 as you can see got some incredible views behind me for this video and we're also featuring a few monkeys in this one yeah on to the topic this is why narcissists disappear the reason why they disappear is because you're no longer an easy target for them you're becoming more difficult for them to manipulate it's a lot of work for them so they don't want to work on anything with you anymore instead they would rather find an easier target someone who is easier for them to fool where they can pull the wall over their eyes where they can get them to do what they want so that is why they have disappeared it is why they've ghosted you it is why they're nowhere to be found it is why you don't hear from them anymore because remember before they were all over you they couldn't leave you alone when you were listening to what they said when you were doing what they want to do to do I mean that's all it really is that's their idea of a perfect source of supply a perfect partner is someone who listens to them and does what they want someone who is easy for them to control and if you're not going to be that for them then good riddance they don't need you really is that simple so that is why they have ghosted you that is why they have disappeared because you're difficult for them to deal with they can't manipulate you anymore because you're on to their gains you figure them out so they'll go and find someone else who is unsuspecting someone who doesn't know what they're really about someone who they can trick and deceive doesn't mean that the new person is better than you it just means that they're a bigger fool they're willing to be the narcissist doormat the narcissist punching bag and listen to all of their problems listen to everything they have to say and be at their beck and call when the narcissist says jump they will say how high and that person may have been you at one point I'm sure many of you can remember that you did everything the narcissist wanted you to do it's like it was never enough so you kept doing more you were running on this endless hamster wheel trying to please them nothing you did was ever enough they're never happy with you and it's gonna be the same with whoever they meet even if they do somehow manage to meet someone who is doing more than what you did for them they're still not going to be happy just like they were happy with you there is no specific measure or amount that will satisfy a narcissist they have insatiable desires that cannot be fulfilled so it's not about how much you do for them or what you do for them it will never be enough it will never make them happy but this is why they disappear because they're just looking for short-term satisfaction it only lasts for the moment they enjoy the adrenaline rush the high of meeting someone new and it fades away with time and then they're gonna find someone else it's an endless cycle it's an endless pattern of behavior they never change that is keep doing the same thing again and again expecting a different result but this is what they do I'm coming towards the end now of a three and a half hour journey driving through the mountains and around this beautiful scenery and I think I chose the right car for it the Range Rover Evoke it's a great car for driving through the mountains and even driving off-road through the forests so yeah that's why narcissists disappear don't take it personally don't think that it is anything to do with you as a person because it doesn't it's just your vice to their games that's what it really is narcissist sized people up to see what type of person you are to see if you're gonna listen to them to see if you're gonna do what they want and if you're not then they don't need you it's as simple as that it's not about you not being a nice person you did something wrong or you're not good enough it's nothing to do with that it has nothing to do with that at all as many of you will know narcissists often down great they will settle for anything it's just that they know they can't trick you they can't deceive you they can't pull the wall over your eyes so to them you're a lost cause there's no point in dealing with you because all they care about is what they're gonna get and if they're not gonna get nothing then it's on to the next it's as simple as that but you are doing the right thing don't cave in don't give into their demands you just keep doing you focus on yourself focus on making yourself better your life you see they don't want you to do that they want you to focus on them and do what they want well what about you what about your life what about making things better for you they don't care about that but you need to have to say I'm a bit cautious after I don't know if everyone knows you but in Thailand a few years ago I got bit by a monkey just under my arm I was in hospital for one month having treatment normally they're okay but if they think you've got food or anything then it's possible they may attack I do enjoy see the monkeys as well I'm gonna go see the views down there on the other side and then continue with the rest of my journey not too far now and then I'll do a video at my next destination okay thank you all for joining me 41 viewers here let's get those thumbs ups in and please share your thoughts in the comment section subscribe share the video for one-on-one coaching go to my website it's narcsurvivor.co.uk okay that's all for today I will talk to you in another one very soon