show the comment or I want to bring up a video about, you know, it, there's with what, in my opinion, feminism, manhating feminism has brainwashed today and cause them and really directly sabotage normal straight heterosexual relationships have been sabotage by the brainwashing that they've done and Sid would appreciate where I'm going to show. What's this? 83 degrees in Georgia. Oh, okay. My friend Gabriel Salias in Arizona has 90 degrees. Feels like summer. Summer. Oh, yeah, you, you typed an M instead of an M, instead of an M. That's okay. I know what you mean. I know what you mean. All right. Let me get this up and this, these are, these are girls that are nitpicky and demanding when it comes to men. But the question is what do they bring to the table? Okay. Let me know when it's up because I think, I think Sid and possibly Ethan and hey, Mr. Bart Robinson, my friend. Hey, guys, just got done with the yard work, hitting the showers, then a cold schlitz. Hmm, schlitz, schlong, schlitz is good for the schlong. Okay. I'm going to play and you guys sit down. Yeah, it's up. The video's up. All right. So I think like the bigger question, because you have like these high standards for your man, right? What are you prepared to offer him? Well, myself. Like, what do you think that you, okay. Man, I've seen that clip like a few times. I didn't think that I would laugh again. For some reason, silence. It just tickles me. And then the woman like who's asked the question, who's like gets that, that meaningless answer is like flabbergasted. Well, I mean, like, okay, I guarantee that this woman here, it's the first time in her life that she's ever thought about it. Like what would I have to offer a man? That's why she's completely speechless. She doesn't know what to say. It's like the question broke her brain. You know, she's like, yeah, like I have high standards for men. He has to be this. He has to do this. So you ask her, so what are you willing to offer him in return? And it's like an error message in her brain. She doesn't understand. It doesn't compute. She's like, I'm a woman. I'm perfect. What is the question? What do you mean laughing? But in true psychology behind it is actually pretty dark. This is what it reveals is that for women, they believe themselves to be up here as just default like de facto like I'm a woman. I'm amazing. But you know, for a man, he has to, you know, earn his way up to being her equal to be worthy of her. He has to be this. He has to do this. He has to perform in this way. And only then is, you know, he worthy of being in the same, you know, sentence as a woman. It's plain here the worst it's going to seem. In this video, I'm going to explain relationships in a way that you've probably never heard before. But once you understand it, you're going to see why she had complete silence of being asked that question. And first of all, don't think for a moment that this woman is rare or some kind of exception. That silence that you saw her being speechless. That's what most women are going to spit. I encourage you to go and try this out. Ask the women in your life. First, ask them, what does a man need to be or what does a man need to do in order to be your partner to be worthy of you? And then, you know, sit patiently while you listen to a very long list. He needs to be like this. He needs to be like this. He needs to have achieved this. He needs to be doing this. And you know, if he fulfills all those criteria, then yeah, now I'll be with him, you know. And then just like the interviewer asked this woman, ask her in all sincerity what she's going to offer a man in return. Be prepared for the same speechless response as women will not know what to say. Hey, if you live in one of these cities right here, why don't you own an apartment building? Seriously, let me show you a path that could absolutely change your life and unlock financial freedom. You might be thinking right now, listen, Tyler, I don't have millions and millions of dollars sitting in a bank account. Hell, I don't even know what a good deal would look like or how to get started. And that's okay because just for a second, I want to challenge you to think bigger than you've ever thought before. Because in just a minute, I'm going to give you the exact process that I've taught my students to use every single day. To create an empire by owning this big kind of country. Say that silence is actually deeply revealing of just how much sexism exists in our culture towards men and perhaps worse than that worse than the existence of that sexism. Damn right, sexism towards men, the dirty double standards with feminism and today's rotten negative confrontational attitude that these women have is just how unconscious women are of their own sexism. What do I mean by that? Okay, let's start with the basics. Let me tell you something that maybe nobody's ever told you before, which is that romantic love is transactional. Anybody who is expecting their partner to love them unconditionally to just love them no matter what feels that way because they were not properly loved by their own parents. They have a frozen emotional need. And so they turn their partner into a surrogate parent and then try and fix their child issues by shaming their partner in them unconditionally. And yes, it is exactly as messed up as it sounds turning your romantic partner into a surrogate parent. It's incredibly toxic, it's codependent and in time it will inevitably become abusive because at a core level, it's trying to judge a fish by its way, the love of a romantic Oh, the Commodore just left. I thought this video was very enlightening to men. What the hell did he just leave for? He just split. It's not, it's not yet time for him to go to the gymnasium. Tick relationship was never meant to be the same kind of love that you see in a parent child relationship. A good mother does love