 Hi you guys, okay testing up one two three. I have a new mic and I need to see if it's working So I'm gonna let a few people arrive here Before I start It was a little hole. How are you doing today? Hi, can y'all hear me fine? Is the mic a lot better or same? I'm trying to get feedback on the mic is the mic better or a lot better How much better Can I talk like this? I do I need to hold it up? Okay y'all look Look at this mic How y'all doing? Okay? Mike is a success. Thank you guys so Okay, so one of my lovely lovely subscribers sent me this mic and Thank you. I appreciate it. I love gifts So Thank you Okay, so let's get into it Why do women feel guilty for what they deserve to have? because a lot of women have an issue with with accepting things with letting men do things for them because they have the independent women syndrome and They have a lot of trouble just accepting like They just have a lot of trouble accepting what is you know, right? And because they've been conditioned so long to do for other people to do for other people and not do for themselves And you know if you're given any little little crumb You should feel thankful and grateful But when you demand something or when you ask for something or when you want something You're made to feel guilty for wanting it and oh you don't need that. Oh your materialistic Oh, no, you don't supposed to have stuff like that. You should be this and that But why do you want it if you're not supposed to have it? Why do you crave it if you're not supposed to have it? Why do you like it? Why are you attracted to it if it's not what you deserve? You know what I'm saying if you look at something and you don't want it You know, you're not bothered by it But if you keep seeing something that you like if you see a nice house a nice car a nice item of clothing You feel like you would look good in it. You should be there. You belong there. Then you do, okay? Don't let anybody tell you different Okay, a lot of women are stuck with these broke man who are putting stuff in their mind Oh, we don't need all that or you don't need that or you don't have to have that Oh, I like your hair just like that. You don't have to do nothing to it Which means I'm not paying for you to get extra done to yourself I'm not paying to live above what I'm comfortable paying for I don't think you should have this because I can't afford it blah blah blah blah Okay, when you're out on a date and you're meeting a new man You know automatically However, you dress the place that you go The things that you talk about will set the tone of what you expect throughout the relationship if it continues So that's why I always say ladies when you have a first date or a first real date go big You know demand five-star restaurant four-star restaurant ballet parking dress nice You know Because this is gonna set the tone of how he's going to treat you and what he's going to give you if he Feels like your high maintenance from day one. He's not gonna call you back or waste your time You know, he's gonna like I can't afford this shoot. I spit on my rip money, you know But if he can he's not gonna give you the lease He's gonna give you what you expect because this is the bigger minimum that you expect So no like like this person just said no coffee dates no cheap wine dates. Look I Can take myself to coffee I can go have a glass of wine after work anytime if I'm gonna spend time, you know getting to know a person I want it to be a memorable memorable experience as well as a pleasant one So I would prefer to go to a really nice restaurant that you know Has a great ambiance and blah blah blah blah blah, you know a thing because you know You're getting a chance to be seen out with me in public And I would be embarrassed if you took me to some cheap place, you know to be seen out with you in public So I really need to be seen in a nice environment in a nice place Get what I like get what I deserve because I'm doing you a favor basically, you know what I'm saying So that's how you have to approach These things when you start off dating set your standards super high Then after the first second third date you can start going down, you know as you get to know the person But when it comes to gifts, you know money birthday gift surprises Expectations it's always going to be up here because that's your first impression. Okay? Okay, so another thing is how you dress, okay, y'all see I'm dressed up today over I Have on a really nice Velvet blazer military style Nice little choker a stripe shirt some riding boots and some dark jeans Now if I go somewhere like this no broke man are gonna approach me Okay, because I don't look broke and I look like I don't deal with broke people look like you want to Live okay, if you dress nice You're gonna be treated as such they don't know how much money you have if you're dressed like money They're gonna treat you like money and when people start treating you like money Everyone will treat you the same everyone will treat you a plus high class, you know So if you just go walk around the store like this or go run your errands like this people are gonna look at you And like wow, she's very classy. Wow. She's probably you know She's probably the married to you know, a rich guy or she has money herself They're gonna treat you nice. They're gonna act their best around you. They're gonna be like, oh Hi, how are you today, ma'am? You know, but if you dress raggedy with some dirt sweat pants on and a t-shirt and some You know some sneakers on and your hair are messed up. They're gonna be like Watching you in college security. Okay, so make sure when you step out the house You look good because treatment starts from everywhere From the mail lady from the post office from the people at the store They're going to automatically treat you good based on your appearance and your get up. Okay, because people respect People who look like their life is together. Okay Might not be together But you can look the part and people will start treating you as such you will get better Opportunity you will get more attention. You will get more you know Quality people that will approach you, you know, I'm saying you're not gonna get the losers So make sure you understand the difference between classy and trashy tight clothes Maybe they might cover everything but if it's too too too tight It's still considered a little bit trashy probably best for the evening when you're out on a sexy date But now when you're out in the daytime just chilling wearing an errands, you know buying your Sephora, you know Getting your nails done blah blah blah. Don't walk out looking You know raggedy just because you're not going anywhere special every day you go somewhere You might bump into somebody you might bump into an ex basketball player You might bump into, you know, some just anybody if you're looking like this like wife Material or I have her at my basketball game Sitting court side or in the in the family section. She's gonna look good on camera This is how you supposed to present yourself. Okay, so Any guy that hits on you from a car is suspect. That's what I say because first of all, it's probably not his car He's probably written it or borrowing it because men don't hit on women in car from cars You know, unless they're trying to show off the car You know what I'm saying and most of the time they either work for a car wash or a car dealership and driving the car To the next dealership, so don't even fall for that most of the time Okay, because I had that done before this guy was driving a nice car. He couldn't afford it I know he was driving it to get gas. Let's bring it back to the dealership Because it was like a from a used car lot. It was a nice car, but I know it wouldn't use so I just ignored I'm like For real cuz you you try too hard with it, okay, so Back to the point. You know, this is my real hair today. I don't know we go I was like, take this wig off my real hair is growing. So I'm like, you know, let's Let's realize what we deserve instead of taking less. Okay. I keep seeing all these dudes posting I want to build with you. I want to build with do I look like Bob the Builder? Do I look like Bob the Builder? I don't build Okay, I move in and I unpack and I decorate you want somebody to build what you go get you another man Okay, I am not Bob the Builder. I am not a construction worker So these men who are asking you to build or you need a good man imagine what we could have together. I'm like, no Like no like say no to that a lot of these women are falling for in the comments Oh, yeah, if I had somebody it would be much easier. Yeah, it would be easier But you know what else would be easier to have a roommate and keep your options open So you could upgrade and find a man who has