 Fогledwill chi, rai ddigonwyd ia�-u'r busnid네요 yn oed bod Ndoi Wsch-d�� Wrthooooo i'n meddwl i wirio rwyio wedi Llywodraeth, Bear forwards continues to disgusting, and one of the biggest growths I ever had was with my mum. It was about microbiology. She had come in from the doctors, and she said that she'd got some antibiotics for her cold. Being a microbiologist, I said that you don't get antibiotics for a cold because the cold's a virus, and antibiotics deal with bacteria. My mum felt that I was looking down on her, and she wasn't going to put up with that, so she stood her ground and wasn't backing off. Because I was a microbiologist and I was right, I wasn't backing off. By the time my dad came in from his work, the two of us were not so much discussing but more screaming at each other. My dad calmed us down. He listened to the arguments and he said that it's obvious that your mum's right. Off went mum, happy as Larry, into the kitchen. I looked at him and I said that she was so wrong. Dad said, yes, of course. I said, how could you take her side when you know that she's wrong? And he said, Jim, you don't need to sleep with her. My dad may have started as a sheet metal work apprentice for upper class ship builders but at that moment in time he was Yoda. He was a Jedi master and he was the wisest man on the earth because he saw that in the end it's not the winning or the losing of an argument that matters. In the end it's relationships that matter because he saw that the community in our house would draw or wither on what we see and what we do. Every faith, every philosophy has at its basis the importance of relationships, maybe with a higher being, definitely with other people. My simple words of advice to you this day are these. If you think you're struggling and to be honest in this climate who isn't just now, don't look towards your rituals or your philosophies or your religious or political dogmas, look to your relationships. Rely on them, trust in them, maybe see our legacy as how we make this country a community where everyone can call it home, a place where you can be listened to respectfully and know you're loved and cared for. I'm going to say a wee word of prayer if you want to regard it as a reflection and take it like that. I'm quite happy to do so. May we do what we need to do this day to help grow community and may we consider how every decision we make helps or hinders that community. Amen.