her child unconditionally at least for the early years. And it's been well established that children do need that that means a developmental need that they have. But they get older, they mature, they grow up, they adults who are raised by healthy, well adjusted parents don't crave unconditional love in their romantic relationships because they understand that was the need they had when they were a toddler. They don't need that as an adult. They understand that romantic love is different in substance because romantic love is transactional in its nature. It has to be because romantic love is voluntary, nobody's forcing you to become someone's boyfriend or girlfriend. And it doesn't make sense to voluntarily spend your life with somebody unless you're selfishly receiving a benefit. Men and women in romantic relationships trade with each other. I'll bring this to the relationship. If you bring that to the relationship, I need you to bring a little bit more of that. But if you do, I'm prepared to bring a little bit more of this. And if we both think that we're getting a good deal, then we'll go ahead with a relationship and observe both of our interests. Modern women like this one have a 50% understanding of that. She understands on her end that it makes no sense for her to be in a relationship with a man unless he's bringing some tangible improvements to her life. In order for her to commit, she needs to know that it's selfishly going to be in her best interest to be with him. That part she understands she's got that 50% absolutely down. But the missing 50% is where she is meant to serve her husband and his needs. When you ask modern women, what are you going to do to improve the life of the man that you're with? You know, what are you going to bring to the table? What are you going to offer him? That's where you get that error message where it's like it doesn't compute. This question makes no sense. I'm the woman I meant to receive. I'm not meant to give. And that's why I say that modern women in this culture have a deep toxic unconscious sexism against men. We saw examples of that in my course. So where does sexism come from? And why does nobody seem to notice how sexist the average woman is? Why does no one talk about it? A lot of it goes back to the lack of understanding about the transactional nature of relationships and misdiagnosis of the dynamics behind traditional marriages. A lot of what we're seeing now is this backlash against this false narrative. So let me unpack this radical feminist railed against the traditional marriage structure. They called it exploitative and controlling. You know, you think of like a typical 1950s, you know, husband and housewife. Now that argument to be made that when gender roles are too strictly enforced by a culture, it is unnecessarily restrictive on personal liberty. But my God, the over correction in the modern era is insane. And frankly, the demonization of the men of the past is disgusting. The painting of all married men in the past as these toxic controlling abusive patriarchs who exploited their wives is fucked up. That is a deeply sexist narrative. And it's just plain wrong. Let's look at traditional marriages through the lens of a transactional relationship and see how it stacks up. Okay. What are your expectations of a traditional man? Provide the money. Don't hit her. Don't cheat on her. It's pretty basic. It's pretty low expectations. But you know, back in the day, as long as a man fulfilled those criteria, he was considered a good man and benefited her. Of course it did. That's why women back in the day wanted to get married because provide the money is not my friend low expectation. I beg to differ. Especially these days with the astronomical price gouging a high cost of living. The marriage would provide safety, security, dignity, respect from her friends and neighbors. And what did she provide in return? Gratitude, housekeeping, all the cooking and cleaning, raising children, sex. These elements formed the basic transaction that so many couples made. Their pair bonding was concretized using these elements as the cement. Hey husband, you go out into the world, you take your masculine energy and then you trade your labor for some money and then you bring that money back and spend it on the household. Hey wife, okay, I'll do that, but I'm out here working hard so while I'm working can you make sure that everything in the house is clean, that the children are being raised properly and that there's a hot meal on the table when I get back from work? That's it. It's not that controversial. That was the trade being made. It's not the radical exploitation that feminists were making it out to be. Both parties were benefiting from this transaction. Yes, as much as it pisses them off, it is their job because if they're not working, helping to pay the bills, sharing the bills with the man in their life, they're home. Well, what do they expect to do? Nothing. It is their job. Being a homemaker and a mother and a wife is their job. Otherwise, go back to work and help pay the bills and pay half of the rent or half of the mortgage and half of the gas and electric bill and the cable and the car insurance and blah, blah, blah. They got to do something to contribute. You could say that the woman's life was pretty boring being stuck at home and doing all of that housework, but I mean, yeah, the man's life going to some factory or office job is pretty boring too. It's not a boring. It's boring. It's redundant. They have to put up with bullshit and possibly verbal abuse from some asshole douchebag supervisor, you know, or CEO or something. Yeah, the man has to put up. The man has to fight traffic to get to work in his commuting. If it's winter, he has to dig the snow from his car and chop the ice off the windshield before he deals with the traffic of going to work and commuting or dealing