 Shizu mmy beautiful people who haidoo in wa almost at the end of what in the money, but not before we entertain you thoroughly. We together at Watford Bone Facebook, attacks for channel, Twitter hashtag. It's What in the morning or WCwatuvawe or at colormival and we're asking you a question on our socials. Please do go and join us. We are very grateful, but please do give us a penny for your thoughts. Na hulliza jye. Iwa twa nafakona behind the scenes. Buni mwa mwefinii liya surti sasa? Please tell us who you are. Michael, so every social media platform. Bajito mwame una kaupua Panku? Kansi ya na kaupua Thefinitally, thefinitely ya na kaupua Kwa kaku noon wanyu wana We god We god Za gender talk pata apiyo we? Naunaituna I'm called Server Mula kuhu Confirm you all social media platforms Sever myStrom alumina Ki lamaa ali Twitter, IG, Facebook Sever myStrom alumina How much do you open up to the people? It depends how close we are. I'm one person who is social, so definitely what we do is my lifestyle. But I think when it comes to finance, I don't open up so much. I think I open up to maybe my close person, maybe that's my cousin, when they open up to me, I don't know. But it depends on how much life I live, how much I have. Things are not working out. I think I do it so openly with all my friends. So openly. Machida too. Apatukofalilando. Kikido gumu. Kikiyanza kwa moka ni hadi uchezechi. Kwa status ni chakula ni nika lisa, naka kini kong fukotrix. I don't do that financially. I don't think everybody opens up people. Chenet, before I ask you the same question, kuna culture flani somewhere in the Orient, the first muntukiku juwa, kuna kutana takani kwa mati na mnasalimiana, he's like, hi, what is your name? What do you do? How much do you make? Like for them, iyon ni just, iyon ni salamu. Do you think today is a fun day to come in Nairobi? First of all, I can't. Unanzi aje kwa explain to him to how much you make. Unanzi aje taku kiriya intentions, zaki ni gani. Sasa skia hei, akuna ni agani. Akuna ni agani. Anata kaku, niki shuka ali, ani chekin ni kianda, bang kiriya ni. But just about if your father My father, it depends on the relationship. Yeah, like my parents, like I tell my mom everything. Yeah, kus she's close to me, lakini mabeshite tu ni. 20 out ni ni ni ni, but mambu yanda ni kidogo, na kanyagia. Oni say to me, nisa mada, the people who know the amount of money in toto, bachari zimi na assume, in toto, ni mamangu na zistangu. Yeah, story ni. Shapo. I think at all, mizazi kidogo juwa na patangapi. Ooh. But I've learned to squeeze you at 20 because I saw what they learn, maybe at their workplace, how much they make. What do you feel like kutakwa na pressure flanu kiyambia mizazi, do you imagine sasa tanzakuitisha? Sometimes you see your pressure, kus ambabu, when you are low, niye tu ba duta mwenda, na niyanda takpia bakup. So sasa zingini ulaskiwa kakuliza, how much do you make, maybe make 30k. But ulaskiwa kimambia, around 25, 20 to 25. Niye ufifingine, you won't tell him. Niye na juange, that's your range. But when there's a time of help, when I touch your health, he knows where you can reach. Because sometimes their parents will really exploit people. Kuna ulemi na akumbetu, na hindi guya kwa mkujia pa school fees. Nona. Kuna ule si me juwa kwa mkujia fees. Nasa at all li li piwa school fees. How much li li piwa? Yes, li li piwa lakini, we see, kuna ni goma kijalua, nasamanga kulem jini, maisha sira easy. So you never know your dad knows you earn 30,000 na na juwa. We li kulem jini, that's the way he brought you in a nice manner. So you're so responsible. Lakini, hukumu jini, things are not working for you. You have a lot of different lifestyle. Ukuna, Mr. na na piga bei. Ukuna, kazi ingine apu, you invest, you see. Ni ma standu kwa nga machida. All the boy child speeches in the square. So kuna pata hi 30,000 in a g-exhaust, maybe even after a week. But when your dad is asking for help, na juwa, hey, my son has this 30,000. Let me try borrow half of the money. You see. So sometimes na semanza, with finance, it shouldn't be so open when you're disclosing. Do you know na atasahizi atakere usubo nga nga watu? A good disclose per sayaku. Nobody wants to disclose their amount in X. I was in a meeting, some financial type meeting na li kuna sema. Thank God for virtual in things na days by the way. Juweza, tapi nu kiyosha bi ombo. I hope to judge all. But wa li kuna sema venge. It's such a tabu in Africa to talk about money. Why is it such