Could get physical with us unless he least giving us a self or may every job. But not most of the times. suicide note and then Manyonto probability cases Shany na wo niii mazi, hanwa para kakar ty dei assistance udil pla momenti, kальные600 nii micubi mili immeri liinatana ingomiva na ki önce ya implemented biki 24 tag 합니다 pragmatic aware Eh, beseped out. Yas, nai Robin dot miski ya cases, betu kuna ampaga kitui, tukuna apu umuna... It's making my head hurt a little bit Help me understand. Okay, first, me, me, me, me, me, the souls rest at Eternor Peace. It is really sad to see such young souls promising future leaders to end their lives mainly because of love life. It is really sad. And I think the same way, I think mental health discussions It should be the order of the day. People are really depressed and some do not even know. Ya, so I think we should have more conversations on mental health and depression cases because it is really affecting us and it is really becoming an issue Yes. I used to believe that some Shidasin genen is a ozongo Misukwa na imagine mtumosi kasi siyaneza pato shikwa du student depression pa kende agongu hang eleshim tu like what do we talk? We are black. We don't have time to talk. But kumbe we need to talk, like we really need to talk to somebody, okay? And just in a second we're going to go to the types of self-awareness there too, all right? So hi Val, we need here mimi naji juwa poa sana amrud. That's why staki permanent men in my life, staki kufa mapewa. Wow, I believe there's someone for everyone. Do you believe so too? Yes. Ya, so yo nesia kutukuna ututua meh designi wa kupenda tuivo. Hi Val, I'm Joani. Aki achei yo mambo ya veting ju manu ilin. Shhh, I had to see onge yo story apa. So that yo nesia kutumafia ni kama veting. No, he only robbery without violins. Boital has... Do you agree? No, I do not agree because first and it has really become an issue because this men are feeling entitled that when they give a girl presents or money between a title to that woman. First they are never forced, nobody ever forces the men to give us money. Nobody has ever come with a gun and pointed to a man and tell him, nipati ya pesa. Ya, so it is always out of their willingness and nobody ever forces any man. So I think it is not robbery as it's because men really... Actually others you do not even ask for the money. We go ahead and see the demand. Tana kawta kwa be awesishkile tu ibe matze kafia. Yes, so it is never... So it is not robbery. Yes, and men should not feel entitled to a woman after sending him gifts or money. Because for instance, I was having a conversation with a friend of mine yesterday. A typical breakfast for a Kenyan is maybe white tea and bread. And always in the morning you go with a hundred shillings to the shop. You give it to the shopkeeper nipati ya kata na maziva. So when one day you decide to go and give him the money without saying anything, will he be in a position to give you the tea and bread? Okay, in some instances he may not give you because he does not know whether leonikredo na taka amani nini. So if you do not say your intention first, then this is where the problem is coming in. Men, when you start sending in the money, the gifts, say your intentions, I'm sending you this so that I can sleep with you. I'm sending you so that I can become your girlfriend. So that as a girl when I'm taking the gifts, I will cleanly know that I'm taking these gifts because the result will be this and that. Yes. Can I ask you a question, Queen? In all fairness, now that we are feeling the vibe of the girl child on this matter, is it also right to say, again I say we're different the way we have built guys and girls. So guys giving gifts may be a really big thing to them. Na kwetu is not a very big deal. Uneza pati ya braios, hai kevo, umpeki tuingine apu. Oh my God, this is too, you know, you're so special. But now when we get intimate, it's completely different. Now a guy ita kwa tu intimacy kwa ke ya mekula. Na where ita kwa, oh my gosh, we're in love, we're together. So is it then fair to expect that kevo na jonte na suji nani after you've become intimate, you've become one in body that now you should be the only girl. It's the same kind of argument. Sesa we anukpati ya zahadi and expect kitu apu. Wewe, umpeki tu nuna expect kitu apu. Isn't it? How do you feel about these two odds? I think don't plan to, don't plan to flee where you cannot harvest or where you cannot so. So at some point, yes, I will agree with a boy child when they say, okay, one had to pay a gift and