 و أقولوا في القرآن ما جاءت به آياته فهو الكريم المنزل و أقولوا قال الله جل جلاله والمصطف الهدي و لا أتأوى له ما يجب علينا أن نعطي بلو المنزل لتتعلم المنزل إذا لم يجب علينا أن نتعلم القرآن الحمد لله رب العالمين والصلاة والسلام على عبد الله ورسوله نبينا محمد وعلى آلية وصحة في أجمعين لذلك الأطفال يتعطي بلو المنزل و كنا نتحدث عن هذا في مسلم فاملي كورس هنا نريد أن نرى قبل و بعد تمييز تمييز is a stage in a child's life where the child becomes aware of what's right and what's wrong so they haven't yet reached puberty but they're at an age where they understand the difference between right and wrong and so below that age they don't really understand the difference between right and wrong for example if you take like a three-year-old child for example they don't have a developed understanding of right and wrong they might have a sort of a fitly understanding a natural understanding that mom and dad shout at me when I do this or something like that but a really sort of mature developed understanding of right and wrong probably comes somewhere around the age of five years old perhaps six years old it depends on the child sometimes maybe even seven years old but around that sort of age certainly by seven years old you would absolutely expect the child to have reached the age of تمييز and probably quite before that some children maybe four years old some five six and so on so here we need to distinguish between these different phases and when the child reaches the age of تمييز it becomes easier in terms of educating them and supporting them to learn because they're much more capable of understanding even though they might not have the understanding of an adult but they still have a developed understanding below that age what are the things that you can do with your children before the age of تمييز so first of all you can teach them knowledge that they have the ability to understand for example young children in nursery or kindergarten learn basic things like الله is my lord they learn to read letters they learn beneficial stories like stories from the CRR stories of the prophets and so on so these are all things that I mean you can teach stories of the prophets to a two-year-old or a three-year-old they won't have the same understanding and the same the same sort of be able to take as much out of it as a child who's reached the age of تمييز but at the same time they will be able to benefit from it and just like children in nursery and kindergarten they they learn for example the alphabet so likewise many children would be able to learn the Arabic alphabet many would be able to learn some Arabic basic Arabic words for things these are all things that you can teach a child before the child really understands in in great detail the second thing you can do is teach them positive habits so it could be eating with the right hand it could be saying بسم الله it could be reading the Quran or even just sitting with mom and dad when they read the Quran you know listening to the Quran I asked my Quran teacher I remember asking my Quran teacher about my son at the time who was younger than five years old and he was not more maybe he was not at the age where he knew the difference between right and wrong and and I asked the sheikh that would be able to bring him to the sheikh to learn Quran or at what age and the sheikh said he's a little bit too young at the moment but what I would recommend for you to do is to get him into the habit of listening to جزامة for example so the sheikh recommended for me that I play جزامة to him regularly and read it to him regularly and he said that as soon as you know once he's ready for that teaching it's a little bit older that you'll find that it's he's almost memorized it already from just that just developing that positive habit with the child and developing a sort of you know letting them memorize things that they have the ability to memorize and it might just be a small دعا a small word الحمد لله it might be a small etiquette but they still have the ability to memorize and and so I would say within these three things teach them the knowledge they have the ability to understand teach them positive habits and also allow them to memorize I've seen three year old four year old children memorizing books of حديث not every child will be able to do that but children are certainly able to memorize things at a young age depending on the child you have to look at that but look in those three areas look at knowledge they do have the ability to understand whether it's stories of the prophets whether it's a very very simple تفسير whether it's you know very simple أقيدة like الله is my lord you know where is Allah is above the heavens very simple very simple ideas and simple concepts taught in a very easy to understand way positive habits and whatever they're able to memorize that is easy for them to memorize the main thing is that we need to adjust their learning according to their ability and we shouldn't give them bad habits by exposing them to حرام and saying that or they're only little when they're older they will learn we have to start these positive habits at a very very young age so that those habits continue and just like if you ask the question why do you teach for example your children not to lie at the age of three years old or four years old why why do you teach them that when they're not accountable for their actions until puberty of course from the point if you have a parent you're blame worthy for teaching them حرام but why don't you what's the concern for them the parent most people would say naturally i'm concerned that they will develop the habit of lying so likewise if you if you nourish them upon the حرام when they are younger be it television music you know حرام games or whatever when they are younger than the danger is that when they're older they won't be able to leave that habit apart from the danger of the sin that you as a parent get for actually doing 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