more money who can actually take care of you That would be easier. You know what I'm saying Um, so a lot of the women who are falling for the 50-50 okie-dok You know, you're not even leaving your options open And now y'all you're stuck in a relationship that you don't want and you know you don't even serve because you deserve better And now you're figuring out trying to figure out how to leave this broke do because you know, you can do better You should have never been with him in the first place You should have just been like we're just roommates because I'm paying half the rent and I'm not committed to you Never commit to anyone unless it's 100% what you want and you can deal with for the rest of your life You know what I'm saying women are so quick to want a commitment from anything moving any any type of man, but Look at where you're going to be from at five years from now You know, are you still going to want to be there? What if you can do better? You know, leave your options open if you're sharing rent and bills with a man Do not commit to him fully. Tell him look We're living together We're helping each other build But I'm leaving my options open because You know, I could actually have the same situation with a female roommate and be dating many many men Um, and you know, not even having to pay half the rent because they would So you need to let people know before they ask you to go 50 50 in a relationship that you have better options Okay, and tell them look I'm not moving in and I'm not living with you Unless you're paying every single bill in this house Okay Um Because you deserve that. I mean, what are you gonna do you're sleeping with him? First of all people will pay you Money to sleep with them. So you're gonna sleep with somebody free and give them money That's stupid. You're done. Okay. You deserve more than that Well, what about love? Okay. Well, he can tell you he love you all he wants And save his money from paying the whole entire rent and be taking out sharkisha on the side Okay, then you're gonna feel foolish. So never let a man have sex with you while you live with him if you have paying all the bills Okay, don't do it. It's not worth it. Say, you know what? I don't have sex with my roommate Move on in and you try to get some and you say, well, are you paying all the bills? No, you're gonna pay that Oh, okay. Don't give him that. Why are you not giving me sex? Why are you not giving me? I don't have sex with my roommates Bam, what do you mean? Well, if you're asking me for half the rent, I'm just a roommate, baby I'm not the girlfriend the girlfriend. Okay Okay, do you want a roommate or you want to go for it? You choose Because I deserve better than this and I'm not gonna sit here and give you free six and you asking me to pay bills Oh, no What that that's that's the best deal in the world and I'm not a discount chick I'm not giving you no discount. You're my roommate Okay, and you know if you asking me for money and asking me where I'm getting money Don't worry about it. You my roommate. All you need is the the bill money at rent time Right Sorry, y'all. I know that mic's probably loud. I forgot about this. I'm gonna put it over here So, you know, a lot of you women who are on my channel Y'all write me and talk about how You're in a relationship with a guy who won't do anything who won't better himself who won't do anything for you You're paying for all this stuff and they want more from you. Okay You deserve more than that. Even if you're single you're better off You know what I mean? You're better off because what is he gonna get you for Christmas? Think about this. Let's think about this. Those of you who are in a relationship with a broke man What what is he gonna get you for Christmas this year? What did he get you last year? some underwear A gift certificate To applebees. What did he get you a cookbook? What else tell me some stuff in the comment What do broke man get their women for Christmas put it in the comment? Let me see because I don't know A pack of cigarettes. Okay, what else body spray. Okay, what else nothing? Okay, nothing nothing A side chip a stick of gum excuses bath and body works A headache a handmade card nothing God they coming in so fast six low-cost perfume April nothing BS many lies nothing fresh air cheap cheap dudes. Okay, well STD perfume cookies. Okay That's enough y'all that walmart pack set. Okay Okay, okay. Okay. That's enough y'all have to put them up. Okay, y'all get it, right? So why are you staying with this person? Why are you staying with a man who isn't gonna get you crap for Christmas? Okay, when you can be getting jewelry trips Shopping sprees gift cards for worth more than a couple of hundred dollars Computers cameras phones. Why are you with a broke man who can't do nothing for you? You know And what did you get him for Christmas? I bet you got him something way better than he got you, right? So if you're if your Christmas gift is is not anything great And you still stay with the man that that right there shows him how shows you how much he cares about you You know nothing. He didn't give you nothing Um So For me, it's a deal breaker. It's like, you know what? When I was a child christmas was my favorite holiday now It's my worst holiday because I know exactly what to expect Nothing, okay. I go to work. I come home. I do this. I do that. I got you a nice gift Um, I can't depend on anybody in my life except for maybe my mama to get me something decent And I'm here sitting here with you sleeping with you all the time paying half the rent and here I get Uh a Walmart basket. Okay. No No, no, no Okay, no I'm gone. Bye. I deserve better Right, so You get even probably get a better christmas gift dating some dude Then you could from the man you live with the man who you're dating will probably try to impress you more And the man that you under a roof with So make sure You understand why you're staying in a relationship Is it because you're scared to move on and can't do no better? Or do you feel like you deserve it? And that's all you need in mediocre life is good enough, you know Stop stop making excuses for your man if you have to keep making excuses for your man That's a red flag Okay, I have done so many consultations for women and they start off this how they start off making excuses But he's a good man, but he's a good man, but no he's a broke man Okay There's good man everywhere. He's a broke man. That's what you that's what you really want to say Okay so he's a good man, but He doesn't want to do any better with his life, but he doesn't appreciate me But he doesn't spend money on me or give me anything special, but Okay, so he's a good man, but he's broke or he's stingy and he doesn't care about you. That's the point You're not worth anything to him because you're not worth anything to yourself because you stay there and you accept it If you got mad one good time at him not doing something right Or giving you something that you asked for for Christmas if you go crazy one time, he'll never do it again He'll make sure he's saving his little coins to get you a gift because he don't want you to explode on him in front of everybody You have to be crazy at least a couple times in your life to get what you want and that's the truth You know what i'm saying Imagine on christmas day you open in your gift And it's some crap right Don't say thank you. Don't pretend don't fake it Okay, you need to embarrass him hard in front of everybody Okay, this will teach him a lesson. He will never do this again next year Even if he's not doing it for you. He's doing it for everybody else's eyes. This is what you got to do This is crap Are you serious? Are you serious? Give me that stuff. I bought you back. I'm taking it back to the store and get my money because you just You know what I stay home with you all you know, I stay home cook clean You know go to work watch your kids And you buy me some crap ballmark gift set give me back my stuff I'm gonna take it back to the store right now and get my money back and buy myself something Because you don't know how to treat me. You don't appreciate me. Yes I'm embarrassing you in front of all your family because you deserve you ain't no man You know what I said it. Yes, I'm so sorry, but I'm just sick of this crap Then go on the next room and then laugh He's gonna be so embarrassed He's gonna bring you something the next day Post this on instagram post this that's not your real president. It's on the way Then you gotta go hurry up and order something on amazon Okay prime so Make sure you make that craziness. No Because if you just say oh, thank you Then he's gonna get you another thing like just like that next year and for valentine's day and for your birthday. Oh, she liked