 This is Will Spencer from the Renaissance of Men here in Orlando, Florida with a 21 summit 2021. This is a panel on women and femininity related to the 22 conference, 22 convention going on just next door. I'm here with Socrates, Alexander Cortez, Pastor Michael Foster and President Anthony Dream Johnson, and all of us spoke at the 22 convention. And so let's just go down the line and I'd like each man to say like sort of the topics that you spoke about and how you see it related to femininity today. So let's start with you Socrates. I actually spoke about a universal subject of civil resistance and in particular the value that women innately have in the act of civil resistance that because of their gender specific elements of a socialization, the empathy, their network and alliance-building capabilities, they're uniquely positioned to contribute highly to a non-violent campaign and that's particularly important when we look at the success ratios associated with campaigns. It's a typically if you have three point or I'm sorry, yeah three point five percent of a population typically you're successful in overturning a government and if we're looking to institute cultural change we need higher populations and women can absolutely not only provide that population number but actually add significantly to the value of a campaign to achieve those goals and that's uniquely kind of specifically towards women and I hope that they are hearing that message and when I talk about typically in dating relationships where men and women are compatible and complementary, this is completely true in civil resistance campaigns. And just to make sure you said three to five percent, was that the number? Three to five percent to overturn a government. I have to believe that it's actually less to change a culture so and what's important there is that when you look at normal non-violent campaigns, most of them are populated by one point six of the percentage of the population. So you're already halfway there if you just have a non-violent campaign and I think that's going to be enough to actually change society and culture. So the the premise is is that I think we're already there. We just haven't coalesced. Let's go through each man's speech and then we'll kick some ideas around so Ajak you want to go next? Yeah, my speech was generalistic and sort of this advice giving for young women. I mean if I was to take like a broader meta perspective it's been very interesting to see the past, probably the past five years, whereas the man's spear obviously content was geared towards men and there's this constant theme of men growing up with single moms, men without fathers, not having a father figure, but the same thing has happened to women. You know men are not the only ones that don't have dads and what I've seen online now the past few years it's been really uplifting and it's a positive element is that you have this sort of general awakening of women realizing that you know what? We've been given very bad advice by society and by our mothers just by this sort of cultural narrative that you know caters to this you know global homo kind of story of career work, you're gonna pay taxes if you can basically contribute to this you know capitalist system we live in like that's how you're a good person Yeah, you put off motherhood. You are the most important thing in the universe Having you know children and when that happens it happens way later Relationships or something that you take seriously in your 30s not your 20s And you have a lot of these young women today realizing like we've really been lied to Because either I've seen relatives do that do that version of life hence it hasn't turned out well Or I've done that version of life and it's made me really unhappy and I'm not fulfilled Yeah, and why were we taught these things? You know like why is this the social order and so they're looking for their own answers They're trying to find people trying to find women They did you know give a different account, you know different advice and most of what they're finding right now is actually men And it's been really interesting where they have all these women on the periphery of like the male spear Or they're not really coming for the male advice to learn about men specifically They're coming because you guys actually give very good paternal advice like you your paternal figure and your instruction is way Better anything I'm gonna find you know on the on the journal and turn general web, and they're really listening. They're very receptive And that's just been really cool Like I've been surprised at the segment of my audience which it's probably about 80% men but that 20% of the rest It's women and it's a lot of young women and if I'm being honest They're kind of like looking for a dad big brother is they just don't have it in their life Yeah, it's really made me take a step back and reconsider, you know like how I present You know I present who I'm talking to or yeah, we can talk all day about how bad is for men It's probably arguably worse for women Because women are also discouraged from listening to man the first place Yeah, like it's a normal thing for man to listen to a man women are actively told basically don't take men seriously At all about anything unless they already agree with everything you think and feel and say So they put themselves into this very icely position where they don't know how to take advice even when they need it And they don't know how to ask questions, but they're unhappy something's wrong. What do I do? Mm-hmm and the feminist ideology really praise on women almost most of all, right? Yes, I do a feminism like Go on that for a long time, but it's evolved into like this late-stage companion to like global homo capitalism Like it doesn't it doesn't know that's all this it doesn't know it is because it doesn't it's not empowering There's nothing empowering about it Yeah, like if you look at actual statistics like let's be objective and use numbers like more women aren't college Yes, more women are doing the workforce the men. Yes, you know met more women are getting degrees Yes, women are outperforming men in K through 12. Yes, the entire system