 Hazel says, should you ideally wait for a guy to tell you he loves you first, even when you get the inkling that he might feel that way, but is scared to say it just yet in case you don't feel the same. What you want to do is before you go out and just start saying that you love him, which is a big conversation on both the men and women side. There's a big debate about it. In my opinion, I think it's far less risky for a woman to say it than it is for a guy. However, I think that you should be careful about the situation that you're saying it in. If you know that if you are for absolute definite sure that he feels that way, what you should do is you should have kind of a step ladder to saying it. Basically, the first way that you're going to do this is by using the word love a lot. What you're going to do is you're going to talk about loving things, loving time that you spend together, just loving experiences, and then you're going to switch it over to talking about attributes or traits that you love of his. It's this progression that happens over time. It could be days or weeks or months where you're talking about things that you love about him. If you want to do something that's really kind of sneaky and is kind of fun, in my opinion, I think it's fun. I think it's a lot of fun. What it is is called force framing, something I call force framing. Basically, what you do is you frame certain things. You're saying, even when I get the inkling that he might feel that way but is scared. What's giving you that inkling? This is what you're going to use for the force frame. If you get the inkling because he looks at you a certain way or he does certain things that make it feel like you know that he loves you, what you want to do is you want to frame it that way. You want to point it out to him and start saying it. Basically, a conversation like this might go something like, so he's looking at you and you're like, oh, you're giving me that look again. I know that look. I keep seeing that on you and you'll be like, what? What are you talking about? You'll be like, I think you're falling for me. That's kind of the first frame is that you're falling for me. The second frame is a frame of being like, oh yeah, it's definite. Oh yeah, you're so in love with me right now. I can tell. This is you're framing his interaction with you. Maybe it's a look that he's giving you, which is an easy one to do because it's like, what look? I don't know. Maybe I am looking at her like that. That's what he's going to be thinking like, oh, am I looking at her? I love her. At first, he might even deny it or something, but just keep doing it and be like, yeah, no, no. No, it's okay. No, it's okay. No, it's totally cool. No, it's really cute. No, it's go ahead. Just admit it. It's cool. No, it's cool. You don't want to do it so much to the point where it becomes like this weird awkward conversation if he's kind of like denying it or whatever, but you just want to do it and have fun with it and be playful with it and just be like, oh yeah, oh, you're giving me that look again. Like you might as well just stop denying it because you keep looking at me like that, right? And eventually what you can do is just come out and if you're feeling it and you know, he's feeling it and there's kind of this vibe, even if there's resistance and he hasn't kind of even with what we've just talked about and the force framing, he hasn't admitted to it, then it's a lot easier to be like, no, no, no, it's cool because I love you too. I think that it would bring us closer together to talk about it or whatever. And so that can be a really powerful way to bring it up and without just dropping it like a bomb on top of them because it becomes this progression. Because if you're talking about loving things, you know, like, oh, I love it when we're spending time. I love it. I love it. I love this. And oh, I love this about you, right? He's going to get that word in his head and he's going to be like, I think she loves me, right? And it's going to give him permission and it's going to make him feel like he's allowed to start talking like that as well. And that will kind of stair step into him saying it. And then the force framing on top of that can be really, really powerful.