 There are a lot of double standards when it comes to sex, and one area that might surprise you is sex toys. When you hear sex toys, a lot of people think of vibrators and dildos, but the thing is, there is a whole world of toys out there designed to stimulate penises and prostates. These toys are made for maximum pleasure and can offer health benefits like longer erections and delayed ejaculation. If you've got a penis or a prostate or got love for them, I am dedicating this show to you. Thank you for being here. Welcome JR, welcome Adam, welcome to the candy shop Chelsea. Are you excited you want to touch and play everything right now? Yeah, I'm really curious. So these are all toys that are mostly designed for people with penises and prostates to play with. Now according to Tanga's self-pleasure report, women are 17% more likely to own and use a sex toy than men. What is that JR? I mean it's more taboo for us to use a sex toy and I think it's more of like an ego thing you know what I'm saying? That we don't have enough of our own bodies to be able to please us, not like a sex toy or like a penis pump or whatever you know what I'm saying? Is that even a sex toy or? Well I'm glad you asked because a sex toy that we're probably all familiar with is a flashlight. Yes, the good old fashioned flashlight and this is essentially something you put your penis into. It can feel much like a booty in this case but for people who want something that's a little bit less obvious, I'm really a big fan of these bad boys right here. Are you familiar? Go ahead. I thought it was a kitchen timer. I mean it's time and something but essentially this is a masturbation sleeve. They all usually have very different insides as well too. It's like a little spider web. Yes. With twinsies. Twinsies. Twinsies. And so what you're going to actually do is when this is all lubed up as well too it stretches. Right. So it glides over top obviously and be the other way and so the forenics gets treated, the penis head gets treated and then again when you're ready to finish all you do? Throw it away. Throw it away. Goodbye. Nobody's business. So I like toys like these which have the exact same function. It's a beautiful little art piece. A timer perhaps. This is actually my husband's favorite toy. Really. Yes. This is called the spinner and so we often know when we're giving somebody a hand job. We like to do the twister, right? Right. That does it for you. Perfect. Oh perfect. Oh my God. Oh my God. Let's change my wrist. Oh my God. That's not on our equipment. All right. So another area that often does deserve a toy in some play is the prostate. Have you ever used a prostate toy before JR? No. I have not. Oh my goodness. Say less. I'm doing everything. So this right here is actually from Candy. So Candy Burris has a beautiful line of sex toys and this one is specifically designed to stimulate the prostate and it's going to put the pressure where you want it. And of course, whenever you're doing anything anal, you want something with a flared base. In addition, this bad boy vibrates as well too. Oh. There we go. Now it's playing with me. Added incentive? Yes. So you can have this in while you're getting pumped at the same time or have it in by itself but this is a great toy just to set and forget. Set and forget. I like this. Have it in all day. It's chilling. All right. So there's some other toys that everybody can use. What actually ends up happening a lot of times for people who are not versed at bringing sex toys into the bedroom, it's nice to bring in a toy that everyone can play with and then just be like, just do me next. Right. Right. If I bring in a vibrating bullet, for example, one of these. Bullet? Whoa. Okay. This can be for somebody who's got a clitoris or if you want to put it underneath your balls, you can do so but it's not an intimidating thing you're bringing into the bedroom that looks like that. Exactly. That's cool. It's a lot. Another thing that you can pack is a urethral plug. I feel like I know where that goes and it doesn't make a lot of sense in my brain. So we're going to put this at the very tip of the penis. So right where you've got the opening where you ejaculate and also urinate and we're going to sound this on the inside. Whoa. It's supposed to go all the way. Yes. No, no. It goes until you want it to stop. What are the benefits of that? It's because it's stimulating an area that has a lot of nerve endings. And so it's sort of the same thing as to why is cleaning your ears so pleasurable, right? There are areas that aren't used to being touched. And so when you're accessing spots that don't usually get that stimulation, they can respond very favorably. Go ahead and tap on that. And imagine that going all the way through from the tip of your penis all the way down to your premium. Yeah, but like she said, that's just terrifying. I mean, you're fiving with it. I feel a vibe with you over there. All right. Let's talk about some more extreme male sex toys. Extreme you say. All right. You thought we already got extreme. We thought we already got extreme. We thought we already got extreme. We thought we already got extreme. We thought we already got extreme. We thought we already got extreme. What are we going to talk about now? Now, I think the word torture is a play on the BDSM world. BDSM is just as much about pleasure and consent as it is about power dynamics and pain. And so cock and ball torture really is just about that. It's power dynamics and it's pleasure pain. So this right here is a ball separator. So what you're going to do, I have never seen you give a shocking question about it. This got you. I am shocked and appalled, but continue. So the penis goes right into here and then the balls can go on either side of this as well, too. So I think if you're going to use this, especially the first time, make sure it's the only thing that you're going to do. I want you to see this one. This one is sturdy. You can stretch it out. Oh, my goodness. Oh, my goodness! Is this score extreme for you? What? Yes, a drill. A little intense. Oh, my gosh! That's hot. This is actually called the drill doe. Oh, no. I could imagine that. Imagine how to be a plan words. I wouldn't have missed that opportunity. That is crazy. I was not expecting that to come off me. Yeah, me neither. I was not expecting that. Chelsea, is there one that you was bringing to the bedroom? Wow, it's just so many things I've learned today. Definitely not the drill doe. Not there yet. We've got to work our way up to the drill doe, right? But definitely like the little bullet or, you know, like... Do you think it's a turn on if a man brings a sex toy for you into the bedroom? Yes. Right. And so imagine in return how they might feel if you pop up with the spinner. Yeah, that's actually the one that I want to try. Okay. Yeah, because arm days get a little... I feel you, man. I'm sad, I'm sad. What about you, JR? Which one are you going to try? So if we're being honest, it's been a masterclass for me. I've learned a lot. So I think I'll try the sleeve. You know, just, like, why not? You know what I'm saying? Why not? I'm doing the drill sergeant over there. Okay. Yeah, we... I think we... Yeah, yeah. I think we can all agree on that one. Perfect. Thank you so much, JR. Thank you, Chelsea. Thank you, Bailey. And thank you, Adam. We'll see you soon. Christmas morning, guys.