is oriented towards women like you like you won Like you got everything you wanted. Yeah, so at this point. It's now like what is it? It's complaints of you I don't know. Yeah, it's complaining about the Patriarchy playing about it's complain about the heterosexual male patriarchy. Well, I'm uncomfortable or you know what in this particular industry There's not enough women here. We need more parody here like you you're already making more money Like you already have all the economic advantages. So now you're looking for grievances. Well AJ AJ It's become about man man-spreading man-splitting like a little it's gonna come about bullshit. It's about bullshit Now we're gonna complain about your body language. We're gonna complain about tone Yeah, we're gonna complain about the male gaze. We're gonna complain that will be being heterosexual like that That's uncomfortable. Why is James Bond a man? Like that's now they have to make James Bond a woman like this is crazy. Yeah, that was personally fucking heartbreaking Well, I mean you saw Daniel Craig's whole thing with like I go to gay clubs because you know I'm you heard her toxic masculinity. Do you see that at those headlines? I did. Yeah I mean, I'll defend him a little bit They'll say this I because I know guys that grew up in the UK and like, you know Britain and They have a really heavy drinking culture sure fighting is actually a very very very common thing like they're super degenerate that way So I'm like I was like it's I have friends that are British Irish and like, you know Like I kind of understand what he's saying because that's that's like the thing that you do here is young guy You go out you get really drunk you vomit you fight in the street and it's just like that's that's what's expected. So Yeah, fair enough. Yeah Well, what did you talk about 22? I I've read a lot of books in the men's space. I talked about King warrior magician lover and in fire in the dark the sky father the Lord of the earth and the striker and protect provide preside from Ryan Mickler and Let's see. What else did I get into? rugged refined and rakish by Tanner Guzzi and then Allison Armstrong's stages of a man's life, which are page night Prince King and elder and I looked at all those different archetypes and I said, what do these all say about men? They're all heroic archetypes that live within men. They live within all men And this is not something that needs to be that needs to be taught to men It's something that's innate to us but for some reason it's not coming out in men these days and I put the Question to women. What if there was something some language of heroes? Which is from Allison Armstrong that you could learn to bring out the best in men And so I asked would you be willing to learn this language and the women of the audience said yes And I said there's one catch you have to take a vow and this is from Allison Armstrong's book the Queen's Code the vow is I Will never castrate. I will give up the right to castrate men forever The point being if a woman wants to bring out the best of any man in her life shifts she has to actively and forever give up the right to shame him or she will never see the best in him and Then she has to make that commitment and that's a very very tough thing for women to give up because as I talked about in my 21 talk shame is the power that women have over men And it's a very very difficult thing for many women to give up and we've seen it spread all throughout society right now It's in the media. It's in our language toxic masculinity is a shaming term. It's everywhere It's the water that we're swimming in and so that that power is wielded primarily by women And so I put it to the women. Are you willing to give this up? It seemed to me that many of the women were and which was very positive to see But there's a lot more to that so I asked that question I put it to women What if you have some responsibility for bringing out the best in men and are you able to get what you want from life out of men at the point of a knife and I think that the message landed at least I hope it did so that's what I talked about Cool It was I heard it went over pretty smooth man. It was smooth operator at 22 Well, yeah, yeah, I had to you know I in my 21 talk, you know I knew that I could be a bit more strident a bit more outspoken with the men But as I was getting ready for that talk I realized that taking a really like strident tone doesn't quite hit the same for women because women do feel threatened You know by men who speak in anger even if it's righteous anger and that's natural because women have this instinctive Fear of men's power naturally because men are quite powerful. It's just part of our genetic lineage So it's like well What if I dial it back and speak a little softly and that the words and the concepts speak for themselves? And I think that I think that did and I think they did so I was happy to discover that technique. I guess you might say What this linebacker talk about? Yeah I Wanted to give women some hope. I think as I look at our culture our society That's what I want to give men to is hope. I Have slowly realized how how blessed I am. I married my high school sweetheart. I married her. She was the version We're still married. We've had a lot of kids and we're happy and the reality is that most people Don't get that today. They have sexual past. They made mistakes. They've been divorced things have happened and sometimes in this space It's It's like you've you've missed the boat. You wore out, you know, you're not you don't have any more value You can't ever put your life back together and if that's true We're kind of screwed right because it's a whole it's a whole generation that this has happened to and So as I want I want to encourage women as much as I encourage men I said this I don't know if this is true. Let's catch you though It'll tweet but I said that I said that men are more hated than women But women are more lied to the men and I don't know if it's totally true But feminism is an attack on femininity right and they're trying to teach women to hate themselves as well And they've bought into it us. We us men are fighting it That's why they're