 You gotta be seen by single eligible people. Maybe it's going to church. Maybe it's going to personal development workshop. Maybe it's going to places where men hang out, like golf courses and hardware stores. But I wouldn't do that for the purpose of meeting them. Go to those because you want to do those. Start joining groups or start asking friends to introduce you to people. But guess what? You have to put yourself out there to be seen. And the beauty of a dating site is you can do it from the privacy of your own home. You just have to weed through a lot more people because you're not aligned to everybody you're going to meet. That's just the reality of things, okay?