 two topics that I'm gonna cover in this video one family members are jealous of your man and trying to steal him or want him for themselves like cousins sisters aunts whatever what do you do when they like your man and they're always flirting with them at family events and they're just like secretly trying to steal him behind your back or hook up with him and give them you know hints and clues that they want to do things with them okay I just put that extra part in because I didn't know if this is what they were doing so I just added my part in okay um well you if you're married first of all if you're married it's different if you're that's just your boyfriend it's another thing but they shouldn't be trying to steal your man or be jealous of you because of your man if you know if they're truly loving family members which most are not they just stuck in the family with you so I would say if that happened to me I would like make a big announcement like and make people embarrassed of themselves for throwing themselves out there like that out because like sometimes you just got to act a fool okay so let's say you walk into your family event and all the cousins and ladies are looking at your man and saying oh he's so cute I want you know just make a big formal announcement and tell your man about it before you get there and tell him why you're doing this and like make sure it's you discuss this prior because you have issues with you know these people so you've already discussed it with your man so he's already cool with it right say okay like make it nice it's like okay ladies I know y'all are all less than after my man know he's good-looking but y'all need to find y'all own make them feel stupid and embarrassed because if they're spotted like talking to him or flirting with him they're gonna look desperate okay so just make a funny announcement and you know like do a toast and start it off cute first hi I would just like to say I'm so happy to be here today without all my family members and if those of y'all those of you don't know who this is this is such and such my man my boyfriend my husband and he's the love of my life and I know all you single ladies out there and ladies who have a wandering eye will be trying to talk to my man this evening I just want you to know I don't mind if I wasn't attached to him I would be doing the same thing as well so enjoy your conversations get to know each other but y'all just want to let y'all know he's coming home with me okay you know make a silly stupid announcement and people are gonna be like this girl is crazy but you know now I can't go up to him and pretend cuz they couldn't know what I'm doing and and now that the man is aware that all the women are gonna want him they're gonna think now they're gonna think your man's trying to exploit them cuz he thinks he's all that so they're gonna stay far away from y'all if they're gonna be like he think he must think he's all that for me to be flirting with him I'm gonna give him my time of day you know they're not gonna give you the satisfaction of flirting with your man after that point they're not gonna give you the satisfaction of being seen next to your man trying to talk him up because you've already made that announcement that you know that's what they're trying to do and now if they even try to do it they're gonna look silly and your man's gonna think oh they really want me and maybe they'll go fix me an extra plate or maybe they'll go get me another glass of wine maybe they'll like basically be my servant so they're gonna be like appalled and you know discussed it they're not even gonna go near your man they're just gonna smile at him from across the room and talk to somebody else so you have to get it up and out of the way make it public make it known that you know what's going on you got to embarrass people from making themselves look stupid okay that's I mean you have sometimes if and if you're the shy type you're the shy type that just won't do that you need to get someone else to do it and your family for you like you know there's always that gay cousin that wants to speak out loud you know you know there's somebody that will do it for you if you can't do it for yourself or you know you can look insecure and stay by your man the entire time and hold on to his arm and make sure no one tries to steal him but that's just gonna even make it more tempting to take him away from me so I suggest I suggest the a little announcement toast or get one of your cousins or uncles to do it for you and you know that's just the best way I can think to handle it because you know sometimes you just have to be blunt to get your point across okay the second topic I'm gonna cover there was a comment that someone made I don't know if she wants me to say her name but I'm just gonna say the last part her name is star and you know you are okay she commented on one of my videos so many men these days have never seen how a real man interacts with and treats a woman they have confused their role with that of being a woman some think they are the prize so basically she's saying man have confused their role with women's role and men actually think they are the prize this this is funny because that's so true men are not the prize y'all and the reason that they think this is because they feel like there's more women on the earth than there are men so they think they're in demand which really is not true because lots of women are lesbians okay and also lots of women won't have anything to do with certain men okay and lots of men are gay so if you take all those odds and evens and you know it becomes back basically there's enough to go around and a lot of women are not really attached so a lot of these men are just single who are you know claiming to be in a relationship but they're not really attached because they're going out making children with other people anyway so basically the man is not the prize the woman is always the prize because the woman is the person who creates family who raises children who are who's the matriarch of future generations to come the woman is the prize okay there was this meme that I saw floating around on Facebook and it was kind of funny but the meme said there was a grandmother and she was sitting in the room full of her family members and a thought crossed her mind that if it was not for her vagina vagina vagina if it was not for her vagina none of these people would be here okay none of them would be here if it was not for her vagina now I know people are gonna argue oh what about the sperm what about the sperm sperm is a very easy thing to get okay let's just