 Anyway, so I want to share some marriage tips with you guys and really it's just good relationship stuff in general You know, so I know there's some of you here who are single Hope to get married some of you who are single who want to remain that way Some of you who are married Happily married some of you who are married and wish you were single. No, just kidding I'm gonna help you guys, but anyway, you'll get some stuff out of this this morning and we'll have a lot of fun so anyway, so this session is How to stay married and not kill anyone So when I heard that the series was relationship goals, I thought this this isn't a good one If we don't kill anyone in there, I think that's a win. All right, so what we're gonna do We're gonna start off and I'm gonna put you guys on a panel Okay, and what this panel is is we are gonna roll back the clock some 4,000 years and we are gonna decide Who is going to be the next mother? Of the next king of Israel, okay? We're back at the time of David and see King David had five wives All right, and one of these wives is going to become the mother of the next king of Israel Who's King Solomon right and eventually she's gonna go on to become the great great great great grandmother of Jesus? All right, so now we have to figure this out. So now you would think it might be wife number one Because she's got dibs right she's been around the longest But we know it's not her because David stops sleeping with her Which is easier to do when you got four more in the wings So no, it's not her and you come down to the other end you have a wife number five her name is Bathsheba Now I don't know if you guys remember the story of Bathsheba, but she was out one day taking a bath clearly this was before indoor plumbing and King David's walking around and he goes and he goes holy cow who that He notices this lady so he hooks it up so that he can meet her He seduces her he ends up sleeping with her gets her pregnant and then kills off her husband. So he can marry her Yeah, not exactly a holy union, okay Fact if it wasn't because of lust lying adultery and murder She wouldn't even be there. Okay, so again, so we need to decide which one of these wives is gonna be the next Mother to the next king of Israel King Solomon eventually the great-great-grandmother Jesus, but you think about that. We'll come back to that All right, so if you are going to stay married for a lifetime Which is the goal here number one you have to avoid bitterness and resentment Now that might sound easy to do but what happens is one person will begin to feel the weight of the relationship Falling on them too much in the beginning to get resentment towards the other person All right now the one who's bearing the weight is really a matter of perspective, right? Because men and women keep score very differently If you've learned this men are very quick to give ourselves huge bonus points for everything we do We do you know for example a man's day. Here's how he would score his day So a man gets up in the morning for that 500 points He goes off to work works hard Provides for his family beings financial stability into his family and for that 3000 points He comes home Straight home. He doesn't go out to the bars chase women or anything. He comes home faithfully for that. He gives himself 1500 points He comes home at the end of the day. He's got 4500 points And now it's your turn to catch up That's saying it's right See this is why a man can sit down and contribute absolutely nothing Because he in his mind. He's way up for points in the day the problem is He his wife scores his same day just a little different The way she would score this man's same day she sees the man get up she appreciates that Well, you got up in the morning. Good job Ding One point she sees him go off to work. He works hard provides for his family She loves that about him. She appreciates that so for that she gives him Ding one point He comes home. He doesn't go out and chase other women doesn't hit the bar. He comes straight home faithfully She loves that about him. She appreciates it for that. She gives them One point now she also got up She also went to her job She got the kids ready. She took them to piano lessons cook dinner. She did admit she's got 13 points by the end of the day her mind it's 13 to 3 and Now you want to come home and contribute absolutely nothing It's of course when she usually starts yelling Which found out is actually good things. I think it's the quiet ones who really do kill people So as long as you can hear you're safe. She gets quite I'd get nervous Honey Where are you? Now listen, uh You know for a lot of people, you know, especially the guys they hear this they get discouraged Because they say are you kidding me? No matter what I do. I get one lousy point Yes But there's good news in this guys, okay, and I'm about to tell you what that is. It's it's this any Simple act of kindness earns the same as a big act of kindness But men do not get this So as a consequence, we don't pay attention to those things see in the world of men little means jack squat Right, it's all about who's the best Who's in first place? Second place is just the first loser Right and this is just inside a man and we care about the big thing. Let's go big Let's go big and it really starts from the time that we're in boys, you know always competing. I was telling everyone Last night hi, so I have three boys and then a little girl and the boys are always Fighting about everything. I explained to them the underwear competition they got into yesterday. You can ask Ask them about that, but they're just constantly arguing about things. I'm better. I'm this I'm that And then we take that into the marriage. We