 I was so excited at the prospect of seeing you again. I almost said something I wasn't supposed to on TV. Wow. But I was just hoping that perhaps maybe you've enjoyed all our segments. Have you? We've had politics. We've had health. And now we're going to have a discussion on Instagram queens. Today it's a man crush Monday. So it's with our kings at white five four is where you can find us at white two five four channel on Twitter. Hashtag is white in the morning or M.C.M. I'm at two hashtags. You know, feel, feel fit if you TV. Meshkaka Johto. I came here feeling very, very cold. I hope we are living up to our name. The hardest breakfast show in town. My name is still Valentine hasn't changed. But enough about me. Let's talk about you. Like, share, comment, retweet and all those gorgeous things. Yeah. And while you're doing that, let's introduce our panel for the day. Yeah. Sathini. How are you? Hi. That's better. Can I start over there? Hello, sir. Hello, mother. How are you fooboo stage? Thank you. Radha, do you know how I do? Let's do all this show to come to an end. Anyway. I'm Daniel Udiembo. Yes. For now. Yeah. I'm a Othis. Oh, that one. Oh, yeah. On Facebook, Daniel Othis, Othis on Twitter at Daniel Othis. Yes. Like, oh, this. No, no, not all this. All this. All this. All this. All this. Yes. Yes. Smile. I'm Calvin Osano on all social media platforms. Yeah. I'm a student of University of Nairobi. Yeah. What do you study at the University of Nairobi? Oh, I'm doing journalism and media studies. Yeah. So, I'm going to join. Yeah. Officially. No, I'm going to come and join. Officially. Uh-huh. Because I'm a cosmat. Thank you. Meanwhile, our only queen in the group. How are you? I'm fine. I like your hair. And I'm scared you're going to take a jacket. I like that. Mm-hmm. What a fan of social media. Really? Yeah. Yeah. So, if you want to see how you must keep watching, why in the morning? Only on Y254. And we'll start with the kings. Yeah. Because it's your day. Mm-hmm. Just tell me the truth. Because one minute. Mm-hmm. Now, uh, this is my view. I wouldn't say that it's something that comes and then, in understanding, that will only happen because of one or two reasons. Maybe you got into something before you knew exactly who you were getting into the something with, or basically, like you saw someone in this. Exactly. That's the same. Exactly. Because it's no longer a threat, right? Wow. So, like, if it's adrenaline doing that, but you have not given it good thoughts to, like, process whatever you're getting yourself into. And that's why most of the times, they are very excited. They are very into the thing. They are very much, yes, into your business. You have to say, like, you just have to give them every little bit of your life. At that time, yes, there is that thing. I disagree. Men, I think they thank women for granted. Because at some point, how can you just crush on a woman, then mapensi shekesho? That means you are after something. Maybe, if you heard what I said, those things only happen in two circumstances. Either adrenaline or you didn't take time to process. So, for someone who knows, like, it's because of this that I'm getting inside here, certain things might not happen very easily. But for women, say, who are you? And then all of a sudden, their minds just go everywhere, in that one minute. We are thinking with another organ that is not our brain. Yes, yes. Which I, like, explain the next episode. Now, where we'll shake a gear? I think I agree with my brother. First, and may I sit over here? We have a question. We have a question. Oh my gosh, I'm sorry for interrupting you. But, he used to take couple girl selfie and he would post them willingly. Apple, Instagram, Facebook. Nowadays, you request and all you get is babes. You are not allowed to do it. You are not allowed to do it. You are not allowed to do it. As you are, I'm sorry for interrupting. Oh, okay. As I said, she said, how can you crush on someone the next time the person? Crush is different from love. Love, you take your time. And first, when you want to get into a relationship, know your boundaries well. Just, not just jump into a relationship. The boundaries tell me, it's not supposed to be that serious. So, you can't you can't waste your joy and make joy equal. But, okay, wait a minute, wait a minute. There is a space here. You get into each other well. Oh, you look handsome. I have butterflies when I see him. Oh my gosh, Nanda Kwake. Oh my gosh, oh my gosh. So, I think animal faces consist of appreciation, excitement, attraction and intimacy. So, if you want to get the the if you want to prolong the animal face, you just need to keep these things in touch. Just keep practicing these particular aspects. Yeah, because you feel like in a situation whereby you have seen someone, it's something that happens with all human beings. Whether you're a girl or a woman, at a level like you as a lady. Obviously, you won't tell me that you're immune to feelings. You are immune to crashing on someone. But then, what actually determines what matters most is what you do with these crashing feelings. Because all those things are very very important in the animal face. But as there's some point you realize, actually as life is going on, as you're