 The narcissist is spying on you That's what I'm going to be talking about in today's live video When you're with the narcissist They're always spying on you. They're always Going through your stuff They're always checking what you're doing where you're going Who you're seeing They have to know all of this stuff And they know that you're not going to tell them everything Because they always overreact There's always a problem Or they criticize you They put you down So you try to hide these things to make it more peaceful To make it better for you Maybe even to make it better for them, but no They have to go through your stuff When you're out They're going through your cupboards and drawers even Looking in your underwear drawer Seeing if there's something hidden in there Or if you put your phone down for a minute Maybe you go to the bathroom and then they just pick it up They're looking for your messages Looking for your social media And it's no different If they discard you or You decide to move on That doesn't mean they're just going to leave you alone Now they're still going to be spying on you. They still have to see what you're doing It may make it a bit more difficult for them, but They will be more covert So they will be spying on your social media And yeah, you may block them, but They will create fake accounts Or they will get someone else to spy on you And that doesn't just have to be on social media that can be in person They will get their flying monkeys to watch you And that could be family members or mutual friends that you have It could be anyone they will get them to monitor you To see where you're going Who you're seeing And this is really part of the sickness But they still do that even when You've moved on and they're meant to have moved on It's like they just can't leave things alone And the reason for that is because they see you as an object They see you as their property As something that belongs to them They don't see you as an independent separate person No They see you as an extension of them and they're very envious and jealous They always feel like someone or something is taking you away from them And they decide to take you away They desire to Lock you in a cell and throw away the key That's what they desire for you So anything you do that is outside of them Anything that they can't relate to Anything that makes them feel irrelevant. They don't like that. They want to sabotage it. They want to take it away destroy it They want to do something with it They can't just let it be natural They can't just let things play out organically No, because they always got to have that control They have to control things they have to put their own spin on it That's just how it is And that's never gonna change What you can really do is try and protect yourself and Yeah, just Make use of the security and privacy features on social media So then they can't spine your stuff They can't see what you're up to where you go in Who you're talking to Because that's what they're gonna be doing And yeah, they will tell you that they've moved on. They don't care about you anymore Expulsion I guarantee it. They're on there. They're watching you They made a fake account. So you don't know it's them Or maybe they're using someone else's account and it may have me someone that you know Very sneaky. So be careful Anyway, I said I was gonna do a video by the pool area So here I am Got some nice views here It's a really nice pool I haven't been in it yet. I haven't had time but I'm looking forward to going in there soon. Maybe I will do a video then too Just like my old videos in the hot tubs jacuzzi Good times looks like they have got some little jacuzzi's here, too Perfect place to do a video but not today, but yeah They will they will spine you Let me just sit down They will be spying on you just remember the obsession The addiction remember when you were with them They were always going for your stuff All the time Maybe you would come home or go in your room And you'd always notice that things were moved Certain objects were in a different place Maybe your drawer or your cupboard was left open And you just knew it straight away. They've been in there They were looking for your stuff and you can test them if you're still with them What you can do is Just put things in certain places Things in your cupboards and drawers and Watch if they've moved out of place That's how you know they're going for your stuff so be aware of that and And Yeah, you just got to think if they were doing all of that when you were with them It's not just gonna stop Just because you've left or they discarded you Doesn't work that way They're still gonna be spying and they're spying on you because Remember they're very competitive They're always comparing themselves to other people other situations Remember when Maybe you'd go out to a restaurant with them and they're always on their phones They're always on Facebook Twitter Instagram Always looking at other people's lives Seeing what other people are doing Seeing if they have a better life Better relationship Better car house clothes, whatever Than they do always comparing all the time and You may also remember they were always comparing themselves to you It was always a competition They were always trying to be better than you And it's the same thing Even when you leave or they leave It's the same thing again. They're still competing with you So they're spying on you to see if you're doing better without them To see if you've found someone better But what they really like to see is that You're in pain and you're suffering They want to see you down and out miserable Bored nothing to do They want to see you posting things about them Oh, they'd love to see you Posting stuff about narcissists on your Facebook or your Instagram They'd love to see that But that doesn't mean that you can't do that. It's just Be careful who is watching that stuff Because if they're seeing it Trust