 wondering what kind of options would be available to me. I'll give you a quick synopsis. 42 years old. Last year I used to weigh 203 pounds. None. None. No, I'm not finished. None. Yeah, you are. Yeah, you are. Last year, this year I weighed 165. No, ma'am. I said you're finished. You're finished. I'm done. Yep. There's nothing left for me. Not realistically. Well, thank you. I'm not going to lie to you because I'm 40 years old. See, it's the age and the weight. And then if you have any children. So my kids are okay, ma'am. I don't need to. I'm okay. I'm going to be honest. It's the and I don't want to be rude. Sound like rude. But see, when you over 40 and you're obese and you even if you're coming down, still can go the other way. And then you have children. Okay, the only way that there would ever be any chance for you is if you were gorgeous. And if you were gorgeous, you wouldn't be calling. So I need the people to understand I'm not being rude. He's just oftentimes I'll get women who want to call in there want to tell me the story and then I know where it's going to end. Ma'am, you kind of knew that in order to overcome just your age alone, you're going to have to be very feminine, very submissive, very cooperative. You have to bring a lot to the table. That's before your before your weight and before your children. And your children are a messy detail for a man. I don't mean you can love your children, but we but people don't look at our kids the same way. So that's why when you asked, I'm like, and were you married in the past?