actually getting to know each other very well, as you're actually getting to understand who this other person is. And also yourself, because I believe when you're getting into a constructive relationship you don't only discover the other person you discover yourself also. So as you continue discovering yourself when you're thinking, oh by the way there are things like this, I'm not really this kind of a person. There are things that will shed off just by default. What you're saying is very nice and logical. But in a situation where you can't delete and download. You're still thinking, thinking in a confirming situation to find out is that the kind of advice or that kind of society that one, I think it's the lady who should tell us, because at the end of the day the man has deleted you from the download. Yes. I don't think I should tell you. It's you guys to tell us what you want in a lady. Aha. What could you want in a lady? Okay. I say this stage first. For you to problem the animal face you need to consider three aspects. First is the intimacy. Second is the appreciation. Third is the attraction. And fourth is the excitement. How is fourth the attraction? So the attraction is the attraction of the person who is in charge of the attraction. So you need to keep the attraction. So said she. Today I met this lady and she looked nice the way she dressed all those sort of things. Then the next time when we're ready something, we'll build something together she starts dressing anyhow. You know the attraction is that very important. No. No wait. Listen. Do you imagine that we sleep with the lashes? If you guys listen to this guy who died at itomai there's something very important that I am younger ladies and to men too. But I am younger than them. Please ladies, remain chesable. When you used to carry yourself and used to dress when you're being chesist, please even after you're being chesed there's something important. Do you want to be chesed? What you notice as you're being chesed as he has to love me the way I am he has to see all sides. It's fine. But then you have to know to what extent is this side going to. Because you can't tell me at the now because I have to see your other side. If I dress too poorly it looks nice. Then all of a sudden you're being chesed. Because you're being chesed. You're being chesed. You're being chesed. You're being chesed. You're being chesed. You're being chesed. I bet you disagree with the two of you. Why? One, first, when I was younger I used to be chesed. I used to be chesed. You think you'll have a look at me? I don't. Let me just give a quote. One of you said I'm chesed. I'm chesed. You're being chesed. You're being chesed. You're being chesed. The point that you're trying to draw is that at the first instance we take a look at you and it attracted to you. You just say that, dressing. That's what I'm trying to mean. Dressing is part of attraction. I know it's part of attraction but at some point men get attracted to the women because of their dressing. What do you expect? Do you expect me to be chesed? Do you expect me to be chesed? I've changed. That doesn't mean I've changed my way. No. Here I am here. I hope I can get to the audience. Do you want me to say I'm not saying that you're behind the scenes and that you're going to change whether you're having a choice or not. That's what I'm talking about. I'm talking about the mode or the type of dress you are in. For instance I wanted to go to a zoo so I returned to the zoo This is how I know you, and most likely it's because that day you are dressing up for a certain occasion. And then I come to realize there's a certain way you actually dress. So, what I'm trying to say is, come on Kunaila, that you know you use. Maintain that, not only because now we have gotten into a relationship and you feel, ah, he's my guy, I have to be free and all that. Okay. I hope, I hope, is it demands. Can I just say something? Okay. I want to help you boy child, is that, can I help you? Okay. So, it was a nice slide. I know also as sometimes we get, and I mean ladies, we get sometimes a little bit ratchet. And we also lose ourselves. We forget what the honeymoon phase was like. So, we were also guilty. We were also guilty of such things. Well, I don't know so much to, to, to not extend it. Anyway, that's not the question. At the moment the question is what happened? Is that what happened? What happened to the romance? No, with the airtime. Who the heck is this airtime being used already? It's not used. Maybe I want to treat people. I want to go on WhatsApp. Maybe I can try to talk to other people. My hair. Okay. At some point, not only ladies for airtime. Men also don't like. Also, men ask for airtime. For example, it's always airtime at all times. And I say, hey, the epsilon hit me at 20 boom. I don't know if it's because of him. But it doesn't mean I'm supposed to give you the airtime at all times. The thing is, the question was asking, what's the problem with the jihazis? Don't ask me, okay? Right now, it's always airtime at all times. Okay? Is that the case? Then, funny enough, the question here is, the issue is, not even with that airtime you're not calling. So, that is what you're looking at right now. So, your job is just to upkeep her up. Okay. So, it