me, they're getting off on it They're enjoying it They love to see you in pain. So yeah, this is Just to make you aware But they will be spying on you So you need to keep your personal information Away from them So they can't see it. I mean, it's easier said than done because if a narcissist really wants to Gain access to something They're gonna find a way to do it So even even if you block them And you make your account private They're gonna find a way around that They are so yeah, you do need to be careful with what you're posting and Yeah, you can Leave something for them, you know, they're gonna be watching so give them something to look at Give them something that's gonna make them a sick And see what they think of that because they do it When you go on their social media, it's always these pictures of them with their new supply And they look so happy They look like they're living their best lives But if you've watched my videos, you know by now that it's all fake. It's an orchestration It's there to deceive you and to hurt you That's it. That's all it is Yeah, this is the Addiction The obsession of the narcissist This is what they do and they can't stop it They can't help themselves They always feel like they're missing out on something it's like they have this craving They just have to see They've got to see what you're doing Where you're going Who you're with They got to see that Because otherwise it plays in their mind They get very anxious They become restless And here's the thing even if you do post stuff That's meant to push them away It just makes them even more obsessed Then they're just thinking about you even more normal people If they don't like something they don't keep going back to it, but narcissists they will tell you how much they don't agree with you But then they're always there It's like just when you think you got rid of them Then they play this peek-a-boo game. They just pop up out of nowhere But a normal person If they don't like something then they're not gonna keep returning to it They're gonna stay away from it But these types of people will keep coming back They will keep stalking you In person and on social media Yeah, that's another thing as well is Yes, they will stalk you in person They will show up at your home They will show up at your work They will just Be wherever they think you're gonna be They will be there. I honestly think they don't care Whether they get a positive reaction or a negative one Even if you're really angry at them And they can just see it on your face that you don't want them to be there you don't want to talk to them I Think in in their minds that actually Makes them happy in a way When they see you resisting them it tells them they have power They see it as though you're just reacting to something they're doing So they like that the best thing you can do is just completely ignore them Don't even give them a reaction Don't even tell them. I don't want to talk to you. I don't want to see you Don't even say that Just forget them Just act like they don't exist Then they'll get the message But that doesn't mean they're gonna stop spying on you They're still gonna be there 112 live viewers Please hit that thumbs up button Let's get this message out there People need to know that the narcissist is spying on them and they're not just spying When you're with them When you're living in the same home No, they're spying even after you've left or after They've left you and You know, there's really no depth No limits to what they will go to some of them will put tracking devices on your car on your phone So that they can see where you're going And they can see Who you're messaging on your phone They can see your social media your phone calls They can see all that stuff Once they've put these tracking and monitoring devices On your car your phone your computer They can see everything And it's just part of the addiction It's part of their obsession And this becomes a game It's like a form of entertainment for them You know, like big brother People used to watch that all day And it's the same thing with the narcissist Some of them will even put surveillance cameras in your home And it will be exactly like big brother They'll be watching you from the walls or from the ceiling And they'll see you in your home First thing in the morning They'll see you brushing your teeth Getting ready for work And then When you go out They'll be tracking you on Your car, your phone They'll be seeing if you make any phone calls, messages And Then they'll be waiting for you then to come home at night They'll be watching on the little surveillance camera Watching you walk through the door Watching you cook your dinner Or maybe you get take away And then they'll see you Going in the shower They might be watching you use the toilet I don't know if I'm laughing But it's not really a joke I mean, you know, this is real This is actually Something that happens in real life It's not a joke They may be watching you use the toilet Have a shower at night Maybe you're having a bath They'll be watching that Watching you Scrubbing your body Playing with your Your rubber duck in the bath Washing your hair They'll be watching all of that If they have put surveillance cameras In your home Which many of them Well, I shouldn't say many of them But some of them do I know for a fact that some of them do that And Yeah, but even if they're not doing that It's even just The spyware On your computer or phone Or the tracking devices on your car Even that is very extreme And illegal too It's against the law Or even Stalking your social media Following you in person Or getting other people to follow you Even that in the UK It's punishable By up to 14 years in prison That's how serious this is It's a very serious crime One of the worst And yet This is what they do And in their sick minds They think it's okay They think it's alright for them to do that They always find a way to justify it And that's why they