 another live video for you today just out here at the beach and down to the other side down here let's see what it's like down there to the topic of the video today how to forget and assist and live your best life it's actually very easy for you to do and all you really have to do is come out here come to the beach go out in nature forget the narcissist and live your best life just do it it's that simple that's all you really have to do you have to think why have you not forgot the narcissist why are you not living your best life right now why are you not doing that and if you look at it no one's really stopping you from doing that no one's really telling you that you can't do it the only person who is stopping you from forgetting the narcissist living your best life is yourself because you put this limiting belief in your mind that you cannot forget the narcissist that you cannot live your best life I'm here to tell you that you can get the narcissist you could you can forget them bring something else put your focus and attention on something else remember all the things you used to enjoy doing all those things that you were passionate about I bet you had to stop doing a lot of those things because of the narcissist they weren't happy with you doing that you didn't like to see you happy and living your best life I didn't like to see that but now now you can go ahead and do it you haven't got answer to anyone you can do whatever you want so yeah you want to forget the narcissist remember the things that you used to love doing I'm going to do that I promise you will forget the narcissist very quickly this is a message today to inspire you that's a motivate you to make a change in your life I want to be your inspiration today just take a look at me right now does it look like I'm worried or thinking about any narcissist in my life or does it look like I'm living my best life you can come out here and do this too you can go to a beach if you don't have a beach near you you can jump on a plane go to where you want to go that is how you should get the narcissist but just jumping on a plane doing what you want to do is what happens when you're involved with them is you restrict yourself and they teach you to do that they make your world seem so small where you begin to believe that they are your only option it's either that's or you have no one you're alone well I'm here to tell you that there is another option you do have another choice and that is to get them forget everyone forget if one who told you that you cannot live your best life and be your best self I'm here to tell you right now that you can do whatever you want and I am living proof of that I had plenty of narcissists in my life telling me that I can't be something telling me that I can't do what I dream of well take a look at this one take a look a lot I'm on a beach beautiful golden sand the ocean mountains I think it's safe to say I'm living my best life I'm killing it I'm killing the game and I want to see you kill the game too that's why I'm out here inspiring you that's why I'm pumping out these videos every day that's why I do it so yeah this is what it's all about this is it you've been discarded by a narcissist of course it hurts that's what it's intended to do it's intended to bring you down and make you feel like your world is so small it's not small it doesn't have to be like that you just need to get out there and start exploring new places even if you can't take a flight like that you can explore new places in your own town or city even if you don't drive you can find somewhere within walking distance just jumping up us no excuses there is something that you can do right now get the narcissist there is something that you can do even if it's just coming on YouTube and watching my videos watching me out here by the beach from the narcissist in my life and trust me this is the last thing the narcissist wants to see they don't want to see you live in your best life they don't want to see you being your best self everything they did was designed to bring you down it was bring out the worst in you you're stuck with a narcissist every day they're living your worst life but when you forget the narcissist that is when you finally get to live your best life that's what it's about there's no greater peace in my heart now when I come out here and I do this I just walk on the beach but I see when I go for a walk in the forest or by a lake there's nothing better than that for me all about big impressive stuff they have to be the best they have to have the best that's just how it is within but are they ever happy with it just fell down pump out videos every day they always got to have the and usually they're not using on their own you're having to do all the work and even when you do that they're never happy anyway in paths we don't have to do that we don't have to have the newest iPhone the most expensive car the biggest house to be happy me and you we don't need to do that as we get our happiness from within the best things in life are free just coming out here it's beautiful walk by the beach didn't cost me anything but I'm living my best life I'm living it I'm living proof and I want you to go out there and I want you to be living proof for other survivors go and make it look easy because it is it can be easy it's just a choice that you have to make every day you get a choice every day when you wake up in the morning you have a choice you can choose to be angry and upset about the narcissist and I understand I get it I know you've been through a lot but you do have a choice that day the choice to choose happiness peace love and joy you have that choice as well and remember you don't need anything to be happy our same past we can get our happiness from within narcissists can't do that that's why they're always so grandiose they're