turning up the heat on things like toxic masculinity. So you're not natural But so what I I kind of got on the the Twitter spear, you know I'm people starting to notice me when I had a tweet about single mothers And I tell men to be very careful about dating single mothers. I caution them And then he asked why she was single mother. Is it because her husband died? Is it because she made some poor decisions? Or what was he a creep was he weirdo or was she a prostitute was she a whoreish, right? And she a bad person And so I said that and I guess the right people retweeted it. This is USA today Daily wire got Ali Beth Stucky thought I was a terrible person, you know So it it took off and I got this email like a week or two ago They helped me figure out what to talk about it's way to from a woman that Apologize for hating me. It's this long email like I hate you pastor of foster And she had been married to a man who was who's nuts and not well and abusive in a lot of different ways And she eventually fled the relationship the man killed himself because he he wasn't of sound mind and And she becomes a Christian. It's like 2019 and then sees my my tweet and she said it felt like I Was scaring all the good men away from her and then she finally finds a guy that likes her that invests in her and She she gets nervous because she knows she's a liability to him and she starts to caution him more or less And she realizes I'm right Right. She even knows that she's a problem, right? But they but they get they get married and they're happy and they're rebuilding their ability in their life and the the metaphor I think of often is Those shows where you reclaim wood or metal, right? It's something rubble that broke down and you can make something beautiful from it If we can't work with the people we have right now How would we do because it's it's almost an entire generation. I mean Millennials on on whole are so jacked up They you know, you hear the boomers make fun of them and gen X this have kind of checked out But they're so they've had so much so many lies whether it's student loans or whatever Thrown at them that we have to be able to work with people that are not coming from ideal situations So I wanted to encourage the women to rebuild from the rub. I gave them two areas to work on And they're both related to volume one was attire So you think of modesty as a sound, right? So music sounds good at a certain levels that a turn down too much Then you can't hear if it's turned up too much and it hurts your ears, right? So modesty is the same thing a woman shouldn't be ashamed of her feminine beauty. She should she should embrace it She should be ashamed or her hips or lips, right her breasts on that stuff But she shouldn't also just let everything hang out, right? That will attract the wrong type of man It will not it will not attract a quality man. Absolutely, right and yeah, do they he'll say that's danger right there It's just like blue hair says that's danger And none of that and then to encourage them that it's you see this in irritating trad Twitter, right? I tried con Twitter makes you want to die It's like Pictures of some perfect woman and some perfect guy like in the Swiss Alps and this cute little baby This is all I want. That's what most people want. Okay, cuz it's a dream But you see women they grow their hair out and they put their dress on and they start, you know Throwing these memes out or whatever But their attitude is still really a feminist attitude. They're a loud woman, okay? And then they think by putting it on so then guys resent them and say really deep down You're still the Horace woman you were right and and in a lot of cases even if they're not sleeping around They do have that attitude So I wanted to tell them like I kind of rather you have short hair and wear jeans and have a beautiful feminine deference Then the other way around we have to choose So I just wanted to encourage them not to be Mrs. Wrong, right? If we're gonna rebuild we have to encourage women we have to we have to lay a path forward with where we're at So that was what I focused on. I love that Prez yeah, that was extremely well spoken. It's me tough to follow up about recapping his entire speech I did get to see some of it, too I did actually so my speech was a sequel to my keynote last year at the first 22 convention So my speech of the first one my keynote last year was called motherhood first hashtag motherhood first And that was about encouraging young woman to put motherhood first rather than put motherhood last Which is what feminism tells them to do through covert these manipulation and means They lie to them they kind of hide information all this BS Woman to young woman today basically make very uninformed decisions about building a family relationships all this stuff They put college first career first advanced schooling first and if the motherhood lasts to the point They freeze their eggs try to unfreeze them it fails very often and they're crying Drinking cheap wine eating cat food petting cats. They have their they have There's a meme where she's eating the cat food. She's like so delirious She's like drinking like the box wine that shitty dollar store wine Yeah, then the cat see you and you die But this is a real thing women today are really taught to put it They'll know the feminists will never admit this But if you actually give an honest look at what they teach young woman through different social means music movies TV entertainment school Propaganda whatever motherhoods last right career first school first motherhood last will never put in those terms That's what they teach them now my speech this year was a follow-up to that as a direct sequel And it was called make women virgins again As nothing to do with being a born-again virgin. It's just not like related to the talk. That's a whole separate issue I mentioned it a little bit, but it's not part of what it is It's about revaluing virginity in America in the West for women specifically without even mentioning men And I went into this this point in particular because I've worn this hat for a few months And I love this hat. It's my favorite new hat this year Make one regret again