 What is the most painful thing you have been told? That we will soon lose the democracy in the United States. When my son decided not to go back to college, he finished his degree. My grandpa died last fall. That was pretty painful. My ex-wife broke up with me. That was the most painful thing in the past two years. Did you identify some emotions that you experienced? Disappointed. Like a feeling of being betrayed. Those kind of things. And this is really painful. I don't feel the same way. So that's why I want to break up.