a tabu? We're not with the same atu. You've been naivi naivi. How many do not go up ataseti wa? What's the problem? I don't feel it's a tabu, according to me. How do you feel about it? It's just like you need to know who to talk to. We just can't tell anyone. Hey, nime patana na nime patana na kaisu pali inje na ma ambi. Hey, kaisu nime ombo kaleo niko na 30 ke kwa accounti mela lau na. But used to rear parents. There are some parents who kipata do wa na slush yote. You see. But like personally, like my mum adani ambia do what you feel you want to do panga panga then kipata kitu extra wne zan itu miya 30 akwa ambi na kutu unitu miya such and such amount you get. Yeah. Oh, that's very work. You knew. We're in first world country thinking now. So kuna mtu apana tumbe ajeti. Let up here. All right, wait. Before we get to this one, I was going to ask you a very important question. Wasana nikama because the question is how much do you tell your friends or the people around you? Do you disclose everything about your life? You know, if any kuko job, bama koko shule, you know, how much money you're making. I guess per relationship to take up what you see in my youth na witu kama iso. Wasana nikama su ambi anaki like it. No kwele? So kwele? Why do you say that? Personally, I have a friend mwenye niza wongelene nae about my relationship stuff. Aya. Uki kuja kwa kazi kuna ule, you're comfortable talking to. We get. But I don't think money matters inessasari wongelene na bishteya kwa. If she needs assistance, well and good, wone zam say, dia lakimi siyati ajuwe, wuna earn how much. No. Hmm. Yeah. Jei petana watu anasiyum, wuna earn how much hadiyo na zaku kopa. Lek su nipei juu kuna hido. Lek form. Are we not all working? What is the problem? Mm hmm. Seve mbon na twangale, wa twangale na sewa. Science suggests that at most you're supposed to have five close friends. At most. So this five friends, one of them kwa different. Not all are the same. That's why it's good to have different friends. Wini friend wa job. Wini friend wa do. Wini friend wa happy. Wini friend wa kwa open nae. Okay, you see. So like, there are four types of friends, four to five. Kuna wile close friend, kuna casual friend, kuna stranger with your friend, na kuna intimate friend. So a close friend is someone who is supposed to get your back any time. Wini, for example, we've missing a person's idea. And he's supposed to understand you that I know. That's why we are close. I know when you have, you'll always stay, you have. When you don't have, you don't have. So when you're close friend, a casual friend, it's like a workmate. Let's say you're a workmate. It's like, hei sasa, kia kili kwa jih poa. I'm not supposed to go over with a dead son. Uzi kwa val. Uzi kwa mi shindaji. Uzi kwa poa. You see. Now that he's now, I'm closing over. You see. I'm a casual friend in sasa poa uzi shindaji. Shoe me kwa poa. You see. That's a casual friend. A close friend, hei, I need the help. I want someone to talk to. A stranger, ni wile mitu tumwe ne. Maybe you went out. Uli kwa na ontakulipa fair, na ukapa tauna handbag, na kakulipia, na kakupigete na simulifika salama. The next day kakubaya lunch, it's just a stranger. It's your friend. He happens to come through. And then there's we were intimate friends. We wile mitu na benda, na nakupenda. So sometimes that's why you see, I always advocate for a relationship where I'm ina toka from a friend, to a close friend, to a intimate friend. So we in your friend too many wakam na salimia. But sasa, you guys really understand each other. Have you ever been in a situation where you've confided in a friend, na yungu kuna jo ni beshte ni beshte, yu atkaku jiki kwa gawu zia? And how did you deal with it? It happens. So you just change, you just learn, you know kuna mistakes in life, make sure you don't repeat the same mistakes again. Are there like signs and symptoms of someone when you attack you prosper? Can you tell? I'm sure you can tell. When you are in a relationship where you are in a relationship you say you are poor. Yeah. How? Is it subject to everyone kuna tu kapa kage flaniksana? Eh, we are kikaivi atumone visuji? Yeah, uneza ambiam say about yourself, nuna kweli, anaji fanyan like anafraia, but deep down nuna tu facial expressions when you react. Ivo. Yeah, ama ufanyi kitu one nai anatakaku, lazima afanyi kenyume fanyan doafil vizuri. Like it's like now you are competing. It's very tiring. Yeah. So you are competing now too. Xavier, does it happen to