is always gonna be true to my heart the closest to my heart But make women virgins again enrages people to a degree. I have never seen even really it is amazing They love it or they hate it is it is it's not just enraging. That's not fair. It's super polarizing Some people love it young guys in their 20s when I'm out of bars of this hat They fucking love it they come up to me high-five in me taking selfies of me and boomers as well boomers as well I love it older women older men want to go to these political conferences They think it's hysterical and in their day. It was a lot more normal. So it's it's interesting Anyway, my talk was about you know without even mentioning virginity for men I was like this is not even a thing right let the Christian men take care of it. We'll talk about it later That's fine and tackle later. I'm talking about female virginity in America So at revaluing that because I think that's integral to how feminism has warped and changed American culture and particularly American women Millennial and zoomer chicks give a fuck less about it. Pardon my French. They don't care even a lot of the Christian girls They could care less. I have buddies in Orlando a Christian They go to these these redneck bars in me sometimes like cowboys and stuff the same Christian girls on Saturday night getting getting shit-faced Making out with guys banging them. They go to church Sunday morning, right? They don't care at all the loss of virginity at 14 15 16 years old. It means nothing to them All right, I think this is biologically unsound and it's dangerous for women I think femininity needs to be preserved and the foundation of that is virginity and chastity and young women today don't care a lot Especially if they're secular they could care less it's if you it's virginity to them and retaining it Beyond beyond the age of 18 is like alien to them. You might also be speaking Chinese So this speech was designed to push back against that from a secular perspective not a religious one Like I'm not these most of these guys are Christian. I'm not I'm an atheist objectivist This is about common sense femininity American femininity for women and revaluing something that they've completely lost to the point Like Michael is saying that these generations are millennials and zoomers a lot of the stuff is as alien to them They have no they've been lied to they received compound lies their mothers were lied to and their mothers then Either fed them those lies indirectly or directly or whatever the mechanisms wherever it went So this is like the first time I think has been pushed back Against from a secular position and I mean it, you know, I want to live I like living a free country I want to continue living a free country if women want to act like skanks and throw this shit out the window So be it but stop punting those things thought those responsibilities Offloading them they're welfare mechanisms and all these things and I think it's self-destructive woman acting like skanks It's bad and it's much better to preserve your family your virginity and your femininity if you can And but it like Michael said to like I talked about his speech from last year actually in my speech And he basically said that you know, it's going to take decades to reverse and fix the damage feminism has done It won't be done overnight no matter how viral the video goes and how much impact we have No matter how many people I enrage in the media and stuff with little bears and pigs and hats and stuff Like real change on a macro level and a micro level on a cultural level on a personal level real change takes a real time Like not just months or even years but decades generations even And that's why he's saying I think it's what he's saying Michael is saying is important Is that you have to learn we have to learn how to deal with broken people And at least if young girls see this my speech about making women virgins again Because you know some youtuber like Curtis Connor or the media is you know mad about it Who cares at least they're exposed to the information at least they can make maybe make a better decision 2 percent 5 percent 10 percent of them right the rest of them probably won't they're going to ignore it They're going to scream at it down vote get mad at me Who cares is some of them will listen now and that's at least that first step to moving things in the right direction To living a better life and making better choices for yourself as a female as a birthing person You know I want to put a question um out to the panel and uh You know michael you kind of touched on it sort of what is the path back What is the path back for women who have let's say fallen because a lot of women of these three successive generations possibly for now Have absorbed and been born into feminist ideology and they're discovering You know alexander as you said that they're not happy and they're looking for a way forward And so they find they find the man a sphere they find 22 convention 21 convention all the men in this space And they say that Sounds like a path that I want to walk to find a let's say a high value man Or maybe they listen to kevin samuels or something like that and this is a path towards a life that I want to lead You know uh be a mother Be a homemaker, you know be be someone passing on values for the next generation, but I have this past And I don't know what like this is the woman's perspective. I don't know what to do about it Maybe a high-notch count or maybe tattoos or maybe a child or something like that something that can't be undone And so I think a lot about this question like well if a woman finds herself in that position with something that can't be undone But wants to move in this direction and find a man from this community who wants to build a life with her What's the path back for her is there one? Can we can we come up with one spontaneously here? Or have you guys thought about this because that door needs to be open because I feel like sometimes Things can get a little I don't know. I'll call it autistic in the men's space Where it's like you have to have the trad virgin born into the high values family and it's like, okay Yeah, so there's like a dozen