 Today, Thomas Halbert and I were trying to become better people so we're going to be talking about not focusing so much on negativity. You ready to do this? We're ready. What is up everybody? It's Chris from the Rewired Soul where we talk about the problem but focus on the solution and today I am joined by the wonderful, the amazing, the beautiful, Thomas Halbert. How are you feeling today, Thomas? I'm feeling great. So yeah, something that I've been checking in on myself a lot and Thomas and I were talking about. It's something that we're trying to do this new year. It's not focused so much on the negativity. So I'm somebody who loves to clock back. Have you noticed that you do that too, Thomas? Sometimes on Twitter because I do that. I put comments all right. He doesn't do that so he doesn't know what I'm talking about. I don't know. I don't know. So let's let's talk about where like I analyze myself and I kind of want to know where mine stems from and me I got picked on. I got bullied and I'm not a fighter. I'm a lover, you know, but I learned how to come back with my words. So me? Is that something that you could relate to? I mean, yeah, like I don't know how to explain it, but honestly, like when it comes to me, I feel like I'm a very loving person. I feel like I care for people a lot. But what I feel like that is being kind of, I don't know, like when, okay. So it's hard to explain, but like when you feel like you're doing right by others, when you feel like you're when you feel like you're, I don't know, I just don't like it when people try to tell me who I am. Exactly. No, I could definitely relate to that. Like some criticism that I've got and you can tell me a little something about, you know, this if like if you if you think there's like people have told me like the only reason I do my channel is for views or for money. And I think I get defensive when somebody's trying to tell me what my motives are or what my intentions are. And I'm like, you don't know me. So does that kind of affect you? Do you think that might be the root? Like where that's coming from? Yeah, because it's just like, I understand that everyone is allowed to have their opinion and they're allowed to voice their concerns or their critiques and all that stuff. But for me, it's like when I put my heart and heart and soul into something or when I know that I have certain intentions for things and I go into things feeling like this and this and then I have someone completely left field being like, no, this is not what you're doing. This is not what you're doing. This is not what you're doing. And I'm just like, yeah. Right. I don't remember. Okay. Yeah. So it's just like it freaks me out because like not like freaks me out like scares me, but it's just like it's jarring in a sense of like, well, I don't understand where this is coming from. So it's like, it's more of like, for me, I either A, get defensive very quickly, very quickly. Like I'm just like, no, I have to defend myself. I have to defend myself. I have to change their mind because not only am I someone I feel like I'm, I like to consider myself with people pleaser in all the sense of like, when I feel like someone doesn't like me, I'm like, why? Why don't you like me? Why? Why? What can I do? What? How can I change your mind? How can I be like, no, this is, this is how I am. This is how I am. Like, let me show you that I'm, you know, not what you're trying to tell me I am. So let me ask you this, because man, this is why we get along. Like I'm, I call myself a recovering people pleaser, right? Like, do you think that's healthy or unhealthy that we try to switch people's view about us? Like, do you think, because sometimes I ask myself like, am I putting in too much effort, trying to switch somebody's view on me? And then, and then in turn, when I tweet about it, or something like, am I, am I showcasing who I'm not, right? Because we're saying we're loving, we're caring, we care about people. But when I put somebody on blast, is that kind of the opposite of what I'm trying to do? So there's two questions there. Do you think it's bad that we're trying to switch people's opinions of us? And do you think it's counterproductive for us to put people on blast publicly? You know, okay, for the second, I got a package. For the second question, I would say I definitely like growing up, over these past few months, like doing a lot of soul searching, I've come to realize that it is kind of counterproductive. And hearing other people's opinions on it, when I do like, go off on Twitter, where I'm like, off, because I am an avid, indirect researcher. Like, I am so obsessed with seeing how well people are receiving me, because I want to make sure I'm putting my best self out there. You know what I mean? Like, I want to make sure that people are, you know, receiving me the way that I want them to receive me. And like, that's not, you know, any sort of whatever. But it's just like, I don't want to come off as like a bitch. So I go on Twitter, and I'm like, I look at my indirects. And then I'm like, you said, what about who? And I quote, tweeted being like, absolutely not sweetie. And I think that's where it's just like, I don't need to do that. It's just a person with a random person on the internet with an opinion. And I think it's counterproductive because not only does it show people that I'm petty, but it shows people that I'm bothered by this. And it looks like I'm trying to overcompensate for something where I'm trying to, like, it just, it's not a cute look. It's really not a cute look. And it's, it's something I'm so struggling with and something I'm so like, trying to fight. And like, because