maybe, you came to me and they said, and I said, ya we can maybe give it a try, we get intimate and stuff. But remember the moment you decide to get intimate with someone, you ready create a bond. Yes, intimacy is a great thing and it's also a gift from God but when done at the right time. So when a guy, okay, when they agree to get intimate with a guy, that means at some point I may want to start a future with him. Given that I am not a prostitute. You know prostitution? Yes, we understand. But when your girlfriend or maybe I am to be your girlfriend and they accept to be intimate with you, that means I am already giving you hopes that you might be a thing. But the ladies also don't give hopes where you know things cannot work out, be straight forward. If the guy wants to date you, say yes, I can date you or no, I cannot date you. Don't water seeds that you know cannot grow. Why am I finally so deep today? Wow, I thought I was teaching. I'm also being taught at Y254 on Facebook, at Y254 channel on Twitter. Hashtag is Y in the morning. If you'd allow me to read some of the feedback on this book, we have one Alfonso Kuku. Yes indeed, tit for tat is the summary. Wow, why is so angry with Tony? Ya, I'm one of two men, pezasawanome na jovisuri humpendi. Ladies acheni na pezasawanome. They can take you to hell. Wow, that's a hard substance to serve in the morning. But I like that we're being honest. I like that we're being very honest with each other. So coming back to the lesson of the class here, it is self-awareness. So I can see, I am aware enough of myself to see someone is upset. You can clearly tell by the way they are speaking. And I'm feeling that which I can perceive you might have a point because of all the things that we are saying, but let's talk about the types of self-awareness now. There are two. There's one internal self-awareness and there's external self-awareness. What do you think internal self-awareness is, King? Internal self-awareness, for me personally I take it knowing that you can control your emotions, your behavior and then you can handle your own things in a very mature way. For example, if someone, let's say, pieces you have, you know that instead of just staying there because you can get easily provoked because you know what your anger can lead you to be. So you just leave the person, assume them so that because once you stay there then your anger gets out of hand. You can do a lot of things which you will come to regret later. I totally feel it. Totally. Jumimi na jwa there's a point unneza ni guza and there's no coming back from that. So kabela unni fikiye, oh, nisha kwa ndo kia nisha chapa-chapa mara ndi zango and before I ask you to what you think, let's read it, internal self-awareness. So it is how clearly you see your values, your passions and aspirations and how well those standards fit with your environment and your reactions which include thoughts, feelings, behaviors and strengths and weaknesses. So for example, kama unna penda mande mapeiwe. Nga jwa dem kukupenda unenda unna ambia Holy Spirit na unna hopu Holy Spirit anuna kwa ambia akuna kama tel, I like it, no. So okay, na chapa-chapa turapola then I say, ah, he's not feeling my vibe. Okay, the first reaction would probably be am I not good enough? Am I not pretty enough? Am I not his type? Nimbana mimi? Okay, san tajiche aje do ani notice mimi. Sindio. Those are the way. But what happens when your crush is not crashing on you. What happens when your crush is not feeling you at all and it happens. Tell me how to help people peacefully interact. When your crush does not have a crush on you. Yeah, man say. Let's say umekufa. Umekufi am tu nikani esu. Please, someone already did that. You know, in the current society, communication is key to everything. So when you kitambuli kuanga, dem haizi enda kukatia boy. But in the current society, what can't kina karo do? You can do anything. So, I think okay, crushy am say. So you just go and tell them, let them know. So, ajuange, kuna dem kumi na kwangan me ma liza. Na kiringa, moja mamnuma ita mwenye okua. So that's the problem. So, oku na ana ringa. Na kiringa crushy na isha. Na crushy amongi. How it look at him just smiling at the thought of being told hey handsome, how are you? So dem a kama kwa mbe maze. Uda mwenye mwenye guzanga. Very personally, if that's one advantage of the empowerment of the girl child, skrizi silas mo uende, na zina kikutambua, nila tu na tulia. As in PRC, we also, kama baby, skier tu puwa evo. But now, kama personally, ameku crushy na, oh feel, kuna