 And we as Muslims what an insult it is to Muhammad SA و کے ساتھ when we select a role model beside him Allah who Akbar كبير So this is why we say that let us be careful. A lot of the young boys they don't want to marry and if you tell them why they are looking for a certain shape they are looking for a certain complexion. They are looking for a certain height. وہ کبھی کبھی کنکھنی تو مجھوک ہے ڈین ایک گھوگ کوئی دن ہے. سیادﷺ اگر کھینکھنی بہت تلو کتھنی ایک بہتہنیمان ہے۔ سیادﷺ ایک بہت کے لئے کوئی سمجھتے ہیں ، کوئی جرکٹی کرنی کا نظار بھی ہے۔ یہ محالت ہے کہ اس کے لئے جانتے ہیں تو اس کے لئے مرین کی حال ہے؟ gotta for five years ہے! shallow for ten years ہو لینکھنے گا! معاہدہ أنہوں کو بہت مدھو جانتا ہے وپنے آپ کو دورت Won't Allah کو اپسان صلح نظر سکھا ہوں لیکن کہ جو کسی عرم سے اپنے جو بیوتنی کا حصول ہے لیکن وہ بحاجہہ مدھو جانتا ہے تو یہی جانتے ہیں کہ میں اپنے فرمت دورا ہوں تو اس کم میں fajروں کا حق ہے میں ایک ک shots پہاہ pelaیح عیسی اللہ و حصول ہے کہ آپ مجھے پیدا کر سکتے ہیںMost big way to understand so when a manilo is looking for a wife. Also when the man is looking for a wife make sure you have someone who is on a higher spiritual level than you are or equal insha Allah.Ob copsdy the hidden by the people but we can see the science in a person اس کے ذریعہ کیونکاڑے دور کمارکتاہیں ، سنوانتھو ، کونکاہ کے بلوہان میں کسی صاحب کی تکتے ہیں ، ، اللہ نے یعنی لیئا کے ذاکرہ ، کیونکہ آپ کی مخصوص مین جانتا ہے کہ ، آپ کی پاکارہ اپنے محرصت ہے ۔ آپ کی مہ组ر اٹھن یہاں سے آپ کھوم جگہ رہاں۔ اگر آپ کے حال اپنے محرصتی انہوں کی وقتی ہے ، سوے مہرصوص اور حالش اور بیس ، اللہ اسی اٹھن۔ چھوڑرے میں سوچ ساتھ سکنے کے ساتھ تھی دیکھتے ہو جاتا ہے، آپ know اگر مدل ہیں جو کسی بارےوں کیayım تو میں آپ کو فelnومائےوں کو سکسی بارے لگے ہیں جب جو لوگوں کا فلنومائے کو بڑی ہیں کسی بارےے لگے آ大 کےھیک اور حیہ lot ہے جو ایک بارے میں مدلی ہوں ایک ہوں ایک ایک ایک ایک بارے ایک ہوا ہے جو فلنومائے کو سکسی بارے میں през سع pains ان شاہ کر than because شاہ ایک گج instructional revvingت اipped لاد و Sí ایک جو عليان اس لیکlively اakis be par کیا بات گی ایک جن زیادہ شاہ ہےسکتے ہو گئی ہے ایک شاہد آو د سے لی Forest because they were known as companions. They were in the company of the Prophet صلی اللہ و علیہ وسلم. They spent time watching his 24-7 day. They knew how he did what he did. So they were each one of them superstars. Why? Because they lived with the superstar, the best of creation صلی اللہ و علیہ وسلم. That is what made them companions. They were not just known as friends. Nowhere in the books of Hadith will you find a description saying that those are the friends, meaning using the word friends over the word companions. They are known as companions. Because companionship is what develops a person. فَلْ يَنْضُرْ اَحَدُكُمْ مَنْ يُخَادِمْ A person is known by the company he or she keeps. So each one of you be careful whom you have befriended, whom you have allowed into your company. Not everyone who wants to be your friend should be allowed to be your friend. You need to vet that. And you need to literally use a strainer as we use to separate tea leaves from the tea. We need to separate the good from the bad when it comes to our friends. Disassociate ourselves from those who are evil. Because if we have bad company even if we are good that bad company will brush off on to us because we have been guaranteed that by the Qur'an and by the Hadith of the Prophet صلی اللہ و علیہ وسلم. And this is why if you want your child to be married or if you want to marry look at the company of your spouse before you marry what type of people does he or she mix with that will give you an idea of what type of a person the person is. When you have fish in the sea the fish of one type move together in a school. You will not find one whale one small fish one king fish one something else altogether moving together no they are fish who have something in common they move together the same applies with us when you see a people moving in a group you know that they have something in common either they are on drugs together or either they go to the mosque together may Allah protect us all so when looking for a spouse look at the friends of a spouse this is what will help you the Prophet صلی اللہ و علیہ وسلم says you also need to look at the family the family meaning what type of people are they what type of people are they and he says that there are certain qualities that generally people look at some people look at the wealth some people look at the lineage which is the family some people look at the beauty and some people look at the religious level then he says become successful by making the religious level the main deciding factor what does that mean that means it is not wrong to look at how good looking the girl is it's not wrong you can't but if she has no religion then opt for someone else you can compromise the first three things but don't ever compromise the last thing some of the youngsters when i have spoken on this topic in the past they've come to me and told me so what do you mean we must marry someone whom we don't even like what they look like i said no that's not true the agit says look at everything consider everything but your final deciding factor must be religion for example you find someone they are not acceptable the way they portray themselves or maybe the way they look according to your taste but at the same time their religious level is very high we are not telling you to marry them but we are telling you you can get someone else who might look in your eyes a little bit better but their religious level is similar to that and if you continue hunting you will find subhanallah you will find and you should know that beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder some people might like a certain type of look whereas others might consider that not good looking then you have what we consider extremely good looking others might consider it not good looking and do not let your deciding factor be movie stars because you will be living in a constant dream and you will be losing and lacking contentment throughout your life even the movie stars when they have a child or two what happens you find a wrinkle or two Tada助 att you by Allah That Nations understanding than Sometimes they themselves also have to give it out they have to give it out so in Islam we have a very broad understanding of what to look at and we are guided in the right light to sleep look try and make your decisions and make them correctly knowing that when you have based your decision on religion or on the کارکٹر اور اکل Lux ایک پرشابل سکتے ہیں لیکن یہ پرشابل سکتے ہیں میں لوگ اپسی طرح ا кто بھیا آستائی دیکھنے ہیں میں اس پرشا م 축عم دیتا ہوں اوہاں لیکن چاہتے ہیں کیوں کہ بننائج پرشابل سکتے ہیں ان کنے اس اپسی طرح میں اپسی طرح اپسی طرح ایک جو ان لائن آسا ہے ان کنڈسنے اور نامنے کا مجھے تاستصار سکتے ہیں اس بسی تاستصار پرشابل سکتے ہیں اور اس کے جو کبھی نہیں ہے اگر ہے کہ ہمارے بہتیم ا surrounds آنیس شخص کا اچھان اچھا اچھانLab اچھان بہتیم اچھان اچھان اچھان اچھان میکھا اچھان اچھان خوانتے ہیں کسی بھی کسی بہت یا میکنے گہان چاہتا ہے گو میکنے پیارو جائے کسی بہت کررو اچھان کیوں کہ جب آپا اچھان سرد دارش کر جانتا ہے آپ کے پاس کی میں یہ میں کیا ہوتا ہے آپ کے پاس کی میں کیا ہے اور گگل بے لوسحت