the same to your other gender? I think for us guys there is no much pretense akunanga kujiski ama kujifanyi. We are so plain and so open. Sika ma jiski tunas toriyako, I think we always like keep a distance kuz we always have that click na yu klik muna jona jini wat. So ataka mam sayana prosper, ebe demia really made it. I'm having a party at this place. You guys come, celebrate with me. You see, for ladies ataka ataka mamia like, e misi jiski po wa, nini siyesi make it, but for us guys will be like, eh, musei ataka mamia kudu to end, do you see. So like for guys it akunanga to like, eh, musei so nisei diakotu do nikuna project flani. We will always come up with scheme ways of wanting that success that you've made, but we will always want for you to succeed. Nuna kuna wle beshteme ne, anataka weni le kumeku do, kusaba bu anataka weni le kumisei idea. You see, kuna wle mitu weni anataka kufana kitu, it is not working out. Naka wle mitu weni, it is not a fani kitu, but it is a naomba kila akati. You see. So, sisi to ataka, for guys, to ataka rafiki endele, kumeku kumeku kumeku kumeku. It's not like for girls, so ataka, eh, even as you make it, siyata mimi ningoji kido gupia mini kufiki e. What, kumani aroi wana kushkili amgoo. Ehh. See, endemali kwanza. Mata ni sumiki doga rafi ukuji wini patisi. Mata ni gupini. But for us guys, kwa chela ebu e endemali ebana. Mina jyotans idea ewa e enda. But I want to believe that chuniza change in mentality, that janet aki omoka leho, that I can be genuinely happy for you. I can just be just ataka. Mimali, niko sayi, I have not reached the epitome of my life, but janet does, and I just want to just be happy for you. Chuniza, fika pleskai ataka tani. Please, let's just try. Let's just try. A lafupia, you know people change. Ni mli kwa 5 years ago, sivenyem kwa sayi. How do you know that there are friends who will change with you? Amona shinapu ki confess vitu kumbe 5 years from now, amtakwana very different things in kumon. It would be the same anymore. But you also have to understand Val, jealousy is so healthy in our relationship. If you are jealous. No, let me tell you the kind of jealousy I am referring to. Do you cut kwa on the same page, but maybe tell me. Can I use an example of myself because naji jwa. Unok tana namu tu, you think they are your friends. And legit there are some things na fanya, unae, lakini wini beshti hangu. Lakini kumbe uku nyuma ujuwi. Anaku admire lakini na kwa one a wifu all at the same time. That means atakuja angale kenye Val na na fanya, a lafuende aseme, ah, ato site Val, I can do it. Yeah, that's why some, those are one-sided relationships. Yani uta kiwa na wewe. He really shows a lot of concern and care. Bata ki ru di nyuma, ni leka wifu like, like, how is this? Why is he, why is he or she making a lot of steps? Na sayo mi na muambia wewe, cheki situ fanya ki tu pamaoja tu muke sii uwote. How can you help someone? That's why maybe I always feel like friendship if I quit like kwe umu kuja tu me, toka homu kakuja nero, bino na zaku ato rafiki na mutu. I think friendship should have a basis. Mostly come up to me, so mana he, muna jwa ana, mutu mili grow pamaoja, kus like, oni grow with someone pamaoja, atakuena wewe waji, he will change, kus ana jwa you guys grow together. A ma miki toka home place moja, or if you muli soma pamaoja, kuna basis of the friendship. But when you come and then maybe you are at 30 and then you come and meet someone in Nairobi also at 30, dyo, how they start with friendship, kulam tu na kongamzuri. But as things go, kutakuena iso obstacles. Sana sana don't, ita wakosa nisha, ama step maybe at work, someone is making some progress, ita wakosa nisha, am investment. So for me, friendship should have a basis. I feel equal to like, this person has been so nice for me, this person always helps you with money all the time. Nafi kuna basis, where was the basis? Where is the found of the friendship? I agree and I respect your with, I agree with and I respect your opinion. However, wu jia una familia kukatango, kuna mimitua damu damu wewi? Familia kutatango, especially in big families. So ona jwa kuna ulemi tu, ona jwa piya friendship, piya kuna fai jia, maybe from you come from a big family, wu ona jwa kuku aso shit na watwenki, you're so social kus of the family you came through. Laf kuna wew mne ametuka familia, alone familia ni anizelo pekiak. So it's not that too open, mawa atu. So utapata mi, mi naweval, tu neza ingiana. But if I want to take you to my