I like, Ooh, like Reddit, like going on a Reddit, going on to like, oh my God, Guru Gossiper. Guru Gossip is literally like they, it's like, oh, it's a fucking war zone. How much time do you spend on, when you do it, how much time do you spend researching yourself? Not much. I would say on Twitter one today, for sure, because I'm just always on Twitter, but like when it comes to Reddit, honestly, Reddit, when I post new videos on Reddit, because I want to see what they're saying. Like, I don't mind opening up or saying this or exposing myself about that, because it's just like, I want to see what they're saying. I want to see how my video is being received, because for me, I want to change and I want to improve myself. And the only way you're going to improve yourself is looking at the critiques rather than the positive comments. And I know that's like, like, ignore the hate, but also the same sense, like, what, what is it that I'm doing wrong? Something, something that I could struggle with, because I've had some people say, I can't take criticism. I love me some criticism, right? The problem is, there's no way to filter your YouTube comments or Reddit or Twitter with no, with constructive criticism, and people just putting you on blasts. So when you're trying to research and find out how you can improve, you're going to see people just calling you names, telling you, you know, and like, there's no way for us to filter that. So you know what I mean? So it's hard not to get defensive when it's all just kind of mixed into one bowl. Or am I crazy on that? Do you, do you do what I mean? Yeah, I think, okay, so when it comes to like, constructive criticism, there's, or criticism in general, there's constructive and then there's destructive. There's, they're being like, hey, like, okay, so recently, I launched a series, a new series called Out of the Brands, which is sick, you know, and a lot of people don't agree. A lot of people were like, well, this is like, and listen, I got so many of my followers being like, yo, I think this is a really cool idea, but I feel like you can do it like this. I feel like you can implement this. That's constructive criticism. That's like, okay, I like how you're going about this, but let's do something like this too. It's like, they put their opinions in without tearing me down, or without tearing it down, the situation, because that's being like, hey, this is a fucking dumbass, stupid, idiotic video, deleted fatty. I'm just like, and then I'm just like, okay, well, first of all, you bitch, and I'm like, and then I'm just like, and then they give, they give me like, well, I was just pointing my opinion. I'm like, well, I called you bitch, I was pointing my opinion too, bitch. It's crazy. We both have the same, the same commenters, because I get the exact same one. I'm just like, it's like so out of pocket. And I'm like, and for me, it drives me crazy that I have to sit here. Okay. Okay. I know that I've put myself in a position to be criticized. I know I put myself in this position. I'm a public figure. You know, I'm allowed, people can say whatever. I'm a public figure. People have the right to voice their opinions on me. But at what point is your opinion just straight out fucking bullying someone? Yeah. At what point is your constructive criticism just tearing someone down? At what point is it that and that's my problem because, and those are usually the comments I respond to. So part of the reason we react to, brother, yeah, and part of the reason we made this is because I saw something else going on with another influencer today, where their fans were saying you focus too much on the negative. So let me ask you this because this is something that I'm working on. Like, do you ever find yourself, how often do you like, comment and retweet constructive criticism? Or do you just fly past and you're like, okay, that's good. Okay, that's good. I'll take that. But how often do you showcase that? Because I think that's a problem that I have is that I'm not showcasing like, Hey, this is how you give constructive criticism. So how am I teaching people the type of criticism that I am taking? That's a good point because, you know, but I feel like I pride myself on being so interactive with my followers, or just people in general that, okay, so the thing with me and how I react to everyone, I reply to everyone, I retweet everything, I reply to everything, almost everything. Yeah, but like on my YouTube comments for Battle of the Brands, there were so many constructive comments and I would like them, I would reply to them be like, thank you for the input, stuff like that. I mean, I'm not screenshotting it putting on Twitter or putting it on Instagram. I'm like, this is how you guys do constructive criticism. Like, I'm not doing that, but I reply, I read everything, I comment to pretty much anything that has some sort of positivity behind it, whether it's constructive criticism, or it's a nice comment, or it's whatever something like, oh, you have an essay, I respond to it, I retweet it, I like it, I will quote tweet it. The thing people don't, because I also have to understand that currently, right now, in the climate of my life, I have a target on my back. And I want to see me fail, people want to see me fuck up. And people right now, they're focal point is what is Thomas doing wrong? And where I'm messing up at is, while I have this target on my back, I'm not being smart about how I'm moving. And I'm still acting like I don't have this target on my back. I'm still acting like, well, let me ask you this, perception versus reality is something I'm always fascinated with. Do you think that