would make me calling you. So, you're the technical team, doing the jihazis and calling you. I think she's not answering the question. What happened? The first time you were taking, you were calling jihazis, and calling you. You see, you see, it's not what made the love to go down. So, that's what you're looking at right now. So, that's what you're looking at right now. So, that's what you're looking at right now. See, how biased that thing is. Like, it's okay for feelings to go south, or with a lady. But for a gentleman, it becomes an issue. Like, he can't do anything, and I can't do anything. Okay. If he used to call me, maybe three times a day, minimum, and he's not anymore, he'll find any new credit, and I'll call him. So, at least three times a day. So, that's what I'm looking at. Is that a wrong assumption? Most likely it's not a wrong assumption. But at the same time, it could be. At the same time, it could also be wrong. Do you know why I'm saying that? So, that's what you're looking at right now. In fact, that time is not a problem. Okay. We are looking at the progress here. Before, it was like this. Right now, it's like this, that even in a credo, imagine adding an airtime. After he says, please call me. Oh, yes. Now I want to try. I want to do my airtime. According to some network subscribers. Oh, yes, boy child. Oh, yes. I was scared. I was scared to go. Okay, to talk to your papa. Right. We have another one. He couldn't spend a day without seeing you. Okay. Uh huh. I'm very busy you know. I'm tempted to take this psychologically. But. Right. I'm very busy. But I'm very busy. I'm tempted to take this psychologically. I think I have mentioned this before, like all these things, it's a process and in all processes they are growth, right? So for instance, the same way I know you right now is not the same way I know you 20 years from now, maybe 5 years from now, especially if we are to get in a relationship. So then, in that setting, there are these things called love languages. That's another whole discussion. But as you continue knowing this person, as you continue appreciating the fact that this person has joined you in your life, even in your life, you are safe, right? So that whatever come what may, she'll feel like, by the way, I know there's nothing that can happen. I know you still have me the same way, and that is, you take your foundation deeper and then you have a tall building. If you have a suffical kind of foundation, my friends, it doesn't matter how tall your building goes, it will still come in. Yes. So basically, that's my take on that. Me, even on Afikri, I will maybe come up with something. Oh, I'll do it. Thank you. Thank you. And I need to add to your point, I think if you are in a relationship, just maybe you can make Jeff a specific reason. So just put yourself in his shoes, put things in his perspective, try to reason with him, try to see my guy, Jeff, and maybe Jeff, these and these, maybe he has a good reason for not doing so. Okay. And he has a good reason, but it's up to you to consider if he has communicated or not. If he hasn't communicated, I'm not an angel to know. He used to tell you his whereabouts, but he said he was happy, he used to tell you about his, that baby. I asked him to come, just give me five minutes to go to the stage, and he said he was happy. Ah! And come! Discuss. Okay. Man. At some point, maybe I'll take you there, maybe I'll be busy, sorry, maybe I won't be there, maybe I'll say, come, come, but at some point, maybe I'll be there, I'll be there. But why are we so good at jumping into conclusion? Why? You see at some point, when we look to develop the match feelings into him, I imagine like I feel like I'm cheating So I feel pinched I feel like I'm hurting you So that's why I try to get late I'm not a scammer, I try to get late But I try to get late I try to get late This has much to say I try to get late I think we also have to be human beings here For a minute or two I see many people who are looking for you Even ladies I try to get late Oh, it's you You're making me angry Yes, because When I first came here I was at home I stayed for 10 minutes And then I took me 30 minutes for yoga You're really a wimp You're so funny I took me 30 minutes for yoga I took 30 minutes of makeup I took a bath I took 40 minutes of swimming swimming So, it's something that happens both ways. First instinct. It's something that happens both ways. It's a lie. So there are people who think. It's better if it's true you're coming. It doesn't matter really exactly where you are. I think it's good to tell your partner you're aware about. But Simzuri Sana could comfort a father. You're happy baby, you're happy at the same time. I don't think it's right. That relationship won't last. And what he said. We are in an era of digitary fun. People lie a lot. Especially my mother. She was 20% pregnant. She was 7 years old. He wanted to take you out every weekend. But now, apparently, the economy is poor. He wanted to take you out every weekend. But now, the economy is poor. Actually, what's the economy? Why don't the girls take their girlfriends out to clubbing? To reply. Why don't they go to the hotel to eat? I don't know. I don't know. Okay. I think for a relationship to last, I think you