it Okay, you gotta go crazy. You gotta go crazy In front of people and bear it step. Okay. You gotta bear something Because they won't learn if you just say it. Oh, well, you got to do better I really don't like that if you just be quiet and what's wrong. What's wrong? Oh nothing. Oh nothing Then two months later you explode when you got me a crappy christmas present It's almost valentine's day, you know, it's Do it right then and there if you don't like something you don't accept it That's one of the 17 laws of success. If you don't like something do not accept it Okay Point blank period if you don't like something if something is not good enough for you Throw it away throw it away in front of them throw in the garbage stomp on it do something You don't want it. It's done. It's over. Okay That's gonna send a message to their brain. Don't come with the bs with me. Okay, because i'm not taking it You can call me selfish materialistic evil whatever but i guarantee you nobody is gonna come with some bs next christmas Okay So That's what you have to do. You have to go crazy Because you deserve better and you know you do everybody else is just watching your reaction What you're what is she gonna do? He got her some crap. What is she going to say to you this time? She's gonna smile my husband got me some jewelry. What does he get her? Oh my god? Let's just watch and see what she does Oh, she just smiled and took it Let's do the girl, you know The mom is going to secretly be cheering you because she want her son to be better too Like dang it's all you got your wife or your girlfriend You sorry i'm going to shave you my son, but she ain't gonna say nothing Oh, that's so nice. What flavor is that? I mean, what scent is that? Is she gonna be cheering inside for you? Maybe she will get him together. Maybe he will do better for himself because you she's making him me up, you know Um And i don't care if his relatives get mad at you just say, you know what i'm so sorry You know what i'm just not used to dating cheap dudes. Okay my my bad I must uh i downgrade it You know Don't apologize for what you want. Okay, if the man cannot deliver then you don't need to be with me If the man can't give you what you want if the man don't think you deserve things you don't need to be with him, okay Please understand this if you feel like you deserve something You're vibrating on that level of deserving something. It's gonna come to you If you stuck with a man who is vibrating on a level that you don't deserve something You're he's gonna block you every time he's gonna block block block block because You're with him You Are sleeping with him You are dependent on him to bring you what you think you deserve but over here He's thinking oh, she only deserve a walmart gift basket Over here you say i deserve some jewelry some shoes You know some shopping money and and and he's over here thinking walmart basket 999. Okay So You sit over here vibrating. I deserve everything. He's he's sitting over here vibrating She only deserves a walmart gift club when y'all collide together You're gonna get a walmart gift basket at the end of the day and then you're just gonna be mad Okay, because he's blocking what you deserve and he's not on that same frequency because you haven't demanded better in the past If you started With high expectations and you made him meet them from day one He's no he's gonna know better not to go get you know walmart gift basket Okay, so Someone said they got a phone case from ollie express Oh, no, he didn't He I got a teddy bear in a balloon. Wow And y'all were happy with that, right? No, ma'am I would have thrown it back at him or giving it to my child Right in front of them. Oh here, baby. You can have this merry christmas. I'm just walked out You if you're if you're too nice just give the gift to someone else right in front of them If you want to do with the nice Oh, this is so nice. You know what? I bet your mom would love this. Here you go I don't need that. You know, I can't really do it. I'm allergic to um Stuff like that. I have to have like Organic like lush and stuff like that, you know lush bad products. I can't use the synthetic No, we all snooty with it. I can't use this um And just don't apologize just here you go You know, don't even acknowledge anything about it. Just give it right away If you want to be nice nasty, just give it away keep the peace then he's going to be like Why did you give your gift away to my mom because that's not my real gift is it? Um Well, I didn't eat it. I don't want to I'm allergic to that stuff. You should know that by now You know, I can only use nice nice products expensive stuff Um Then he's gonna feel real stupid So another thing about accepting only what you deserve you know when you're online try to date or When you're out and about and you're sitting down and you're you know, people are approaching you um if they don't have What you are looking for if they don't fit the description of you know, uh able to provide Impress you and do that don't don't accept it because The law of attraction as well as one of the the 17 laws of success Say if you don't want something do not accept it Okay, so make sure you're following that law because It's gonna bring you what you want a lot of girls in the group are saying ever since I joined this group with Like-minded women I've had these type of men start coming up to me start approaching me because you're vibrating on a similar frequency as women Who deserve and know what they deserve in the world and men are picking up on it who also Understand a woman's words. Okay And they're going to be attracted to you because you're vibrating on that level. Okay, you're going to be on the same frequency So they're going to Have an attraction towards you That's just it. Okay So you can't hang around low-level friends who don't think they deserve anything You can't hang around a low-level man who don't think you or them deserve any any better You can't hang around anybody Who drags you down to a lower expectation? Okay You can't you got to x out your old friends who are broke broke-minded pick me chicks. You got to x them out Okay, you have to cut off communication if you want to level up and that's the truth You can't keep no pick me friends in this lifestyle If you want to elevate yourself to the next level, you just can't do it First of all because they're going to start hating on you because they can't do what you do They're going to start calling you materialistic stuck up the same as the the guys who can't afford you They're going to start being jealous of you because they're going to watch you Bypass them get taken seriously Be taken to nice places given nice gifts while they're sitting hip up here with a balloon and a teddy bear for christmas or valentine's day when you got jewelry and uh, you know something nice so Make sure you x those people out Or just limit your time with them. Okay Don't hang around them too long Just you know if it's family go to go to gatherings or whatever Go sit in the corner. Go get on your phone. Just avoid, you know, don't talk about your relationship change the subject Okay I'm in medical school and I'm really Ambitious, but I can't seem to find someone I believe I believe deserves me get hot sometimes um Focus on yourself Get through school. Okay. Um after you finish school And you have free time and you know You're working or whatever You're you know, I don't know if you're going to be a doctor or a nurse or whatever, but remember A lot of guys are intimidated by certain women's careers So you can't go talking about you're a medical school to people. Okay, you got it. They shouldn't know why you're in school It's it's kind of like saying i'm super smart I can I have the potential to make a lot of money But I want a man who was going to give me the world They're not you're not the same as a woman who's a receptionist who's going to worship them for giving them You know Um a gift of gift card for 200 dollars, you know, you're up here So they can't impress you and I've said this in many videos don't go around telling people what you do and what you're in school for Okay Um This idiot guy said women expect men to prove they're worse like duh whether they should just date any dude Women who Okay, a lot of guys think oh you need to prove your worth If you come into place dressed like you know, you're worse everything you don't have to prove nothing Your appearance proves it Okay, if you only wear the best perfume the best makeup the best clothes or the best looking clothes And you walk into a place a man already knows your words Because you don't take crap that means you your worth is high Your self-worth is high you come in a place looking raggedy with you know, um Old ratted