 defeating the narcissist many of you may feel defeated by the narcissist after everything they've done to you and you may want to show them that they can't overcome you that easily that they can't manipulate and control you that they can't just take over your life you may want to show them that and you may want to give them a taste of their own medicine you may want to defeat them and that is perfectly understandable which is why I decided to create this video to show you how you can defeat the narcissist if you want to defeat the narcissist all you have to do is show them that you no longer care you have to show them that you're no longer interested in anything they say or do you have to show them that they can't just control you or manipulate you like they did before because the narcissist is going to sense that your energy is slipping away they're going to sense that you're not affected by them and when they sense that they're going to try to come back and regain their control over you so what you have to do if you want to defeat them you have to show them that you're no longer susceptible to them in ablation you have to show them that you're not going to be their toy their plaything anymore you're not going to be their fool you're not going to be their doormat you're not going to be that person that they can just come in and walk all over and treat however they like that's what you have to do if you want to defeat the narcissist you have to stop being their supply and to do that you have to stop cooperating with them you have to stop complying with their demands because as long as you're doing that you may think that you're being a bigger person you may think that by cooperating with them you're making things easier on yourself but in actuality you're not you're just making things more difficult by doing that you have to show them that you're not going to be their fool anymore that they're not going to be able to walk all over you that easily as they did before and that is really how you defeat them you don't have to go out of your way to hurt the narcissist or to get revenge you don't have to do any of that to defeat them you don't have to do the things that they have done to you you don't have to become more like them you can stand in your own frame and in your own power and just be you and by doing that you can still defeat them many of us give our power away to people who misuse it to people who abuse it and then that is how they defeat us because you have to remember that narcissists don't have any power of their own they trick you into giving your power to them which they then use against you so this video is meant to empower you and it is about taking your power back so that you can use it for good because as we know narcissists will only use power for evil for bad things as you can see I'm just looking out at this amazing view here of the city I'm gonna get a haircut soon but I thought I'd just come up here and do a quick video and I think it is a very important topic that we all need to remember driving the m6 now different color for me it's something interesting it's a very fast car needs a good clean though but yeah if you want to defeat the narcissist don't play that game there is a famous quote that says don't wrestle with a pig you'll get dirty and besides the pig likes it and it's very true and if you play in their wrestling ring they're going to have the upper hand because they've had years of practice at playing that game so you need to play a different game or just don't play a game at all you need to focus on regaining control of yourself and your own life instead of arguing with them instead of trying to prove a point trying to show them that you've moved on you've changed that you have a new life without them you don't need to talk about that you don't need to display it to them just go out and do it and if they see it they see it if they don't who cares you don't need to worry about it because you're too busy being yourself living your best life and that's all you need to be doing of course it's good to educate yourself in this disorder because they may try to come back so it's good to have the tools to deal with them and of course there are a lot of narcissists in this world so just because you've got rid of them it doesn't mean that you won't meet another one in the future so stay on top of this information educate yourself maybe booking a one-on-one with a coach may help as well it's good to have some support on your healing journey and I am available for that you could book a session with me from my website it's not a survivor that could UK so yeah that's all I've got to say for this video thank you all for joining me if it helped please give it a thumbs up down below and have a van bat I will talk to you soon you will have a great day