should love them for each other. Have some time, spend some time, go out. Have some DNA or something. But. Too much time is poisonous. If you just get to meet each other anytime, every time, you just get used to each other. And you'll start taking each other for granted. So this time, after getting used to each other, you start taking each other for granted. The romance goes down. The romance goes down. So I think you should take some time apart. A little time apart. So that when you finally meet, you'll be having that urge to meet him. Actually, today I'm going to meet my guy. You'll be having that urge, and that will increase your romance and it will prolong the honeymoon phase. I have so many things to say, but I think I low key agree. Even me, I think I need to miss you. I can't just be seeing you all the time. What's the time? It's very important to spend time with each other, right? Yes, but it gets to a point, it's not the only thing you're doing. It's not the only thing you're doing. But it's true. It's not the only thing you can do. So I don't see a problem. As long as this person is spending quality time with you, you can't mention the five love languages. Among them is quality time. There's this lady who, having quality time makes her feel very loved. There's this other one. I'm giving her two gifts. I'm good. So you might not be giving out that much time but you're giving them gifts. So it's all about you knowing this person, the kind of language that suits them both. And then you're able to balance. Yes, I can't go to this extent. Because at the end of the day, I don't want to get to that point and say, do you want to go back to Neboeka instead of, yes, we're meeting, but it's not like we're doing, we are building up something to go do upon it. It's very important to know quality time is essential. Okay, on that note, if you've met someone who loves what they do, let me tell you as wherever you are working as and you love what you do. If you're not in a good mood, you can't go to the place where you're staying. See, I'm not the one who's going to go to the 3D. And yes, if you're in a good mood, you'll still go to work thinking, today is a brand new day. So I'm not going to go to the place where I'm staying. I'm not going to go. But I want to tell you this. When asked if she is hungry, she says, I'm not hungry. But if you're hungry, you can go to the place where you're working. Remember how you used to sleep baby? I'm hungry. Man, I used to jump. I used to order food and buy, but I ate and I didn't know what to eat. I was sick. I was so hungry. I ate and I didn't know what to do. Okay, I'm not going to go to the place where I'm staying. I think there are people who are not feeling well. Some of them are not feeling well. I imagine if I'm living, maybe I'm going to die. I'll have to go to the place where I'm staying. So I try to limit. But then I'm going to sleep. So if you're hungry, you can go to the place where you're staying. Oh, I see. If you're hungry, you can go to the place where you're staying. But then she will ask you, okay, she will say she will spend almost 5K on your bills. But then maybe 2. So I tried to limit it. Then the moment I saw it, it opened up. So what you are saying is that if you see it, there is no food for you. There is no food for my boy. But you should see it. My friend. It's very dangerous. Why is it dangerous? I think you should try to show your true colours. You are siloing where you are, you are sitting on the other side of you and you are totally different. Pretender sir was done. Imagine that. He's like one night ish hour. He's like one night. And then she starts telling me my story, like I want us to take a cup, and then she's busy like, okay so you just give me the money and God does this and then I'm here, look at yourself. Because I was saying why it's dangerous, because imagine I've got in this picture about you, and then all of a sudden this picture has to change. I'll have to adapt to that, and the process of adapting to that might not be very pleasant on my side. Yes. So yeah, difficult, that's basically what you're telling us. He claims Kunashida is a network, he claims Kunashida is a network, but that was not the case. Okay, I think that's a reason too, some days back the WhatsApp was bringing some little problem. So I think if you tell someone I can't send this message because WhatsApp is very heavy, you let this, you know you just do it first, but as guys soon, if you get a guy who really loves you, he'll be speaking the truth, I think you should try as much as you can to trust us. Yes, justice and though, on the other hand, network you put together. So okay. Mmhmm. So you call it, you know, that's why I'm saying network you put together. Yes that's what I'm saying, netwack you put together. But we don't want to communicate on WhatsApp. Come on, WhatsApp is a good example. But it's even good to have an example. Sign of a repoments conference. Seriously, come on, let's talk on WhatsApp. Because it's the same thing we're using, unless we have Wi-Fi. No, we're not going to talk about it as if it's best friends. Maybe we have Wi-Fi, but we don't have Wi-Fi, so we don't have credit. How can I come in and get credit? How can I send a credit? I don't have a credit