up weeds smelling um stain sweat pants Uh flip-flops on with ashy ashy feet and long claw toenails They already know what you're about. Okay, and I have seen women that come out in public like that And I just I'm dressed up like this and I'm looking at them and I'm not making any judgment I'm just saying I watch how she gets treated versus how I get treated. Okay, and it's a lot different That's all I'm saying So when you walk out You don't have to prove your worth to any man Your look will prove your worth. Okay That's why broke man will not approach you when you look pull together Classy like they don't have a chance because they know your worth They know they can't impress you. They know you're gonna reject them because you know your worth So Whenever if a man asks you well, you need to prove your worth that means you not Put together that means you're not to put together, right? You know what I'm saying And they'll probably only do it online because they couldn't say that kind of crap in person Uh-uh, man couldn't say that in person Why because they're sitting over here nervous around you because you look good smell good And they're their senses their male senses are taken over and they would never dare say that to you They would just buy you whatever you ask for right then in there Okay So Don't get discouraged if you're online and these mannered saying this isn't that just simply tell them Well, you know, if you saw me in person, I know that your conversation will be a lot different And you're very lucky to be even talking to me online because I normally don't entertain them like you You know They're normally Unable to approach me because they see What they're dealing with and they see that I'm very high maintenance And that I don't put it with the bs. So they just don't even talk to me because they already know They don't have what it takes. You know, that's what you got to tell them online You know, you're lucky to be talking to me. Okay. I know I know I'm looking at your profile picture And I would never even notice you so This is probably the highlight of your day, you know That's what I would say. I don't even I wouldn't even be arguing with them I would just laugh and say, you know, you're very lucky that you got my attention Congratulations, probably the gonna be the last time but What if you're dating a guy that last year of medical school he wants serious relationship financial He's not on a point where he's a student. Is he worth the wait? Um, honestly I don't wait for men Okay, I would never wait for a man Okay, because while you're waiting for that man a real man could be passing you by Okay, will he wait for you? That's the question. You don't wait for men. They wait for you Okay, no, you say, you know what? When you finish school You know, let's Let's see where we are He's gonna want you even more Why because you're not sitting on there waiting on him like a fool Like you have a life. You know your work. You're holding out for better It's like, oh, you know what? I would love To go out with you and celebrate you graduating medical school. Please call me when you graduate I'll still be here. You know, I'm working just make up a line working real hard right now focusing on myself and you know, I want you to Put all your attention towards finishing school Then when you get out, you know, let's celebrate There you go. Now you're free. He's he's waiting on you Okay Man don't wait on us. They toss us aside when they're doing That's why you don't wait on a man Never wait on a man. If there's some man asks you to wait on him. He does not value You at all. He doesn't value Okay Um so Once again, a lot of the women on here that watch my channel they watch but they don't really do anything about What their situation is, you know, they'll wait till the last minute to try to do something They'll have a thousand more excuses of why they can't leave their man You know what? My mom she didn't deal. She didn't take bs If she didn't like some she would go on the next day the next Day order next week. She was gone. He's like, uh, oh, I know you. No, I'm out You know, she she knew she deserved better You know, if she would have stayed with her first husband, she would be broke. Maybe did living in the hood Okay, she knew she deserved better. She got up and left Didn't even take nothing. She's by I deserve better. Okay. She didn't sit there and make excuses for him She didn't sit there and say hey It's gonna be better. I'm gonna push him to the next level. She didn't say none of that. She's like, I'm out of here I deserve better. I look good Let me go get me another different type of man. Who knows my worth, you know So Don't Sit there and make excuses and wait and hope and dream that this fool Who doesn't know your value? It's gonna get better. He's not okay So move on. It's so easy. Don't try to change him. Move on. Go replace him You know, men don't do this to women what men do not try to change women Men do not sit up here and sulk because their woman won't do better Man, just get up and leave. That's what they do. Why can't you do the same? Why do you have this stupid guilt? Why do you have this guilt of why you can't get up? I can get up and leave and be good If I were in a bad relationship, you know Because I know who I am and I know my work. I don't have a little self-esteem and The best revenge is to do better And get to rubbing in their face later on, you know Don't sit there and take it because you don't because because you're lazy And you can't get up and you can't you don't like change and stuff like that If you feel that way, that is what your life's gonna be. Okay, that's what it's gonna be So Y'all, I don't I don't even look at the trolls anymore. They're Sometimes it's a trick and they want you to click on it to delete them so they can Um hack so I'm not even deleting them Okay, so Okay And another thing like a lot of a lot of you women live in your own world Okay, you you have your little own circle on facebook You have your own circle on social media You have your own circle in your neighborhood or your surroundings and friends You're not in the real world. Okay You only expose yourself to a certain type of people And what they like is not the same thing as what other people like who are more abundant. Okay So you're gonna have to also adjust and understand it's not about what you like It's about what the type of men that you want to attract like Okay If you think you deserve a good lifestyle and the man who wants to give it to you thinks he deserves a woman who Uh is he's attracted to You know, you might have to change your looks you might have to change your hair You might have to change your makeup. You might have to change how you dress and That's a small price to pay for the type of life that you really want and deserve, you know what I'm saying Okay Someone says any woman who uses her kuchi for money is a prostitute Well, you know what? If I were to give it away free then I'd be a fool Okay, and a stupid idiot. So I'd rather be called a prostitute than a fool. Okay Prostitute's got money in their hands fools. Don't Okay, I would be a prostitute any day before I be a fool All right, men just want free sex so they don't have to work as hard To get it too many pick me chicks are giving away free sex So men think it's normal and they deserve it. No, you don't deserve free sex at all and you never will Those women who are giving it away They have low self-value So I don't I don't mind being called a prostitute as long as you don't call me broke Or a fool and I'm not giving nothing away free. You know what I'm saying? Never ever ever ever Any man who dated me already knows they've got to come with some money That's just it Ask my husband You already know if he stopped paying bills if he stopped doing stuff for me I'm start looking elsewhere. I'm like upgrade upgrade upgrade because no, I already told him I'm like, look You the man I'm the woman if you can't provide for me you need to tell me So I can go find somebody who can't because I already told you from day one what it's about. I Like to be provided for I like things done a certain way Which is you providing for me every step of the way and if you can't do that I can't be with you That's just straight up. You already know There's no oh, well, you got to take care of me in my downtime and oh you got to do this because I can't know Either you can or I'm gone I don't accept what I don't want that is it that is this one of the laws of success If you can't follow it, you can't be successful Okay, you got to put your foot down and they will respect you for it Okay, it will keep them working It will keep them going and getting that money and bringing it to you It's not gonna they don't they're not gonna