 Tell them Tell them Instagram underscore D underscore Jerry Facebook down in Jerry and then there's Twitter Jerry Kinoziya This sounds too professional Kingu ki wadi yungu hefi Kingu ki wadi yungu hefi Okay King Please reintroduce yourself Thank you Val It is a beautiful morning You also look quite nice Thank you so much My name is Byrono Genga I'm from Otaang I know that was my reaction the first time So On Facebook you can follow me Byrono Uko Twitter Gengo Uko and Instagram Byrono Uko I would like to give a special shoutout to someone who just came looking fancy inside the studio His name is Fred Nameva Pans Zabulu Which brings us to a topic today Blue ticking Madam Come to have a meeting Why do you blue tick us? I know we are all guilty I will start with me Number one Me Honestly I don't know I have a conversation within my head Let me turn up on your text And I'm like Okay, I answer it in my head But I don't end up typing Okay Don't blue tick me back Honest Why do we blue tick? I think Yeah But On my personal account If I blue tick your reply Or if it's something that requires long attention I'll tell you maybe after some minutes or after this long But let me tell you Now in the context of our relationship You can blue tick somebody and expect the same conditions It is bad Two When you blue tick somebody At least our reason Like she is saying that You feel it in your head But you don't write it down I don't know what goes on In your head But I want to say that That tells us the level of Attention You pay to something Or the level of our attention You pay to your relationship But again Blue tick means that It also tells the other person to be patient Yes Because every other person is busy Or may have that particular time Apoka busy kwanza But that should not be an excuse Why That's because he's agreeing with everything Don't, don't That should not be an excuse Personally, I blue tick him Because of many reasons Maybe we may choke her At other times We may have a laser question It's kind of We don't know what to answer So we may have blue tick Other times You don't know what to say And Where's the tome emoji? Onaji boku akili You got the answer But you can't write it But personally you can blue tick I'll be so mad Okay, why are there double standards ladies Why is it that it's okay For you to blue tick someone But it's not okay for them to blue tick you But in all honesty We don't know how to blue tick Let's just be honest We don't know how to blue tick You can't afford to blue tick You can't afford to blue tick No, you know No, you got it We may choke her You see that same That same attention Pay it across That is manas But we can't go Just giving attention to everyone All the time People are busy for it Some people are so naggy They are there high Every time high Good morning Good night How did you sleep? How was that sleep? I don't know how to sleep One day nili sleep next to the wall Karimu na chaja Nili kwa nili na lalata How I sleep You see how you acting But if it's someone that you care about If it's your crush How did you sleep I agree Hey, you can give a paragraph Manas tu pema I don't agree with you guys Why? She has just confessed this That's one person Akim Ayizi blue tick What happens When a colleague or a staff Or maybe your boss Or any other good friend Let alone these crushers Who takes your number From somebody else and high And he expects a conversation That will I'll really give that A lower level of attention But now this come in Because if you blue tick me It is inbuilt So it becomes a behavior A lot of behavior You go into crisis That I saw it But now I don't know what happened And maybe you miss something big What I want to tell is That communication is key And communication means It is a process Where I communicate You communicate To be converse I have a question Is it as deep If I blue tick you But I'm going to see you tomorrow Recommend to me a text Ni ni ni sasi To tapata na kiesho What is the sense of me replying A moment to make it to deep Deep deep Namalini ko I can't process Like I already had deep things For the day Ni me fika mwisha Ni me fika it is see When I want to come Giza usiku Nona just na patana the next day You want now me to spend Me energy I want to be to sifahi You know I want to be to sifahi You know I want to be to sifahi I want to be to sifahi I want to be to sifahi Uso Let's agree Yo, niga se rinta sumane Every long message is boring But maybe If we are meeting with you tomorrow I need to know yourself One, I need to know your security Two, and I need to know At what time will you be coming If at all you are to meet Or at what time we Shall we be meeting At that meeting point Did we not agree these things? No, no, no, no Maybe I have a change of schedule Ni me enda club Ni me Rudy I'm still tired I need to freshen up By that time Ni teginize cha kula ni kule Maybe it is noon And we were supposed to meet At around 10 So I'll