 Now, not every man is seeking a hookup, but let me dive into this really quickly, because there are three types of men actively dating. There are the users, there are the grower and builders, and what I call spenders. These are the men who will spend time with you, okay? Let's talk about users for a quick second. Those are the love bombers. Those are the men who are only in it for themselves. Women are users as well. The grower and builders are those men who genuinely want to grow and build a life with someone. They want a life partner. The spenders are the trickiest one because they represent 60% of the population. The two bookends are 20% each. The spenders, they want companionship, they want connection, they want sex without any real capacity for deeper commitment. These are wounded men. These are emotionally dysfunctional men. These are emotionally constipated men.