 Hey, it's Brent Smith from Attract Hotter Women and for 21 Studios and in this upcoming video I'm going to teach you how to let women know you're the friend with benefits and how to have that relationship It's one of the greatest relationships ever to be able to have the casual no strings attached Relationship where all the expectations are managed and it's much easier to have one than you think so watch this upcoming video And I'll tell you how to do it Hey, it's Brent with another question from Facebook and this one's about how to have a friends with benefits relationship With a girl. Okay, so it actually says how to communicate How do you communicate subtly to a woman that you want to friends with benefits relationship? Okay? So the best way to do that subtly is to give off that vibe Right, that's one way right the best way to do that is the first start with that vibe Which that which comes from your story. So your story is that? I'm the guy who's the friends with benefits guy and all Attractive women are all women who are exactly my type are all women. I'm attracted to Right, they understand that they understand it. They get it They support it and they take action on it. So that's the very beginning of this you have to see yourself in the mirror as friends with benefit friends with benefits guy rather than relationship guy Pursuer guy right provider guy See yourself as that first. That's number one. Okay, and then number two Suddenly you could not make advances that your former pursuer self might make or that you see other Over-pursuing creepy guys make right so you're not going to move in real close to them and go so You're the most beautiful eyes I've ever seen right like that's the thing that you don't want to do So suddenly this all comes from your vibe And of course part of your vibe is telling yourself that you're care-free and you're out to help and give and inspire and so on And so that will help make you relaxed But now when I say relaxed it doesn't mean you can't have high energy like this like I'm speaking right now because I've talked Like this to people all the time and I still suddenly right like Convey to a woman that I'm not relationship guy like they can tell just the way I'm talking right now And I'm not even talking about Anything provocative or controversial or sexual or whatever. I'm just talking See it's sort of like you know my conversations are short I'm interested and I'm connected the person I'm talking to but then I'm like, okay cool Well listen, it was great talking to you and I'm gonna move on and then I move on right? Okay, that suddenly tells them hey man. This guy's not gonna chase me This guy's not like and I don't I feel this incredible vibe from him and I want more Right, that's what suddenly tells them that right and if you don't of course You don't make girlfriend jokes and you know say you'd make a great girlfriend and gee We should go out sometime right so so if you're if you're refraining from pursuing behavior Then that will definitely help so the vibe the man who has pursued behavior rather than the over-pursuer behavior so make sure you're doing your your checking yourself on all of that and And then don't take the bait don't agree. This is the last thing don't agree to things That pursuers would agree to Right if you are on the non pursuing path and the only thing that women do is come home with you or ask you over to their place Then you need to tell yourself that's your vibe and that's what always happens to you And then don't agree to a date don't agree to go to the movies don't agree to be her date to a wedding Right, don't do pursuing things. Okay, so listen, I think that will help you start. There's much more, but hopefully that helps for now All right, I'll talk to you later Hey, it's Brent Smith again for 21 studios I hope you enjoyed the video and if you'd like more on that topic or more on attracting hotter women into your life effortlessly and consistently Then you're gonna want to click the button below and get my new attract hotter women program lots of bonuses in there I've been teaching guys just like you for years How to attract hotter women into your life every single day high quality women and have it be the easiest thing you've ever done I've also spent years and years in the trenches on my own experimenting with everything you can think of and now I'm laying it all out for you. So click the button below and get the program and I'll see you later