 If we're cheated on or something happens in our past relationships, it's it's difficult. Okay. Like it's difficult not to think that that's going to happen again, but honestly, that is not fair to your partner at all. At all. When you're down that path of jealousy, okay, I want you to stop yourself before you spiral and I want you to trace it back. And if it's if it's from a past experience, I want you to ask yourself if you're being fair to your partner and thinking this way. If they haven't done anything.