clique of people, wuna zwa kusama, why did you bring me here? Miku japa kufani. It's not kusat, miku japa placembaya, you're not that of a crowd when you're wanguna mimi, you see. So like, watu ana foro ne? With family, you always jwa, kus my family naza kwa poa, but you and Rafkiangu familiar kus idea kwa, ni boom. So like, we can't relate. So if I go friendship between me and you, not friendship of us, muna sa kutu, mi nawewe. Do you agree, Zaneti? Personally, I feel like friendship should start from below. It's, I take it as a ladder, to anzio kuchii mi. The moment nanguka unezani, okotasikunia achak mne chikele wuna, yeah. So I feel like friendship should be step by step. Alafu uto ana two red flags. Kamam tu kuna wene ana kuhende achini-chini, you will just see red flags. Yeah. But uh, uki ona sa zingine pia, kuna elewa mi ana unanguka na kukutana, lafu ya, mwisha uksha fikangele 5th floor, ana kwa tisiso nanguka wuna, wuna baki uko pekea. So that's where depression comes through. First full yanguka kaku beba. 2nd floor kaku beba. 3rd floor kuku beba. 5th floor kuku beba. Uka jwa 2a wewa taki beba. 5th floor. So we must know how much is too much when it comes to friendship. How do we, sanasana eni yaku open up because site mentor kapa kwa have a conversation about mental health and opening up. And opening up does not mean unenda tum nambia anyu pari. Not everyone wants your best. In fact kuna umtana kwa jatu kuske ma shida za kwa zote. Sasa kufini ewezu bini ewezu oje. So how do we know who to open up to? Like which one of our friends uta jwa aji? Amma utwa chaituna friends sato to open up to kwa tuengine, to ingine church. Amma dinine zingine. Amma therapy, that's what should we do? I feel like if you open up to me Val, I'll come and open up to you. It's a two way thing. Akuna wajemii minda kwa tu na muaga na muaga and in return there's nothing I know about you. You get? Ya, yeita kwa kwaisuna bolki dog. So even after that? That's where the aspect of close friend dina kuji. Apunona skiamtuna interu mitu uni BFF o hangu. So kuna utu ikini unenda clubs kumoja after wikim bili. This is my BFF. You don't know the meaning of a BFF. A BFF basically mutu sema number one rule try to make it to be so family na faikotu mama kwa mababa kwa. If you are that close with your parents kwa mama kwa mababa kwa works for you. Everyone is blood. Akita kikutoka fifth flow wangu kechini you have someone to blame. You know friends are not supposed to blame each other but for that you can always say dad is the way we will find you. Mom is the way you see. You have a shoulder to lean on. So I think it's supposed to be your close friend should be your family for me. But come on your family aspect try to look for someone you've grown with. Ule mutu me tokana hechini. Siya tu ule mutu me na me make it na wewa kwa kwa rafiki ake tuju na me make it ama juie na kawangi tru. You see that those people bine anasa unasa me ben sedi tenke atatuman dio but akituman sema ena umse unia umbatudu okila akati. Ule mkwa na na kwangatua aji. But sita kwa ambiya I want to come through kwa zi you really really value my friendship. Nona. So like mintatuma bati na kwa ena umde mi shindazaka ni nene. But ina fei kwa ule friendship mene wewa nama me shindazaka nene sema nga. Mena sema on the phone ena wei shindaku na kwangani isi shindazaka azi isi hangi. Nona. That's your friend. Nwa wei nene nana jibu ah wei suni skizi suni skizi. Mene me joga kwa uskizi eni wei sema. That's really a good friend. Nona. But ule mani unaongia tu nana sema saa on dox idea and he hangs up he sends you the money but he's hangi is not letting it out. Kwa zi when you're having problems wala me misinaizu shida wezi seme tu but pia mene sema e ba de lio nama tu mene wei nene wei akuna isi shidaka maiako na kwa ni hee nene rubi nana pele kaji. Nona. Make the conversation as much as one akuna kuja na kili yo mea make it so fun it becomes so comfortable for both of us. Are there things that we cannot tell the opposite gender like kuna witu neza tu ni yami mi kama dem na wezi yami bi ase via amo neza yami bi atu sevia jini chali na wezi ni yami yami bi. Amas timi mi witu kama mashiru sezi nana wezi sevia ma zini mene saa amani mene sewa na hadmi kasi kikunyesha mone like it was just a lot ati yo neza ambia janet lakini sita apo sejiwe kanda neza kusedi apo but is that something nuna neza ambia sevia na? jwa toki ambia sevia na hana pads kwa baga takusedi aje amin takuseka atu lasu baga takuseka atu takuseka atu