you're focusing more, and I'm asking this for myself too, do you think you're focusing more on the people who have the target on your back and want to see you fail than you are focusing on the people who want to see you succeed? Like, I signed up for this collab, because I see that you are willing to change and willing to grow. So do you think that you give too much focus to the people who want to see you fail rather than the ones who want to see you succeed? Definitely. I mean, there's been a lot of research recently, and I will link you to the article, but there's research saying that our brains hold onto negativity more than activity. I talk about that all the time. It's definitely like that's full on fucking science. And I think like, when I had just like this influx of just the worst things being said about me, my brain went from, oh, all this loveliness, all this great things that's happening to me, all this horrible shit that's being said, because it's just like, I also coined myself a perfectionist for the most part, or again, a people pleaser. And when I see all these people hating me, I'm like, no, no. So and I'm like, and I know it's so fucked up for me, because I'll completely ignore the people that are rooting for me. And I'll focus my attention on the people that hate me because I want to please them now. Because these people are already good. They're okay with who I am. They're okay with who I am. They're okay with what I'm doing. So now it's time to focus on the people that hate me because I want to please them. I want to change them. And I think I just want to interject real quick. I think the importance for everybody watching this is, although Thomas and I are acknowledging this, it doesn't make it right, but it's something that we're wrecking off, right? That's what I hate currently about the climate of the world is that we're not allowed to talk about our fuck ups or talk about our vices and our things that we've messed up on because it's taken as you're not allowed to not be perfect in this society. And it's a little bit nauseating because I have a human being. I fucked up and he's fucked up. The person behind that camera right now just seeing she's fucked up. My cats are fucked up. Everyone has fucked up at some point. Aren't you being on my carpet? Right? He fucked up. Yeah. That was very, that was a no-no. And it's just like, but no one wants to hear that. No one wants to see that. No one wants to see the fuck up. No one wants to see that or hear about it because now it's like this tainted perception that they had about you in the first place. So it's like, no, okay, perfect example. Ariana Grande, she got Korean stove or something tattooed on her palm or Japanese barbecue tattooed on her palm. Yeah. And people were like, no, not my fave. My fave didn't fuck up. Like they don't want to, they don't want to accept that they're like someone has fucked up and it's okay to accept that you fucked up and that someone else has fucked up. Yeah. Something, something that I'm eventually going to make a video about because I've had some people comment on my quality or my camera equipment that I use, but no, like one of the reasons I do very low budget stuff, aside from having this used to save money, but one of the reasons I do low budget stuff is because I, I want to show my audience that it's okay to not be perfect. Like I don't edit out, like when I trip over my words, I don't edit that out because I want people to see that, you know? And I've had people compliment me on that because I don't do a lot of jump cuts, my girlfriend, she'll be sitting with me while I'm recording and she's like, you should cut out that part. I'm like, no, I want people to see that. I mess up my words and I laugh at myself because like you said, we, we have a climate where people aren't seeing that. And one thing that I love about meeting other creators and stuff is that we're all just people, you know? People put others on this iPad as though, but we're just people. But something I try to do is not use that as an excuse to continue to screw up. But that's what I respect about you is because you're trying to take your past and turn it into a growing experience. That's why I want to do this video topic. Let's talk about that. Ooh, let's. We're about to talk about it. So my Oprah post, you know how Oprah wants you to get her like, like when she does that talk show with Lindsay Longhand and she was just like, that's how I'm getting. So I have a great group of people before I had a team. I had a friend Danielle who was probably the only person in my life to the state that would stop me and be like, you're being a fucking idiot. You're fucking up and it's disgusting. Yeah. And the thing with me is I was in this la-la land for a very like fairytale fantasy world for a long time where I'm like, I can do whatever I want. I can say whatever. So I was getting away with it. I was getting away with getting enabled. Yeah, I was getting enabled because I had bad people around me. I had no one that cared about me doing well. They wanted to see me be messy. They wanted to see me dramatic and all that stuff. And it took like talking to Danielle, like because her and I were off and on off and on friends for a while, but we really became very close when I broke up with my ex and all that stuff. Like I called her and I told her what was going on with everything. And she was like, you, like before anything happened, she was like, first of all, dumbass to hear it from someone else. And she's also like not to turn anyone off, but she's gone to school for psychology. She's been to school for that. She has, you know, she's graduated everything. And she