think about taking a break Okay, so tell them how it is what you expect and what you don't accept Okay Yeah, so another thing Any man who expects you to give it up for free? Doesn't value you either. Okay They don't value if if they want to sleep with you penetrate you for free They don't value they don't want to give you something for making them feel special feel good They don't value they just see you as a sexual object and they don't value you okay So don't give it up for free make them invest People always value the things that they invest in you ever notice that you make your child pay for something And they're gonna treat it right. They're not gonna lose it You pay for something they're gonna lose it the next day and say well, I'm here Make them pay for stuff make them purchase you things make them invest in you Then they will value you even more. Okay. You don't give away free sex to broke man. That's his no no Okay, if you do that, you're a fool and you deserve everything that man does to you Why because you chose to let him Devalue you Okay Yes Okay, if y'all aren't in the group anymore, don't talk to me. I don't keep people out the group. That's My administrator. She looks to see who posts if you don't post she removes you So I wouldn't up to me um I keep telling people you got a post which is not commenting. It's posting on the wall of the group You didn't post on the wall in the group in the last couple of months there's a Thing on facebook that shows who posts and who don't she just is not personal She just goes and clicks all the inactive members And gets it out. Okay, so make room for more So if you're if you are an inactive member And you are not in the group anymore It's because you weren't posting and we just went down the list nothing personal and got the inactive members out. That's all Um, you can get back in if you write to mickey fox on facebook All right, you can get back in if not You know, but it's gonna cost like she's gonna charge you still to get back in because You know, it cost it cost time and effort to sit there and go through all those people who are inactive and sit there and delete So There is a fee to get back in if you were kicked out. I'm sorry if you're not serious about the group and you're not posting And and being active in it. It's just because You know, they don't want lurkers in there lurking around not posting or nothing So they just she just kicks them out. Isn't that me? Isn't that me? Okay. I don't um I don't delete anyone unless like someone comes to me and shows me some really bad things This person is doing then I'll take it into my hands, but they're just random non posters A click next to the box and then gone. Okay, it's not Anything personal, okay um So If you don't like gold digger, why are you here? Who don't like a gold digger? Let's see Okay Some okay some guy says he's not mgtow. He just don't like gold digging women. Okay, that's fine A lot of a lot of women are not gold diggers. You know This is the channel for them for gold diggers. So You're on the wrong channel That's all of it. You're on the wrong channel um, so Sorry, you you you came upon a gold digger video my bad, but You know, there are plenty of women out there who will take you with nothing. All right. I'm pretty short and take care of you Okay I'm not broke you people are sad if you judge me by how much You're broke if you think gold you're broke if you use the term gold digger Okay, because men with money. They don't see women as gold digger. They see them as investments or you know Give them a woman money is not hurting their pockets. So it's you know, they don't care Men with money are used to paying for things that they want not a big thing You know men with have to keep a budget and watch their bank account Of course, they're gonna not like gold diggers because it's gonna mess with their bottom line And you know how much money they have to spend for the month, you know, they're rent So of course You might not be broke, but you're not rich enough to understand that The term gold digger is only used by broke men What if he stopped giving you money for no reason? That means you should have had a plan B like I always tell y'all Then you just go to the next one. Okay, because eventually a man is going to get tired of you He's not trying to be with you forever. You're a sugar baby and When he grows tired, he's going to move on to another sugar baby. That looks better than you younger than you More exciting than you. He's going to let you go. That's why I always say have two or more On the side don't get caught up in one. Okay, then I try to marry you They're just wanting you for what they want When they get grow tired of you, it's on to the next. So always have that backup always I'm dating a younger guy, but he's rich. He has a business and he booked a Australian trip. Wow I love Australia. Well, I never been but It's so beautiful on tv Sheeran makes her own money What? Oh, yeah Who said who talking about what is the amount of money that makes a man interesting? Oh at least six figures six figures. They can't be below no six figures, you know At least Um, I judge women by what's in their heart. Oh, that's so nice sure you do Because there's a lot of good women with nice hearts that you just dying to be with right lie, see how many lie Um, what should an engagement ring cost? Well, that depends like if you want If you want a nice engagement ring, you need to tell him that You know that that's one of your main things that you are really looking forward to you need to voice that You need to tell him what type of diamond you like You need to tell him the store to go get it from you need to tell him all this because men don't know Okay, I told my husband. I like look I like princess cook And I don't and I want at least one and a half carrots At least if you go hiding at great if you can't oh well, you know, that's that's the least that I will take Okay, that's the least I'm gonna take if you can't get any better than that You better get a credit card or something Okay So it just depends if the man is willing to go in debt over a ring great if he can pay for it great Whatever it just depends on the financial situation Some people don't have a lot of money to just blow on jewelry Some people will get a payment plan and pay monthly on it Some people just buy stuff and don't like credit buy cash or you know debit And there it is, you know So it just depends on what your financial situation is For me, I just you know, I was surprised he had already bought me an engagement ring That was one and a half carrots. So I was already good. He bought me another ring For the wedding. So I had two rings. I lost one of them though. So this is the only one that's left But I had way more than I asked for that's for sure um Yeah, any any woman that's guilty for Demanding what she deserves She's not gonna attract it to her So y'all have to stop feeling this guilt that men don't feel at all You know, we got men up here in the comments lying and say, oh, we look for what's in the heart of a woman Y'all got men up here lying today Um, because we know that's not true. We already know that's not true How do I make a woman happy? be a provider for her You know pay everything pay all the bills Tell her to go follow your dreams and that she love her and basically That's bad For me, okay Mm-hmm This guy I'm dating just asked me for four hundred dollars. What? I know you lie y'all watch uh That guy on instagram. What's his name? Got damn. So I know you lied Why would he ask you for four hundred dollars and why would you even let him ask you? That's stupid. I don't even like uh You must be talking to the wrong girl because No, go ask somebody else. I don't give man money period. Never ever ever Okay Okay, let's see. I miss Okay, so this lady is talking about I'm not a hoe. I'm not in the whole game. I don't sleep with man for money I just want men to treat me as I deserve. I'm too good of a person to be mistreated especially If you're too spiritual men are going to think that you're low Low value, okay Because being too spiritual means. Oh, you're not into materialistic things Oh, they can treat you any type of way and give you what you want Even if you don't really feel like that, you need to act like that to get the respect that you need. Okay I'm very spiritual But I'd be damned if somebody come up to me at christmas time with a walmart gift basket Okay That's what i'm saying Sometimes you got to act like okay I'm i'm a spiritual person. I I love the trees and the flowers and you know the earth and you know, uh My astral travel The first thing they think oh She's gonna pay my bills. He's very spiritual. She's gonna want to do all this spiritual stuff, which is free And they're