 come to the conclusion I'm not gonna change anybody's opinion, and like with my wife, we don't try. Like the goal of this is not to get people who hate trans people to like us. I don't care if you hate us, don't, don't like us. It's the people who do like trans women that are afraid to talk about it. It's like, this is what it is. Just fucking date who you wanna date and stop being so secretive about it. Stop taking this whole group of people and pretending you don't like them because you're afraid people are gonna call you homo. That's all it is. I think that's what the lion's share of transphobia is. Is it like subverted or transmuted or whatever repressed sexual attraction? Or is it just, what do you think, like percentage wise? Cause to me it's still just like, that's different. And I, it terrifies me. I don't like different things. It's a combination of things. I really don't know what the percentage, some of it is people who really wanna fucking, they see someone like, oh fuck you. Like, you know, it's like the old Bobcat bit about like beating up a gay guy because you're attracted to him. I mean, there's, you know, and I know a lot of trans women and a lot of the guys they've slept with who are public figures who they, and they shouldn't name them if the guys don't wanna be named. Some of it is repressed transphobia. Like they wanna suck dick but they don't wanna act like they wanna suck dick. Some of it is just true religious feelings of this person as an abomination. Some of it is indifference that turns into anger and revulsion because of what special interest groups do. Some of it is, I was kinda like, that's not for me, but then all of a sudden you're saying that like, hey, this is the way sports should be and this is the way that should be. And then people push back on that. But then again, I think the conservative is a full of shit too. Acting like you shouldn't acknowledge trans people or people like, and if you mentioned something transgender to a child, you should know indoctrinated. And they're dying to get into bathrooms. Yeah, I mean, you know. I don't know if this is my thought or somebody else's, but like, they're worried about a guy becoming a woman to molest your daughter. And it's like, you know, there's lesbians in the women's bathroom. Yes, I've thought of that with gay men too. The Boy Scouts, I mean, Jesus Christ, that was a fuckfest for 80 years. And all of a sudden now it's just, but there are like, look, are there trans people that do it? Sure, but that's not the reason, especially- I don't think there are, honestly. You'll find some, I think, like that changed their gender right before they go to jail. And there have been- Okay, that just sounds like something, but like thing about becoming a woman so I can be around little kid. Oh no, no, I don't think full transitions. I mean, people that probably aren't really trans. But again, like, then there are certain times where there's legit things that are dismissed by like, you know, you had like, the people looked at, I forget what the state was, where the girl said she was assaulted by a boy in a dress sexually in school and the school board wrote it off like, I have this dumb hillbilly, but it turns out it was right. Like the school board was covering something up and this guy who seemed like this fucking, oh, this guy's a magamaniac, but he was right. It had happened to his daughter. So a lot of times people will write off and the criticism and it could be valid. It's just a matter of being truthful without saying the outcome has to be this. You know what I mean? Like, Nicky and I are married, we're legally married. I resent anybody that doesn't want us to have the exact same life they have. So anybody that thinks that my wife and I should not be able to behave the way you and your wife should behave, go fuck yourself. Like that's how we look at it. I don't know what the answer for the kid stuff is. I don't have kids. I have no feelings about it. Well, as someone who transitions to 14, that seems to be where a lot of like the, I think legitimate controversy should, not even controversy of just like, what are we doing here? Yeah, yeah. Like, which I'm not, I don't think it's, I don't think it's wrong. I don't think it's a fake argument. It's like, no, this is a real thing. It's a real point, what's the right thing? And by transition, she just started taking Medicaid. Oh, you know what I mean? That's basically it. Like, what's the right age for that is 10, too young, maybe. But again, with no kids, and I don't have any feelings about kids whatsoever, like whatever they decide. I just don't know what's right. Yeah, I don't either. Which is another thing. People don't go like, I don't know. I can see both sides. I talk about this on stage. It's the reason I haven't shot a specialist. I'm still trying to figure out, what do I want to say? Like, I talk about our sex and I like to talk about it because it's jarring to people sometimes when you, and then they realize I'm not kidding. Like, no, no, this is real. Well, that's what's interesting because thinking about your sexual stuff, if I may interject, like that, so do you ever look down at Nikki and be like, this is a, I didn't see this coming, but I guess you did. I did. Oh, yeah. What do you mean by the reaction you mean? No, like, you're, literally I was thinking of your point of view, first person. So you're either behind her. Oh, you sexually, yeah. Yeah. No, no, I'm never shocked. I mean, like, it's, she's who I want to be with. Everything about her is exactly what I want. Great. So no, I never, I think she just- Well, it's, again, I'm projecting, I'd be surprised. Oh, of course. Yeah, most guys- If I look down, that would cut up. And so I think, oh yeah, most guys aren't though. They pretend they are, they pretend they don't know. A big part of it is self identifying too. Like, trans women have to realize like, yes, you're obviously a huge part of the discussion, but the reason that the men don't come out, many reasons, one is guys are afraid, does it make me gay? And you can't dismiss that. Go, you're totally heterosexual, because there's not a rational thinking person alive that thinks a guy is a dick in his face and he's heterosexual. Right. You can tell yourself that, you can identify that way if you want to, it's not my fucking business, but I find it to be ludicrous and laughable. And I think it causes a lot of confusion with people. And I think a lot of people just walk away from you and think, this is crazy. But guys just don't know how to identify if they like somebody transgender. They're like, does it make me gay? Does it not make me gay? I think that's a big part of it. But that said, it's like you fucking cowards, just admit the group you like. You don't have to say what you do sexually. Everyone has private stuff sexually, but don't just deny it and stop getting caught. I think it's probably they don't want to have to be the same politically thing. It's like, I don't want to have to pick a team because there are a lot of things about that particular team that I just am aggravated by or don't want to be a part of. But you're also right about a sphere. They're not publicly dating any of it. You know, there's a lot of people in public life who like trans women, we're not dating them publicly or taking them to dinner or taking them to award shows. And it's like, I'm not the only one who likes trans women. I mean, believe me, I'm really not. So the fact that none of them are doing it shows you that there's more there. Did you figure out, so how do you talk about on stage? I mean, I start with talking about her as a person. The things I hate about her as a, you know, anything else in a relationship, being married, just regular shit, banal shit, that's true. She's fucking always cold. She fight, you know, all this shit. Other people are annoying. And if they're of a different gender, there might be a little more annoying. Yes. And then I hit them with the fact. I mean, most people now who are coming to see me know already, but the way I get into it, they're like, oh, maybe this is a different person. But then I hit them with it. And it gets a really- Finally, he's back with regular women. But they're like, what is he doing? Because I've seen some people who know our channel and they know her, and then what the fuck is he doing? And then when the joke comes, it's like a really weird laugh. Like, oh, yes, okay, this makes sense. And then I go on and talk about her dick and the sex and the stuff like that, where it's hard, where it's not hard, the arguments everyone's having. You know, but I want to get it right. Like, right, I mean, just funny. I want to make sure it's funny. And I'm not being self-righteous. And not being like activist. No, I refuse. I'm trying, yeah. I absolutely refuse. Our love is just as rude, yeah. Hey, did you like that? Did you like that? Yeah, did you like it though? You want more? Don't want to work? Would rather watch videos of me grab assing with people. First of all, go up here to subscribe and then go up here to watch more clips. This is like when the weatherman says there's a high-pressure system coming in. I'm a little, I'm not really used to the green screen.