also is a psychic. So she's a psychologist and a psychic. She's both of them. And getting her perspective on everything and her telling you like, yo, you're an awful person right now. Like you're being a fucking awful person. And, you know, seeing your video about me too, like, like being open to a different outsider perspective of me really opened my mind up to how I was acting and how I was, because I feel like, and this is like, you know, whatever, but I feel, I feel like a lot of people these days are in their own delusions. And I was definitely one of those people who was just in my own delusion, like, Oh, I can't do anything wrong. I can't fuck up like everything I'm doing is good. I'm making all this money. I have all these subscribers coming in. And I was definitely like, for me, it was everyone loves me now. Yeah. And it was like, I, I guess that I when this developed for me was like, in high school, and there's a lot of trauma that goes into why I acted the way I did. And I can't talk about that because I will make this video very sensitive content. Yeah. But in just like an example of my behavior, like in high school, I would get so mad that I wasn't sitting with the popular kids. I was getting so mad that I couldn't be except I wasn't being accepted by people that I looked up to, or I looked as peers, and it would make me so mad to do everything I could to feel accepted. So that meant like falling into delusion, changing who I was, presenting a different way, you know, hiding like my real self. So not people can judge my real self. People would judge this fake, like not really fake, but like this projection of like, you know, like this whole facade of who I really am. And this is like something that your whole story about Danielle calling you out on your shit, like something I'm always preaching to all of you on my channel is we need to keep people around who tell us what we need to hear and not what we want to hear, right? Like that's why I love. Yes, man. Don't do shit. Yeah. And that's that's why I love my beautiful girlfriend Tristan. Everybody makes fun of me because I was referred to as my beautiful girlfriend. You think that's sweet though, huh? Just say yes. But she keeps me grounded. I'm so anti-relationships now. I'm like, I'm jaded. That's a whole another video. But she keeps me grounded. Like she will tell me, Chris, you are screwing up. Doesn't mean I always like to hear it, but I need that in my life because I'm actually reading a new book called Ego is the Enemy. And it talks about how that can destroy us. I destroyed a previous career where I got to travel around the world and stuff because my ego just went and I completely ruined it. So I want to circle this back to Twitter. No, man, we can have a conversation all day, but like circle it back to that. So something that I do because I'm trying to be an example for people and stuff like that. And the battle that I'm fighting is I want to teach people how to stick up for themselves. You know what I mean? Like that. And I don't know if I'm justifying my cloudbacks as that, right? Like, hey, stick up for yourself. You know, somebody's talking trash. It's okay to stick up for yourself in a respectful way. Like I don't say like, you know, but your brows look shitty or whatever it is. You ever do that? Cats. So I don't know if that's a good thing or a bad thing. Like, where do you, where do you think like looking forward in this path of both you and I trying to grow? Where does it become not getting bullied and sticking up for yourself? How can you and me, you and I do that in a way where we're not blasting people, but we still stick up for ourselves. I'm going to keep a road achieved. I feel like we can't. I feel like, yeah, people are going to say what they want to say, but at least for me, at this point, like moving like, especially like from this day forward for me, it's like, I don't want to give them the feeling that I've acknowledged they're bullying or they're, they don't deserve that acknowledgement. I mean, I've had people, I mean, there is, there's a time and a place to be like, Hey, this isn't nice. And it's like, there's a time and a place like you don't, you shouldn't be talking to people like this. And, you know, I've tried to try to display that kind of behavior, like you can't talk to me like this. You can't talk to people like this. You need to be a nice person. Like, for example, I did a video with Peter Mont and shout out to Peter. And I retweeted or I posted about it or whatever. And someone had said something awful about him. And it was just like, where, where was this, when and where is this necessary? When and where it was like, just if you don't like him, just, just don't like him and go. Like, just if you don't like me, just don't like me and go. Like, you don't need to be like Thomas Hubbard's a fuddy cut. You don't need to be like that. Just be like, put in your diary, sis, because I don't want to hear it. That should be a new catchphrase. Put it in your diary. For real, put it in your diary, because I don't want to hear it. You don't want to hear shit about you. Like, I only should, I wouldn't hear about me as if it's constructive or if it's like, but at the same time, it's like, if someone's going to pull because back when I was being called a fag here and there and like elementary school, middle school, I would snap because you're like, you're, I mean, obviously, flaming, but when people would try to like tell me who I am when this isn't, it's like, I would be like, listen here, you little bitch. Yeah. Like, I was, I've always been like that. And it's just like, now I have to be like, okay, you don't like me. Move