seem so irrational Sometimes in arguments It's like you can't get through to them Nothing you say gets through They never seem to understand you Because they're going off with their own programming Their own system Of what they want to do What benefits them What entertains them And makes them feel more comfortable Yeah I've done a few videos on gang stalking And it's real They get their flying monkeys to gang stalk you It starts off With maybe just family members Or mutual friends They're going around watching you And then it can spread into the community So then before you know it You've got large numbers of people Following you around You might just go to a cafe In your local town And then you notice people are treating you differently They're acting strange around you They're deliberately Having these directed conversations So that you can hear it And maybe they'll mention your name Or they'll repeat certain things Like they'll always cough Around you And they do it loud enough so You can hear it And it irritates you Yeah, they do all of these crazy things Because they're crazy people Normal people don't behave like that They don't get obsessed They don't do Obsessive things Rituals They don't do stuff like that So you should already know that if you're dealing with someone Who's spying on you Whoever they are, it doesn't matter I mean, I can understand if it's like If it's on one or two occasions They're spying you out of curiosity Or just to see if What the narcissist is to say and is true That I can understand But when it gets Into extreme stalking That's when you should know that something is wrong If it's something that's happening Once a day Or even once a week It's crazy No one is going to make you that important Whether they're going to be spying on you consistently I mean, you could argue that They think you're doing something wrong And that's why they have to monitor you Every day of your life But what are you doing that's so different From everyone else What do you do in your home In your car Throughout the day What are you doing that's so bad I'm sure whatever you're doing Other people are doing that too And probably some people Are doing worse things That's if you're doing something bad But anything is bad to a narcissist If it doesn't follow their narrative Their course of events They don't like you doing anything They just don't want to see you living your life at all That's why they try to isolate you They wanted to keep you by yourself If they could They would lock you up And throw away the key So that nothing and no one can get to you Because then they feel more comfortable Remember these are very envious And jealous people They don't want you to have nothing They don't want you to have a life outside of them So they are very jealous And I'm sure you remember when you were with them Any time that someone came up and talked to you Maybe they just gave you a compliment Remember how they reacted to it They couldn't stand it They got so mad Or maybe they went on and tried to talk to someone And complimented them They tried to make you jealous I've always said however they're trying to make you feel That's how they feel inside So don't identify with it Don't take it on as though it's An emotion that belongs to you There's nothing to do with you This is their problem And you can see it in everything they do Everything they say It's like they have this addiction They have a serious problem that they cannot control They can't control themselves So they try to control you And if they can't control you Then they just self destruct And you will see that If they really lose control of you And you manage to get away They will go crazy They will lose their minds I've said that in many of my videos They cannot control themselves So they try to control you And if they can't control you They will lose their minds They will self destruct They really is that simple Let's take another look at this view here It's really beautiful I know some new people have just joined So I'm just showing you where I am Makes me happy when I Stay at a nice place Let's come down to this side Got more views down here It's just never ending views Wherever you go Don't look down It's a long way down This is only the 35th floor There's about 50 floors in this one But yeah Be very careful with what you're doing Online And not just online Wherever really I mean You never know They could have put the spyware On your phone, on your computer Tracking devices on your car Surveillance cameras in your home Anything There's no limits to what you do And I'm not trying to scare you You just need to know that They're crazy when they lose control of you That's it They're not just going to let you go And that's what you need to understand I mean in a normal A normal breakup People do understand Okay, this person doesn't want to talk to me Great place for a massage Overlooking view They can't let things go Because they see their property They see Of them That's really it Now some of you may have thought The spyware on me The stalking me The warm me That means they care That means they love me They miss me No That's not what it is at all If they cared They wouldn't be doing that They do it because They're very jealous They feel like they miss it out on something Or they just see you as an object That's why It's not It's not that they They love you or miss you If they did They wouldn't go that way in all behavior Normal people don't do that You can see the The sky train Just coming past down there Over the roads I've never actually been on one of those Has anyone here been On a sky train Let me know if you have Let me know if it was fun Maybe I'll give it a go Maybe if I can get a signal on there I'll do a video too Yeah, as you can see I'm just I'm just out here living my life Living my dreams This is what I always wanted to do Travel, I'm doing it And Are people spying on me? Are they stalking me? Yes, I'm sure they are I'm sure There's