villetua zini, as a mature person, onam let's go to evo, amu na muatuni ajik, let me try and give it a chance, lakini pia menda mambea tu jaribu, lakini nila tu for try ni, ani tu kaita weza. Treyzex. Nuna mbolo na kasi, sastu ni kaita make. I'm going to try na wu yu na wu yu na wu yu na wu yu. Mambea, I don't know. Mambea ni ka loto basi. Nenda tu ki jaribu, nila tu wone kakuna mojaita shika. Usi mambea, we are trying, and then a couple, let me be a better person for him. Let me make myself pleasing to him. Yani, usi kwa kifika, nimi tu anafkire, baby, focus. If a man likes you, he likes you. If he doesn't, you can't change it. Nisemtu na madem, manzitu kiku penda, ni wu. Muimuni wewe, look at yourself. And if you reach a particular place in your life, oku mambea, mamzea feelings, nimi shika kata, kata ano, misu yu kwa po, tafta running mate, jitem kutano, janfanya poa, majtabiditu tumeshi, self-awareness, be aware of what you're thinking, be aware of your emotions, be aware of how you're planning to handle the situation. I love who sisa apo, dojulize, is it really worth it? Like sisa uu manz mo, ja uu yu tu uu yu, manjen memona jana sisa ni pende, sisa ni ivo, da jua. Let's get serious, guys. Let's be serious. Kukulafia rastengine jana, do I report to police that my life is in danger? Ok, I feel scared. Wewe sasa wewe. No, mambea, but just be kind. Like treat people na tkakufika ii place, nimi fika nawingine, but siki lamtu. That if na kukosia wewe, na jumi za mimi, so I do a lot of things not to hurt you, kus I also don't want to feel that pain. How do you feel about this message ma? Ok, kamaji report. Ok, me think of kus there was communication that maybe she was coming and personally I think it's not that good also. Even as a human being to do that to another person to cheat or to... So I think if you do not feel the guy just stay chana na iie, chana na pesaya ke? Kini o rasta kwangi na vita? Hi ma, mimi ni onye, kitu na nima liza na madem ni kirere kwa mbeo jifuun zekunya maza. I want you to comment on this one. Wewe nana wewe smile a kutu, yes! Thank you boy child. Talk to me. To jifuun zekunya maza in what perspective? Exactly. You know, so this sometimes like I said earlier communication is key. So jifuun zekunya inabili tu nima jeongya. Like I should say that there are situations that require reactions and some that don't even require your energy. So like when someone is undergrudinu or not checking on your rights say na jeongya heri ni kai kerere but I know that my rights are checked on. Na tu zegunya ni apa. Kuna meme that is very effective. Ati wa standa apu apu. Ati communication is key. We need to communicate. Ati babe what's wrong? Nafi. Kuna it's fine. Iyo panza. K. My friend, how to be self aware. I wish you could take down these notes because we're still going to upload this on YouTube. Look at yourself objectively. Create some space for yourself. Think about things that you're proud of. Like kukaya tu jambia. Weh weh weh weh. No na kumukaila siku nili kani li. Weh. Meni kapa pa yei. Di chaoche. Keep it journal. Write down goals, plans and priorities. When you focus, kusumbu liwa na kusumbuwa na piya na weh weh. Perform daily self reflection and do a little meditation. Apu kwa meditation aja ningumu junta na za loose concentration. Before we wrap this up, I did compile a couple of pictures and a video or two concerning self love. If my wonderful team up there will just roll it on out, let's wrap it up here because we're running out of time a little bit. So we'll have a wrap up here and then we'll play the material. What would you like to say on the topic? People should be self aware of themselves because when you know what you're capable, when you know your passion you will go for it. And also when you know your emotions you will also be able to manage it. So I think when people become self aware it will be of very much help and it will even prevent all these cases of famicide and all that because people will know their passion. People will know what they want in this life. So I think people should just learn to know themselves better. And on that note I see a couple of pictures already up. Her name is Dushikure. You can find out by the way on Instagram she has amazing vibes and nowadays she's doing this hashtag plus size sleigh and this girl has a beautiful soul and this is what happens when you're self aware. She has also a short video that we're going to play and this is just pictures of Dori. My Gosh guys, we will play and we will try to躺 and get things done and then we will see how it goes.