gonna target you They're not gonna give you the respect that they're gonna give someone like me because I come off like I need them to come correct You can't be spiritual acting and then expect A man to come give you the world Because they target women like you on purpose because you don't expect much out of life except What you can give yourself They just come with some fake knowledge that they didn't looked up on a youtube video and try to impress you And then when it's time to go out to dinner Oh, I don't eat that. It's not organic. It's not you know, I guess we can't go nowhere How about you come over to my house and I cook for you, you know, then next that's a free day right there, you know, so When you are spiritual, don't tell them that that's a red flag to treat you like nothing Okay, I don't go around telling people I'm spiritual. Oh, I'm spiritual on spiritual They be asking you for free stuff. They be trying to get over on you. They try to ask you for stuff Oh, you're spiritual. You're supposed to give me stuff for free because you're such a good person, you know Love and light. Oh hell no No, I'm spiritual. Don't mean uh, I'm stupid So, no, I don't I don't but I will tell somebody yes, I expect Um, some type of compensation for my time and energy. Yes, I do just like anybody any good business person Yeah, anybody says, oh, I'm a free spirit. That means free sex. That's what somebody said in the comments free spirit equal free sex No, thank you Does the guy changes mind about marriage and having children, especially if he would not have a vasectomy I don't know if some man is already telling you that that means they're not into you. You got a wife material move along, okay A man is not going to tell a woman that who he thinks his wife material If he ever wants to get married a man don't come out and tell women that type of stuff. Okay, that's that is a red flag for don't even try Okay, okay, let's see What happens if you Were content with what he made in the beginning, but now you want more He provides but I want better lifestyle what we have kids A lot of married women who are married to mediocre men go out and get sugar daddies on the side Okay Um, that's just how it is. They just go okay They get on one of the websites find a sugar daddy go meet them for lunch Go meet them, you know here and there and they get the money that they want Your man ain't gonna do no better because you married him like that And y'all already have kids. He's comfortable. He's he's just you never pushed him before So you can't start doing it now. They're not gonna accept it Understand so go get you a man on the side or sugar daddy on the side You don't have to sleep with him. You just make sure he's old and ugly and he'll give you whatever you want. Okay Lunch dates keep it in the daytime while he's at work. No problem. Women do it all the time. It's very Common, you know, your man can't give you what you deserve go find someone who will Keep it, you know, keep it. Don't give him your real name Don't let him know where you live. Don't tell him nothing about yourself. Just that oh, well, we can go out We can date we can have fun I gotta I can't see you on the weekend or at night. Keep it daytime only Bring me some gifts. Give me some money. That's it Okay Someone says don't question my motives question why they trigger you they don't trigger me I hope you're not talking to me I'm just saying I see women like you get mistreated a lot and they always in my inbox crying So I was just trying to prevent you from being like that Sometimes You know, it's not You it's them You know, you're doing nothing wrong But you have to live in a world where men are doing everything wrong. Okay, so it's it's more for protection It's not about your morals. This is this is where a lot of spiritual people get messed up They don't understand the difference between acting and really believing what you believe. Okay They don't understand this. They can't draw this line. They can't say, okay I know I believe a you know, a bc and d but I might act like I don't so I get what I want Understand You could still have your morals But you can't show them That's how you get ahead. You don't live You don't show everyone your morals It's not for everyone to know So a man should not know That you're a free spirit a man shouldn't know that you Think, you know that you talk about 3d and 5d earth and stuff like a man should know that A man should know how smart you are A man shouldn't know how spiritual you are Okay, a man shouldn't know all these things that he can use against you A man should know those things if you sit down here blabby your mouth and telling everybody everything Trying to be extra this and extra that and impress him. He's supposed to be impressing you Okay, all you're doing is giving him ammunition to do you wrong Okay So if you want to tell the world about everything you know and do great Don't be surprised when they ask you for $400 to What do you get all this wisdom? It's common sense, you know um Most women understand that men are liars right and feel no guilt To do you wrong yet women still Feel the opposite way Oh, well, he's gonna be better. Oh, I feel guilty for doing that. Oh, I can't do that Oh, I gotta keep my spiritual ality out for the public. Oh, I gotta do Why Why you gotta do it and he don't Why do you feel the need to do it when he doesn't? I don't know Because you were programmed to Deprogram yourself And you won't feel the guilt. It'll just be like, hey, you know, you're gonna do it to me anyway So you did it to her you did it to your baby mama. You did it to your ex. You ain't gonna do it to me I'm gonna do it right on to you and move along. I don't feel any guilt if you Feel like you can deal with me great if you can meet my expectations great If you can meet my demands, great, you can stick around if you can't you can't stay by You know, that's just how it is So You know, instead of feeling guilty and trying to really be a certain way Be that way But act a different way when it's time to get what you need This is my cousin as a bitch and living the life my sweet christian half sister is struggling her husband done So some mean stuff to her Yeah, that's all it like nice women finish last y'all. Y'all should know this by now Okay, okay. I'm trying to read some of these comments. I can't see um How can I tell my brother to wait till Okay Brother Oh god Some guy asked how can I tell my brother to wait till his erection erection to go down before getting breakfast? Tell him just straight up. Look. I don't know how old he is but If he's young tell him in a nice way like, you know, you shouldn't come out your room until everything is calm Everything is calm Those who call water on it or something A married man has been giving me money and now he wants to fly me out I don't believe in sleeping with married man. However, he's going to give gift me as well I'll consider it. What should I demand before he flies me out? Well, this is up to you, you know If he's married you can get more out of him Then the single guy So you got to figure out if you want if you think about something that you always want but you that nobody can get you And then ask him for that if you don't give it till you don't sleep with him There you go Get you a Chanel bag Get you something get you something that will appreciate and value I know I would So Anyway, let's see I got a deep question. Why people especially man hate virgin man Why People especially men hate virgin men virgin men I have never I well actually I didn't mean a virgin man and they were only 18 I took the virginity But I you know, I don't know I don't think they hate them most men don't go around telling people they're virgin though It's all like a mystery living up How long should we wait on a man to come visit and stop talking to him to come visit? I don't know. Does he live out of state long distance relationships unless they're based on money don't really work Someone says you you saying masculine lenity is being hoarse No, I'm saying most men don't tell women that they're virgins That's why I was wrong thing, you know, most men are going to say hey, I'm a virgin Yeah, because that is ammunition That is Oh, well if I if I give him something he's gonna be hooked on this and do whatever I say he's gonna fall in love I can do whatever I need to do to him you know But he gotta have some money because I ain't giving it up for you. So Any relationship based on money never works? I know you line Work every time for some people it's like Okay, it's kind of like this Colleges ivy league school versus community college Okay If you go to a certain school, you're gonna get taught You're gonna get educated You can get a decent job But if you were accepted