 I'm giving a standing o because you and I are going to be talking about the other kind of o today. Oh, my favorite kind of o? Oh! Oh! Oranges! What's going on guys? I'm Josh! Yeah! Well, I'm just practicing my standing ovation. So when my favorite artist knows the VMA, I'm ready to turn up. Oh, cool. Detective orgasm, reporting for duty. Apparently, you guys couldn't do it, so they're brooding the big guns. Got some action over here. Let's keep pushing in this direction. All right? We're getting close, boys. We're getting close, all right? Let's break down what an orgasm is. Not everybody knows. A penis head has 4,000 nerve endings. Now, when you stimulate these nerves consistently, pressure mounts, pleasure builds, followed by a euphoric wave and ejaculation. So that's what that is. That's what that is, boo. Now, the female counterpart, the clitoris, a.k.a. the hot button, has 8,000 nerve endings, and when they are stimulated consistently, the body involuntarily releases a wave of contractions, a.k.a. an orgasm. All right, what we got here? Okay, a little wetness going on. This is good. You hear that? It's like music to my ears. Boys, let's focus in that direction. All right? Do I have to do all the work here? So there really is no definitive way to tell if your partner faked an orgasm without going all detective immediately after the orgasm. Right? Exactly, because some men can orgasm without ejaculating, and most women show no visual cues at all. Wait, men can what? Yes, some men can train themselves to orgasm ejaculating. Multiple times? Multiple times. What am I doing with my life? The best way to ensure your partner doesn't fake is to ask them what they like and what works for them. It is your road map to the finish line. I'm terrible at reading maps. What about oral maps, though? Yeah, I'm pretty terrible at that, too. Communicating about the O is important because an orgasm has immeasurable benefits for all. It is the only de-stressing. Immune boosting. Sleep aiding. Anti-aging bond creating. Happy making activity on the planet. So yeah, I think we should all talk about it. Like anything else, the more you communicate, the easier it will become. Exactly. To give pleasure, worth applauding. With a peace of mind. Always be prepared with a condom. Use a condom every time. Responsible as f**k. As f**k. Oh, hello there, lovers. This episode is important to me because a lot of people, women specifically, have asked me before, how do I know if I've orgasmed what is an orgasm? That's a really valid question. So generally the rule of thumb is it is a prolonged period of pleasure followed by a series of really rapid pleasurable contractions, a moment of euphoria or a minute of euphoria sometimes, and then a refractory period where things are too sensitive to touch. If you just, you know, experienced this, where it's just really pleasurable, nice feelings over a long period of time and there really is no climax or no let down, it's just kind of a consistent good feeling, that may not be an orgasm per se, but it is still a good feeling. So fear not if you haven't experienced orgasm, you can still experience pleasure and that's what's important when it comes to sexuality. Speaking of sharing goodness with my partners, because you guys are my partners, this is what we did last week. Oh my God. We literally shot like a little live show. So today, come again, I'm chatting with you guys. He's looking at the screen right now, reading out comments, reading out shout outs. Watch what happens this Sunday. Guys, come back to my place. Yeah. That happens this Sunday. So you guys want to come for that, check it out. Thank you for watching this video. If you have any questions about orgasm, how it works, maybe talk about your favorite orgasm below. I definitely have mine, so I'll talk about that. Let's have a nice conversation in the comment section and I hope to see you guys at the Facebook live stream. Until next week.