always trying to impress you they're always trying to make people envious and jealous of something because they can't get that happiness from within they get it from love bombing people from tearing people down that's how they get their happiness you know what happiness isn't real and that's why it fades away very quickly if you're watching this video right now it's because you want to know how to forget the narcissist and live your best life and I'm telling you right now it's a choice you may not be aware of it but I'm telling you that right now you are choosing that you are choosing to ruminate and to remember them and if you're not happy with that you can choose someone else that's all down to you and I can be on here and I can tell you that all day I can make these videos every day I can come on here every morning every night to remind you and you can watch the video when you wake up in the morning and you're having your breakfast or you can watch it when you're laying in bed at night when you're about to go to sleep it doesn't matter because what it all comes down to is the choice that you are making and that's why I really want to drive this home today is to tell you what choice are you gonna make today are you gonna choose to overthink and overanalyze and ruminate about the narcissist why are you gonna choose today to put a stop to it are you gonna choose peace love joy and happiness because I know given the choice that's what I want to choose just out here at the beach today this is my life and I'm living my best life and I hope that you will too I hope that message has helped you just out here at the beach and before now but it's not clean you need to take it to a car wash it is that simple that's what it comes down to it really is just a choice that we are making in our minds and every day you just got to ask yourself what choice am I gonna make today all of these things all of these things that people do anxiety depression it seems so complex but when you look at it when you strip everything back and really examine it people are making a choice they're making a choice to be depressed they're making a choice to be anxious and if you have been discarded by a narcissist or if you made the choice to leave you are making the choice to ruminate to think about them stop making that choice right now and make a different choice a choice to forget them and to live your best life as you can see I'm out here visiting mountains beaches do you think I've been thinking about any narcissist today when I'm out here living my best life you can't do both you can either let the narcissist dominate your thoughts or you can live your best life it's a choice that you must make I can remind you all the time but it all comes down to a choice that you must make get out there to the beach go to a different country there's nothing more healing and just being out in nature and seeing new things and realizing we live in a big world with almost 8 billion people life is too short to worry about one person and of all people a narcissist a narcissist who hurt you who abused you life is too sure for that and it really makes no sense to do that because in the grand scheme of things they're really not that important they're really not special there's so many things in this world almost 8 billion people and you're spending all of your time thinking about that one person probably isn't even thinking about you so this is my advice to you move on and forget the narcissist if something is no longer serving you forget it just make that choice today to live your best life is the choice that I make every day and that's why as you can see there's no narcissist holding me back there's no one stopping me from being happy from having a smile on my face and just live in my best life I do hope that this message has inspired you and motivated you to walk in my footsteps I really do hope that it has and I do have many other videos as well so check them out lots of other videos on this topic how to deal with the devaluation and the discard and also the Hoover as well because when the narcissist tries to come back you just need to remember that peace and happiness that you had before they came around again when you have a narcissist in your life it's very stressful you're always on edge but when they're out of there just remember that peace remember when you fall asleep at night it's so easy there's nothing you really have to worry about once they're gone and when you wake up in the morning there's no one there complaining telling you you're no good telling you this is wrong that is wrong there's no one there doing that there's no one bringing you down so when they try to come back in you remember that you remember all of the things they did to you all of the stress and pain do not remember the good times yeah I might have been good for the first two weeks but that was fake now you see who they really are and don't ever forget that forget the narcissist move on with your life live your best life and as you know if you need any support I'm always here for you I'm available for one-on-one coaching which you can book for my website it's not survivor that could be okay and today is the fourth anniversary for an arch survivor I've been putting these videos out there for four years and we now have about 145,000 subscribers and 37 million views so yeah we've come a long way I'm very grateful for all of you thank you for all of the support looking forward to another four years of spreading the awareness and putting this message out there and learning new things myself as well there's always more to learn thank you all for joining me on another one please give this video a thumbs up it helps YouTube algorithm and share your thoughts in the comment section I read your comments every day as always thank you for joining me and you all have a great day