into an ivy league school, you're gonna get the best jobs Okay, you're gonna live the best type of life and you're going to get what you Deserve in life even if you don't deserve it because you are associated with greatness You're associated with mediocrity and Low, you know low income That's what you're gonna vibrate love It's how you feel about yourself. It's not about another person If you love yourself You're not gonna settle for less than you know, you deserve you're not going to accept crap You don't want okay, which is a world man You love yourself, which is who you're supposed to love first and foremost You're gonna love someone who can love you the way that you Like to be loved Provided for given a good lifestyle blah blah blah blah blah blah blah Okay, so if you love yourself enough To Get the type of man that you want Who's going to love you and know your value and give you the life that you want? That's love. Okay Just because you have a physical attraction and an emotional attachment to some random person even though they're broke That does not make love. That doesn't mean that you're in love with that person It means that you you're Putting them before yourself Okay Knowing that that love is conditional if you mess up that person's leaving Okay, if you love yourself Do what you expect And you choose the type of person to be with Because you love yourself doesn't matter if they leave Okay Because you chose what you wanted First and foremost and what was best for you So if you're gonna get left by a rich husband versus a poor husband, which one is going to leave you with more The rich husband or the poor husband Which one is going to leave you with more money? Which one is going to love you enough To give you some money so you can go start your life over Which one is going to be so much in love with you? That Even if he left you you're still great financially and taken care of financially And you marry a broke man because you had some feelings some temporary emotional feelings that probably wore off after the first two years When he leaves you what are you gonna be homeless? Got to move back with your mama, right? Then god go chasing for child support, right? So guess what? I love myself And love has everything to do with choosing a partner who can provide for me Because I love myself and I know what I want and I reject everything else. That's it. Okay So you can you can talk about Conditional love doesn't mean money. Yeah, whatever. That's stupid love. That's struggle. I don't want it. Don't need it and You can you can keep it But I don't invite that into my life because it never works either I choose self love and if you can if you can love if you can give me the love that I deserve That I want. Yes, then I'll love you back, but Mm-hmm That's why you got to love yourself First and not accept crap that you wouldn't accept If you weren't having some emotional feelings, you know Does it make sense on paper? You know If any woman asked me how much money I have I dump her Good because you don't want to waste her time. She'll be on to the next person who really has some money to offer her Yeah I I would be thankful if a man dumped me after I asked him, you know, what you make how much you got What could you do for me? I would be happy if you dumped me right there Because that means he's not lying to me He's not trying to pretend like he has money and I can move on to the next man who really does have money You know what I mean? So you're doing women a favor by dumping them if they ask you A question that most women should be asking men who they're wasting time with That's that's the first thing I asked my husband the first thing I asked my husband When we met How much money do you make? What did you do? What kind of car do you drive? That's the first thing I asked him First thing he walked up to me. Huh? Start talking I'm like, oh, okay. What do you do for a living? Oh really? How much money do they make? Oh, that's fine. Okay. What kind of car do you drive? Straight are you here straight up straight up question? Why because I'm not wasting time Life time is time is money. You can't answer my questions. You don't have what I want. I'm not Going to waste my time and I'm going to reject you. That's just it 17 laws of success, you know men do it all the time They interview the woman. Oh, what's your name? Oh, okay, great. What do you do? Oh, how many kids you got? You married? Okay Next They don't sit there and waste time unless they just after one thing They'll pretend like they are okay with it and once you give it up, they're gone still so At least we know what we want and aren't afraid to ask for it We don't care about losing a date. We care about losing time time is more valuable than somebody said I'm here to pretend that he can do something for you Okay My time is more valuable than some random dude sitting up here pretending he can do something for me Okay, I would rather you tell me straight up. Look, I don't like gold diggers. I'm out. I can't do nothing for you I'd be like, thank you for being honest. Appreciate it Bye okay Because my time is worth more than Then wasting my time. Okay. I don't care That's what that's how you have to be in this world now. Okay. That's how you have to be You don't want to waste time with some broke dude All he's gonna do is fill your head up with lies And then you're gonna start making excuses for him at christmas time when he got you the walmart gift basket And but he said he was gonna do this or he said he you know, no They can't do it right then and there when you meet them Don't even bother move it on move it along somebody out there can do it for you. Okay and a lot of ladies, you know They they need to also understand that You got to pull yourself together if you want to get the same type of treatment as a woman Who is pulled together? You know what I'm saying? You got to pull yourself together enough To compete with the next woman. You can't just expect just because you feel like you deserve something If you felt like you deserve something you would look like you deserve something If you look like you deserve something then everyone know that you everyone will know that you do So self love first take care of yourself first get yourself together first Then go and the men will just give you stuff. I promise you You can't go out there looking scraggly and raggedy And say I need you to do this for me. Give me some money. No, because First of all, you don't look like you deserve it. You don't look like you think you deserve it You coming out the house raggedy ugly, you know go fix yourself up Then you can demand the best How are you going to demand the best wearing the worst looking the worst smelling the worst you can't do that So go get yourself together first Okay Go get yourself together. Don't come out the house looking crazy and demanding stuff from guys. They're just gonna laugh at you Love yourself first. Get yourself together first. Get your looks together first Get your wardrobe together first. Get your hair together first. Get your makeup together first Then go out and demand the best because you look the best already. Okay, if you got on everything Looking good, they're not gonna laugh at you for expecting them the best. They're gonna already know You expect the best. Okay A lot of the girls who are new to my channel or new in my group, you know What am I doing wrong? How come I can't get a second? Go work on yourself first Then when you look Like the lifestyle that you want go demand what you want Okay, don't come out the house look crazy Okay, that's all i'm gonna say, you know If you don't know you look crazy post your picture up and ask women, what can I do? Do I look good? Do I look like I deserve? You know A 200 bottle of perfume a $200 bottle of perfume. Do I look like I deserve that? Could I ask for that looking like this? Could I ask For a $200 bottle of perfume and be taken seriously Yes or no The answer is just go out the house. The answer is no go back to your closet Into your mirror Okay You can't walk out the house looking trashy and expecting the best it don't work like that Okay, and I i'm being honest with y'all. You got to know you deserve it first and foremost so If you have a problem with fixing yourself up if you don't think you have enough time to fix yourself up blah blah blah blah blah blah you need to figure out a simple classy look that you do have time for That will get you the respect and it will get you the recognition that you deserve more in life That's all i'm gonna say, you know, it doesn't take that much You know, it doesn't take that much you spend more money on a lot of other stuff That's ratchet or price, you know, that doesn't go up in value Then you could spend on