with the public transportation to get to work. Yeah, the man has to put up a lot of bullshit and women want you to feel sorry for them. You know, all right. Feminists want women not to be housewives and housewives and homemakers and mothers. They want women to have careers to go out in the workforce and have or be self-employed to work. You know what? You want to do that? Fine. Pay half of the living expenses. That's it. Otherwise, show them where the front door is. This is a great red pill video for this show. And I'm really kind of surprised that the Commodore left so fast. The story of exploitation. Both genders suffered under their roles, but they're working together. They're creating this partnership in order to benefit each other and themselves. But somehow this awful sexist narrative that marriage was inherently exploitative and, you know, men were controlling women through the institution of marriage. That's what went mainstream. That's what people believed. My guess is that there were probably enough examples of genuinely horrible men who treated their wives like property and were like abusive to them. That there was enough ammunition for feminists to point to those examples and then paint the whole concept of traditional monogamy and commitment as though it reflected those fringe cases. Former CIA official warns deadly strike coming to America's power grid. Can you keep your family safe when the lights go out? And maybe it was a fringe. Maybe it was 10, 20, 30%. I don't know. But whatever the number, if you ask modern women coming up in the culture today what their opinion of those traditional marriages were, they'll all tell you the same thing. That was back when women were treated like slaves and they were abused by men and they were exploited. That's their perception of what that marriage was. No concept of the actual transaction that was being made. If you ask them about the suffering that the men might have encountered in fulfilling their role of the bug, you know, how hard it was to go out to work, to have all those financial responsibilities on his shoulders, any of the suffering that came with his roles, it's completely dismissed, negligible, unimportant. You know, we don't care about men's suffering. But the woman's suffering, she had to do all that housework. She was bored sitting alone. Her children sometimes acted to deal with that. Oh my god. Protect them, protect the precious women and conveniently will also completely ignore all of the benefits that marriage brought to a woman's life. It even got to the point where you had radical feminists claiming that motherhood was a form of exploitation of men. A way to keep women enslaved and in bondage. Motherhood is exploitation of women. Think about that. Think about how twisted and far from reality you have to go before you can say something like that with a straight face. And so for modern women who sincerely believe you can buy, they can't just for the old transaction, you, your masculine part. I'll do my feminine part because to them that seems like exploitation. That seems like slavery. It's sexist. It's exploitation. I'm a modern woman. I need more. So specifically, what do modern women want? You know, you ask them, what are you expecting? Well, I'll tell you one thing. They're still expecting to be financially taken care of. Despite all the claims of gender equality, if you ask a woman how she wants her husband to spend his time, she's going to talk about his job, about how much money he's going to be bringing home. I've never met a woman who asked, what's your ideal man in the future? Her saying, oh, I don't want him to work. I want him to stay home and be a house husband and raise the money. Women still provide the money. Watch this clip. What would your husband's income be? Like 200,000 plus 250. Oh, gee. Probably like 100 K and up. If the average is like 50, maybe like 70 plus. 70 plus. What do you chicky poos bring to the table? If you expect a man who's financially independent or high income to be to be interested in you, get and marry you and be loyal to you. What do you females bring to the table? Okay. I guess maybe like 80 K. Okay. His income should be something close to about 160,000. I would like to say maybe 100,000 at least. Yeah. This is so high but I guess you'd have to be like a million. So they all give different answers. Some of those women, I mean the entitlement and hypergamy system off the charts, but what they all have in common that they don't even question is, yeah, my husband has to work. He has to be making money. So I thought this girl was working out like crazy, but she wasn't. I met her yesterday at the gym and I asked her, how do you look so great? Hasn't changed. That traditional expectation is absolutely still there, but if a man thinks that that's all that's expected of him, those traditional masculine roles, he's got to bring home a paycheck and you know don't hit her and don't cheat on her and that's going to be enough is delusional. Modern women need equality, which specifically means he needs to do equal work in all the areas that were traditionally a woman's role. Equality means the man needs to do half of the cleaning, half of the shopping, half of the cooking, half of the parenting. That's what equality looks like. But I actually wouldn't argue that that's the biggest additional expectation on top of men from the traditional days. No, the biggest new expectation from women of their boyfriends and husbands is that that man is going to be there to meet all of her emotional needs. That's new. It didn't used to be that way, but if you are her husband then you're expected to listen to every thought, every feeling, every opinion, every emotion she's experiencing and you have to respond perfectly and if what she's going through is quite distressing to her, it's your job as the man to fix it. I hate to sell out my