shift it from 10 To one or two That will also inquire I will also want to inquire from you On how you think about that It is not a must That you respond But it is good It is kateshaz enough Yes So it's I know Like it's deep when we don't reply Yeah it is And it is bad manners How do you feel? It brings a negative emotion Like how do you value me? What do you take me for? Wa unani beba aje Yes, indeed Namaku na kujama na tuambetu Sipimema na umi aki Kama nusri Inafa iku wei Msi ya kiku blotik Ufa iku jam Muia yubari ating fona Na wei mbonu na jam uki blotikia Seriazli To mi, ukin ni blotik And first start thinking What's up any, what's up Sasa apu kwa thinking What you wanna jump into conclusions You say You say We are all creatures of emotions And nobody likes being ignored If you blotik me And I still see you online And many blotik What is going on? Acha orangutu Let me tell you a secret Before we now we are Okay, reform nivi I'm going to tell the secret And then I'm going to read the message And then we're going to Go to the templates, okay Form Wait for me on Facebook Or to wait for me on Twitter Me, me, hey The rate at which I blotik Is even just disgusting And it's not even my fault Change it So imagine Senmenda apu what's up I'm just feeling my phone Vibrating as we speak So I remember blotik To juniko online Aya So niki enok funguwa na patazikoivi So I first deal with these ones By the time I finish I'm tired Kumbena ya uli kum Kuku chili Now jo ever Don't post memes Because I am a meme lord I will post them And feel no shame Like in memes Last mazi post them There are people Do you know there are people Who are just waiting for me To put memes They even ask me Val uko api So certainly when it's a point To just jump Hey Aji There are no so happiness But at the bottom Everybody is important So long as you have Their contacts Everybody is very important To you Or even themselves So this is the situation I'm seeing When you in that caliber My number one question Is that What are my expectations When I'm engaging with Val So that I don't raise The bar too high So that most of the time I'm hot We have to have a minimal Standard of understanding That Val Right now is our studio Up to this time Approximately she will be free So by that time I can at least Engage your beat Sio hile Mutana takwa mume Muka su bato ja You've not done your Morning ritual Obrashi Morning ritual Excuse me a bit Badako nawewe Una di lenda Some are so nagilani As a whole then again Let's just keep it this way Me am your friend Nisa wa We are friends It still has not won Kew from Monday to Sunday Sure It still has not won We text each other You'll still be friends You're not losing that friendship Ate ita kwa Boring At the end of the day You'll be boring when you keep Ani ngoji u change Change kido gata kere Una mimi Una mimi Ita kutumi ya memes Apo kwa memes Lakin ni We don't have to keep Talking, talking, talking Talking, talking Now you see the problem We are about to come To ask you a question Wait, mimi onave mongia Hi, hi Val Johnny here Niza kula blutik Spatch na ziba raka I've dumped 20 girls because of it Wow Why now baby? Impetience Impetience Okay So blutik is a reason To dump someone now Ya, it can be Ya, it can be It can be It can be In a relationship Communication is key Very key Hey What happened to calling me o If it's just burning your heart And your intestine Just call that and say Why you sending me a message At Casina Bandos Don't blame At Soutan Chapa At Thompson is a whaon name Lekini u charge Amasimui koko Now na cha pashuguli apa Ta mebuna unna usha nyumba In doing constructive things And now you want The temperature here It's getting a lot Because you're a victim Because you're a victim Akini me I want to Public service announcement I'm sorry You can say If I fail to call you And I've texted you Don't blame the application That we use to Convey our messages Or the channel On which we communicate Everything is efficient What depends is how we use it To the extent it now goes Notice that You blue taking I'll complain I'll tell you why do you take long too You see this sounds nice Right now that you've put it It sounds perfect Unless sasa uji pate uko ocha And now things are not efficient I make to me a message Now when impact U pandem tindo pate reception And now I'm blue taking Ocha Reserve Kitavel You want to tell me All these columns of our lands Here they have Wi-Fi I know you're dodging it I'm not dodging These things happen These things happen Amo jipato ke githo Na wangalisimu vizuri You are there busy Replying I'll have to end it I'll end it I'm so mad I'm so sad Ngunu leg What is the problem That I'm going to think about How to replace this Thing that I've lost I'm a now you At Elve We have our first question Do we say something When we blue take Do we say something When we blue take So we say communication is key And not saying something Silence is also communicated So do we