people watching this video Right now They won't talk to me openly Directly But they're just spying Behind the scenes Because that's what they do in it They don't want to talk to you directly No You know if you Call them up on the phone You message them on social media If you try to arrange A Friendly meeting in person They don't want to know They don't want to do that then No But they will Go behind the scenes And stalk you And become fixated on you I mean that's The weirdest thing about it I mean I guess The reason I can think of Of why they do that Is because They don't want you to know How important You are to them That's the only Large relancer If they're doing that If they Reject your Proposals or requests To Talk on the phone In person But then they're going And watching you Behind your back Monitoring you It's because They don't want you to know How important you are to them They don't want you to know How jealous they are And These kinds of people are very Boring to be around anyway So that's another reason They don't want to talk Directly Because they know you're just going to get bored of them So that's where they have to Go and stalk and spy It's very creepy When people do that I mean you may think Maybe they Lack the social skills But I mean that's not really You know this isn't that you've Been around for a certain amount of time And they were able to talk to you then So that's not really A justification for them It may be in some situations I mean Yeah a lot of times People will spy and stalk Because they physically Cannot Come to you and Talk in person or on the phone They haven't developed The social skills For them to But if we're talking about Relationships here That's a completely different story Unless You were dealing with someone Who doesn't have the confidence Then That would make sense for you As well But other than that They don't want you to know What you are to them Remember they're always trying to Invalidate you They're always trying to be better than you They're always just trying You ain't shit So of course if you try and talk to them On the phone Try and meet them Without your awareness To make you feel like you don't matter You're not important They've moved on They don't care about you They think How they want you to think The opposite of how they really think They never give you the truth There's always something else They give you These reasons Why they're doing what they're doing But then that's not really Why they're doing it And you can pick up on that sometimes Because If that was the real reason Why they're doing it To other things That would make more of a difference Rather than stalking you Something to think about It's like they're just trying to find ways To cover up Their obsession To try and act like it's something else It's not what you think I mean that's That's creepy again It's when you know that someone Is watching you And then they're trying to make you think No, no, no I'm not watching you, it's just It's something else I'm just watching to see if you're okay To see if you need any help Or you got it wrong I'm not watching you at all I mean that's what really makes it creepy It's that there's like this Whole other side of them That they're trying to hide from you Something that's kind of Using you for Something But yeah, I just Forget about them now If you're always thinking about it all the time You'll get paranoid You'll panic and wonder If they're watching you If they're following you In your car If you've got cameras in your home All of these things They will drive you insane And at some point When you do start to catch up And you You know that they are doing those things Then they will just use it To make you panic To scare you Because that's another way that they Gain power over you So that you're always paranoid Wondering if they're there Wondering if they can see you A normal person If they were in that position Where they're tracking you In your car Monitoring your devices Watching you in your home I know a person if they're doing that And someone finds out about it They would probably be Really ashamed of themselves They would probably be embarrassed But then what normal person would do that anyway And that's why narcissists When they do that and you catch them It's like Yeah, I got you They feel powerful They love it So that's the type That you're dealing with You just got to try to not think about it too much Don't let it get to you Just continue To do what you normally do You can take measures To protect yourself to some extent But don't Don't let it dominate your life Because it will just drive you crazy in the end You can't control everything You can't control what they do Unless you have evidence And you want to get the police into it You can try and do that But otherwise You just There's not much you can do Small steps to protect yourself And that's that really 147 live viewers Please give this video a thumbs up Right now If the video Resonates with you And your situation Let's get this message out there I think it will help a lot of people Because Especially now With more advanced technology There are more people Getting into this There's more people Spying on their exes And it's just not right I mean it's one thing to look at The social media But then to go and do it in person To actually Research And go and spend your money On these tracking devices I mean that's when you know There's something wrong with someone Normal people don't do that Yeah that's all I got to say For this video Almost 50 minutes on here But I've dedicated Of my day Just for you As always I've loved every minute of it I enjoy helping you And I hope that you enjoy Me talking to you And giving you this information If you do as always Please hit that thumbs up button Right now So you can show Show me How Effective This video has been for you How much it has helped And Yeah we can just keep helping each 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