of those, you know Like so what about the what about the rest of us? You know what I mean? I think he's got a bunch of his church man. He's collecting What church where's your church again? We'll take it. I have some ideas on this. Yeah, please I'm very curious because I think it's the sort of thing that women who want to move in this direction Would potentially need to hear so they feel that there's an open door to come and participate And just I just want to say one thing I think there's going to be a need for discussion for forgiveness from men around it as well Which I'd like to touch on at some point like men men from offering forgiveness to women and understanding So my first thought is number one don't lie And you know women's basically men tend to pump their numbers up You know if they have a notch count they try to brag to each other they pump them up Even in movies in the 90s like american pie, right guys would triple it girls would basically divide it by three, right? So if she had said sex at 24 guys it becomes eight nine becomes three things like this Don't lie. Don't live a don't live life of a fake reality. It is what it is You're never going to undo it history is history. You can't change it If you try to warp it you're just going to warp your own life and screw it up and screw someone else up And abuse them don't lie lying is abuse especially in a relationship Number two have realistic expectations. This is one of the main Cultural things that has happened to women. I think directly from feminism. They have completely unrealistic expectations Particularly through online dating apps, but even in person They're just they're basically delusional like feminism has made women are super entitled and they have they've massively overvalued themselves in the sexual marketplace Socrates, I think in particular could speak to this as a Red-hole book on the sexual marketplace. I mean literally it's on the sale on that side 20 20 bucks go by now Um, yeah, they need to have really realistic expectations. They don't in other countries. They do like the woman, you know John Anthony a pickup artist speaker was talking about women in places like poland Eastern Europe basically women there are way in way better shape physically and psychologically They expect men to act like men. They don't yell at them about toxic masculinity. They're very courteous They're very respectful. I spent a month there in 2019 for 21 convention And uh, they're their expectations more realistic and they're from a better physical and psychological position They're not they haven't been warped by feminism. They hate communism in poland for example They hate it and they see a connection most of them to feminism and communism So they don't have it these uh unrealistic expectations and women in america do And this is what you see things on instagram and social media and all this stuff I don't need no man and all this kind of crap rails and there's really obnoxious garbage Hey, anthony. You asked me to keep things moving around the panel and to cut men off I needed to know just because you asked me to so I mean since you since you mentioned socrates Like I want to send it back over to socrates and and say what your thoughts on this are like a path back Or whatever you want to say because I think it ties into your themes as well Yeah, I think you have to start with where you're at You know, you you you can want to be somewhere else, but you have to start wherever you're at and You know, I my first talk at the 22 con was literally That the the dose determines the poison You know that that how much of feminism are you and taking in jesse? And it's you know, you can it's a poison that doesn't kill immediately You know, it's a poison that actually has some benefit initially But you know taken in consumption It's terribly toxic and fatal, you know, and so in many ways I've been thinking I've been asked to kind of write an article about some of this and I was kind of going over My head last night and thinking that in many ways feminism is very much the fast food of ideologies It's cheap. It's fast and it's nourishing when you have need And and and quite honestly, it's it's something you can enjoy And it's it's a franchise that you can own immediately any woman can choose to identify with it right now And as a franchise it comes with a massive brand I think these are all compelling reasons to kind of be you know, be allured towards feminism and not only that it comes with A sisterhood with it, you know, it comes with The value of un-earned virtues of being a victim So you have all that But ultimately I think it's very unhealthy and unfulfilling It's detrimental over time And so how do you tell somebody who's been living on fast food culture of feminism? How do you get off of that? And and it may be all at once it may be parts and pieces You know and and i'm not saying you can't go back and have fast food, you know, um, you know Enjoy it from once a while, but understand that You know what you consume you'll end up becoming And I would start with where you're at and take an honest look are Are your results getting you where you want to go? You know, what type of person have you become? I in my talk last year I You know looked and I know Arthur did the same thing. I was amazed that he had some of the same images as well Is this let's let's measure feminism, you know to sit down and say is it truly improving women's lives? Has it been good for women? And really measure it and particularly when you can look at the the the real toxic range of what's taken place It could be very very debilitating. So, you know, I would start with you know, what are your consumption patterns? Be honest about it and sit down and say very much like nutrition. Maybe you need to make some dietary ideological changes Alexander This question of redemption comes up a lot since like that is what the question is like, you know, I've been I've been a bad girl I can't be redeemed I you know this has a certain parallel It's like the men that are weak like I've been I've been a beta bitch soy boy like can I become a real man? it's like Yeah, like are you are you willing to do the work? Like are you willing to do