say something When we blue take In some instances We're saying something Like I don't want to talk to you Whatever you told me Maybe probably hurt me And I don't want to reciprocate Or I need to get over you So I don't want to talk to you Na jwa I need to move on And moving on means Not communicating Good You see Around times I feel like maybe We should be grateful in life That you can even experience blue takes Do you know how long My blocked calls are So numbers What is it? My block I'm so glad My network subscriber Does not put a limit Because anyway So I count on blue take Ma zeshkuru mungu Kwa list? Ya No No I always look things from there From my perspective Being conscious Being conscious and mindful Because if you are conscious You will prioritize that Even if you are in a relationship But this time Somebody should know you operate And your personality Should be open there So by the time I blue take you I have one obligation The only obligation I have Is to answer you back Or tell you I'm busy Or later But it is very uncouthed To blue take somebody One all day And after You know once I will reply one week later You see him From time to time Because you are curious You are very anxious And It's kind of Your emotions are boiling I'm connecting to your So when I pay I'm not emotional Very Very And you see And the worst thing Or butikin Is To now create the The feeling of maybe She is lying Or she is cheating Weh weh weh weh weh Okay Better face the truth Of replying Atatama you know You somewhere you are engaged Better say the truth Than leave that guy to Make assumption based on Falsud Okay I have another scenario Then this is real life Of course in my experience Good For example if someone had WhatsApp me at that particular point Then I would reply Angekulabutik Take it take it This is Val Amenda Kwa Simu Niniwa So Simu naisha charge Token zimeisha So she recharge Simu So nenda kubai token So amanda nenda kubai token Kwa jasimengu It's very disrespectful It can be a 10% Naiji yambe izimi So You know So I'm rushing rushing rushing I'm going then I have to use mobile money So hey Mi faian mi faian mi faian Oh my gosh I forgot to put off Data message in Nengia But I'm busy I'm focused Because sayismik Izima nivo I think We didn't need to go To the level of rushing The other party But how comes Ukitunua empesa Nime pata Very immediately What a senate me pata Quetish and you very fast Baby we urgently need Agently need Agently need Agently need Agently need Agently need I'm really glad that we know ourselves I'm really glad that we know ourselves Glad that we know Venya too Can we have a friend That I know For a friend But I think Personali Onona If you're talking to someone And think they don't reply The first thing you talked about You think that they're cheating Or they're stabilizing between But why should you be lazy No no no At other times You should understand your partner You see In that Personali If At a reply text And unumzio visoji Awfai puja You make a call After making a call Then Kamabloti kicha continue You can start thinking otherwise But you need my attention When you want it Ya But Allah says I'm busy Allah says I'm busy Let us be Let us be 50-50 Not 70-30 I really like this change It's usually the other way round The guy is the one who's been I'm busy I'm busy You're clingy Eh, not this way We've changed positions Thank you This is okay I'm mad I'm working I'm not mad We have another question But before that Haiva I'm Jane I'm in a clinic I'm enjoying myself You guys I'm not mad Let's just even No, just breathe I'm not mad I'm not mad So I was talking to a gentleman And he told He asked me Alright That one has disappeared So let's work with this one Why do girls take glutex so personal? Why? Why? And if you have glutex Anytime Day And say Oh Siji And when you receive doily It's very on Very charged It's very on Very charged Kwa zuki niya maza Do not text Na niya maziya And I'm not I miss you I call it really hard No I kido Personally I get so heart Because I'm thinking Like why Why? Why? Why? Why did you glutex me? Kwa ni ga nyanili Say, mail kwa nanin But why do you think Why do you think Why do you think Why do you think You think this is not important I'm on the same wavelength Or When you would Ni text Na nili popa pukachana na yango Assumptions Jumping into conclusions Ma zedon Maybe mazana pikogali ma zedon Say, apa na What's your yungue? Aj I need your attention That is my problem You boy when you're not answered But you expect the same How do you expect to be treated? You're not treating the other person the same way So You can't expect what you don't cultivate Help me answer him Let me tell you one thing In a relationship We say that ladies are always right Even when they are wrong Even when you are wrong We apply to someone, ancestors So tell me the same thing Either I reply or I don't You should give me attention And that is it If I don't reply, call