want to do the big things, right? That's why men go all out only like four times a year. You got the birthday You got the anniversary You got Christmas And then the obligatory Valentine's Day All right, and he'll go all out. He'll do something big and he'll take it to the girl and it goes That'll hold her, but it does not hold her In her mind, you've done four things all year you bum all right Now listen guys, there's good news in this and it is this it's that you are working too hard All right, I'm about to show you how you can simplify I'm about to show men how you can earn points by doing almost nothing You know guys do not get this They don't you know There's a guy's dr. John Gray. He's the one who wrote men are from Mars women are from Venus. He's got this great analogy. He says If a man Brings a rose to a woman. She goes One point Now see a man thinks one rose one point a dozen roses 12 points So he goes out He spends a bunch of money gets these beautiful long stem roses That I've heard last night that you guys clearly like to get roses for your wives You hand those to her she goes, oh, thank you so much One point Now listen by a by a by a show of hands. How many ladies in this room would rather receive 12 one rose 12 different times than a dozen roses once That freaks all the men out That's so inefficient And guys don't get this, you know, it's funny. We Are doing a conference once in this gal who who works for me. It was her husband's first time coming to the seminar so it comes to this point and He sees all these women raise their hands and you should have seen the look on this guy's face So he goes, okay. I got an idea So this gal she comes into the office on Monday And she goes fail You will never guess what my husband did. I can tell she's upset. So I want to hear the story I go, well, what did he do? She goes, okay, so you remember I Remember because I was there Do you remember? So all those women raised their hands and they'd rather receive, you know one rose 12 different times So he's so he thinks in his head. He knows a workaround around this She's like I come home Yesterday and Right there in the front lawn is a rose bush That was my response. I'm like, that's awesome. It is not awesome. I Walk into the house and he goes Just see the rose bush. She goes, yes Well now you can get yourself a rose anytime you want It is not awesome. I'm like, no, no, no, it was dumb. He's gonna have to pay for that But that's awesome. That's awesome for me to hear that Like I'm now gonna tell that story every place that I go to Listen guys, she does not care about your efficiency She cares about simple acts of kindness, but there's good news in this guys All right, I'm about to show you how you could win points with a woman by doing virtually nothing Here is one You wake up in the morning You get out of bed Turn around and make the bed that takes all of what 45 60 seconds and she'll look and she'll go One point Here's another one you know that Monument of dirty underwear you have building on the floor This means something here's an idea Pick it up put it in the dirty laundry hamper that takes what 15 seconds and she'll go One point here's another one How about when you finish eating dinner instead of slothing away to the couch like Jabba the hut Wookie How about you take the dirty dishes? Put it in the sink That takes what? 15 20 seconds virtually nothing and she'll go One point Now listen Ladies, you know the reason that men don't care about things like such as our dirty underwear sitting on the floor It's just because it doesn't mean much to us It's not because we're evil All right, the truth is most men could live like hamsters Wad up some paper here eat their poop there. We're good But guys she is not a gerbil. All right, so pick it up now guys You want to learn how to earn some really easy points? You plan strategically to take the girl someplace really nice And you say oh, yeah, no surprise or no you amateur What you do is you tell her As soon as you tell her One point and you've done almost nothing now the great thing about this system is Because she's a woman. She is going to tell all the other women in her life about what you're about to do and Every time she tells one of her friends One point you my friend are literally doing Nothing and the great thing about this is every time She tells another woman not only are you earning a point? But the poor slob of a husband who's married to her is losing a point. That's a win-win. That's a net game of two. Okay? And you're doing virtually nothing. All right Man, I love it. Anyway, wanna another way you can earn some very simple points All right, and the easiest way a man can score points with a woman by doing virtually nothing is to simply engage the girl in meaningful conversation Meaningful for her means you be quiet. She talks All right But now you can't go off into your nothing box, which we learned about yesterday Okay, because then she'll figure out and then you're gonna lose all your points. Okay So you got to pay attention and listen to her and listen Do you know during the conversation that just every time you acknowledge what she said? Don't earn a point She comes back Oh really la la la la One point La la la la. Oh really? So you're saying la-dee-dee-dee-doop-dee-doop one point La la la la. Well really? How did that make you feel just? every time you acknowledge her Simple acts of kindness focus on the little things Like I was telling everyone yesterday. I mean, that's how you got her to fall in love with you in the first place She knows you're ugly. How do you think you got such a cute girl? simple acts of kindness And don't worry guys we created something to help you. Oh, I forgot to grab one