 Many MUA is the perfect example of taking a mental health break and learning absolutely nothing. What is up everybody? This is Chris from the Rewired Soul where we talk about the problem but focus on the solution and if you're new to my channel, my channel is all about mental health and what I like to do is pull different topics from the YouTube community to try to teach you how to improve your mental and emotional well-being. So if you're into that stuff, make sure you subscribe and ring that notification bell and today's video is brought to you by my book Rewire Your Anger. All right so Manny is under a bunch of fire once again and in my book Rewire Your Anger I talk about a lot of things like quick causing your own problems, apologizing, how to apologize the right way, how to quit apologizing so much because you're causing your own damn problems, all of that. So if you can relate to anything that Manny MUA is going through, make sure you pick a copy of Rewire Your Anger, it's linked down in the description below. Also a couple updates, I will have the physical copies of this book available on Amazon this week so if you want to check back in with that. Everybody who wanted the audiobook, I posted about this on my community page and Twitter and things like that but anyways I don't have the resources to do the audio version myself with my voice. I know a lot of you love the smooth sound of my voice but I'm probably going to hire a narrator to do it and just get it done and maybe I'll redo it later with my voice but it was a lot more complicated than just self-publishing a book like I did before. So anyways that'll be coming very soon as well. All right so yeah let's talk about Manny MUA. He's under a bunch of backlash right now because what happened with a copyright claim he filed against T-Spill and for those of you who are new to my channel I'm not a drama channel. I want you to learn from other people's mistakes and understand what's going on. Like I used to be Manny MUA. I used to cause a bunch of my own problems so to give you a little backstory for those of you who aren't all up in the beauty guru stuff. Last year Manny MUA had a bunch of backlash, lost hundreds of thousands of subscribers for some stuff that happened with Laura Lee and Gabriel Zamora and Jeffree Star and Nikita Dragon was kind of up in the mix so in an effort to kind of reset and realize what he did he took a break from YouTube a mental health break watch if if you will and something I talk about all the time on my channel is that we need mental health breaks. I actually just filmed a video with my mom about self-care and improving your well-being but here's the problem with mental health breaks. So many people do it the wrong way and when Manny MUA came back I said only time will tell but I don't think he learned much from his mental health break and what he's dealing with right now is a perfect example of it all right. So he came back you know he's been just kind of doing his own thing and basically what happened was I don't even know the names of this stuff Tristan he took the Morphe concealer is it foundation oh so close foundation and all that and people said it was you know a fake review and like there was all this stuff about it. Well anyways T Spill is a T channel right and she talked about it and she used clips from Manny and what Manny did was he filed a copyright claim against it so what happens is as Manny then gets all the revenue from T Spill and something I tweeted about the other day is like when are when are people gonna learn like like most of time like this is you know just a jerk move like it's not gonna end well for you right so a ton of stuff happened a ton of stuff more people were covering it and this has been kind of a big topic lately I know a lot of you have wanted me to talk about Veronica Wang and Shook Bang and because something happened similar with that. So I guess the first thing that we'll talk about with anger management is like this is the reason why you don't do things out of spite out of revenge it comes back and it bites you in the butt so hard this is one of the reasons one of the many many reasons why Tana Khan failed okay Tana's entire motive behind creating Tana Khan was out of spite towards Vin Khan when you do something out of anger when you do something to be petty when you do something to get revenge it doesn't look well all right like we have to ask ourselves on a regular basis who do I want to be who do I want to be portrayed as what do I want people to see me as what are my values right and and obviously Tana's motives were messed up but like Manny Manny he filed that claim out of out of anger out of frustration and all of that and now it's blowing back in his face this is why this is why you guys like there's such a misconception that mental health means a lack of mental illness you guys one of the reasons I wrote rewire your anger is because anger management is a huge part of mental health not having your anger and emotions under control can cause so so many problems in your life we see it happen on a regular basis me this happened so many times I've left jobs out of anger I've left relationships out of anger I've gotten to fights with friends and family out of anger I have done so many things out of anger that made my life worse so whenever you're doing something here's a great rule of thumb I do it with every single video that I create checker motives checker motives checker motives why am I doing this right so when I was talking about this situation over on Twitter a fellow comment commentary not commentary but another content creator talked about this and said they've been on both sides of this they've had to file claims and they've had claims filed against them right and again like that's cool like the copyright claim system is in place to make sure people don't steal your stuff right so like for example when I started blowing up with Shane Dawson series that some of you amazing subscribers told me that there was a channel that was literally taking my videos and my thumbnails and just re-uploading them they were just taking them and trying to re-upload them that's not cool so thank goodness for the copyright claim system I was able to get those videos taken down right but when we live in a world of YouTube where there's a lot of commentary and recovering news or whatever it is um like just filing it for no reason it is a problem right because people have the right to do discuss situations they have the right this is what they call fair use okay they have the right to do that so when you're just being petty and saying oh no I don't want it and you just go to take it down like that's petty it's unjust and it's in Manny's situation it was out of anger all right so anyways Manny came out on Twitter and he basically said this I'll put screenshots up so he said hey guys wanted to come on here and address the copyright strike I placed on Teesville's channel I reached out to Teesville and we resolved the issue and I removed the strike placed on her channel honestly guys I did it out of frustration I was getting thought uh getting hundreds of hate comments people telling me to kill myself and death threats over a foundation review I thought was good uh a good job