the work, you know the the problem for law women, you know, but taking out the Ism's standpoint is that why I see a lot with law women. You're not lovable There's nothing about you that's worth loving You're narcissistic. You're hyper narcissistic. You're entitled You operate under a paradigm in which you cannot be judged or shamed for literally anything you do Everyone has to agree with you the man has to agree with you But then you have all these expectations of wanting to be loved still women live to be loved They want to be loved, but there's nothing about you that's lovable So you need to take a very hard and probably painful look at your life And consider what are my values? Where are my choices? Where are my beliefs and what action needs to change? I had a woman that contacted me recently Where she was very upfront about like her past life. She's had a lot of sexual partners. She was a careerist She has you know, she has tattoos. She's always things, you know, I told her like tattoos I don't overestimate tattoos tattoos. You can get tattoos or whatever piercings. I don't care Yeah, well, you're realizing those that you have devalued yourself. You've traded your bias an object You've made poor choices of relationships. It's left you feeling empty. Like you've actually recognized all this Okay, like do you think you can change? And do you believe that if you do that that a man, you know, will find you worth loving I would never tell anyone like you're not going to be ever worth loving ever you're useless But you might have a lot of work to get there You know, men have past as well. We're not we're not all perfect beings. I'm not god I'm not here to tell you that you're a whore and you are barred from heaven. How do you know how dear you're going straight to hell That's not what we're here for Yeah, but I will tell you that yeah, you you fucked up a lot Then now you're gonna have to be objective You know and reconsider how you lived your life and you know what maybe maybe my values are bullshit Yeah, maybe my mom was kind of a bitch Yeah, maybe how I've treated men and treated myself is You know the wrong way of living You know like but you have to be objective Yeah, this is the problem with a lot of women have is they're very passive in this process This is kind of like the like the joke about the triad con it's like oh, okay Like so if I just put on like a long dress and post some picture about baking bread like now I'll get a good guy. I'm like you're still that you're still the same bitch. You're just in a dress You have changed Send tweet So yeah, that's my question women when they contact me like okay, like I'm glad you're reaching out like are you gonna do the work? Yes, or no. Yeah, that's on you Mike sure We we have a we don't understand marriage until you understand marriage Is marriage about fulfillment is about self-fulfillment if marriage is about self-fulfillment your marriage is going to fail bottom line Marriage has to have a tell us that has to have a purpose that has to go and work towards something It's got it can't if it's inward it's going to fail it's going to collapse in on itself And it's got to have a purpose This is the teaching of Christianity But the ancients knew this right that a household was to raise up a legacy raise up children and to build something and men and women stuck together when a woman was so You ladies are going to lose your beauty Right men you're going to you're going to lose your strength It's going to happen But when you invest your beauty and strengthen each other early on or as early as you can It's replaced with strength of character beauty of character eventually A problem I have with the manuscripts. You're all going to die. You're all going to die, right? We're all going to die. We have what our views on these things are so short And and they're so small so we're going to have to get the bigger questions eventually But first change the way we look at marriage Having the purpose my marriage. I'm building a household For my grandkids and my great-grandkids. I'm invested my wife's invested means bigger than both of us xenophone He wrote in his book on household orders very famous ancient book and xenophone And it says without my wife would die and everyone swooned But he meant it without my wife. I died. I I'm a really bad mother Not good at being a mother and them sucks at being a dad Right, we need each other my kids need mothers and fathers And so part of the problem if you're looking for a man to complete you right a man can't redeem you Just like a woman like as in a husband there is a man that can redeem you But as in a husband he can't and a woman just like the men think the women Um are going to validate their manhood Right women think if they get a man that's going to validate their womanhood But you have to start to understand that what god gave you a feminine nature. It's good To anthony's two points is basically responsibility and reality. I take responsibility for what he did In redemption. That's a big part. I sinned what I did was wrong. I confess it. I admit it I own up to it. I deserve what comes my way So women definitely have to do that and I don't you can be so happy It's like when I talk to the migtel guys, you know, I'm like you could be happy I know you don't think you can be but I've seen 40 somethings get married and be happy Right and have a wonderful time and do you do have to change your expectations to to not just fit your reality But the reality it's not like hey, you had your chance to get a top notch guy, but you screwed around your youth Right, we all get old Right, we all wear down and I'm I'm gonna die Next to my wife, right? Hopefully not in a car because socks every once a while You need to flirt with feminism and we went on a trip last year and I let her drive for a little bit so Little drunk food Well, okay, I'll I'll take that from there Sure, I'll just take on that one. No, I mean, you know what I'm gonna say probably isn't gonna be popular And and I don't I don't expect it to be and it's a very unpopular word and and the word is accountability And you know feminism said for a very long time that women wanted to be equal to men It's like, okay