something that will demand you respect, you know what i'm saying? Like y'all were going to spend $200 on Fashion Nova And that stuff will be our style next month Versus getting nice pieces that will last many years that are considered classic and that will demand respect You know, okay, it's not all about what's trending. It's about what's respected. What's what looks expensive and what will demand Better treatment, but that's how you need to dress now if you're going on a date at night and you need to look sexy Great do it. Whatever when you're going out in the daytime, you know walking around shopping You need to look pulled together. Okay, because people will treat you that way um You know, you can't always look like you're going on a date either You got to look you got to have different looks for different times. Okay casual um, you know shopping You need to have a look for each thing that you do because you don't know who you're going to run into you know And if you have to slip out and go do something unexpected, you need to be dressed you know um What if you ran into someone from high school for you know An old boyfriend and you're looking crazy Always leave your house looking the absolute best Depending on what you're dressed up for, you know Okay Believe it or not. I'm trying to help you men don't want horse. Yeah, right Broke man don't want horse because they're easily led astray with the money. Okay Broke man don't want horse because whores are always trying to upgrade They don't expect they don't accept you for too long if you can't give them what they want they on to the next. Okay horse And broke man don't mix. Okay A whore will stop being a whore for a rich man. I guarantee you that. Okay The only reason y'all call them whores is because you can't afford them Okay To normal guys with you know six figures and up they're just women with high expectations Okay So of course broke man don't like whores. They ain't got no money So if that's what you want to call women with high expectations, great doesn't bother us. We still get no money Call us what you want. We still got what we need. Okay, so You're not trying to help anybody. You're just trying you're just showing us that you're broke You understand You're not helping us. You're just showing us what you lack. You're showing us that you lack money You're showing us that you lack anything because you have to you have to say A woman is a whore because she wants the best in life So a woman who wants the best in life is a whore Okay, well to me that's just saying I'm broke. I can't afford the best in life So I'm gonna call you a whore because I can't get you for free. Great. Whatever. Whatever makes you sleep at night Go ahead with it. I don't care But you know Whatever makes you happy What time is it? Oh, I gotta go to my other channel now. I got so stuff to do on that channel um Yeah, I love whores, but I won't marry a whore good because If you married a whore you would have to keep going higher and higher and get more money Okay, because she's always she would always be trying to upgrade on you Okay, she would push you to the next level or she would leave you for somebody who's already up there So do not marry whores because if you fall off If you don't make enough money if she finds someone worth more than you she's gone Okay, so marry the little picnic chicks who Will do anything for you Don't marry don't marry someone who knows her worth Marry someone who will stay with you through thick and thin And take care of you if need be don't marry a woman who demands the best in life Don't do it. It's not worth it For me I you know, I already said look You can't take care of me then you don't deserve me You can't take care of your child what they do take them away, right? You can't take care of your child Child services will come and take your child You can't take care of your wife your wife will remove herself and place herself in a Position where somebody else can't okay That's just it. You can't do it somebody else will Okay It must be shameful not to be able to take care of yourself. I can take care of myself But why should I pay when somebody else will? I should I should be able to save all my money my savings should be Actually, my savings is very large because I don't have to pay for myself I can save everything that I earn Because my man provides you understand. I'm not Unable to take care of myself. Believe me. I could but why would I want to spend my money when I could spend somebody else's? That's another rule for 17 laws of success Why spend yours when I could spend theirs? That's what investors do. They don't spend their own money. They get an investor I'm just being a good business woman All of the ones that are programming stupid Okay So I'm sorry that you got to take care of yourself and you can't provide for yourselves I didn't figure it out how to do it how to get taken care of and say If you could take care of yourself, why do you need a man? I don't need a man They need me All right, I'm the one that inspires them to get up every day and go earn some money And bring it on home. Okay. They need me I don't need them So that's that's the thing about it most women or most guys they don't realize, you know Most men need women for inspiration to get up out of bed and go to work Okay, what are you working for if not? To get the type of woman you want or the type of lifestyle you want or what you think you deserve in life If a man thinks he deserves a certain type of woman, he's gonna get up and go work so he can have it It's like, you know, just that's how men are So Yes, my man, uh, can take care of me and I could take care of myself, but I allow him to pay for everything and I save my own money If I wanted to leave any day, I could go and still live the same lifestyle as I'm living now But why would I? struggle Pay for stuff sacrifice go work for somebody else leave my house. Why would I do all that when I don't have to? that's done What to get some recognition employee of the month somewhere? I don't care. I don't care about that. What's what's that gonna do for me? nothing Right, like I don't need a career to feel like I'm someone if I did, you know Then that means I don't know who I am before that but plus Companies and corporations are not loyal to their employees. They will fire you like this Let you go like that after 20 years. Why would I be loyal to a company? You know, that's stupid to me I'm gonna be loyal to myself first and foremost so no My finances are far from perfect. Do you suggest that I'd be more stable before Going after rich men. I had a lawyer guy tell me that he preferred women to have their finances If you're going into a relationship with a successful man, he's not going to respect you if you're In a ton of debt by to be evicted, you know Just live and broke. No, he's not going to respect that because that means you're irresponsible okay It means your priorities are out of whack It means you make emotional decisions. It's it means you're not Balanced, okay. So yes, get your finances to at least the point where you're not Endanger, okay If you're in danger and struggling about to be homeless, can't pay the light bill Don't mess with anybody get yourself together first focus on this, you know, okay I'm talking to this guy who says Who's a pilot? So he has money, but he keeps asking me to come over and cuddle. How do I get him to want to spend money on me first Tell them to meet you at a nice hotel Meet me in the bar of the four seasons then drink Have some drinks have some dinner and then let him know look I really like you And you know, I think that we can Really have some fun together, but I don't just go and cuddle with random men you know I like You know, I like to be turned on first and it takes a few things to turn me on so I just want this meeting Because this is not a date. I want this meeting to to let you know What turns me on then you lay down lay down the stuff that turns you on I love shopping I love when a man takes me shopping. I love when a man, you know Just, you know books a spa trip for me. I love when a man asks me if I need anything and just puts money in my purse Ba-ba-ba-ba then add some sexual stuff in there too. So it's not all just straight up money You know, I love when a man gives me massages and does this and that, you know, every other one should be about money mix it up, you know it's like You know what y'all I gotta go but Y'all get the drift. Okay, so I'm gonna see y'all on next video and Keep your standards high know what you deserve and don't settle for anything you don't want Because life is too short time is valuable and all you're gonna do is sit there miserable Why everybody else is getting what they want. Okay, so I'll see y'all later. Bye