 Hey y'all, she was seven. Okay, so I had a video request to do a video on how to manifest your perfect partner Okay, this is for men and women. You can manifest your perfect partner because I think I did and Actually, there's no such thing as a perfect partner. That's just what you want in a person. Okay, it's just what you value in a person so what I did the first thing I did I made a list y'all I made a list and I Felt strongly about how much I wanted to meet this type of person like the more you feel About something The more you're gonna attract it to you the more you think about something the more you're gonna attract it to you and When you attract something to you you want to make sure it's what you really want So what you got to do you got to get some paper or a journal or something to write on and write down exact Exactly the qualities that you want and your partner if you get too specific Let me just tell you straight up if you get too specific It's gonna take you longer and probably a little bit harder to find this person So you need to take the most important things that you value the most and put them at the top of that list and Put a star next to the ones that you have to have automatically have to have there's no way that you can skip out on these and To the things that aren't super important don't put anything by them That way you're mentally putting Something in your subconscious mind to only deal with people who have these stars Which mean who have the qualities next to the stars that you've written down if You're approached if you come in contact with someone who does not have these qualities you will automatically dismiss them and Make you know make it known that you're not interested So you can leave yourself open for when someone does come that does meet these qualities So it is important ladies for you not to even bother waste time You know Conversating or even being around these type of men who are not You know having the qualities on your list If you stick with the list you will find the person Okay, because you will be automatically Drawn to that person because you will see it you will subconsciously know it you will be looking for it It will stand out to you because now you have supplanted it in your subconscious mind But this is the type of man you want you won't even look at the other ones You won't show interest in the other ones and you have to stay to the list Because if you don't if you get blinded if you get distracted, you're gonna end up with somebody who you don't really want Okay, and a lot of women are like well, what if I change my mind? Well, then that means you really don't know what you want in the first place So before you start this Men women you have to know the type of woman and the type of man you want Do you want someone who's educated? Do you want someone who's fit? Do you want someone who's? Nice, do you want someone who is generous? Do you want someone who? Wants children do you want someone who has a nice car, you know Who has a home already? Okay, who's financially stable already. Do you want someone with a certain look? Don't get too specific in the looks just put a certain look like your type And I always put two types because that leaves more options So I always put either this type or this type. I'll take either one. So once you put down all that stick with it and That's what you'll be attracting if you keep thinking about if you keep visualizing yourself with this type of man Or this type of woman. That's what's going to start coming into your life Okay, all the stuff that you don't want is not going to even get your attention anymore So you're ruling out all the stuff you don't want and you're focusing all the on all the things you do want And that's what's going to start popping up to you. That's what you're going to start noticing That's what it's going to start noticing you because now you're on that same level of thinking and Visualizing and you're on that same level of the type of person you want because So consciously you're gonna be like well if I want this kind of man I got to look like this or if I want this kind of man I can't be looking I can't wear this you know ghetto nail color or you know something like that if I want this type of woman I can't wear that my pants sagging down, you know if I you know You're gonna start correcting the things about yourself to attract that person, okay? It's gonna be automatic. You're gonna be like, well, you know what on my list I have that I want to educate it woman. So I need to improve. I need to read read up on a few things I need to get my you know knowledge Because I want an educated woman and I need to I can't impress an educated woman if I myself I'm not an avid reader, you know if I'm not keeping up with this is a thing So you're gonna improve yourself automatically just by making this list y'all and I'm telling y'all It works because that is how I met my husband child. I Made a list and I did not stray from that list. I have men begging me to stray from that list. I said nope I'm sorry. I I I had a strict Strict strict list and I I said and I even told them I said, you know what if I dates if I date you, this is how it has to be I can't I cannot date you unless this this and this happens I just can't and I would just sit there. They would be like It's like well, you know what there's somebody out there that will do it and that's what I'm waiting for So thank you and I appreciate your interest, but I'm I'm just going to hold out until I Get what I want and they'll be like well good. Look you're never gonna find it Guess what I found it like a week later y'all it could be a week away. Don't settle Okay, never settle just because you think that you'll never find something Because it's around the corner. You'll just you know, you'll be kicking yourself later We'll be cake if I would have gone out with with the guy that was begging me to break my list I would have never met my husband because it was a week later and I would have been on a date with with some dude that Probably would have made me paid for half of it. I don't know but I Would never never break your own rules because you know what's best for you subconsciously, you know, so Don't give up Stick to what you want. It's it's coming