of the books But I remember My dad when did one of these first things he thought, you know, we should come up with a book This is 365 simple acts of kindness Then he goes now it's for men 52 simple acts of kindness Lower the bar there like he's gonna do this every day so Anyway, so that was years ago and I thought I thought you know what we need to do this book So got together Created this book had a graphic designer illustrate this thing. It's just this little hardcover book. It's called a hundred and 25 hundred fifty-two. I think we ended up at we had to make the book least more than fifty-two. It's a pretty small book Simple acts of kindness and inside of that book are just simple things like vacuum. I Know it seems like a miracle if he gets a vacuum out, you know Go see a movie with her that she wants to see do the dishes all these little things and they're just simple things Well, it's real funny is it got the book and it got all printed up And it's funny. We slept my dad's name on the front of it, even though he didn't actually write it That's right. He writes my paycheck. So that's fine. I put his name Whatever you know, but you go through there. So we're sitting there and we're sitting there some of the girls in the office And my sister-in-law works for us She's actually married to one of my best friends. We knew each other since we were like in third grade We married sisters. We were roommates at the time. We kind of joked around like, oh, you should date her sister and then he did And then we all got married We're like, that's legal, right? Like I mean, we're You got one of the books. So anyway, so we get this book and it's so funny. I'm sitting there 125 sorry Going through that and she's just looking at these things and she started, you know at number one And she's like, nope No No, no, and I'm talking I kind of see over there. I'm like, what are you doing? She's like, oh, I'm just going through this and so far. He's not done one of these things She got into like number 17. Okay, he's done that. He's done that Oh goodness. I'm like, yeah, my poor wife could probably go through quite a bit of these as well So anyway 125 things simple acts of kindness. Who's a man who needs some help? The dude in the soundboard like beat all you all You're back at the soundboard. I'll give this to you though later. There you go, buddy. All right Listen, it's the simple things guys focus on the little things now ladies You know, he is quick to give himself huge bonus points for everything he does So what is a way a woman can earn huge bonus points with a man? We're in church. So I just I won't say it this morning, but Assuming you cannot do that every five minutes though There are there are there is another way. All right, and It is this It is quite simply when you believe in the man Now this might sound like something easy to do especially for all of you younger ones who haven't been married very long It's just because you haven't heard all of the dumb things that he is going to come up with okay It's okay. All right. He's just venting. He's dreaming. He's thinking everything through just don't be quick to dismiss him All right You know a lot of women do this some of you maybe even I'm doubly done this You know, he goes he explains something you go. Oh, that's just dumb. Oh You never do that. Oh, I'd get so mad at you if you ever did that Right, and then he gets quiet and you think you fixed him But you haven't fixed anything See all you've done at this point is taught him that he cannot share his dreams with you That is a very dangerous place to be because miraculously at work at church somewhere Some bimbo is gonna come along Hear one of his ideas and go oh you'd be great at that He goes. Oh really? And now you're in some serious trouble Because you know most affairs do not start for sexual reasons. They start for emotional ones All right And so you don't want that you don't want your husband to think he cannot share those things in you You want your husband to know that you are his number one fan All right, because when a woman believes in a man, she gives him what he wants more than anything Now yesterday if you were here, we ended with what women want more than anything This morning, I'm gonna tell you what men want more than anything Because see what a man really wants more than anything is the admiration and respect of his wife Which by the way one of the most respectful things a woman can do is to passionately make love to that boy Seriously man those two things are tied very very closely, okay? But listen, it's all about this idea of respect You know now a lot of it women will say well, I'll respect him when he earns it No, no, no, no see respect is far too important for a man to be dependent upon his earning it In fact the key to unlocking great potential in any man is to begin respecting him before he earns it See women used to know this You know, but our culture has gotten all messed up and twisted You know, it's like men have kind of lost the art of how to be Romance and lovers to their wives and and women have stopped giving their husbands any respect actually looking culture Look at any TV show any movie in the family Who's always the dumbest person in the family? The dad He doesn't know anything everyone makes fun of him. It might make for a funny show But you let that seep inside your head and you start playing out at home Yeah, be careful You know because you know who knows How to really give respect to a man before he's earned it is God How many times does God come to some seeming loser and treat him with great respect, right? When Jesus first runs into Simon He says I'm gonna change your name from Simon to Peter, which means rock God he must