 A lot of that comes from being taught egalitarian equalism. And so we want to believe, especially purple pill guys, desperately want to believe that we're more alike than we are not alike. And I'll tell you, no, we are more different than we are alike. And you just want us to be more alike because you think that by rationally and overtly telling a woman what it is that you think she should do. You can tell a woman 10 different ways why you would make the perfect, guys just all the time, why you would make the perfect boyfriend. You make X amount of money, and you want to build yourself up. And all of these rational reasons why she should want you, and she's just, I don't want to have anything to do with you because hypergamy doesn't care. It's like Alan's whole, I have a PhD, I've got a big car, I want to college. Exactly. It doesn't mean anything. And so I think that there's some merit to what Alan is saying. But I would argue that we are far more different than we are the same. And we can see that biologically. We can see that with neurological brain scans. We can see what parts of the male brain is more catered to for spatial ability, rational reasoning and stuff like that. And then just the way that the synapses in women's brains are wired. They're more wired for communication. They're more wired for, I won't say empathy, but sympathy. They can pick up on sub-communications and non-verbal cues and things like that. And that's what their predisposition is for. You're really proud of the fact that your son can play baseball and he's really good at that. I was gonna bring it up, I was gonna say exactly that. You showed me that story, I regret when you showed me. You should have video, absolutely taken a selfie video and talk to your son and send that. And I'm like, fuck, I was telling my partner that. I'm like, in this age, I know you sacrificed being there for your child. I've missed two baseball games. I'm being here, but this matters to me more than that. But no, no, no, no, no, because you're creating a world in which he's gonna thrive. Exactly, true. Okay, and not only that, he's gonna imprint on what you've done. Well, for instance, so your boy probably throws a ball pretty well. Your girl probably throws like a girl. Exactly. That's because from a biological, from an evolutionary perspective, boys have a better spatial, better depth perception. And know how to put their arm and put their shoulder into it. Because that is, and that is an evolved survival. It's a masculine behavior. She's the pure masculine. Coming out of the womb, he has a predisposition to be able to throw a ball into the womb. Seeing her sitting in my driveway drawing, she's predisposed for that. A lot of people have problems with raising their kids as if they're equals. I raise my kids differently. Exactly. It's fair, it's totally fair, but it's different. But so he has that ability, okay? That's because it's hardwired into his brain. It's what I call a mental firmware, okay? Your girl probably has other things that she's predisposed to. And it's not that you can't teach your daughter how to throw a ball. You can teach her that. It's the fact that she has no biological predisposition for that. And I think that a lot of guys, a lot of my critics get pissed off at me because they say, oh, are you seeing that people, men and women aren't equal? And I go, well, no, they're not. Men have strengths and weaknesses, and women have strengths and weaknesses, and we're complementary to one another for the deficits that either one has. And I think that, especially in this day and age, we've been taught to be so sensitive to equalism, like everybody's got to have an equal thing. Well, we don't look at the differences. We want it. We want things to be more alike. And so consequently, the next words out of their mouth is, oh, so you think men are superior to women. I go, yes, in certain challenges and in certain environmental tests for that particular sex, men are going to be better at certain things than women are. And other environmental tests, women are going to be better than men are. So women are superior to men in certain ways, and men are superior to women in certain ways. What's amazing about that? But they always go to the man. They always say, oh, you must be a massage. Yeah, they see that. They see that, such a young age. So fucking projection. I mean, this is when you fucking have manipulation, and it's projection. You hear the argument, and instead of trying to respond to the error, stop and go, how much of this is you?