to you. Don't doubt yourself. No, it's coming. You know what? You know what I say, you know what I? Know Exactly what I want is gonna come to me It's just a matter of when and where and I'm not gonna be wasting my time with something that I don't want Because I might you know miss out on what I've been waiting for Or what I have manifested. It's not it's not if it's coming It's when it's coming if you if you manifest, you know manifest is you know Saying This is what you see your life as in the future. This is what you want You visualize the type of man you want to be with what you're gonna do How y'all gonna get married where y'all gonna get married do all of that because you're gonna start feeling that Feeling which is gonna track the type of man that can do those things for you and be thankful in advance that you This man is coming to you because the more you're thankful for something the more the universe is gonna send you to be thankful for And if you're thankful for a good man who's gonna do this this and that that's what the universe is gonna send you Okay, so gratitude is basically a trick because if you're already thanking the universe for something that you haven't received yet It has to speed up and grant it for you so that that gratitude can be Acknowledged and fulfilled you understand. Okay So be thankful for the man that's coming to you. You're thankful for that financially abundant Masculine man that's going to take care of you be thankful for that woman who's nice Who's going to pamper you who's going to? Make you feel like a man make you feel good be thankful for her because she's on the way Don't get distracted distractions Will take you off your course Every time and you'll be wasting your time. What if you're what if your future wife or husband walks in and Watches you for about five minutes and some hoochie or some ghetto person or some broke guy Comes up to you and starts in your ear and you entertain that he's gonna be like, oh, she likes that kind of guy Oh, oh, well the good ones are always going out with those type of people So he turns around and goes to the next one Or what if your future wife is watching you talk to like, you know, you know The type of women that you really don't want, you know And they're talking about this this isn't that and it's just like, oh my god. Look who he's talked to he's like He likes those, you know, he likes those type of women. I can't mess with him He probably you know got about five kids about three different by five different women So I'm not gonna mess with him now. So you could be missing out on The person that's supposed to you're supposed to be with because you're entertaining things that not on your list Now you've already manifested it is coming to you So you cannot Put obstacles in your own way by dealing with Losers and people that you don't want to associate with or you don't see yourself with in the future Okay, a lot of people are flattered too easily and they entertain things too long If you if this thing if this person does not fit Anything on your list kick them to the curve quick to the curb Bye be gone and they might think you're rude, but you know, you have to let them know, you know what I'm holding out for My prince charming or my princess, you know And a lot of people will respect that and they will leave you alone because if you set your standards and expectations so high that They can't even touch them. They're gonna be gone automatically So you have to hold out you have to be patient You have to believe in yourself that you can manifest the type of person you want and you can't entertain the stuff That's not on your list and that's where a lot of people mess up. They're like Well, what if they don't come and I just want to have a date for tonight and You know Then you don't know what you really want because you're settling already, you know, you're you're your neediness For companionship temporary companionship is going to mess up What you have been manifesting Because you're entertaining something that you don't want the universe is gonna get confused. He was like, wait, wait, wait I thought I thought he wanted this type of woman. Why is he messing with her? Okay? Well, send her back. Send the other one back Okay, obviously, he don't know what he wants Obviously, he likes this type of woman and this is not even on the lip. Well, I'm confused send it back Okay, same thing with the woman. Okay. She says she won't financially stable. Okay. Okay. What he ain't got no job No, okay, wait, I'm confused. She won't okay Send them back She likes this guy and it's gonna slow down and until you realize your mistake and say, oh my god I messed up to get back on that frequency of manifest in my demand that I want or visualize in the man I want then it's gonna start coming back slowly again It's like, okay, are you sure if you do it too many times the universe gonna be like she just playing Yeah, you know, y'all know she liked them losers forget it. Don't even get up You know, so you have to stay focused on what you want. You cannot be distracted and this is hard for a lot of people But it works. Okay. You just got to be fed up and you got it Be like, you know what? I would rather be alone until I get the type of person I want Okay, just because you're alone doesn't mean you're lonely, you know, don't ever Talk to someone because you feel needy at the time, you know, don't don't entertain people That's not on your list. They're not on your list. Don't do it Now if some of the things are on the list and they come up and talk to you and you're not really feeling them Entertain him for a second. See what they're about because if you're the guy that you're really supposed to be with See the type of man you like he's gonna be like, okay. We are she likes guys like me So I'm just he he he he struck out. It's my turn now. I bet you I can get her, you know Only entertain people with things on your list, okay That is my video for today. If you have any questions, let me know and I will answer them in the comments You know Not everyone is going to get what they want in life because they don't know what they want You got to know what you want first make sure that's what you want and Manifest it write it down and stick to it. Okay y'all