have been a rock man that move dude was more jello than rock when he first met him You know, but he starts to give him great respect Starts immediately treating with respect and it changes him and Peter It does go into be the rock that the church was built out of Love the counts of Abram who becomes Abraham You know, God comes to Abram starts giving him all these promises Ever wonder why? Well, because he was a man of great faith Eventually in the beginning he was more of a man of paste and flower than he was faith and power He you know This is because this is the same guy Remember this story He's got his you know wife Sarah there they go in to the city and the king sees his wife He goes man. Who's that? Oh? Oh, and he was oh this girl here. Oh, she's a she's my sister Imagine the look you would give your husband If the president came in today Who's that really good-looking girl? Oh, that's that's my sister You would give him the look right, but he doesn't well the king finds out and he goes what? Why did you why'd you say it was your sister? Well cuz cuz I was afraid he was afraid He didn't have faith and power What's crazy that it happened twice? Clearly did not learn the first time and think about it. I think the first time was she's like 60 years old If you are 60 years old and the king of a great nation looks at you and goes Ho Chi mama You are a serious babe, okay? I'm just saying I don't know who this woman was but that is impressive good genes there alright He called him Abraham, you know father a multitude of course it happened for you and any kids It's one of the most respectful things you could say to a man in that culture He'd walk into a city. What's your name Abraham? Holy cow, man. How many kids you got? Yeah, about that, but eventually he goes on treats with spec eventually he does become a father of a great nation, right? Think about the story of Gideon Gideon Starts off there. He's cowering in the basement Because the Midianites are in town you're kicking butt and taking names So he's hide now And a angel of Lord appears to him and says You are a mighty warrior. Ah Think you got the wrong basement. I'm more of what you would call a a girly man, okay? No you Are a great warrior Gives him respect when he is at his lowest most cowardly place And then that dude goes on to become a great a butt kicker He does he goes on to win one of the most lopsided military victories in humankind You guys remember this the movie 300 all the guys like yes, that's a classic God man every time you see on the TV and it's like the battle scene you stop for a sec like like Anyway, that's about these 300 guys who stand up against you know these forces and they win some amazing battles But at the end they all die You know the Gideon takes 300 guys Goes on and takes out an army He lost Zero not a single casualty That's some serious butt kick in there right All from a man who was a coward a shell of a man See that is the power when you start to treat a man with great respect before he earns it See again women used to know this you know people used to say the key to a great man is a woman who believes in him right It's like a story of this you know this lady and she's in college and there's these two guys pursuing her She has to decide which one and so she chooses this one guy and she marries him and and he goes on to become mayor of the city And then they come back for a reunion and the other guy she didn't pick comes up to her and goes Well, I guess you picked the right guy, huh? She goes, well, why would you say that? Look at him and he went out to become mayor of the city She looks to me. She goes. Oh, no, no dear If I had a married you you'd become mayor of the city Such is the power of a woman who believes in a man So number one you have to avoid bitterness and resentment In number two you have to keep the reset button handy Yeah, what is that? Well when I was young You know, they just started coming out with video games. How many of you remember Atari's? Yeah, some I got a look at the guys that are slightly older than all the people that have been up here so far They're like, oh, yeah real old like Nintendo 64 No, no, I was like at a high school when that came out I'm talking about back in a you had the Atari's and the Coleco visions and all these things and so my dad loved these And so he would get these video games and he sit and play these video games, of course Like any young boy I'm drawn to that like a moth to a flame, right? And so I would come and I would watch I'm like that's so cool and he'd go sure You want to play? Yeah, I want to play okay, and he'd hand me the controller and then kind of forget to plug it in Yeah So we'd go we're playing and it dawns on me at one point like wait a second This isn't working. Oh Sorry son. I know it came unplugged. There we go. You know, so finally I got to the point. Okay, we're playing Now, of course, I'm a little kid, you know So my dad's much better than me so he would always keep the score pretty close You know, he'd kind of let me catch up and then he'd kind of come back and make it close Let me get up there and then he'd come back, you know, because he's enjoying the parody of having the close game Well, that's what's going on in his head In my mind, I'm like clearly the goal of this is to crush your opponent So while he is off at work, I am at home honing my craft And I am working and I'm getting good and all of a sudden I start to beat him That's still kind of close at first But then I start to crush him And now while when he was playing against me and he was better than I am, you know He had you know mercy on me and he would let me stay close. I had no such mercy. I Would crush him and the more gloriously