 سورة الممتحينة سورة number 60 of the Qur'an الله سبحانه وتعالى says to Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم and the lesson is for every one of us he says there is a chance that Allah can create love between you and your enemy سبحان الله did you hear that منهما وده والله قادير والله غفور ورحيم verse number 7 of surah number 60 الله says indeed Allah is all able and Allah can and Allah may create love between you and those whom there is an enmity against for indeed Allah is able and Allah is most forgiving most merciful take a look at the time of the prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم that happened with خالد ابن الوليد رضي الله عنه he was an enemy of Islam he killed so many of the Muslims a day came when he became known as رضي الله عنه we have to actually teach ourselves what it was all about a time in the battle of Uhud when he was leading the kuffar one of the groups of the kuffar who came from the other side of the mount and that was a change in the course of that particular war of Uhud we know that was خالد ابن الوليد خطاب رضي الله عنه what happened to him enemy of Islam look at ابو سفيان رضي الله عنه what happened to him he was an enemy of Islam they all changed how the will of Allah Allah can create and this is why in a narration the prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم speaks about loving people and hating people when you love someone love them in moderation perhaps one day they may not be so close to you again if you were if you were intimately close to them that they knew your ins and outs they can hold you ransom سبحان الله because they know too many details about you you were too close that's the problem you will pay a price for being so close to someone that you actually lowered your guard and at the same time you pay a price for hating someone so much that you are embarrassed to make amends with them one day أحبب حبيبك هونما أساء أن يكون بغيضك يومما أبغيض بغيضك هونما أساء أن يكون حبيبك يومما when you love you love in moderation perhaps that person may be your enemy one day so be careful think about it and when you hate you hate in moderation perhaps that person may be your beloved one day سبحان الله may Allah grant us a deep understanding take a look at this verse doesn't it show you the power of Allah doesn't it show you that Allah owns the hearts and these hearts turn by Allah سبحانه وتعالى will so that is why we say اللهم يا مقلب القلوب ثبت قلوبنا على دينك oh Allah who strengthens the hearts who is in control of the heart strengthen my heart upon the Deen not away from it I mean so my brothers and sisters these are some of the beautiful verses of the Quran and this is how we will be able to save ourselves from problems difficulties like I said when you get too close to someone that you start telling them all your secrets one day you may pay a heavy price for that may Allah grant us all wisdom in our relationships and when you dislike someone be careful you don't have to hurt them in a way that you will regret one day when you want to make amends may Allah سبحانه وتعالى make us again from among those who are wise