 you've gotten the guy to ask you out he's taking you to a nice restaurant or wherever you want to go you let him know you're interested but you're not easy how do you get what you want out of the date how do you make it seem like you're genuinely interested in him but you are not you know so easy how to play hard to get a little bit okay so first of all your first impression is everything okay if he sees you and he's like jaw dropped and his like and he's you look better than you look on your pictures or whatever if y'all met online or you're just looking extra beautiful that day make sure you try to do something extra to get his attention okay because you want him looking at you the whole time and infatuated by you okay this way he can't say no to you or it's hard if he does so when you when you first meet on the date and he asks you okay so what do you want to go eat name a place that you really want to go it doesn't matter how expensive it is as long as it's in his price range you know just make sure he makes enough money to afford that place so if you're dressed nice have a nice you know accessories hair nails makeup and you have nice shoes and a nice outfit he's gonna feel like he has to treat you really good like he has to go all out he has to pull all the stops stop so make sure you're dressed like you expect the best okay don't dress sloppy don't dress in sweats don't dress in jeans and a t-shirt because it's casual when you go on the first day it should you should be tapered you should look like you want to be treated okay so when you get to the restaurant or wherever you're going look at the menu smile you know look around and he'll ask oh so what are you gonna get and then this is what you do you say well I was thinking about and then they something expensive on the menu because I've been craving that all week I mean like literally I've been craving that all week and then say but I'm I don't know if I should get the and the name like something cheaper and the name and he'll go look on his menu and see how much the prices are and this gives him a chance to kind of rate you if he's like oh well I think the such and such sounds good which is the next this the cheap one or he'll say well get get what you want get what you've been craving that way you know what kind of guy is like if he's gonna give you what you want or if he's gonna suggest something cheaper this is how you kind of feel him out so say well what would you pick if you know you had to pick out of these two and let him pick for you so it seems like it was his decision so then when the bill comes it's not your fault if it's like way up there because you gave him the choice okay it's kind of like mind games so then like you know if you if it's a nice restaurant where they offer wine and such and such say oh you know what are you gonna have ask him what he's gonna have are you drinking and he'll say yeah if he doesn't want to look you know cheap or boring he's gonna at least get a glass of wine or a beer or something so when he let him order alcohol first before you order you know always ask him sick what are you drinking and he'll say oh I'm gonna have an iced tea that way you know he's not trying to buy alcohol for you so if he's going the iced tea or soda route he's not drinking wine with his dinner you know kind of guy yes so then what you do is like oh you know what I think I'm gonna have a light beer that's cheap it's not you know it's not like oh I'm arranging alcoholic or I'm gonna have a wine spritzer or something like something whatever you think is cheap just like order the cheapest alcoholic beverage that you see I'm gonna have that in a glass of water thank you don't be afraid to not order your drink just cuz he's not this make this lets him know that you know what you expect and how you're used to certain things and so go ahead and pull that plate on him then when you you know when you get your food and start eating you know whenever you take a bite act like you're really enjoying it this way he feels good about his purchase you know of the meal just like oh my god this is so good I am so glad you suggested I ordered this so it's all his idea remember I am so glad ooh this is so good oh my gosh this is probably the best meal I've had in ages thank you so much like be like appreciate what he's doing for you because you know what the more you appreciate something the more they want to do for you okay so be like oh my god this is so good yes I wish you could taste this and like I don't know if y'all are at that point yet where you want to share food but like if you really want him to feel close to you and more intimate cut him a little piece off or ask him if you would like to try cut him a little piece off and put it on his plate and you know he's gonna feel like y'all are connected oh y'all are already sharing food you appreciate what he's done for you he suggested the meal even though he doesn't know it I mean even though he thinks whatever y'all know what I'm saying so appreciate make it seem like it was his suggestion go all out how how good this food is okay so after dinner he's paid for it he's happy because you know you appreciate it and he's paid for he's not worried then it's like okay well I had a really good dinner I wish you know I wish this date was a lot longer and he was like well then he'll start suggesting stuff to do after so basically you're trying to end the date but you're wishing that it would last longer if you like the guy okay so then he's gonna suggest something where you want to go have drinks or you want to go dancing or you want to go to the movies or you want to go here you want to go there and then you'll say well don't say yes right away that's too desperate because then he'll know you tricked him say well you know I don't know do you really do you really want to do this you know are you having I'm having such a good time as well blah blah blah blah okay well I guess a quick drink couldn't hurt or I guess we could go for a little while don't don't don't act like you're gonna spend the whole night it's like well I guess we can go for a little while you know so he'll go and then he'll he'll be trying to impress you the whole time to stay longer because now you put a limit on the time so he's gonna be buying you drinks trying to get you to stay longer because now you know it's a challenge for him like okay well she didn't want to stay too long so I'm gonna see how long I can get her to stay that means she really likes me if she stays long the whole time he doesn't know you just you're trying to get you know as much fun and drinks out of the date as you can plus enjoy him you know if he's a good guy you know have fun but at least have your fun as well you know so now that he's got you to stay out maybe an hour or two past what you were comfortable with in the beginning now he's gonna say well that was a great time oh my goodness I have so much fun with you you are so hilarious you are so smart blah blah blah however many compliments he give you and then you said oh my god I feel the same way you are so cool I never you know I thought you were gonna be like and just telling what you thought he was gonna be because this way he feels like even better you know I thought you were gonna be a nice guy but I didn't know you were gonna turn out to be you know a comedian I didn't know you can turn out to be so smarter and I didn't know you can turn out to be this way blah blah blah blah such a gentleman or whatever you gotta say and he's gonna feel like oh really so he's gonna feel like he impressed you so the next time he asked you out he's gonna try to impress you even more he's gonna keep bringing his a game because you expect it you've seen it you've complimented him on that so now he has to keep it up okay so I just want to let y'all know those are some good tips and I'm gonna I'm gonna see y'all later if y'all want this look y'all like 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