me That is where now I'll start I'll start being very dictatorial In a way because We're not here to engage on Who is important or who is less important We're here for our purpose And ultimately we should This is one of the ways of Achieving that purpose is communication But you can't define how you communicate Because we are equals So if you blue tick me You will connect him to the wrong side of my wi-fi And sometimes Like that boy has just said He has knocked out 20 people Level patience You just confirm there Guys, do you remember a time Not so long ago I don't know what age bracket you fall into But before A lot of these Applications came to be a Kina WhatsApp Before WhatsApp came to be Before Instagram Before Snapchat And all the like You had to go to a cyber cafe Kutumia Facebook Like do you remember how serious it was It wasn't just Anyhow Buona tuakuna jam Amat kutuna tumabarua Amat tumia simia jamia Izi zini zili kwa Around all the time All the time We were never this upset and angry All the time because of Miscommunication What has changed Has technology come to destroy Relationships Yes No, I think 80% it has 80% because Would you pay attention to When you are with your phone You realize sometimes When we are this close You are asking me about something Me I am on my handset So it's kind of a minor In you And I'm very busy here So it doesn't go well And at the end of the day You realize now it starts from something little To something like Whatever Suddenly it has blown up Oh my gosh And on his point There are instances When you najwa In a relationship But I'm on my phone We're in the same house But I'm on my phone And you're on your phone And all of a sudden I see you smiling at something I'll just have Speculations Najwa But you don't know That is how You don't know When you smile Why when you smile With your phone And you Why when you smile With your phone Look for something To smile about But at the same time You Who is not making you unhappy Why are you stressing people Well I think I'll take it from this perspective Because It is Would you pay attention to To the extent That you know the other person Or to the extent That you don't respond to our message Outratly the other day I was cooking My girl was home And I was so keen On the phone I was following something What was the recipe? No It was just some live I always follow these documentaries And they were doing A live coverage on YouTube So She told me food is Inongu And I was What I'm saying I was so there Until it burned So you fought? No I went out Okay so I was in that But I can make another one So But Now You can't even define You don't give And have a reason Why do you stay That long to respond back And let me tell you The worst thing in our relationship He's different He's like being Full of excuses Because I don't like them So You too You should not give me excuses So the worst thing You can do to our relationship Over and over again Is to have A bunch Of excuses That are not adding up To even something Little as positive Good But you know Me have so jealous Not like you But Apu I think Honesty We were having a conversation I was in a table of gentlemen And I'm thinking First of all Moshena It is It is better than The Hey I would rather Just listen to them Like I can't get you up on your skis Kuliko kuhav Moshena No mana They say Moshena inye We're in a boyfriend Ya ko you have Hey It is better than The one you have Kwaza mshashkana Tu usiko usio Alafuna ni Story Story Story Story Story Story Story Story Story Story Story Story Story Nizama ano To be abnormal We're going to read for you another question If there was an emoji for blue ticks What would it be? If there was an emoji The heartbreaking one The heartbreaking one Naia kulia Apana Let's go with that one The heartbreaking Aha Why is this so? That is extreme That is extreme That is extreme No Why? You just broke my heart Not with a blue tick A blue tick here I think So Are you too soft? Ya Have you become too soft? Now that a blue tick can also break your heart Like nini What are your hearts made of? Not a blue tick will let break you Ya Maybe probably you wanted to get something You could say, where are you? You didn't reply How is that breaking my heart? Maybe a kukucho What are you doing? How is that breaking my heart? Thank you But Niki checks my boyfriend That whole paragraph Aki ani blue tick Oh Jesus Maybe you want to go to the landlode Simonevo Maybe you are busy To go to the landlode So you want to go to school So you want to go to the landlode I have issues I'm telling you You know You want to go to the landlode And you want to go to the landlode And how can you say You don't have money They see you on TV I want to go to the landlode About last night Paragraph What are you going to do now? I want to go to the landlode I want to go to the landlode I want to go to the landlode I want to go to the landlode And then there are those situations