own gender here, but us men we're not particularly good at doing that. Deep conversations that are you know highly emotional require a lot of introspection. Yeah that's not our strong point, but still that is now part of the minimum expectations for a man. So if you think that you can just be nice to her and hand her some middle class you know paycheck each week and then you've done your duty you're kidding the expectations and requirements for men has risen so much. It's still all the money that you need to provide but now it's also half of all the domestic chores and meeting almost all of her emotional needs too. It's a lot and it especially stings that we exist in the culture that paints men as though they're these awful sexist leeches. When men are doing so much more now than they ever did in the past you've never had anything like the culture as it exists now. There's never been a time in history where men have done more to serve women's needs and yet at the same time it seems like there's never been a greater level of vitriol towards men. It's one of the reasons why at some point you just start tuning out all the complaints about men because you think look this there's no acknowledgement of the progress that's already been made so it just seems like you know there's no winning the desire for men to do more and more and more it just seems insatiable and this is why you have so many men who just look at modern marriages and relationships and say ah it's not worth it this transaction sucks I'm getting a bad deal. The juice is just not worth the squeeze gentlemen you know you're you're uh if you were investing money uh you would bail out because the return would be horrible. The requirements for men has risen so much and at the same time the expectations for women have sunk. There is less expectation on women to solely do the housework the cooking the cleaning the shopping the parenting and if you even remotely suggest that it might be a wife's duty to attend to her husband's sexual needs God help you. So for everything that men are offering women what exactly are they getting in return? Let's watch the video again it's so funny. So I think like the bigger question because you have like these high standards for your man right? What are you prepared to offer him? Well myself. Like well what do you think that you okay? Why does this make me laugh so much? Men are you paying attention? Her silence speaks volumes. So here is my advice if you are dating someone and you are considering making them your wife be explicit about what you're trading with each other. Romantic relationships are transactional and so lay out the terms of the deal as clearly as you can. Had the conversations talk about it this is what I am offering and this is what I would like in return. The true love is unconditional myth is total bullshit it's just used by women who want to manipulate men into getting stuff we're not having to give anything back. Getting married is a huge deal and I want you to get a good deal so lay out the terms. Do not settle for vague answers have her actually lay it out. Okay if we team up if we do this thing if we create a marriage we partner up like this I'm going to be contributing this. I'm going to be contributing my respect my companionship my fidelity this much of the housework this much of the parenting. I don't know the exact details about what you want out of your marriage and what your vision is for your life going into the future so that's not for me to actually dictate the terms of your deal I'm just saying make a deal talk about it find out exactly what you're signing up for. If you don't you might accidentally wipe up a girl who has this unconscious belief that it's her role as a woman to get served by you whereas she should do nothing in return. Too many men are underestimating the value of what they're bringing into a relationship you're giving up your freedom you're giving up a huge amount of money you're giving up like there's an opportunity cost all these other options that you could have pursued but you didn't because you chose her that's a big deal you're giving up a lot please make sure that you're not giving it up for nothing make sure you're getting something good in return do not make the trade unless you perceive that you are receiving something of equal or greater value now this dynamic can get a lot more complicated when you have women in the workforce because it's like right well I'm the man I'm providing the money but she also has a job and she's providing money and so how does this upset the balance of gender roles and what you're trading with each other I answer that question in the full version of this video I actually go into a lot of details and nuanced topic if you want to see how that disrupts the balance of a relationship if you want to answer that question come over to patreon you can see the full version of this video when you're seeing here on youtube this is just a shortened abridged nah it's simple my friend it's simple if if she's working and um and you're working and even if you're making a lot more than she is making let's say the man has a career that's paying a high salary and the woman has a job in retail she might be an assistant manager she might be a store manager or she might be a cashier okay of course you're not going to expect her to pay 50% of the bills so her contribution should be equal to her salary and compared to him and also you should not have a you should not have a champagne taste for the beer wall if you're a couple never live beyond your means okay because you will be in debt which is not good if you don't have the cash it really was never meant to be so uh but if if she's making if she's a career woman making a high salary and you are not making anywhere near what she's making then you do you do the same thing except the opposite you know then the husband would