I crushed him the better I felt And he would get so frustrated He would go and I'd be going and I'd get way ahead in the points and then he'd reach over and go And he'd hit the reset button Hey Sorry, my finger slipped. Let's do it again We'd go we'd go and I'd get up on person you go That reset button became my dad's favorite button All right, because no matter how high the points got no matter how out of whack They got he could hit the reset button and it would go back to zero Would it not be wonderful if God gave us reset buttons? Do you know that he has given us such a button? That despite how messed up the scores got you could reach over and go now my parents when They got married young like 18 19 years old and they got married and then they recently just got saved at 16 You know, they were like dope-smoking hippies Not like they literally were dope-smoking hippies and They got saved and they went on the mission field. They just want to do something for God so they joined this other group of hippies for Jesus now and Seriously, you find old photos my dad's got like this afro out to here You know and my mom with the long straight hair, you know And they went and they joined this thing of the Jesus people the Jesus movement They went around to her to all over all over the world Actually went into Russia once, you know, which he's got this funny story so that they were this a band Okay, they were kind of like the American Christian rock band Which was a big thing over in Europe at the time and so they'd go and they'd start playing music And then people would come and then they'd minister to them. Okay, so anyway So they're going in on this bus into Russia and they're they've got bibles and stuff kind of in the bus And you know, of course, it's a back Soviet Union and they come in and they're checking it and obviously did not want Bibles in there People handing out Bibles and so they were a little nervous. And of course Here in the band you have someone goes just act natural, which of course, I was just like That's about as natural as they can act so my dad thinks okay, I gotta I gotta liven things up a little bit So he he played the banjo and like three songs he could play so he got out the banjo He starts playing this banjo song and he's just trying to like make everyone look like no We're just sitting around playing the banjo nothing going on here. So the Russian soldier he comes on he takes a look he stands there, and of course, I was real nervous my dad just playing And then he soldier just starts going He dances down one side of the bus back down the other Jumps off in a way they went. It's like, thank you Lord So anyway, they toured all over there like my sister was born in Sweden Stuff and they came back to the States. They did stuff for a while and again They would do these tent revival meetings. Okay, so they went to Phoenix, Arizona And this was both for Phoenix was you know a huge city. It was just kind of growing and they went there they set up their tent and What they would do during the day is they would go out and they would pass out tracks Inviting them to the tent meeting. Okay, any of you real old folks really remember those tent meetings back in the day and They're doing that. So anyway, so there was this new thing that my dad and his buddies had never seen before it was called a porno shop and They thought well, let's set up here and hand out tracks So they're like, okay So they're setting up and they're handing tracks to these guys as they're coming in and of course these guys You know, they would take the track and then they'd read about and they'd look up go. Oh, this isn't JC Penney What am I doing here? You know, and they'd go around the other way And My dad and his buddies are like this is awesome And so they just kept doing that just watching these guys take the track about Jesus and like do these u-turns and so now the thing is is there was no like End of dates when they did tenterfollow meetings. They just went there and it was just until the evangelist You know the Lord told him to move on so this is going on You know days weeks that they're there and listen while my dad and his buddies are having a great time the guy who owns the porno shop not so much fun and There's no end date So he doesn't know if these guys are ever gonna leave So when people get into desperate situations desperate people do desperate things so this guy goes and hires a hitman and He tells us hitman I want you to go and I want you to kill that evangelist Because if you kill that evangelist, then they'll finally leave The killer goes, okay So he goes into the tent meeting and now the way these tent meetings worked is in the in the very beginning The evangelist would come out and he would welcome everyone Okay, and then I after that then the band would play so the thought was right when the guy comes out To in the beginning to welcome everyone the guy was gonna shoot the evangelist and then take off in the confusion so Anyway, so they come in and This day my dad says I'll never forget it He said the evangelist came to the band and said man, I don't know. I'm just not feeling very well You just guys go ahead and start playing, you know Without me knock. I'll come out in a little bit. So they go, okay So the band goes out there and they start playing, you know old gospel hymns and They Are sitting there playing so now this killer Is stuck in this revival meeting right because He's got to wait till the evangelist comes out. Okay, and so They're just singing a song. You'll give me that old-time religion. Give me that old-time religion Give me that old-time religion. It's good enough for me And they jazz it up and they're kind of playing and then the lead