takuseka atu What other things do you imagine that amu wezi ambia na just because of gender? I have a friend when I was in BFF 20 manai Primo kanda high school different when I was in campus 2 kwa so manai she's called Sharon so Sharon nia ambia kila kitu mi apada niki na danisi mombiangi kila kitu but iu nia ambia kila kitu but since I started this mombiangi kila kitu hana zia kila kitu nani fani kia you see kuna nila ni umombi munti na kini munti na nana tesa eka lakini umombi na tesa eka because he's your friend she knows you see so Sharon tells me everything about lifestyle yake so I don't think kuna aja kuficha kila kitu kama you guys are friends despite gender you see kwa zi kura zata sema ei lewa nimi kuna nama zia nama mungini ei nasi nama mungini nandu bata usi juna fadana e mi you see ata sema iwa nami nama ambia like oh ju umstia umstia nama usi idea so there's no like backlash when it comes to friendship friendship muna fadukumu kua so open there's nothing like gender or something alafu let me just compose myself for a second you can find us a white 5 on facebook white 254 channel on twitter hashtag is why in the morning or wcw we are trying to figure out are you very very open with all your friends or this some things you keep to yourself your love life your story nini na istorya was tanam kwen daga slipo vanam too nini nifo don't do that masie don't do that and there are also situations where people are dating wukimu zonam date I'm dating my friend anadi trafkiyake but anam date they are done at a stand but your comfortability is no longer there na jokun ele kuh date tuki like let's meet in town lunch dates works so your relationship na grow but the moment muna kujokwishi pamoja una pata eh we'll kwa trafkiyagu to get date but comfortability now staying together become so hard juna pata muka muna juna tuki inje nona but now the comfortability where we talk to men and short kwa nyumba here you kwa comfortable so tuna fatu angale pia whom are you going to date even when it comes to friendship ata mkita kuh grow mkita kuh lika kwa the relationship side are you comfortable in dating that person on do yama muka isa ila butu angale so hevi is trying to mean like kuna tu lebe shte tu manye he's good for friendship amazenda to another extent ata kawli muwata tuna tamani muwenda to another stand yes it's good to try nisa try kawiki moja hepa nai buku etu demiangu wiki and then you'll always realize hema zisi atu fahad atu fahad into okay all right so we have on our facebook page we have a titas up we saw guys it's money guys and a titas supporting from Dukamuja Narak isu ya familia ni nomasa nana gote kadan damaris susan filimon junia bahu and ametru weisha happy day thank you bitris came onto says hi guys watching from kisi suneka mamba ya familia kwa secret wiki toa nje na jibo moa okay so that means maybe kuna kiki may happen kwa yumba wekama kuna familia mani familia mom na dad are those the some things you're supposed to expose to people outside so me maze kuku etu kuna naivi naivi nifo mama sifo me naunanga watu say ma my dad is fighting with my mom my mom is abusing my dad I think it's okay kwa sazila una lala they are fighting you are soaking it in so it's better to let it out to someone who understand the situation in the familia kama na yanda standa mama kuna mba boku sometimes fight amata mai kujaka una alas ueskua na fight na ya yuka umoambi why will you keep it so umoambi etu that's why you will feel someone say mach where kama ziki uskiba nama yanda watu muwa chana na watu those are grown ups you see that's why you're saying when you're letting something to your friend your friends will make it so comfortable for you to continue letting it out it's not supposed to be judging yes hmmm chana nga kwa chana peh ya kutusai gray light words say hello good morning hi ni peace from mawan tizengomaya jo over Shalom I see you please please don't let me down I have let the DJ up there no ya sasa yenda ya kukontrola adi CKO ukipata o this one real friend feel free kusama kila kitu etu kwa ni ume uni wewa wewa amasi wewa wewa nif kiri akai ita fika point eta jo atu after all unless kumu ukona trust issues alafa metu kia po one real person is enough nyukweli our kalale wa yana eee kalale hmmm ni kunda nindana ni whati from kitale pamoja sana wa bebe tena fana mcg miwa chege so it's nindaro counti wa represented kalale tena ametombi aje please salamo kwa vengas a kwa kitale pamoja na sinana nono ma sana sawa Agastin kawifia good morning habari