say that we are women we know sperm is easy to get right but it takes nine months to grow and nurture and choose like remember women have a choice now to grow a child inside their stomach inside their womb to birth it and then to raise it to give it the things that needs it takes a woman to do that okay man can spray sperm and women all day if women don't want that sperm they can wash it out they can take the after the day after pill the plan B pill they can get abortions they can do all that stuff your sperm does not equal life okay conscious decision to have this child unless you tie up a woman and impregnate her and force her to give birth that's the only way okay that you you have any type of control over her giving birth deciding to have a child or not okay so y'all remember that men you are not the prize the woman is a prize you are the effect we are the cause y'all are the effect so in order to get results in this world in order to get somewhere in this world you have to go through the woman always okay now I know a lot of this is probably a little bit too deep but if you look into metaphysics spirituality it's always on back to the woman okay I'm not trying to down men or anything I'm just saying women are the prize okay why do you think people kidnap women and not men because we're a prize and why do people abduct females versus wrong men okay because we're a prize okay and so our children we are valuable that's why we're the most abducted because we're valuable people see and I know that's kind of sick but there is something that is very sought after in the world compassion love nurturing you know and women only women and children can really give that to a man unless the man is homosexual and he feels like he can get that from another man but still he has his mothers and his sisters and you know cousins and family members grandmothers to get that nurturing from okay a woman is almost the equivalent of basically having a mother a mother so you know if you felt like guys if you feel like you could have been raised without a mom then of course I don't see a problem with thinking you're the prize but women are always the prize they're always going to be the prize why do you think there's so many men who want to be women because we're a prize and I'm not trying to be sexist or anything it's I mean even if you read the Bible it's in the Bible you know women are precious like gems and da da da da da yes we are because we hold the key to life you know we are a we are almost a spiritual magical creature because we can bring life onto the planet you know so y'all have to realize that y'all can't be looking at it as oh who's gonna pay for this meal and who's gonna pay for that meal and I look good and I have nice features because I'm a man and I look good in skinny jeans no your mom gave you all that your mom gave you all those looks you know your dad contributed your some DNA as well but your mom raised you and fed you and nurtured you so you wouldn't be malnutrition you know she took vitamin D so you wouldn't be born with a cleft palate she took prenatal vitamins for you she drank water for you while you were she went through pain of labor so you could be here she sacrificed money for you because when you get pregnant you lose money you don't get paid okay you lose time at work if you work you got to pay hospital bills you gotta do all that so you were sacrificed for by a woman men so no you are not the prize you are the result of a prize okay keep that in your heads because y'all are getting a little bit too ahead of yourselves okay y'all remember there's so many people who are donating sperm and sperm banks women don't need to attach themselves to someone you know if they just want the love and compassion ship compassion ship if they just want the love and companionship of a man yes but they don't really need it you see there's a difference also you know men they some of them understand what it is to be a man a lot of them do a lot of them don't because they've never seen it they've never seen they grew up in the in the early 2000s and late 90s and they don't know what being a real man is they they're used to seeing like music and videos downgrade women and they've never seen the early 90s where all the music was romantic the 80s when the music was romantic when men loved women the right way they've never seen an example of that okay a lot of people are born out of wedlock they don't see their fathers loving their mothers so they don't know how to treat a woman okay and there's plenty there's plenty of ways to learn how to treat women you ask them what they want you don't get mad because they ask you to pay for a meal you don't get mad because they want to be provided protected for that's what y'all are supposed to be doing okay y'all just don't know this because no one taught you okay and I know a lot of people are gonna say well that's gender roles well if you don't want gender roles in your house and in your relationship don't be mad when your son or your daughter walks up to you and said I don't want to be any of the gender I was born I don't want to play a gender role you know don't be mad at them because you set the tone you set the tone for your life and there's nothing against being I mean there's nothing bad about wanting to be this gender or that gender but there's a lot of men out there who don't want to take on their male roles and then are upset at their sons or daughters for not want to claim a gender either so you got you have to take it both ways if that's how you're gonna think okay you can't be mad if your daughter or your son comes home one day and says you know what I don't want to be I would be like mom she does everything you know she cooks cleans works pays have to rent looks good in a dress knows how to do makeup hair nails and we all you do is go to work come home sit on the couch you'll not do nothing I don't want to be like you don't be mad okay don't be mad because that's what's gonna come to and you're gonna have start having a lot of men who are wanting to be women which is starting now these men are acting more and more like women all you need is a dress you already got the skinny jeans and the tights all y'all need now I mean y'all got skirts too y'all what do you think they're trying to do to y'all they're turning you into women okay women might as well be lesbians women might as well say hey I have to pay for my own meal anyway I might as well go get a girl the masculine woman will at least pay you know someone asked me in the comments who pays on a date between two lesbians the masculine one okay I'll see y'all later bye