singer goes hold on this next verse We're gonna sing makes me love everybody and we sing makes me love everybody. I want you to go find someone I want you to give them a hug and so they start singing makes me love everybody And so now he's getting up and this killer is getting accosted by like old grannies giving them hugs Oh, we love your brother, you know so So after the music all of a sudden the evangelist starts feeling better. He comes out When out of the killer, he's just shell shocked. He's just sitting there And now he listens to the evangelist tell the story about how God so loved the world That he sent his only son To die in the cross and then whoever would believe in him would have eternal life And he hears this and then at the end, you know, they do the altar call The killer comes up to the front he falls on his knees The counselor comes over And the killer goes I can't do it I Can't do it the counselor says yes, you can in fact God wants you to do it He says no, no, and he pulls out the gun and that's how they found out about the story Now listen, you may not hire a hitman at least I hope you do not But the truth is that when somebody hurts us we want to get back at them we want them to pay And the way that we make them pay is we tell them I will never forgive you The problem is the only one that that hurts is the person who won't forgive See unforgiveness is like taking poison and hoping the other person dies The only one it hurts is the one who won't forgive You might say well, that's all good and fine Phil, but you don't know what she did to me You don't know what he did to me. I Tried to forgive. I can't Sure you can You just don't understand what forgiveness is See forgiveness is an act. It is not an emotion It is not an erasure of your memory You might feel The hurt of what that person did for a long time Doesn't matter You will remember what that person did That doesn't matter. That's not what forgiveness is based on. I think think about it Especially as Christians And the Bible says we need to forgive If we don't forgive others, he won't forgive us Kind of a big deal And think about it, you know when Jesus forgives says he forgets it, you know It's like as far as the east is from the west Now I get what that's saying, but do you think that God honestly can't remember then about you I can't stand But I can't remember what it is No, he chooses To forgive you, okay Forgiveness is something you do. It is not an emotion. It is not an erasure of your memory See forgiveness is very simply when you say to someone I Forgive you. I will never use it against you in the future. I will never speak of it again See you can't control what you feel you can't control what you can remember you can However control what you say and if there's a one tell-tale sign of a person who can't forgive it They never stop talking about it Because he forgiveness has more to do with your tongue Than it does with your heart. I'm sure you've heard people You know who just can't forgive and they're always just oh, I remember this I remember that I Remember what you did 37 years ago And they hang on to this stuff And you're constantly reminding each other Stop let it go Just let it go. Okay, so here we go Who did you guys decide on? God steps and he goes you know what I've already made my decision They really got which one he says I pick number five really mean best sheba You mean the one that's there and the only reason she's there is because a lust lying adultery and murder And if you read your Bible you'll find out that it is in fact Bathsheba who becomes the mother of Solomon king of Israel the wisest man to ever live Eventually goes on to become the great great great great grandmother of Jesus himself So you could make the argument that had it not been for lust lying adultery and murder that Solomon would have ever been born You could make the argument that would have not been for lust lying adultery and murder that Jesus would have never been born in fact You know you read the New Testament and yet you start in and Matthew and they start naming through the genealogy You know that when it comes to her they can't call her by name They call her the wife of Uriah That's the dude that David had killed off It so didn't make sense to them It's like this weird bizarre aberration You know people say oh well and praise God that happened. No, no, no, no That was never supposed to happen well Well now you're not making any sense That's the point See no matter How much you mess up God is able to take your greatest mistake Your worst disaster your biggest failure in your life and turn it into something so Beautiful it won't make sense to anybody Listen you guys have just got it. You got to let that stuff go. You know when I mean young couples And they say so what's if you give us one one good step of advice So you know one of the things is learn to forgive quick Forgiveness is like getting a sliver in your finger and we don't like to touch the owie And you have little kids that get a sliver in their finger try and pull that thing out You're not quite sure if I'm trying to pull out a sliver. I'm trying to chop off their entire arm. I Haven't touched it yet But why do we torture our children to get that out? Because if it stays in it can get infected and it can lose your arm. It can kill you all from a little sliver This is unforgiveness. I get it's owie. I Get you still feel that but start to learn to pull that thing out. All right. Thank you for watching this content I hope this was a blessing to you if you're like me and you like to click on things Click on this subscribe to our channel and the content will come to you every time we post it and remember The best is yet to come