card. I don't have a credit card. I don't have a credit card. So if there was no network, but you had to call your boss about a certain urgent situation. So can you find a way? Yes, email. Meanwhile, hello, we have a couple of messages. And please do go to our Facebook page at Y254 or on Twitter at Y254. Channel hashtag is one in the morning. Hi, I'm Collins. Honeymoon forever is a scam. I change as good as the rest. Don't get sour callings. Hi, I'm Jane. I miss my honeymoon love, but it's just impossible. I miss my dad. He has turned a good honeymoon tools to our public properties. He's my mom. But what were your honeymoon tools? Tell me. Hi, Val. I'm Chento. I have food and I'm guilty. I'm at honeymoon now and honestly, I starve. Oh, sweet heart. I miss you so much. I miss you so much. I miss you so much. I miss you so much. I miss you so much. I miss you so much. We assume a certain position on the floor at our VT. And please tell me the truth. At Y254 Facebook, at Y254 channel, on Twitter, hashtag is one in the morning. Let's just zip through these ones and then okay, one more message. I see another one. I'm at Y254 and I'm loyal. What happened, baby? Why did they leave you? Culture is a very important thing. Why? What's the problem? There's no one ready. He used to surprise you with gifts. No sigh. I'm not a 10-year-old. I'm a 2-year-old. You have users? I'm not a sound checker. I'm a buy-it cultured. What's the problem? There is no problem. Yes, there is basically no problem. Most likely. Most likely. Now you don't want to spend. Val, do you know how a male's psychological learning in our work, like when we are trying to win you over? That's what I was saying. Like we do our best to make you realize that if all our time comes and some things are not being done, you'll stay at that point. You are confident with your person. It doesn't matter. But then again, as I said, love languages are very essential. For example, you will go and buy your gifts and just by the reception of it, you'll say, I will learn it if it's not there. Like I seem to learn the history of gifts. So if you need to do something to make her feel happy and appreciate, you look at what you feel might suit her best. And that only comes if you understand her vision. Yes, you want a gift, but the thing is you actually don't appreciate that gift that much. So also me on my side, I feel because I'm spending on trying to make you happy, but it looks like that's not all that can make you happy. All right, so they're telling me we are running out of time, but before we go, I want to read just a couple of messages from our Facebook page. We have a relationship is like a building. It depends on the foundation. If you build it with above factors like calling each time, putting her on social media, then you have to continue. It's what's built the relationship and the girl gained confidence in you by doing so. Don't change your priorities. Hey! Wisdom as a boy representing Nax Vegas. I see in Boudia Kelvin is still in bed. Hi. Steve Kihius says, morning, Val, watching from Moranga. I hear you, then I love you all very much. We have Liam Hesbroff says, Val, I believe we've lost the sense of love in this millennia. That's so deep. Do you think so? No. You don't think so. You think so. Do you think we've lost this? Wow. And he says, romantic texting, long night calls, taking selfies and posting each other has been mistaken for a healthy relationship. We majorly dash to satisfy our desires of which any relationship is based on the roots of such is doomed to fail. The affirmation to stick by and love your partner even at your worst times is what defines a relationship. The only remedy for love is to love more. Hey! Nambonam kona Wisdom, Wisdom as a boy. I like it. I like it very, very much. Thank you so very much for using our social media platforms. Just one more time, WhiteFive on Facebook at White254Channel on Twitter. Hashtag is white in the morning. We have been discussing the honeymoon phase. Oh! How are boys squeezing in fraud? Fraud too. When it's convenient, two months into the relationship and the vibe is no longer there. Tabi, baby, those are professional time wasters. Please leave them alone. Don't blame all the men. Those ones in particular, professional time wasters. I... Liam has born. I see you again. He's the one who said the only remedy for love is to love more. Terri, me kona guesters of love also need to be shown. And they need to keep on changing with time. Update your software. Oh! So love, Nika, my software update. I love you. Later too. Your device is about to update. Steve Kehios's morning. I see you, baby. And then Murangah represented. Okay. Piasitna represents Murangah. Oh! Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you again. So we do have another discussion like this on Wednesday. But before that, tomorrow is Tuesday. We have entrepreneurship Tuesday. That's just money. Pesa. Besha shigana. What other language can we use? Give me your language, Manny. Okay. Misau. So nice. So nice. He's on his own, Manny. Pesatru. Pesatru. When is Pesautas being released? Pes. Yeah. We are just bringing all the monies tomorrow. You don't want to miss it. Thank you for taking this ride with us from 7 to 10 in the morning. Please do have a good day.