along. So my last thing, I try to, you know, learn with it myself and teach others so much of our anger and how we do it. The thing is, it's like, yeah, everyone, some people are just lost concepts. Yeah. Oh, yeah, for sure. Some people don't even deserve the lesson that they're, you're trying to say. Honestly, because it's going to be a cold day in hell for them once they realize that they can't be acting like that because someone's going to come along and whether it's you or someone else and they're going to, they're going to have, I mean, for example, what the fuck happened to me? Someone's going to come along and so you can't be acting like that no more, Lou. You can't be doing this no more. So maybe it's not even my place to try to teach them that lesson. It's just like, yeah, it's just like, let karma handle it because karma is real and karma will happen to you one way or another. It'll be a cold day in hell for that motherfucker. A cold day in hell. But how much of this, like, this is something that I'm trying to recognize with myself. I have a fear of looking like a bitch. I'll say that. Like, if someone's blasting me on Twitter or something like that, because it all sounds great, that idea of let it go, don't reply. But I'm wondering about my thousands of followers saying, oh, Chris looks like a bitch. Like, that's my fear. Like, there's no other word for it. It's a fear. Is that a fear of yours as well, do you think? Totally a bitch. Yeah. I haven't come to my attention recently that it's not a good luck to respond to people like that and like with an attitude. And it's before I didn't have that fear because I wasn't thinking about that. I wasn't thinking that I could come off as a bitch because, again, sometimes I'm in my own deception and my own delusion that I'm like, I don't care. I want to be mean to this person because they're being mean to me. It's what they deserve. But at the same time, like, well, Thomas, you look like an asshole too, just as much as they look like an asshole. You're both showing your asshole. And now it's like, well, you both look like idiots. And so I could just be the bigger person and be like, okay, bye, and not even respond to it. And now, not only did no one see that I responded to someone, not only did people not see me being an asshole because I didn't respond to that person, but no one cared about what that person said because that person got one like on Twitter. So versus like, I give that person a whole last platform for a second. Do you know what I mean? Okay, because now I need advice. I need advice, Thomas. How am I giving you advice? I know I'm a mental health teller. What is happening? So recently, I don't know if you heard the T. Is that how they say it? Heard the T? Heard about the T? Sis? Am I doing it right? People have been trying to expose me in videos. So now what are you just talking about some random on Twitter? Why? Because they don't like, they don't like what I'm doing and I hurts my feelings. So like, I get it, like with, with like random people on Twitter, not liking me or random people in my comments not liking me, but with someone, someone who has 100,000 subscribers, someone with hundreds of thousands of subscribers, or even somebody with millions of subscribers. So here's my question for you. Here's the advice I need from Thomas Albert. Maybe you're in a better place than I am. When I have these YouTubers, because it's inevitably going to happen again, what should I do when these people with gigantic channels are trying to expose me? They're, they're presenting things that are factually incorrect, right? And things like that. Like, not only do I a not want to look like a bitch, but I don't want misinformation out there about me. At what point do I have to respond and say, what they said is not true. I never said that in a video. They took things out of context. Like, how do I deal with that? Unless they're coming for, I think the figures think, okay, so recently I had a situation where someone tried to say that my eating disorder was unreal. And with that, with something so serious that I've struggled with for five years of my life as being challenged by some of the huge platform, it can be a little bit absolutely entirely infuriating because I'm sitting there healing, healing that situation every single day of my life, healing from that every single day. And every single day is still a struggle, struggle where, you know, I'm like getting triggered and like lost her right now. And I like want to cry because it's like when you are sitting there and trying to heal from something so serious, and someone's at a fucking left field with a huge platform wants to make such a huge false accusation like that to make me look like a horrible person, it's kind of infuriating. And I think situations like that where something like that where, okay, let's say someone's like trying to like disapprove of, I don't know, like what you're doing now, like saying that you're fake or like you don't do the world, people think that because I'm using youtubers as an example to talk about mental health topics that I'm a people have been telling me that I am a drama channel trying to disguise myself as a mental health channel. That's what I'm good. So that's what I'm doing with. Well, I think stuff like that you just have to ignore and keep pushing because like, I mean, eventually people understand what you're trying to do. Like eventually because you already have a core audience that understands what you're trying to do. And then you have these other people that are probably fans of the people that you're talking about being like, you know, this is this, but what you're