looking back I know I could have been more clear but Teesville never asked people to send me death threats all right this is um like I can get into it like you guys like the internet's just a dumb place most of time people are gonna say kill yourself you're gonna get death threats from like five year old kids not literally five year old kids but it's it's whatever like you guys one of the biggest rules of thumb that I have is that quit causing your own problems I have an entire chapter dedicated this in anger in rewire your anger quit causing your own problems because so many of us we cause our own problems and then we play the victim right oh my god oh my god like I see people I see people online I'm not gonna name names but there's somebody who comes to mind they they make these like sensational things to try to get viral to try to get attention and stuff like that and recently they got a bunch of public backlash and it caused a lot of mental health issues I'm sitting there and I'm like quit causing your own problems and it was within weeks that this person started doing it again and I'm sitting there I'm like did you not learn anything did you not learn anything at all so you you yeah you watching this video sit back and ask yourself how many problems of are you causing on your own because we sit back and we think that the whole world's against us why is everybody so mean to me I'm just this innocent little person in the thing but we cause our own problems the other day I had somebody come at me on Twitter right and then a bunch of my my fans or subscribers or rewired soldiers right they came to to my defense and they were having a an adult debate right because I do not condone any kind of trash talking threats anything like that so I was monitoring this and people were debating because I was staying out of it right and this person said don't attack me don't attack me right and I'm like what what were you expecting what did you think that you were going to come out here and everybody was going to agree with you right like here's what we we need to understand like not everybody is always going to agree with us so part of our issue this is why I promote mindfulness and meditation so much is that we feel so justified in our terrible behaviors right like many MUA probably felt justified in doing that to tea spill he felt justified in that moment because his head wasn't clear he was running off emotions we feel justified in doing this and we think everybody's going to agree with this and all these other things but then when we get some clarity or we see that backlash we're like oh all right you know what I mean so it's really important that we get this stuff under control all right but Manny himself said that he did this out of spite he did this and a lot of anger which I talk about in the book as well comes from fear right it comes from some place of fear and we get defensive that's one of the ways that we we cope with the situation we get defensive sometimes we lash out sometimes we lash back but what I'm saying is is learn from Manny's mistakes and when you take a freaking mental health break for the love of God do something all right all man he did and now there's proof to what I assumed back then all man he did was take a break you know act like he was working on himself and he didn't he didn't because if he did he'd have a therapist by now and he'd probably be running by his therapist hey this channel did something it really hurt my feelings what do you think I should do because no therapist on the planet would say you know what you should do you should do something petty and I guarantee the result no no therapist is ever gonna say that right so like I've talked about in the past there are so many people who cannot afford therapy they do not have the resources to afford therapy so when I see millionaires like Manny MUA and other you know influencers who keep living on their like by their own will their own thoughts their own decisions and they're not getting therapy and then they keep getting this hellstorm that comes their way I have very little empathy you have the resources to go see a therapist and start getting your mind right and quit causing your own problems like and and here's the thing too last part about this rant like you guys wonder why I make so many videos about enabling go watch Manny's comeback video his parents are some of the biggest enablers on earth right because they're just like oh man he's just this man he's just that like Manny needs to go get professional help I'm not saying Manny's like sick or twisted or anything like that well I guess that's debatable depending on who it is but his parents say why don't why don't you see a therapist why don't you talk why don't you start doing this why don't you start working on yourself right because this isn't just about Manny this is about you you might be like slowly destroying your career that you've worked so hard on I don't care if you're a freaking accountant I don't care if you're an artist I don't care if you're working in retail I don't care what you do because if you don't get your anger under control you're going to continue causing problems which are then going to hurt you even more all right because the issue is and the reason why I talk about this we all sit back and act confused how did this happen how did I get up in this place right it's because we refuse to work on our mental health so thank you for watching this video thank you for watching any of my videos if you have sat through any of my videos it means that you are actually taking a little bit of time to try to work on your mental health but like we always say don't just talk about the problem focus on the solution I'm gonna be doing some more videos on that because I'm getting sick and tired of seeing comments where people are just trying to get the pity party and we don't we don't play that here at the rewired soul start getting into the solution if you cannot afford therapy come join our support groups on facebook or on discord or even both all right if you if therapy is an option talk to your doctor talk to your insurance company see who they recommend talk to friends see if they have a therapist that they can recommend my channel supported by better help online therapy if you would like to do that it's pretty inexpensive check the links down below all right but get your anger under control or you can pick up my book five bucks all right anyways let me know down in the comments below how many times have you had your anger cause a problem in your life all right how many times have you realized that you need to get your anger under control are you going to continue to have problems in your life all right let's have a conversation down below anyways that's all I got for this video if you like this video please give it a thumbs up if you're new make sure you subscribe and ring that notification bell because I make a ton of videos and a huge huge thank you to everybody supporting the channel over on patreon you are all amazing and if you would like to become a patron and get exclusive content access to our private facebook group or other groups and stuff like that click or tap right there thanks again so much for watching i'll see you next time