 I got a tarot reading for my complicated love life and I got to know that I'm the one who's not in love. He said that I've already left my former boyfriend for this guy because I'm very much in love with him. It's like always think that my children's father should be here and now this reading has taken my breath away. Okay first thing, unless your relationship is actually with your tarot card reader please don't go and ask them whether you're in love or not. This is a decision that truly you have to learn to make for yourself and as far as relationships are concerned you know relationships have to be built. Nobody is going to come and put a relationship on your lap and say go ahead this is going to be the most successful happy relationship in the entire world. You don't have to do anything for it. You have to work on relationships and you have to work on them every single day that you are together. You can't say that in the first month of being together I did so much towards this relationship and now I don't have to do anything at all. It doesn't work like that. Every single day that you are together you work at keeping this relationship good. Does that sound like a lot of hard work? Yes it is. Is it worth it in the end? It absolutely is worth it in the end. Is it always going to be successful just because you work on it every single day? No. There are days that you're going to wake up in the morning and think my god I hate this person so much I want to be able to kill them and then there are days that you're going to think thank you god for making sure that we are together because I love this person so much but you have to work on it every day whether it's going well or not and finally is there going to be somebody in your life are you going to meet somebody later in your life who's going to be more exciting more attractive more sexy than your partner? Absolutely yes. Everybody is going to meet somebody in their life and multiple times possibly who's going to be more sexy more exciting more attractive than their partner. It's the natural way of life but the mature thing over here is that you don't have to always do something about it. You can always meet somebody who you think is more attractive you can enjoy that company for that time but you don't have to go off with each person you don't have to dump your previous partner and go off with the next person and then go off with the next person and so on that's not how relationships work that's not how life works. I know a lot of people believe in tarot readings and I know a lot of people go to tarot readers and that's fine but when it comes to relationships when it comes to your own emotions this is an area that you need to work on by yourself don't depend on somebody else telling you whether you're in love or not work this out for yourself actually put the time into it because you know what the results of working on a relationship are truly wonderful.