 Today's quick tip is to tell your children that you love them and what it is that you love about them. Now the reason for this is that many of our kids don't hear this enough even if you feel it really deeply and actually maybe especially if you feel it really deeply because sometimes our love for our children is so massive so all-consuming so complete that we kind of figure out well they must know that we love them because we feel it so much but if we don't actually say it and show it and write it down and give them tangible proof of this love sometimes actually they don't hear it and they don't take it in because sadly for some of our kids their self-esteem can be quite low and things can feel quite challenging for them and they perhaps don't feel like they're very lovable or they don't really love themselves and so they can't think why someone else would and so on so if you have got deep love for a child just tell them and tell them why even better if you can be really specific in what it is that you love about them and actually tell them in a way that they can keep so a text message or writing it down for them something they can hold and look at again because sometimes our words kind of get a little bit lost and particularly if a child is sort of tuned to thinking negative things then they won't necessarily latch onto the positives because they kind of filter them out so tell them that you love them I would love to hear from you in the comments how do you tell and show your child that you love them how do you let them know in a way that feels acceptable to the both of you I'd love to hear your ideas on that I hope the idea is helpful as ever if you are finding my content helpful please hop over to my patreon channel and think about subscribing there the people who subscribe on my patreon are making it possible for me to focus more time on creating content to help you to help your child which is where my true passions lie but which rarely gets commissioned okay bye