The way that men determine determine equality with each other is through accountability If a man will not be accountable He will not stand shoulder to shoulder with other men That you're the price of your man card is accountability. That's just a known thing a man who is not accountable It's not get to be part of the circle So if women want to be equal to men they have to take on the burden of men Which is accountability if you want to truly be equal women do not like accountability And in my observation they do almost anything they can to avoid accountability You know, uh, if if you listen to kevin samuels, he talks about sign language shame insults guilt and the need to be right As he tries to make it clear to them that you know The life choices the women that have that calling them the ones that they've made are not serving them They're not getting the men their life that they want and so when he tries to explain to them This is as a result of your choices They resort to shame insults guilt and the need to be right all in the process of avoiding accountability And so if women want to come into True equality with men not political equality not economic equality But true shoulder to shoulder divine equality with men there will be a process of accountability And many of the men in here know that I speak about the great reconciliation And I think sometimes I may do myself a disservice and talking about it in that I can almost accidentally Though not intentionally accidentally frame it as this magical coming together process And I don't believe that I don't believe it'll be magical at all one happy day Where we all wake up and everything's happy and fine. No, there's going to be a process of accountability And the problem is that accountability burns accountability is pain No one wants to experience accountability And the real challenging thing will be women will have to go through a process of accountability Individual women and I think women collectively for the things that they have done and the choices that they have made Whether they did it under deception or not And the real challenge for us as men will be holding women as they go through that process We will have to be stronger to support women as they go through the process of accountability and feel The consequences of their choices and that's going to be absolutely brutal But it's going to be absolutely wonderful and beautiful by the end because it will bring men and women closer together So in the hope that taking the long view we never have to make this mistake again This generational error we've made for the past 60 years that maybe this is the lesson that humanity needs to learn that Some things can't be undone And so that's my hope for the long term that as we mutually go through this process of accountability Supporting each other in that that humanity can learn lessons that it needs to learn So that's my response to this Thank you guys. Um, well, so I we have just uh, we do have just a few minutes left And uh, so I just if anyone wants to jump in sort of popcorn style If do you have any advice to women that are listening right now? or uh, potentially also Men with girlfriends who or wives that they want to try and explain some of these concepts to how to begin reaching across We know what we might say the aisle And inviting more women into this process Anyone who wants to jump in I got a quick thing. Actually, it's not from me. It's from jennifer moleski speaker Spoke with 22 convention. I had to rearrange the schedule a little bit that was on me and she had to then leave an airplane That's why she's not here right now. She was otherwise going to be on this panel She actually wanted me to tell you guys on her behalf that feminism is stupid and don't trust the government I promise there. I'll do that. So I got to do that That's all from jennifer, okay, I guess um Social media is very dangerous for women in a way. It's like pornography How is especially emasculating for men? um Social media inflates a woman's self estimation Also her expectations. It's I would say limit. I do tell guys check out Check out their social media their instagram. Yeah, especially you find the burner account that their parents don't know about You know, um And it's see what they're posting. I would say it's not good. It's not good at all Uh women want to compete with each other naturally. You see this even the church with homeschool moms, right? They're competing through their kids, but instagram. There's that's one thing that I would say back off on that That's a good step right there And uh, even if it's the trad account stuff, it's just I mean, I hate the word larping, but my goodness What else is it? There's a lot of that. That's that's one practical step. Cool Alexander, um, I For the young woman to contact me. I have a fairly objective criteria. It's not dissimilar to what I give young men But you have to set some standards for yourself Is if you hold yourself to standards, you know by default, you know the level of your life the vibration of your life will rise You know the thing I often suggest obviously is like your physical health your personal health. You take care of that The people that you have relationships with are those ascendant or descending relationships. Is it making you better or worse? The way you treat people one of the things that a lot of young women are just women in general acting today is that they're not nurturing They don't know how to be graceful They've adopted this sort of which is essentially like a shitty male version of dealing with people where it's very brassy. It's very ballsy It's very abrasive Um, and there might be certain environments that that works in but overall you're just an unpleasant unpleasant woman That nobody likes you. Nobody wants to be around you. You're relying upon you know title and authority to You know to course people So have standards for how you treat people like actually practice being kind like develop that quality in yourself Uh Yeah, and then you know beyond that like in regards to like relationships with men Try to actually apply some logic to it Like yeah, this is one that this is like the maturation process of like feminine wisdom If you actually are going to be a woman and be wise you need to learn how to balance intuition and feeling with logic and reason Like it actually has to happen Like that not everything you feel is valid and then every emotion needs to be satisfied You know that when you look at someone or you're looking at a man like okay Let me let me check my expectations a little bit about how this is going to proceed Yeah, I mean this all comes to time. This is obviously experiential. This isn't You know like as we've been saying it's not done in a day, but this actually this makes you more mature Yeah, if you are looking at your future and your young lady, it's like, okay Like you're you're saying yourself up on the right path on the right hand path If you want to give into hedonism and listen to your stupid shitty friends and disregard your personal health and make decisions They're disrespectful to you. You're gonna get what you're gonna get Yeah, and then you're gonna be that girl that's really upset when she feels like she's being shamed and beat on But you know what you probably earned it Sock you got about 90 seconds 90 seconds I think women need to clean their own house first and not focus them on the patriarchy I think that in many cases feminism is nothing more than a form of gender bigotry And that when you partake in it, you're a bigot When you enable bigotry, you are enabling bigotry And we need to view it as such and ladies You need to clean house and speak up when you see it You need to silence that you need to call attention to it and shine a light on it Men are watching Brilliant and to that I would just add courage It's okay to be wrong It has never been more okay to be wrong So I want to thank you guys for sitting on this panel Socrates Alexander Michael Mr. President sir Will Spencer if anyone has got about 50 seconds left if anyone got something burning they want to say Yeah, I had a little something unless you want to go Michael Yeah, so when I set a tweet when the New York Post was fighting with us in 2020 about make women great again launching it And I was kind of messing around but I realized later that was merit to it And I said in a tweet all caps is kind of yelling late at night right on twitter You know reclaim your stolen femininity become great again And they quoted that like on the website they actually like embedded it I was like that's interesting on it So I kind of made me think more about it and so one of the what we're talking about feminism lie to women These are lies blue pill lies whatever you should also think about it that it's they robbed you They stole your femininity from me, especially for young women It wasn't just that you got lied and you accepted the lie and you're responsible for that part and they're responsible for lying to you That's like abusive and stupid, but they also robbed you they stole from you really like they stole from you psychologically and culturally and spiritually I would say And that's messed up and that's just another way to look at it that I think is useful beyond just you were lied to They robbed you straight up Thanks gentlemen The still on this is will spencer from the renaissance of men live in orlando florida with the 21 summit 2021 With socrates alexander cortez pastor michael foster and president anthony dream johnson the state women in femininity. Thanks so much for watching Welcome back to the 21 convention second patriarch edition live in orlando florida welcome to the 22 convention Welcome back to the 21 convention 2020 of orlando florida Being held for the first time ever at our very first and inaugural 21 summit events 21 summit in orlando florida Well, here we go. We risked again with the 22 convention the patriarch in 21 convention all three stages together in one event Not only did we sit down and say we're going to come together in meet in mass But we're going to take it a step further. We are going to dare have a conversation about the sexes Openly honestly and engage the woman that event like I am amazed that I'll well this one We did a brand new event. We did the second patriarch and we did the main event for the 19th time It's so much more than sitting in an audience Watching a man on a stage The conversations and the hallways The connections that people make The challenging the collaborations And that's what we needed all starts with men and it's not just men. That's what I like about this You know, we don't want to like overreact It's a feminism and then and then hate women. That's not it. This is about men Getting their act together doing what they're made to do you had meals You had to run security. You had to run travel plans You had to ensure people were where they needed to be three stages cameras everywhere And it was pulled off with the flawless execution. It's evolved so much I really appreciate how anthony has allowed you speakers To evolve and to grow and to share that and to encourage that with all the other men here To hear so much talk on family and fatherhood. There's more depth. There's more room for who they could be Is the word patriarchy or patriarch offensive to you in any way? Not to me personally Okay, not at all. It's something that I I cherish it. I love it. I grew up You cherish the patriarch I do In mansplaining news a three-day conference for women led by men hopes to make women great again But women need to be told how to be great again Like how to land a husband How to lose weight how to pop out a bunch of kids Why don't men think they need to fix the problems of women? Well, it says the world's ultimate event for women You know Orlando, florida, that's going to be the scene of the crime. It's mansplaining palooza You say no to the toxic bullying feminist dogma. Hey shiaki is the future It's good to see it in person. I'm just Until I got here and saw it and you can see the people in the audience You see the men that are here committed to listening I mean, it's just changed my idea of what the conference is the professionalism the staff the way everything is organized It's giving me a different perspective about this particular idea and I'm ready to put some more fire into it Welcome to dream world ladies and gentlemen