trying to because I do see, I mean, I don't know if you know this, but I do see a lot of other big influencers thinking that you're really fucking cool and that you're doing a really awesome thing. You're, you're, you know, bringing things to light. And sometimes, sometimes it can be, you know, trying like, as long as you're not out, out, she had diagnosed the people, which I have never done. Yeah. As long as you're not out, you know, diagnosed and influence like you're associated by like, you're doing this, you're doing this, you're doing this, but you're giving like, okay, maybe this is like, oh, you know, as long as you're aware that you're doing that, you shouldn't have to care about what ABC, EFGH, I don't know PSN because they don't get it. And they don't have to get it because as long as you have all these other people get it and you get it, yeah, that's that person doesn't get it. Something I noticed because I recently made a response video where I felt completely justified. I thought it was okay to do, but as I was reading the comments, I noticed something that you mentioned. This person and myself share some of the same subscribers and they didn't like like how they were about to have to pick sides and stuff. So now I'm like, now I feel like we were two parents putting a child in between. So that's another thing that I'm trying to look at. Like, well, the thing is, is like, I will never understand why anyone as an audience or a consumer of YouTube would ever pick sides on influencers. I feel like that is the dumbest shit. I feel like please just enjoy whoever you want to enjoy. Please do not be so, I don't get it. I don't, I mean, I get a lot of this just, you know, young kids feel like they need to fit in in some capacity. And, you know, like, you know, if everyone hits one person, it's like, okay, well, I hate them too. So I'm fitting in. Like, love me. I get, that's very, it's a, it's very, we're living in a pick me world. Yeah. Do you think it's, do you understand what I mean? Yeah. Like a, like a pick me, pick me, like, be friends with me. People are picking teams and stuff like that. They want to be on that person. Like, yeah, that's a whole other thing. I'm not even going to expand on that, but I know what to do. Yeah, we live in a pick me world and like, um, that's very much so what people do. And you just have to like, you kind of have to let people just be like, we can go on a whole thing about how people want to be, you know, stand this person, but won't, you know, it's so crazy because I used to be like that, but with celebrities, I would be like, Oh, I would be like, Oh, everyone hates Nicki Minaj now. So I have to hate Nicki Minaj. Yeah. And it's like, it's like, that's an example of like, it's like, Oh, all these people. So I have to fit in, right? Like, Oh, everyone loves Ariana Grande. So I have to love Ariana Grande. Or like, these are just examples. This is not actually like my mentality. Yeah. But like, or like, Oh, you know, everyone hates this person. So I think that like, I used to be like that. I think it's more of an immaturity thing rather than like a, or like, and I also feel like it's a lot of people not being strong in their own identity and their own thing because, you know, it's hard to be strong in your own identity when some, a lot of people's identities are fucking belittled every single day. So I, I understand that like, you know, I understand that that's a lot of mentality nowadays because Twitter, it's like people, you know, some people identify as trans and like, then there will be someone completely out of left field being like, you're invalid. So I understand that like, there's a lot of pick me now, but I'm so smart. Yeah. I was like, Thomas, Thomas Halber being a genius for 30 minutes. Um, it's just like, so you just have to let people be people and just hope for the best. Honestly, it's, it's a YouTube and this shit is like, you are blindfolded and throwing rocks in the dark and helping something lands. Okay. So how about this? To end this video, Thomas, will you be my accountability partner? So the next time somebody tries to expose me, the next time somebody exposes me, I'm gonna text you and say, yo, I want to respond to this. And I'll say that. Okay. That's it. That's it. Accountability partners is that hard to come by? I mean, I'm like the same way with my friend Danielle or like to see it. I'm like, I want to respond or my, or like, I was just like, I want to respond and they're like, nope. Well, Danielle is like, I'll just curse them because she's like, Oh, I need to find me a Danielle. Okay. Just like, I'll curse them. All right, deal. All right, man, this video was longer, but what anyways, thank you so much Thomas for talking to me. I learned some stuff and I appreciate it. And you got a lot of cool stuff going on. How can people make sure that they're keeping up with you and all the beautiful stuff happening in your life? Like, where can they find this information? So people can follow me on Twitter because I'm always on Twitter at Thomas video with two Y's. I hate my username. Okay. I'm gonna be more active on Instagram now this year, putting out content for that. And I think YouTube we're working on some pretty dope crap, like something that I feel like no one's really gone to these things before. And I'm really excited that, you know, me and my team are working on some cool content and changing shit up this year. We're going to shake the table. Yeah, shake things up. All right, everybody. Thank you so much for watching. Thank you, Thomas. Make sure you like this video, hit that subscription button, turn on notification bells, and we'll see you next time.