yangum tawezana kweli tutawezana anyway watching atondegi ni kisaw ma kweni counti alkozi isi slok na evasha error issues afamili ziweke bana wei okay all right I see kalale wa yana from kitale penda aman isi limits lazima kwa ma beshte not trustable though how do you know if someone is trustable pachan kuli zezbe I think you can tell if someone is trustable you see if it's a secret a secret is meant to be a secret that's why kwa yo kushunut kumiliza saviya about intimate bitu intimate sometimes that's why kuna bedroom don't let your bedroom things out at least if you date someone you are friends with you can talk to him mumbiya how feel you can even write you see that one will will give you the you won't have to go to that extra person kumumbiya tiyo wei amenifanya evi because already mwenyukonai apo is your friend yeah ngeze kukusama hukwam tuwa agen akutaki mazuri don't do it just be careful tomeni kungangasis pama jasana kama kawaida kafati kiano viki pandem sanese guy hezoni kama pen yako seri yako aguid? nju kuwa wasafi ei we are sorry not everything you should share sometimes you need to keep things to yourself a'i charej kumul kumengia klas ataka blatwanze I see you Dominic agen says watching as usual adimilo kimuri wama gumu good morning hehe following from kina gok and we have some ndunda nkotuni kiwa nandi Eunice njoki says hello hi Eunice tuning from ld the show is late kama kawa and just for fact pink friends doesn't mean you share everything with them there will one day be your enemies you guys are dripping hot and and someone told me I've learned things this weekend nili ambiwa okay nili kwa nisha iskia yes keep your friends close but keep your enemies closer but these are examples nili kwa na tolewa na zulu kuwa weh so do you think that is should be true keep your friends friends close but you're closer should it be like that I advocate like you should always try and test all your friendship throughout even if you are you can't be the music atumara fiki na muna isu kama urafikena utuni mzuri iwa iyo shuku kwa zulazi ma mutu moja if you are too lazi ma moja inu akuna shida na kama akuna shida create shida come up with something we say matumazemi nimi fungiwa nyuomba nata kuja kakuako and if your friend akikuja na nandu trafikia kwa na kumilacha kula na kulizi kitu na nali paturena na kwa bi come through iwa shuku why are you doing everything for me you're my friend yes but mola unia miki kitu there are things you must question rafkia kumilata kama eba de siiwa uto ushaviyomba mintapika siiwa uta bai food mintaliparent that is a conversation between two friends but a friend who is doing everything that is not a friend is doing maybe to please you to take advantage of you kwa zanagiwa wewa nipotential apu belata take advantage of you ama is just doing it so that ana kufichama aju but a friend who is doing it na question throughout 24-7 yeah that is a friend do you agree janet yes if you are my friend bona nite kia pona kiku fanya kila kitu panyumba na umiki iti ara kama yes na kusidia because i love you but nia aju kila siku kila siku come through yeah okay i see you i see a slavian okuku ua mula longo says in and we have a John Dizzy Black amatwandiki aka link upo management will sort you out shortly satwai 5 on facebook 5 5 4 channel on twitter hashtag is why in the morning all right just out of curiosity now this just come back to this jealousy thing just a little bit a bit how do you deal when you're the one who's jealous of your friend how do you deal with it because jealousy sii ati kila amtata kone awee wu satwai sometimes you might also start feeling wee wu how do you deal with it what you know for you wee wu kwa kila amtata everybody is jealous and it's so normal to be jealous kuna weneval minta kututafu kina and you're just making it in life na misi make it and you're making the i'm putting the same effort like you so i must be jealous ni normal kusababu aduza muka subui what you know really do in the same time na wendu na tina za peace of a mistake i'll not be jealous but so kuna wenewa na farwelewe your friendship kama you're making it na you're always saying sewe keep applying sewe keep doing this pii ame wenewa na fanya keep doing maybe luck is on my side so keep trying diza mainetua kibu ajiaribu pii awee kama weneza kumthru it is that conversation ati kama wee wu na make it na misi make it na naskia wee wu if ame wu kukuliza e na wu li fanya aje na wu ni jibu vizuri e me li fanya ewee mai jela sii tashuka ma tisa