 Welcome back, you are watching Unfinished. Now, question three, we want to know from you guys, do you agree that there should be a balance when it comes to using contraceptives that is both male and female? I think the contraceptives that have proven to be beneficial for the society and well-being but to Kenya there are things like P2. We have found that people who have used them excessively with the intention of maybe avoiding to be pregnant when up until later maybe in their 30s or early 40s when they attempt to, when they really want now to have the babies, they cannot. So, I think we should invest more in educating the consequences of engaging yourself in a lot of sexual behavior because when up until later contraceptives it's a little of a physical effect. Humans have that tendency to abuse. People will abuse it and then you're left to suffer the consequences of using it. I don't think there should be a balance. It's either we do away with them or we introduce them now to me. I think this is entirely by choice. It's just an independent choice you make. But I think in as much as the drug will be here with us I tend to believe men will definitely run away from it maybe because they're not so sure whether they should be using it they're not so sure of the outcome but I still think Ikuiti still matters a lot. Let it be a fair odd thing. You know the male contraceptive ones are the best because kutokawa test, see they say that the wali test narrates those things and it came out to be 99% effective. Kuliko the female ones. So, meneza se ma, the male contraceptives neza kwa better. Kuliko zamadim since they are more effective. I think it should be a balance. A 50-50 use. Maybe they use, they try if it works then I'll opt to use it the next time I use whatever we are supposed to be using. We do 50-50. This is a matter of agreement. Like you see now relationship of family because I believe this is more for family planning not maybe from my understanding not something to you see maybe they are men and women are just using maybe to over weekend or you see to avoid pregnancies but you see now with increment that's with my partner and maybe the person within marriage maybe I don't want that children that time then I will go for the same. It's all about if my partner or if my wife or my spouse is willing to take the woman if they are willing to take then there is no problem but in case then we have to balance in between of course having us agreed on that specific matter. Most of the men kumainjona meaning kurigami, kurigama meaning suena na ifa iko balanced kumadim je. Kama boy neza kwa itimike kidogo to suiva sana. kwa je saa abod iki tu nangihawiki na kontrol nangihawiki tu kontrol atwa even na pata atwa kama boy na fatu kumadim. You know these things you have to agree with your man you sit down even about having kids you have to agree siki tu tu om yon na jamulia niki chia wa atwa wei. Balansi penipo pregnasi zime kwa mingi plan pregnasi zime kwa mingi sana even the small ones our small girls na pata tige chidreni mape ma sana before they even achieve their dream goals. To my side I support it should be balanced but to some extent you see most men will be against it obvious when it come to distributing it. There should be a balance at the end of the day when a girl gets pregnant both both of you the both parties are responsible so at the end of the day last month we went to responsibility when a balance between you the male and the female and the use of contraceptives. For the longest time women have been on the receiving end of bad control or contraceptives that is the use of condoms, the injection the strips and the coil but when this vasectomy and the pill have been introduced I believe it is a time this is the right time for men to execute or be equal to us so indeed the men should actually try it and they should not be afraid of these contraceptives because they are not exposed to many dangers as opposed to the women let's head over to our fourth question and the fourth question guys here is the dilemma we want to know from you do you think that men are going to have a hard time accepting this contraceptive? you know how men behave infact those who have never went to school they will be against it and some will be against about the religions sometime you had back anything concerning those contraceptives some religion never supported so it will get those back lashes until when most of the people will have some education on it so for myself I think when it comes people should be educated about it you know Shania blank shots that is where we draw the line because you still hear them talk of I mean Mwanaume Mwanaume kama mezalisha and they cannot fire blank shots so because they are used to they are used to it's something that it's like a tradition I still think the diffusion the diffusion of that innovation you still take a long time for them to actually to actually to along the same line I cannot speak for me but I think some may advocate for it because some people maybe in the early 40s 50s or people who have families and they probably want to have something of that sort they may expose themselves to such things maybe to reduce tendencies of maybe you slept with someone and then the repercussion maybe of a pregnancy or a child they gave birth to and they are no methods of kind of clarifying if the baby is yours and stuff because DNS is not effective I already know from the internet Twitter I have a big issue so like kablawa itchukule it's a new thing so before it comes into practice it takes time but you know through convincing to advertise when you are when you are educating them and such stuff I guess it will come at a time what I accept because when you come to DEM side effects because DEM is in the future and it will be a ball in the future so it will be a ball so it will be a ball so it will be a ball in the future it will be a ball in the future they give the workipatao to in extra cost to them so they run away from the responsibilities open to maybe the challenges due to itchukule pampas ita kwa the hard time kutumia since kwa shazoia sasa ishanza kwa display it so ita kwa naeli at time since ita kwa asa all over mika tu sasa laikeni every time we are having something new maybe some people they have a different opinion about it or some mothers may use this as a skipping board maybe they want to because sometimes men are finding or human beings are finding and you cannot tell me maybe as that woman how will they trust this gentleman maybe he has actually taken these pills and they are safe maybe let us wait and see what's going to be up with this whole matter from that point but I believe it's going to be coming up with a lot of staff long scientists going to come with a lot of stuff but maybe when it comes we will see what's going to be up the whole matter I think men will have a hard time me included but at the end of the day we are looking at what are we going after the goal so come and attack kwa safe, come take kwa patam toi I think men will go for it but it will take a while well considering that you live in Africa we have a tradition, we have cultures we have beliefs in this continent now for our men they have beliefs and they have this concept that if you use a contraceptive it might put you down as a man you might start acting like a woman kuna moja mese meigo and this is all false information things have been tried and tested and of course for vaxectomy once it's done it cannot be you can't reverse it but if you decide to do it but for this new contraceptive I believe it should be tested and it should be tested immediately and once it's been tested come on men kubalini kubalitu alafu and you'll be able to save us a lot of trouble as women because you guys are not exposed to a lot of dangers unlike us just take the kubalini to kweniyo mshale run with it my name is karenjisa see you next time same place, same time