Where you actually By then The situations in somebody Text you a whole paragraph And then they say That is not enough They decide to call you Because The blue tick can't do it They decide to call you just Sorry Okay I want to go to the landlode I want to go to the landlode No, you are not Okay, fine And you just They are like I do feel busy Yeah If it has to be what it is They let us not invest a lot of emotions In the communication assets But I would rather invest a lot of emotions When we are now these physical Because in the absence A lot happens And sometimes really Maybe you are busy And you can't account for it And it doesn't mean that you have Poor communication skills As per say But maybe I am suggesting this As an alternative To these crises Because if we prefer To be given that Apex attention Then really If it is not adding up You must invest into the alternative And absolutely What I can say is Everything is how you train yourself How you behave How you go about it But I am not suggesting that This is something that we should really Take for granted Because it is hurting Moso to the ladies Because some of us are psychopaths So even if you are hurt I don't care And move on Also some of us are psychopaths You are true Sure Perfect Perfect match So before But this is a problem with you ladies If you meet me first time I might give you some strong lyrics And you fall in And you expect that And pay attention Who told you I was free? That's a way where you can invest Energy or tech What do you expect? But do you know It's like giving A hand to doge Umone shunyama ewe A lafa kuja kumu mawewe Una shangani ni nimbana we Na me nampia we nya ma Ula na some mail They'll call you You talk, you talk Then after once They want you to chat To reply to what you've talked on phone Is that even possible? I need a city Okay, wait, wait Before you continue I want to read feedback from our social media page That's Y25 for our Facebook At Y25 for our channel on Twitter Hashtag is white in the morning So let's take a look See we have Trevor and boy They'll big up Yes, self-trever Big up to those guys over there Tuned from our son See he jibaya blutik It's a tricketing to me Because I start thinking negative things But he blutik manenos hu leta Hu leto anawa se kukosa kule Wanaki doku doku na pata Asha soma yo text Batusha eka pending It hurts man say Oh, boo boo, I'm sorry Sa mi Oh, hi, sir mi Kalami val, I see Nowadays, blutiks imekwa two way things She blutiks me today My guy blutiks you tomorrow No hard feelings Dunia ni dwara And then we have Mike Ehrer boy Hu leto ana kuto Kuto elewana palem se aneza Kua na differences between Wee wee oneyo between You see, ma You see what you have said To the X and now you are revaging What are you revaging for? These are personal Before you committed No no no Umenu blutik Tomorrow you said So we are revaging Same situation What is the benefit? Let's just say we are both pretty That is a good Yeah, I'll take that Si sum tapeli eka nambaka api Adi nene In that particular situation Blutiki ane alafu kadi In that particular situation Sit down and talk Si mamona kuh blutiki ana Alright, so before we do that Guys, please do remember Just comment real quick We are about to wrap up The topic of discussion At Y254 on Facebook At Y254 channel on Twitter How do blutiks make you feel? Man say Ma na it hurts Whoa, aki Aki Guys, I think finding my own business Has become such a full time job Well, last question What kind of man would you blutik on purpose? On purpose What kind of Anaging man What would you blutik on purpose? Anaging man Anaging sosai anaka aji Okay, anaging man A boring man Say a boring man A poor man Whoa whoa whoa I like that we are being honest though No, no take back Okay, anaging man I'm talking in this century So, kawesi tuma mobile mania kuna Who is your poor man? A poor man You know some people have no content They just Kwanili producer I'm a content creator You guys have to be serious You have to be serious I'm not going to take that How are you today? How is it? How is it? How is it? How is it? How is it? And then you text me and tell me Can you come over Na kuna fe? Una tumiyam dem Una jua Whoa Are you free? I will blutik him I will blutik him So I was in a pigwa screen shot Natumako girl friend Kujeni, kujeni mone wium Let's just stop being a little funny Wait, wait, wait There's someone asking Sorry Orangutan One second There's someone who is asking Is it a must that you be sent fair? Where is the picatu? I don't know If I was to spend money on visiting people Monthly Monthly I'm just visiting people Come over Come where Come where Go where If you want to see me I think this is like This is like This is like This is like somewhere This is like How do I meet you? I'll go for now Sambu Like what you said is very hard Because one This is not people This is a person you love I'm not between you This is What you said is very Okay, yes No, it's