kama mi na kuliza wu li fanya aje and you're like wee wu na gwa nga tumulezi wu na gwa mami wee atu ufleg fanya yes you're allowed to kuni kusyoni wu if mi meni mi lezi but if you're putting up to ati wee ni kama mi chakuli kata ma ni mi na wee ni kama wu na nifanya ni nendele kwa jelas but if you're able to talk me through try to do this or if you're doing this try to do it a different way but what if wu na jaribu kue lezi anata ka instant results wu me nga nga na 5 years and that's why wu na nga tata from now to 60 in one month wu na nga wu na nga wu na nga wu na nga actually I have a real experience this girl me nga nga ako na marafiki yei nga nga subu yana fanya kazi marafiki zake juzi wee bayu wa masidis mga nga mifunguwa and say spirit mga nga fulem gwa botik she was texting me like sasa 7mini fanya aji you see so I was like sasa inyo ini gu marafiki zake wana fanya easy witu zote na hei piya ni mbarembu na easy witu hasi come through for you so da se witu na aki wuki mambe like wenda wu nga na marafiki zaka then the friends will say ebu wa ebi ebu jipake ebi ebu tembea injiya Bamba Miriam tembea isi ma streets wuna Miriam mu se ma streets tembea isi streets wita fahulu wuki zi piya isi cut work upo do jela si ita isya but sasa kama wewe wuna bewa lewa masidis na mina kumbea ni tembea jina wana nga bewa tii yei wia tu liwa dowa itu ikotu sawa iwa wuna sasa na kila siku na iwa na ii come through but wuki nga miya ebu jya rubu izi fiatu so nga niliva jana wana ii kama ita make it na nikiwa na ii fahulu niku dili kumbea ebu dili lewa tia kumbea fanya ni me patakwa ince spirits muntua tata se ma ei suna wana and that's how friends grow that's why mi sinanga problema sponsor it's so normal so okay kama ii nana leta food on the table so okay we gara it yei Janet what happens if let's say between the two of us let's just for example when do kuna sponsor na mi mi natkakwa moka but die of home maybe wuna do kuna watu tuwa otaki but kuna on moka na na kone atuna moka and i'm trying to figure out how to just put my two three she link together and i don't mean you are moka like how then can we do you think we can be friends I don't think so why I feel like friends na faku kwa atipa at least bitu zeya mi na fanya so ewe atakama si taha na uko apukaribu jwezi ni ambi amin beshtia kwa na enda church lakins kumbi wende church wendanga tukulabu kulabu kulabu na wana ya awo na zaka kwa do na fiki na moka na enda church na muna na club but simba atia kumbea kumbea kumbea nisa otu lakini isu wende na wana angatwe ni ningumu ni you don't do sponsors ni I doing sponsors you don't think we can be friends ningumu kwa sisi mi mi wa sponsor simmi na zaliya editai na we had plans pole dada na faku tok sponsor mi pigasimu na yoni do na enda kuleita kini wewa na pigiya pa shida zaku zaku sota na wukuni pesa mi patika wana I have to leave you even if you had plans but kama sisi ni ma sponsors wote wewa mumu lise kata na zaku jawili na zaku jawili na niku kwa mbea take a take we go together we rhyme together but still kuna ila ya me mi mi wa sponsor wewa ni wa kugrindu na na na mi na kupenda kumili zio yes na kakwa bed-seater we are sharing the room ya so wana enda wana cha pakaziako mi mi mi kuku na end of the day tuna meet tuna sama wana me toangapia rent but wana juh as much as wana sama evo it is me who will sponsor will be glowing all the time jumi mi mi doi kuna pesa mi ingi no if you are true friends wau ke kuja na doi moab siyata wana niku gawiya what's the big deal miss you has in mind by that career be shteando you see I like that okay what happens when the people you are opening up to yes they are your friends but wana wana ringa in fact kwa na shida e bro manzi kuna ka business learning li fungwa laki mistokia lewa wana zaya kaji ingi kuna 2 maybe meter na 2.5 ingi na 2 sayana kuna lewa dewa nakuja pukuni yambia kuna meter na saya yakuna 200 bob eiii atata 100,000 na jai wana evi na machu na wana kuja kumambia atu kuna meter so na day 2 and you seriously have a problem you yourself you you but maybe ma liu me jeka ukiyongia tuki dogon naka tumaringu so how now do you start dating wana tuku change friends apana I think for us guys tuna kuna tuna jua na jua tum say hini roughgate na yenda kuna pesa na yenda metu letter uku so kuna ele bievi ingi na muna fatu apendi a kifanya yo bievi a yo si kwa mukulio lunch a me si kwa so like muna fatu mende na pesi yake that's why I say you are supposed to understand your friends kwa nule friend mene yata sema ciki situ kibahi drink moja umu sa datu baya drink pakasu bui wana wana misha jua yaka rafkini evo wana ringa yani si nipi amtu akodo e ni si yoni ma ringa yake na muli tuka kwa wimba ki jua nini na muna pesa yenda kuna pesa but say you have to come through bio moja doa fresh in pakasu bui which he will do comfortably that sounds like a lot of work say it's not a that's why I say friendship is understanding nazima muna nilewane muna nilewana muna jua si muna taku pati si ui rafkini wana taku aspoil without no ni nene metu anru disha i pesa zi metu anru disha i pesa but say muna jua fuhu yu nazima tum fresh in ibe wu yu akita kutua pesa nazima tum trafti ka light skin ka light skin tu doa pesa ii toki kajanet iwi kajanet iwi kajanet kana joketingisha tingisha iiwi kapa pesa iita toka toko poka aspoil na kimi kama tulipi gasimu na wa tulite labda pandemic for ground doi ati ni bin nedu doi bin nedu would you rather be mo nyamu mo kasa na kwa guyo group of friends ama ukue kuna wa tu wakubu wako kwa yo kwa ekspirensiyamu ii think maybe it's fast to broke maybe it's fast so sit at minata katuki omoka tu omokeote ya yunduita kwa poa inaja afadali ni kwa ambi enval bide mina hindi anga mali yu ko boda yu ganda tu hende piya u omoke instead na kuja na mina mik do wewe tu ko tua apo yu uta ko ala yabiliti sasa kwa ango uta kimi tu anezaku tanusha manzea kalesha kumbe janet sao kenya mefa ya ni poa lakini manzea sufini afini tua pa nojari bukutengineza tua pa juya kuna yo ekspirensiyamu let's just say it's maybe usually it's usually someone older muna kuna mo experience in this game of life so would you like to have at least one person like that around you yes sound love amenta is very important in life sasa to usha eka jina po korusungu I think example in Afarko juka man the boys club yani kuna weum tu akotuna netua kiaki kuna weupia akotuna finance kiaki like everybody should be bringing something on the table but I don't think you can have a friend where kiakuni milionaya na weuna do it can't work ju definitely 24-7 uta kuna depend kuwaki na 24-7 hata kuna depend kuwaku for anything like for advice or something yes you can come through for anything you want but you will feel ni kama there is a gap so I think a friendship in Afakwa the gap should not be so wide na fatu kwa muna shinda naki tuki dogo maybe weuku poa in networking you're good at advising you're good at planning you're good at making things to just come through for everyone I think it's supposed to come from a little kitu on the table are you comfortable with riding on a friend's success yes I'm totally comfortable if it works for me kami na nijengia CV na nilete awa atu muna ni sikwe kaa valueu kuna vitu kali kali kina vera CD kali kiki tembe na weita salmiya vera CD kama muna ni sikte mbe na it works for me does it work for you I feel like I conquer with CV tembe na weita ukiwa wuna jo connections pia mimi I feel like naeza kwa apu naeza jipata tua apu kwenye wuna hang around pia at least na da kwa na yo opportunity ya kufika apu you never not laugh yes chana bazuwa li kwa apu walain shanzok pige sabuza venta kwa mbebe atri pod I just want to be around it's a bit of a great affair boom swinga boom swinga wow wata wejem tu choka na wuka oh my gosh okay all right in conclusion what do you think the definition of a good friend is for me a good friend is someone who is so understanding someone who is so comfortable you as a person you're so comfortable around with mtu naza mambia kitu yote naza moa li kwa akuja fadze kitu yote naji okunulera fiki muna naza feel like e wuna kumita kwa such a place at a feel large so my friend should be like if I call you in a very expensive place comfortable in a very cheap place comfortable maa li pa ibu comfortable maa li pa raha comfortable that's a good friend okay what do you think the definition of a good friend a good friend should not be judgmental kitu yoko enga oh is he quite judgmental or at least akuwa mbe what she feels you know but see it anaku judge but akuwa mbe okay yes then should be loving kind evil alafu your ideas should match with hers yeah na support friends with benefits friends with benefits benefits udema li toka market saving chafun set chafun set chafun set star it thank you story nation of just because you di ma li serve is yet in enda tse shama see speak up metokaw of market b support fwb please tell us how you can find your information save your maes to omula killer mahali facebook 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