pay for less or maybe the husband would pay oh the gas and electric bill the cable tv and then you know the internet or something like that and then she would pay for the rest you know it's really not complicated you know uh so i don't know where this guy gets that it's a complicated situation when the man and the women are working you know it's just it's it's common uh common sense of counting you know that's all but see the problem is let's say you you come to an agreement before you get married right and you do exactly what that guy said come to an agreement and she says okay that sounds fair you hug give a hug and a kiss you're not shaking hands because it's your it's your girlfriend now hugging a kiss say okay sounds good sounds like a plan the problem is once you get married um that's when it becomes complicated especially if you have a child because the law always favors the woman in the courts and the man gets screwed over so you know it's like all right uh donald trump not not to bring up donald trump but you know a very rich man would have the female sign a prenuptial agreement she doesn't want if you have big bucks and she and the girl doesn't want to sign a prenuptial agreement don't get married to her don't get married okay let's say she signs it and then later on let's say the marriage doesn't work out and uh you know she wants a divorce and everything she could the the women are are are favored so much in society that she can contest the prenuptial agreement that's not fair that's that these are the dirty low down underhanded double standards of feminism today okay um so that's it Bart Robinson you are absolutely correct in your statement and people know exactly what Bart Robinson is saying I don't have to say that word but Bart Robinson is correct and I agree with him as my just like my Italian grandfather used to say scuma they are scuma which means scum they stink on ice he used to say they stink on ice which is pretty rotten rancid fish if the fish stink on ice that's pretty bad anyway thank you everyone collectively everyone Bart Robinson uh Sid uh Ethan the Commodore Jeff Sanbello let's see well Tommy Carroll so I don't forget people thank you everyone for joining me for my Sunday afternoon open topic talk and red pill show I don't know what the fuck happened to Ronnie Simpson of Clearwater Flores his wife probably nagged him you know probably saying it's Sunday don't go live with with your male friends it's Sunday you know it's it's it's you're supposed to spend quality time with me on Sunday wow wow wow wow wow or he could be at the pool in Clearwater Florida he could be you know at the cabana but next to the the in-ground pool down there you know because of the weather it's possible maybe it's not even his wife's fault but you know what I bet he has to I bet he gets a gear for from his wife guaranteed the other guy that used to do shows with me well at the time we were very close friends very dedicated progressive uh Mr. Jason Cleveland of Seattle, Washington you know his wife would constantly complain and tell him what to do non-stop control his life in every way possible you know and complain that he was doing a live stream show with me and and I know other men in the same situation that have a significant other that they're co-habitating with okay men have to set boundaries no I'm not going to give up my hobbies and interests no I'm not going to give up my close friends no I'm not going to abandon my family the women wouldn't do that no you're not better than me because you're a female no you don't deserve to be entitled yeah men have to set the uh the boundaries you got to draw a line in layman's terms Bart Robbins says hopefully Ronnie's getting some and not baking cookies yeah hopefully Ronnie's not baking cookies would it would it would an apron on nag nag nag you're absolutely right yeah absolutely right complain complain complain but when you first start dating them they're very nice to you though you notice that but you wouldn't dare burp or fart in front of them at the beginning but you know once you get to know each other you can let it rip but then the nagging starts and usually it's from because of money good good morning assuming my dear from southeastern Japan from Chiba Prefecture Japan good morning to you you caught me on the end of the show I'm ready to close the show but you know at least you're here thank you for coming Masumi I appreciate it so we have international fans and Bart Robinson also says Masumi greetings from Bart Robinson okay okay and I will close the show in in uh 30 seconds about 30 seconds hello Robinson he's not not Robinson Crusoe that was uh marooned on the island with his South Pacific Polynesian friend named Friday no not not that Robinson alright thank you everyone have a pleasant Sunday evening and have a equally pleasant beginning of a new week I know Monday is really not the most popular day of the week especially if you work in an office people dread Monday but I don't have that issue for my situation have a great evening enjoy the beautiful weather yes bring us here the daffodils are out and just a matter of time before the tulips and the crocus and the azalea bushes uh and the dogwood trees will bloom and the pansies must not forget the pansies there's a lot of pansies that didn't make it to the show today but the pansies the flower that looks like a man with really thick bushy eyebrows and a big mustache if you ever take a good look at a pansy flower you know but uh the good thing about tulips is they love a cool spring so if you have a big tulip bed in your in your front yard with beautiful colored tulips they love a cool spring when if it gets hot their short lives they go limp they go limp all right people I am now going to decide what Chinese food to order that's my usual tradition when I do 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