not a person I love Don't say that Ma'am bhi wasi lazi ma'aki Atem kuja si lazi ma'am kuja So you see That's why I have a problem And he is very selfish As to say because My man Mine So when it is a conversation It is our conversation It is also my money That I'm using as fair Change that perspective Because Makia partner Okay, fine This is what I'm saying You see to the point Of what you've just Brought on board We don't When you know You don't go in a relationship With high expectations Before you define them At the founding level Now you, your expectations are not high If I'm boutikiyu You're here up in arms All the time But it depends How long have you been In this relationship So that if I boutikiyu And you don't say a response You have all the authority To some on me But When a relationship Is at its Foundations At the beginning Please, as ladies Or as men Let us try To help Then other person Understand what we are capable of Like she has just mentioned Something on fair That is finance To what extent can you provide So that if there's a Communication about it I always know the Expected standard Okay, so niji lete na matatu Alafondo di utalipa I can pay A responsible person Should Bring you and take you back Because Then if you don't pick me Send me some fair No, I'm being A bit considerate But it is not a must Because You need me as I need you So sometimes If you have Just say I'll take you of it And I say fine That should be our next topic Will ladies ever have Enough money? They can No I got this today It's okay I think my money is for To look good for you But you'll still ask For money For me Or for Those many others Okay, what we're going to do Is we're going to wrap up The Eh, there's so many things We're going to give our last Wives And then I will read the Feedback to you Yes Yes, so we're still at WhiteFive4 on Facebook At WhiteFive4 channel Please wrap this up Yes I think At the end of the day We need to realize Our positions In people's life Like if you're my friend It is okay for me By there to To care at some point But if you have A special relationship You know Like when We have to keep on communicating Because that is What keeps our relationship But then again It doesn't have to be on phone We can sit down And talk Thanks Because I think that's What is really breaking Right now In this generation In this gadgets In this smartphone Alright To me I think Chatting will not help here If you want to talk to someone Call them If it's something urgent Blotic it's okay But try to reason Towards Situation Are you blotaking Other times it hurts Other times It's very okay to blotake Okay So consider the situation first If the situation calls for blotaking Fine Now if you blotake It will hurt It will catch my feelings Try to think Yeah Okay Tell the ladies Who have also been blotaked Not catch feelings That is Set away Fine So this is what I'm saying Make it brief please Everybody is important And everybody deserves Respect and attention If we are in this We are in this together Not partially There is no Midground Of blotaking And having excuses Do what you What is right At the right time And always Do the right thing At the right time Wow Okay so Let's get the feedback ladies And gentlemen We have Donald Chep Kuto It makes one feel Like you're being avoided Oh blotakes Baka metwake moji I think there's another moji guys There's Steve Nash Blue tick I tick less Wow I've Hey Destroy Thanks Thank you Brian Kiv Kalo Vival Hi Atimoshine yama guys Is to die for Brosi wongo Steve wongo What That has killed me I was so made my morning Eatam kutrano yama guys We have a sit down Xavier Maestro I see you girls have turned The blotake issues to look As an achievement on them Wow Even a normal greeting Or encouraging message Mdutu analenga Na uki mo Listen to be a person Kutua amu Konayo anaji bo Namai moji mingi Aki smile tumana Kutua Wow That felt like it was Nikali hapenjana Thank you Okay Okay there are a couple Of more messages One more or two Yes please Khabadria This is Brian Hi Brian Watching live My question is to Diana Suppose I go to her place Will she send me fare Kaisu Kaisu Are you gone? She gave you a handle previously If you cut them Just slide into her jam Sochu Vahival I'm Kate I blotake all stingy men Bure bure Kwani watadu Well Girls should put aside a budget For visiting people At the beginning of the month Nani kevo ame Andi kevo Tu nakuana kevo Thank you so very much I know Thank you so very much For watching I'm sorry Kevo It's just funny I don't mean any malice Yes At Y254 Facebook At Y254 channel On Twitter You can catch the repeat From 2 to 4 Later on today And in case you want to watch Anything else that has happened Or you missed an interview Or you missed old breaking views You can go to our YouTube channel At Y254 channel As well My name is Dilva Laki At Kalamiba Please follow me And say hi I appreciate you And have a good day That's the way it goes